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jubrilELsudan:
I NO MIND EVEN IF HER KÙKÚNÁSÉ NA AIDS FACTORY I GO STILL DOBO HER CAUSE ME I NO DEY TAKE F0RK PLAY

You are just sex starved. No real nigga that gets sex frequently would type the gibberish above!

This is the trend among ladies nowadays! They expect their men to provide for the family just as it was done by our forefathers but on their parts, they want to do away with their own roles in the family as wives and mothers. It is sounding like a joke now but don't be surprised when in few years time, women shift all their traditional roles to the men such that men would be expected to provide for the family and at the same time do domestic chores alone.

There's an agenda to totally enslave men by the female folks and this agenda is being orchestrated by feminists and simps. Despite all the benefits women enjoy in marriage they still want to be absolved of all responsibilities in marriage.

This is really heartbreaking!
May her soul rest in perfect peace....Amen!

Please, as we prepare to vote next year, it is important for people to know that election has consequences and that as a poor man on the street, that your tribesman you want to vote for just for tribal reasons will not save you from hunger, insecurity, health challenges etc that might follow from sheepishly voting on tribal grounds.

Just like the seedlings planted into the soil (eg Yam) which decays(dies) to produce new crops, so do humans die after reproducing themselves. This is why birthing your own offsprings is very important because your offsprings are mini you carrying a good number of your genes. If your linage continues, so will your genes linger on earth.

So, in anything you do, try and reproduce your genes before your death comes. My people have a saying that those who died without having children died with both eyes while those who had children before death died with only one eye.

That guy does not love the girl! She's clearly the one forcing herself on him. No guy in love with his woman would treat her like that. In fact, if the guy was inlove with her, he'll be very happy to see her all the time.

But I'm sure that even with this sort of disgrace the guy meted out to her, she'd still continue throwing herself at him and facing all manner of humiliation and when he's done using her for sex and dumps her, she'll come to social media to tell us that men are scum.

The way and manner Kenneth Okonkwo has been seeking political relevance without getting any is quite unfortunate. By now, it should be obvious to him that politics is not his calling but he is bent on continuously disgracing himself.

The likes of Desmond Elliot and other actors who succeeded in politics did not even embarrass themselves as much as Okonkwo is doing. He should have retained the good names he made for himself as an actor instead of his current dance of shame in Nigerian politics.

Sonnobax15:
. Samantha125 may not be living in Nigeria but I can bet my two fertile balls that she wishes to . Person wey dey gbadu our styles codedly

Heh bro! Please leave my lovely Samantha125 alone o. She's exempted from any retaliatory actions Nigerian government wants to take against SA. My insurance covers her.

Not only are the maids trained to be better wife materials and great home managers, they're equally better equipped to survive in the face of difficult situations, while their overpampered "precious" daughters can't even survive the slightest life challenges.

Honestly, most maids who endured the harsh conditions of living with some madams turn out to be better women not only for marriage but us also for life generally.

Diamond098454:
Hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣
Men face pressure too

In fact, men face more external pressure to get married than ladies. Ladies face pressure mainly from biological clock. Before I met my fiancee, I faced so much pressure from my family, especially my mum. To her, I was a lost course and an object of pity because I was yet to be married. This is despite my constant reassurances to her that I'll get married soon. You needed to see how elated she was on the day of my introduction.

Some of you think only ladies face the marriage pressure but that's not the case!

You're obviously still a child. By the time you get to the age of marriage you'll understand. When your mum, dad and siblings start mounting pressure on you, nobody go tell you to go and marry.

Go and rescue those children and their teachers in Ogbomosho before we can take you serious.

The lifestyle differences between the majority Muslim north and majority Christian south tilt the balance of growth in favour of the Muslims. With the manner southerners are speedily adopting the western lifestyles while the Muslim northerners retain their conservatism, the southerners are gradually declining in population while the northerners are growing.

This disparity in population growth rate would overtime result in a conspicuous domination of the country by the Muslims. In fact, I'm seeing the southerners going extinct in no distant time if the current trend is sustained. So, all the Muslims need is to sustain their conservative culture while encouraging the western lifestyles of the south. So, they don't even need to fight for "Islamization". It'll happen naturally!

