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This is why I believe that marrying a working class or educated ladies is totally useless to a man and should never be prioritised because most of them share the same mindset as this lady. Your being a working class is totally of no use to me so why should I marry you on account of being a graduate or working class?

Gboss247:
The higher the minimum wage in naira, the higher prices of goods and services with more Nigerians becoming poorer.

Minimum wage does not raise prices of goods and services the way increase in fuel prices do. The major driving forces that seem to raise prices in the markets are increased fuel prices and the exchange rates of the naira to dollar.

God bless Peter Mbah!
He's a visionary leader with a clear developmental roadmap for Enugu state.

We are lucky to have him

Giving the prevailing economic conditions, minimum wage should be in the range of 200K to 250K! Some states are already paying 100k, so what's the difference? If government truly want to cushion the effects of the high inflation rate on workers, minimum wage should be raised to at least 200k.

Nigerian workers are currently the worst hit by the high cost of living in the country. Traders have since increased the prices of their goods. Artisans have equally increased prices of their services likewise transporters increased transport fares. Landlords too have increased rents by over 300% in most places, yet civil servants still earn peanuts! NLC and TUC must fight hard to get the minimum wage raised to at least 200K before next year's election!

rapcy:
I've said it before and i will say it again, any single lady that dates a married man is a useless girl.

Not only single ladies. Anybody that dates a married man or woman is completely lost. Some people don't understand the enormity of what they're doing. Curses are real and such people are cursed forever.

If you want to do polygamy, let there be proper marriage and not frolicking with people's spouses.

This woman really deserves a position in the governance of this country. She has paid her dues in the fight for a better Nigeria!

Money is never enough. Once you have a stable means of income, marry and build wealth together. Most wealthy men I know today were never wealthy at the time they got married.

And who says you must buy your wife a range, you can start with a Toyota Corolla, you must not send your children to private schools in Lekki. Expensive private schools is not a guarantee for brilliance. You must not go for vacations in Dubai unless you're lucky to eventually make it big.

Believe me, if you want to start waiting until you have made humongous money before marriage, chances are high that you might not marry eventually. God made this life very simple but na we humans dey complicate things for ourselves.

Knowing that he has political ambitions, this man shouldn't have embarked on the anti faith missions which he is known for both on and offline. He thinks he's in the US!

NDC should better dissociate themselves from such character!

doggedfighter:
Did you hear yourself ?

Who knows how your face must've have looked when you were convincing and re- convincing a small girl to sleep with you before wedlock

Why e dey pain you?

edogu:
I've a brother who used to work in the North. When I enquired about the healthcare services in the state , he told me there's no much pressure on him due to the fact virtually all services being by FMC are equally provided by state owned health system. As a result, some of the people prefer visiting the state owned hospitals.

Unlike here in the South East where there's so much dependent on either FMC, federal teaching hospitals or private clinics.

The reason why it is so in the southeast is because most state governments neglect state hospitals and most of these hospitals run with poor equipment and gross shortage of qualified healthcare professionals! For this reason, people don't have confidence in these hospitals.

Instead of marrying for the right reasons of mutual love and respect within a monogamous relationship, you married for all the wrong reasons in this world and now that the marriage has crashed you're castigating marriage? It is a sign of irresponsibility for anyone to choose not to marry unless for the purpose of serving God. Period!

Life is not all about your selfish hedonistic cravings. Marriage is one of selfless obligations we owe the society and to ourselves for the betterment of the world.

Stephen0mozzy:
It's a human thing - not women only.
You can say it's the animal trait in us to desire variety.

When society was civilizing, exclusivity of sexual partners made monogamy look like a good idea.

But the truth is, our kinks and desires change, but disciplining that love for variety is why society frowns on promiscuity in men and women.

But, the bigger truth is, no one man or woman can COMPLETELY fulfill the:
1. Financial Need
2. Emotional Need
3. Attention and Care Need
4. Sexual Need
5. Fetish and Fantasy Needs
6. Naughtiness Needs

...of another person. So, when a man or woman settles down with another human, it's all about SCALE OF PREFERENCE.

So yeah, admiration will exist outside your partner. But the question is DO YOU DISRESPECT YOUR PARTNER ENOUGH to go outside and act on those illegal desires?

DISCIPLINE is the keyword!

Like you rightly pointed out, it is a general human trait to desire multiple opposite gender but being disciplined and respecting one's husband or wife is the reason why sensible individuals stick to one partner.

It appears the temptation to mingle with multiple women/men increases after marriage for most people and this is why many cheat, but the importance of exclusivity in sexual relationships cannot be overemphasized. This is why people should be disciplined enough to stick to one partner!

Besides, anyone who has really had sex many times would have seen the vanity of it and known that the few minutes of pleasure is not worth destroying one's family for! It is not just worth it!

You people can lie sha, a source on Facebook said the obituary was posted by her family, now you're saying loan a loan app posted it.

Proserpina:
Person them suppose tie for pole wipe am chord day and night for 7 days dey on Nl dey give advise. Nigeria dey anyhow sha!

I reject Predator and Prey love story for every young lady out there. This is so absurd!