More southern youths are shunning marriage and procreation while others are leaving the country and transferring their lineages abroad. With the poor healthcare system and the hardships in the country, the Christian population is bound to continually decline.

The saving grace would have been to divide the country along religious lines so that the Christian south can manage themselves. In a country of their own, they'll take full responsibility of creating an environment that would sustain their population at least for a longer time. They'll be able to create a sound healthcare system, topnotch science and tech education, social amenities and a thriving economy. With the above in place, they can be sure of maintaining their population for longer generations.

capnies:
Did you say that sildenafil is a drug for HIV prophylaxis

It could be Sildenafil as well, but also note that truvada which is used for HIV prophylaxis also has same colour. Because of the second pill in the picture, it could be a combination HIV medications.

Samantha125:
Apparently it's just a made up tale, sorry for the inconvenience...😒😒😒... To wotowotofy the op dey hungry, after I called in the services of a professional...😤😤😤

The story was made up? Can you imagine that? It seems like a good number of stories on this platform are fake.

Samantha125:
Jman06, come and tell us what pills are these and their function...🤣🤣🤣

We promise to contribute some money for your services.

Those appear to be medications for HIV prophylaxis

It's only those who haven't had much sex that hype it. If you have done the do severally, you won't hype it.

thesicilian:
By defying authorities they mean he didn't settle. There are many illegal pharmacies all over the country that are allowed to operate because they pay their "dues" as required by the so called authorities.

Stop saying what you don't know! PCN does not accept "settlement" and allow anybody to brazenly practise outside the laws! Those illegal outlets you alluded to would definitely face the consequences of their unlawful activities the day PCN discovers them. You also have a duty to report such outlets whenever you see them.

Kudos the learned judge who delivered this judgement! At least this would send a message to all the unscrupulous individuals who are busy killing Nigerians with their illegal operations.

In order to put a stop to the activities of these illegal outlets, PCN should also ensure closure of all the open drug markets where these criminals go and purchase all kinds of drugs without regulations and restrictions. As long as open markets are allowed to operate and sell drugs indiscriminately just for profits without considering the dangers their activities pose to public health, we cannot win the war against fake drugs and illegal activities of these merchants of death.

Gboss247:
With the ₦200,000 minimum wage you are demanding, you have no other option than ₦5 million house rent for a 3-bedroom in Enugu.

This is not true! House rent in Enugu recently rose astronomically and many people are already pressuring government to checkmate the landlords and house agents. So, no landlord would raise house rent above what it is currently. I have stated it here that the main driving forces that lead to increased costs of living are increase in fuel prices, exchange rate of naira vs dollar and maybe increase in government taxes. The meagre increase in minimum wage has little to no effects on cost of living.

Keep forgiving your cheating wife until she completely emasculates you and make you her cvvcko1d. Then she'll bring home the men she's cheating with and have them knack her right on top your head as the alpha male pours his akamu on your head. That's usually the end result of forgiving a cheating wife.

Your ancestors would be turning and cursing you in their graves for contaminating their bloodlines with the Baxtar.d children she'll eventually bear for you to take care of.

Government should either increase minimum wage to at least 300k or make civil service jobs part-time so workers only go to work 2 times a week and use the rest of the week to do other things that can put more money in their pockets. Workers are really suffering now.

This is what pisses me off about women! After wasting their time running after unserious guys who are not ready for marriage but are just out to play, they'll turn around and blame all men for their inability to get married at their older ages. They're the ones who advise themselves to delay marriage yet they blame men when they are old and can't marry.

youdontknoe:
Ok. The biggest hurdle yet faced. And it’s a very sad one because I don’t know how to deal with this.

When we moved in together, we started actively trying to get pregnant. I’m 33 so I know that time was going. He was always saying we will have children and I should relax but 6 months into tracking ovulation and actively getting into action without any positive tests I knew I had to talk to my doc. I know a lot of pple that waited for a year only to find out they had medical conditions to deal with preventing conception. Even though we were not actively trying, I never used contraceptive and we never used protection. I ran my own STI checks after we got married (silly I know) but it turned out good and there were no issues. So I just felt of course, when we start living together things should happen naturally. I started taking a lot of supplements and prenatals and my husband said he is not sure why but we will have children and I should calm down. That at least he also needed a job. My parents are already asking that we should start our family. His mum was also saying we should do fast.

About 3 months ago, I spoke to my doctor and got a referral. Here you need a referral to speak to specialists and you can’t just walk up to demand for any tests from the lab. I got the referral to a fertility clinic. I genuinely went there thinking it was my age or maybe I just needed meds or supplement and what not. They referred us both for a full fertility work up. My husband felt uncomfortable and said our matter is not a fertility clinic matter and I need to calm down. I insisted that I know but I would just like to know more based on medical assessments. My husband f followed me, even through the sono hsg. We ran all the blood tests. The results came in 2 weeks ago.

Yea, I was fine. Hormones were working as they should, tubes were opened, and ovulation was happening. For him, we did an SA to know counts volume etc. the doc said, unfortunately it was a really low count and honestly we stood almost little to no chance of natural conception without medical intervention. Only IVF. According to him, not even IUI would help because they would need to search out what is viable and use for the procedure. I sat there confused and very very weak.


We left there and I was numb. Weak. Pained. My husband was asking why I was so downcast and I had no words. He said but at least there is a way out and I should please not have high Bp. I didn’t know what to do or not to do. I got home and cried so so much. Because this marriage thing seems like a lot. I cried and cried.

I don’t know how men process difficult information but my husband didn’t want to talk about it. I left him. He just kept going on like nothing had happened. When we finally were able to talk, he said he cannot be sad or depressed over a situation he can’t control. That on the brighter side, there is a way out. I grieved. Knowing that what would happen effortlessly for others now needed medical intervention. Knowing the emotional and psychological effects of this unknown journey. Knowing this information is not even something I can talk to anyone close to me about.


He got a job offer a few days after that news. A job offer that would take him away to a new city (4hrs flight). Good news. But again, we would be apart. Sigh.

I don’t know but I have made a lot of crazy decisions since that info. I just got tired. I quit one of my jobs last week. The job had been a drag and I had to let it go. At this point maybe I deserve all I’m going through but I also know I am very tired. I did my research and ordered supplements that I know may help him. And I had to have the long talk about why he needed to take them. He was reluctant and said it was too many meds. I begged. Pleaded. Even if we had to go the ivf route maybe we can improve the quality of what we have. I’m not going to get younger. It’s been a whole lot. He finally agreed but told me not to follow up that he will take them. Financially we are not even ready for any medical procedure and mentally I don’t even know if I am ok.


I get lost in thoughts. Why is this the way marriage is for me? Was this even worth it? I cannot talk to anyone. Not the pastors. Not my parents. Not my friends. I know having kids is not all that’s about marriage, but I also know that I want them. But we have bigger issues here and it’s beyond kids. I just don’t know if marriage has served me up to this point. In my very mid 30s so I also don’t know what the future holds. Sigh. I’m just tired.

If truly he has problem with his sperm count, then that's not a huge problem to deal with. Unless a man is sterile which is a rare condition, fertility challenges in men are easy to deal with. Get him VIGOMAX FORTE by Charak pharma India. Let him take one tablet 12hourly for 2-3 months. It is a tested and trusted treatment for low sperm count and poor sperm motility. Thank me later

Cancer is such a deadly disease that kills more than HIV. It has cut short the lives of many people in this country due to our poor healthcare system.
Government needs to rise to the challenge and tackle the scourge decisively.

Gboss247:
Increasing the minimum wage is one of the fastest ways to throw a country into poverty. The value of money lies in the scarcity of it's volume and increasing the minimum wage does the opposite. It increases the money supply in circulation, taxes are even further increased to generate the new minimum wage leading to more volume of money in circulation resulting in inflation. Money looses more value the new minimum wage buys less goods and services compared to the old one.
The ₦200,000 minimum wage you are demanding will not be able to buy what the ₦70,000 current minimum wage can. Countries with the best minimum wages earns between 500 and 2,000 I there local currencies and not 200k you are demanding for.

With the current cost of living, government has no choice than to increase minimum wage to 200k unless they would agree that civil service would become a part-time job such that workers would not dedicate all their time to working for government. They can work for 2-3 days in a week and use the rest of their time to earn their livelihood.