Anyways I wish his wife Happy Children's Day.

Keep deceiving yourself, menopause is waiting for you. I didn't break any law because she was above the age of consent at the time I met her. Keep doing hook up with married men instead of getting married,you hear? At the end of the day, we'll know who's at the losing end.

pocohantas:
But fornicating and getting pregnant before marriage. Naso. 🙂

Before she agreed to do it with me, I had already gone for the first wine-carrying ceremony in her family and even at that, it took alot of convincing before she agreed. But you can believe whatever you want sha.

GloriousGbola:
I wonder how many of them will be excited to marry their sisters or daughters off to old men who impregnate them rather than send them to school?

The op has seen all the marry smallie and send her to school end in tears. He thinks he has hacked the system but only time will tell. We have sha seen Frank edoho who also married smallie who has now passed him and is no longer subservient. By the time the op is 60 his smallie will likely be 30. If she has grown beyond him (very likely as a successful man will not have to be doing all this belle before school to hold down smallie. Na stagnant man forming igwe dey do like that) story go hard pass frank.

Keep yarning dust you hear? My girl is not your typical woke wannabe. She's a decent girl from a Christian family background with good parental upbringing. FYI, I'm a professional and I'll equally train my girl to become a healthcare professional too. She deserves it for being a decent girl and a virgin at the time I met her.

SixSeven:
I don't think you have come across this topic yet

Men Actually Do Have A Biological Clock: The Silent Ticker by Kobojunkie(op): 8:16pm On Oct 17, 2025
https://www.nairaland.com/8541960/men-actually-biological-clock-silent

Feminists can write anything and post online just to make themselves feel good. These things are what we see practically around us, so you don't need some cooked up lies to know the truth.

DeepSight:
And you are not ashamed?
Late thirties impregnating a teenager and you are blabbing?

Shame on you boy.

You are a full! There's nothing to be ashamed of because I did not grape her. She fully consented and was above the age of consent at the time. This is how you woke wannabes deceive some men into marrying menopausal women and then end up battling with infertility yet you accuse them wrongly for the infertility. Someone like me can't be so deceived because I'm smart enough to know all the drawbacks of marrying old women.

pocohantas:
A 19yo didn't meet and fall in love with you.

If she did, you won't come on Nigeria's largest forum to say she would born for you before you send her to university.

You won't come here to say she is already pregnant and now you are going to conclude marriage rites.

I understand why you want to pass it off as a Disney love story, but your account of events contradicts this. Learn to close your mouth small and protect your wife's integrity. You will need it in marriage.

Believe whatever you want, it won't change anything. It is because of people like you who go about spreading falsehoods that younger girls don't love and marry older guys that I'm sharing about my relationship here. You think younger girls don't date older men yet the hookup culture is thriving in Nigeria involving married older men and young university and even sec school students? Maybe to you, you would rather a young girl becomes a side chick to a married older man than marrying one!

Like I said, I share information about my relationship here because I know this forum is faceless and you can never know me personally let alone knowing my girl. I think I'll have to stop sharing anything about us here because even if I present all the examples and evidences of younger girls having successful marriages with far older men, you'll still continue to live in the illusion that it doesn't happen. This is because you're just trying hard to give yourself hope that you still stand a chance of getting hooked even though you're past your prime

pocohantas:
We have already concluded her case. It wasn't done with clear eye, that is why her parents allowed you impregnate their 19yo daughter before marriage in exchange for her education. I wouldn't even know why you keep embarrasing that young girl with unnecessary details on NL all in your excitement to show you hooked a teenage girl.



You actually confirmed by point. The reality is it was done for the money, your money. Which isn't bad if you both are in agreement.

You concluded it wasn't done with her clear eyes because you were there when we met, fell in love and started planning towards marriage? You think I'll be that stupid to marry a girl knowing fully well that she's coming just for my money? FYI, I put her through tests and got convinced that she was in love with me before proposing marriage to her.

I cite my relationship with her as an example to debunk your claim that younger girls don't love and marry older guys. I do that because this is a faceless forum. You don't even know me in person let alone knowing her!

I have observed with dismay how the older generation ladies who are already past their primes go about spreading falsehoods about men's fertility and virility claiming that men have biological clock and blaming infertility in marriage on men.

These fallacious claims are borne out of the desire to deceive the younger girls and make them reject marriage proposals from older men. These older women do this in a bid to have a the older guys settle for them when they can't get much younger girls to marry. It is a strategy which they're using to ensure that the eligible older men are left with no choice than to settle in marriage with the older generation of women!

The fact is that men age like wine which becomes stronger and better with time. In this country, it takes a lot of time for a guy to become financially ready to start a family due to the economic situation of the country. This is why most marriageable men are those already in their late 30s to early or even mid 40s.

These older women spread the lies that men have biological clock and would not be able to father a child at older ages. Evidence around us have proven such claims to be false because even in our immediate families, many of us were born while dads were in their 50s and early 60s. So, what biological clock are they now talking about?