I initially cited instances of the astronomical increase in house rent in my state of Enugu where rent rose from 300k to 1.5M for 3-bedroom flat. That's just house rent o. Minimum wage should reflect such proportion of increase in living costs in other for the civil servants to survive and give their best. If government cannot increase minimum wage to reflect the current cost of living then they should consider my suggestion above. If government fails to do either of the above, then sooner than later, civil servants would stop paying much attention to their work but look for alternative means of survival.

dominique:
The only thing I have to say is, music is not your calling

Why the vawulence na?

The minds that wake up before the body during episodes of sleep paralysis actually represent our spiritual components. The mind is immortal and persists in another realm even after one's death.

Samantha125:
I thought you guys said churches are the worst places to find wives? What changed?🤔🤔🤔

Going to church and being a true Christian are two different things. Even the devil himself can go to church.

Samantha125:
Let's hope your woman won't leave you at 32 as well...😒😒😒

My girl was raised in a Christian family and her parents instilled the right values in her. She understands the essence of a Christian marriage and would not leave her marriage like that.

However, in the event that she gets corrupted along the way by the anti-marriage forces that are characteristic of woke wannabe feminists, I'll not stop her. By that time she would have birthed all my offsprings which is more important to me.

The confused gender indeed!

For those who say that older women are more matured for marriage, hope they can see a 32 years old woman who is as confused as confusion itself and looking for faults in her marriage where none exists?

Also, those who say that marrying for "love" is the guarantee for a happy marriage, hope they can also see a woman who married with all the butterflies in her stomach and just 2years into the marriage, she's now confused and wants out?

The truth is that marriage is a task only the selfless can successfully undertake. Selflessness has no age neither is it a matter of butterfly feelings in the stomach. It is a DECISION taken with a clear purpose of completely giving one's self to another for the propagation of the human race and betterment of the society.

Gboss247:
Nigerian economy is based on socialist ideology of the government generating electricity income through taxes. Minimum wages and salaries of government staffs are generated through taxes which are still passed down to the masses including the civil servants themselves.
Also, let not forget increasing minimum wages and salaries of government staffs is another way of currency devaluation because money is created and release into circulation increasing the volume of money supply leading to higher inflation rates.
Finally, let's not forget the multiplier effect that comes with it.

Your first paragraph is even the reason why increasing the minimum wage is sacrosanct because taxes have increased astronomically under this administration. We are currently being taxed for like never before.

Cost of living has increased by a hundred fold and you still talk about workers salaries causing inflation. Does the humongous amount of money we pay for rents, transport, fuel, and food items not increase money in circulation? Why is it only the meagre salaries civil servants receive that you remember as a source inflation?

If government would not increase minimum wage to at least 200k, then an alternative would be to reduce the number of days civil servants work in a week. Going by their current meagre pay, we can reduce the number of days they work to like twice or even once in a week so that they can use the rest of the days to pursue alternative means of income so as to survive the current high cost of living. Let government weigh both options and agree on which is better for the country.

Are you aware of the current rate of increase in the cost of virtually everything in the country? In Enugu for instance, do you know that the rent for 3-bedroom flat which used to be 300k just some 3 years ago now goes for 1.5M? Just imagine the proportion with which rent increased in just 3 years. Within this same period, cost of virtually everything that supports living has increased in the same proportion as house rents. Despite this humongous increases, civil servants still receive peanuts as salary!

ReacherSaidNoth:
Interesting to see all the emotional blackmail the OP is receiving on this thread. Women are the last people you show pity to, they will ruthlessly discard you if the case is the reverse.

Exactly! Look at them trying to gaslight op and trying to turn the blames on him. This is the same gender that would ruthlessly dump the man at the slightest provocation. The double standards people use in judging issues between a man and a woman is nauseating!

Caaz:
He might be sterile/azoospermia
Modified...he said the wife has chronic PCOS.

This is how you ladies readily turn the blames against the man and accuse him of being responsible for your infertility! Cases of sterility in men are very insignificant compared to the various fertility issues that occur in women. For this reason, women are responsible for 98% of cases of infertility in marriage, but the society and the womenfolk would try to shift the blames to the man.