They also claim that at such ages, men lose their virility and become impotent. This claim is also arguably false because, except in the cases where the man suffers from chronic illnesses that affect their sexual effectiveness, healthy men still retain their sexual potency even up to the age of 70 in some cases..if at my age, I still have those embarrassing moments of genital attention in the public, then I can tell you that such claims are unfounded.

We know that most cases of infertility in marriage occur from the side of the woman! But these old women like to twist facts and put the blames squarely on the men. For this reason, men who are being accused of being responsible for infertility in their marriages should not sit back and swallow all the humiliations and insults. Let them try their potency and fertility outside with much younger girls! I'm very sure that the result will always be positive.

As a man, when you have suffered all your life and eventually make money to be considered marriageable by the greedy female gender, save yourself all the troubles of having to struggle with bearing children by marrying from the pool of much younger girls. If you know that you desire to start having children immediately after marriage, then do yourself a favour by marrying a girl in the age range of 18 to 22. An uncle of mine got married at 42 to a 38years old lady, he's now 62 without a child. His wife is now 58 and obviously reached menopause. Now, imagine if this man had married a girl in the age range of 18 to 22, he would have had all the children he wanted before even crossing the age of 50 so that he could have used his working years to take care of them and help them stand. Now he's retired and without a child! His case makes me sad whenever I remember him because he's a good man by all standards.

Now to the young girls, learn to set your priorities right. As you go through the various social media platforms, don't be deceived by what you read or hear there from those older women discouraging you from marrying older men. In Nigeria today, those older guys are the most eligible for marriage by all standards. They are more financially and mentally stable to handle marriage! Besides, provision for the family goes seamlessly when you are dealing with the far older men! If you know that you want to marry on time and have your children easily, then your best bet is marrying a more stable older man.

It is very good when girls marry early because aside reducing the problem of infertility in marriage,it helps reduce the chances of complications and high risk pregnancies. The problem of genetic diseases and congenital anomalies is also greatly minimised when a woman starts bearing children early! So, don't be deceived by those selfish older women who want you to remain unmarried just like them. A word is enough for the wise!

Kobojunkie:
https://www.nairaland.com/8541960/men-actually-biological-clock-silent

I have told you countless times to stop spreading this fallacy but you obviously have an agenda of deceiving gullible young girls so that they'll end up like you.

I'm in my mid 30s and my girl is 19 going on 20. She's already pregnant for me and very soon she'll give birth. You'll be the first person I'll quote when she puts to bed. Stop lying to younger girls! Men don't have any biological clock!

I only pity some guys that in a bid to be seen as "woke" end up marrying old ladies and then start finding it difficult to bear children! They'll get accused of being responsible for their childlessness and some people will even mock him and accuse him of being infertile. Yet, at that time he cannot be allowed to try with a younger girl to test his fertility because it'll be seen as infidelity. In fact many of them might have even been made to believe they're responsible for the infertility when in reality they are not!

If we are to tell ourselves the truth, women are responsible for 98% of infertility in marriage! I advise any man who is being accused of infertility in his marriage to try with a younger girl and damn whatever anybody would say!

pocohantas:
You men are yet to get the memo that the current young girls are not into wide age gaps. Only exception is for money. Even that, there is no guarantee they would retire with you. Once they see their mates marrying younger stylish and fit men, while your hairline is already moving backwards, the resentment sets in.

You can marry an 18yo at 45? Why not wait until 45 to pull it off and tell us how it goes.

Keep consoling yourselves while wiser girls are getting married on weekly basis! It is the "wokeness" of some women of this generation that will be their eventual karma!

I'm in my mid to late 30s while my girl is 19. She's already pregnant for me and in a few weeks, we'll finalise our marriage. Some of you tend to forget that immediately a girl goes through pregnancy and bears a child, her body automatically changes and matures overnight. This is one reason many married men keep side chicks and cheat on their wives! Immediately the girl bears a child, she ages and becomes unattractive.

Many of us who understand how the female body works prefer to marry far younger girls so that even after childbirth, she'll not become too unattractive but can still be managed to some few years before she eventually turns into agbaya like most women do.

Some of you like to believe falsehoods just to feel good about yourselves forgetting that reality remains what it is.

They always claim the man came to do plumbing job whenever they're caught.

When Nigerian currency was something to write home about

I remember crushing so badly on Nadia Buari then as a teenage boy!

That's how they keep deceiving themselves and missing their opportunities to get a man until it's too late for them, then they'll come and start disturbing God with prayers for not being able to get a husband. This is why I don't pity any lady that's not married at old age!

LordIsaac:
They waited for too long!

Before the sedating effects of the tramadol they took started!

LordIsaac:
They waited for too long!

Before the sedating effects of the tramadol they took started!

Oluwatobiloba07:
Bro, this thing called flesh is not easy to put under control. Many that won the battle I will say help by God almighty. Don't let us to be quick to judge others. I'm not a catholic but I just imagine what they're going through. Morning erection is enough not to talk of everyday test.

I pray the father finds peace in his mind

Was he forced into priesthood? No! He took the decision to become a priest knowing fully well that celibacy is sine qua non for becoming a Catholic priest.