₦airaland Forum

Nawao... this animal tried to have survived up till now. My village in Igboland once had lions and elephants in our forests but they have all been hunted into extinction.

Though these animals are also dangerous to humans as some of them are strictly carnivorous. Even those of them that are not strict carnivores can go rogue atimes and kill humans.

This problem of high cost of accommodation is really becoming something else especially in the southeast. I pity civil servants and private sector employees the most because while cost of everything is increasing astronomically, salaries have remained constant such that people now finish their salaries just within few days of receiving it.

Honestly, urgent steps need to be taken to salvage the ugly situation. Imagine spending almost all your annual salary just on accommodation!

It's really true that meeting some women open doors for men. I'm a living testimony.

The guy should hold that girl tight and ensure to marry her o. If you allow her slip off your fingers, the next girl you'll meet will show you shege.

Excuses to coverup their exploitation of Nigerians! Only the gullible would believe them!

Considering the high demand for these health workers and the japa syndrome, FG needs to create a more flexible working environment for those healthcare workers that remain in the country. They should be able to work in multiple hospitals so long as they can handle the tight schedules.

The current system whereby health workers are caged only in one facility must stop! If a heath worker is working with hospital A but is fit to also cover some shifts in hospital B, he shouldn't be restricted by one obnoxious civil service rule! I don't know the use of such obsolete rule in modern world!

I remember growing up in the village. Life was more fun with men and women living in conviviality. There were masquerade events, traditional festivals and a whole lot of fun activities that made living attractive.

However, with more people embracing western lifestyles, life has become so boring. Life is now more about working and paying bills. No wonder some people now resort to committing suicide at any slight provocation.

It is well

Honestly, yes. I'll choose my current siblings over and over again.

You did right by marrying the man. Please stop begging that senseless friend of yours. It's obvious she doesn't have sense and that was why she rejected the man on such flimsy grounds.

Some ladies think that once they reject a man, the man would not be able to find another lady to marry. If the eventually finds someone else, they feel pained!

Please op, hold on to your husband tightly and never allow the jezebel destroy your marriage! I believe that your husband too, being a wise Igbo man, wouldn't allow the she-devil influence him at all.

Many ladies are single and going into menopause today because they rejected good suitors just like this one. Others would still not learn!

It seems only sons surrounded by sisters are usually fvvl1sh! That's one thing I have noticed and the reason is because they are often pampered to a fault.

Just imagine the fvvl!

This is why I got really pissed off when I hear anyone talk about voting another candidate for Enugu state governorship election next year! God will never allow the agents of backwardness to succeed in dragging Enugu back from the enviable height Peter Mbah has placed the state on.

I beg you, dear governor! Even if it is rigging, please rig to ensure you go back to office because some people in the state are not informed enough to understand the benefits of all your noble projects! I don't trust the number of sane people in our state and that's why I'm encouraging you to do anything to get back into office to consolidate your great projects o!

Imagine having a stark illiterate like Uche Nnaji as governor! God forbid!

With the fraudulent interest rates these loan sharks charge, I don't blame anybody who is unable to repay! These loan shark operators are scammers taking advantage of the hardship in the country to milk poor Nigerians dry.

Reduce your interest rates and more people will be willing to patronise you and repay the loans when due.

Very barbaric set of people! Why beating up the young chap like that If you check well now that guy might not even be gay anything. Even if he is, why take the laws into your hands

God will punish all of you that beat up that boy!

I know the next thing is for some of you barbarians to accuse me of being gay but that's your problems. I'm happily married to a gorgeous young woman. I believe that for a man to desire another man, there's something fundamentally wrong in that man's makeup, and beating up or maiming the person is never a solution to the problem. This is inhuman and I wish government could devise a means of helping victims of this sort of attacks get justice.

We4all:
Nowadays, to find a man in Nigeria who is morally upright with a legit business is by connection.

People are going to blame her for visiting a man she met online.... But the truth is, the men online are not ghosts, but are the people we call neighbours, colleagues, friends, and brothers.

We'll blame her because her long throat led her to her waterloo! Wise girls understand that money and material things are like baits men (and women) of the underworld use to lure their victims, so they get jobs and work to earn a living instead of gallivanting from one place to another in search of money they have not worked for!

These things keep happening all the time yet others would not learn.

One thing I dislike about Nigerians is that they don't know how to separate the good leaders who are making positive changes from the incompetent and overly corrupt ones. Emmanuel Uduaghan was one of the leaders who tried to make a difference!

May his soul rest in perfect peace, Amen.

Kudos to our amiable governor Peter Ndubuisi Mbah! May the good lord bless and keep you for Ndi Enugu. We have never had governance this good!

Congratulations to our retirees that'll benefit from this. The debts inherited from the previous incompetent administrations are being cleared by Peter Mbah!

Come 2027, we'll march to the polling units with our voters cards to reward our dear governor with our votes! One good turn deserves another!

His ancestors will be so disappointed in him!

That's the consequence of women birthing children from different men and pinning it on their husbands!

Messiah007:
Looks like everything happened out of pity for the guy.

He doesn’t look like the masculine figure between them both. She looks like who dishes out orders to the guy. Crazy world

From the pictures alone, one can easily notice that the lady is the masculine figure in the marriage while the guy is her wife!

DennisEche:
Poor simps, the way he carries the bay and the lady putting hands on her pocket, is a red flag. Mumu man

That shows the lady is the husband in the marriage while the simp is her wife. That's how to spot a marriage where the lady is in charge!

I have always loathed the idea of being a lady's fall back option right from time. One thing that helped me to avoid being a plan B for any lady while I was searching was that once a lady showed the slightest sign of not being interested in me, I blocked her on all channels and moved on. In fact, some of the ladies even started seeing me like a guy who is full of himself.

Thank God for my now wife because from the first day I met her till this moment she has always accepted me wholeheartedly. We met December last year and got married July this year. That his how people who are genuinely interested in each other should marry.

Only guys with low self esteem would allow lady's friend-zone them while giving their coochies cheaply to other guys they consider better. Such guys are usually easily cvck0lded by the ladies when marriage eventually happens between them.

Diamond098454:
Hmmmmm you are far from the truth

You know that I am stating the fact

Diamond098454:
What are you saying?

I'm saying that you ladies gaslight guys into believing that they need sex more than you when in reality ladies are the ones that need and enjoy sex more while guys burn their energy and funds just to satisfy you.

Diamond098454:
Don't take it personal just accept the truth. Between men and women who need sex most?the answer is simple

As you don't need sex, can you knowingly marry an impotent man?

You ladies claim you don't need sex yet you're the ones always complaining about your men being a "one-minute man". Many of you also leave your marriages if the man becomes impotent and cannot satisfy you sexually. Check the number of men dying on daily basis in an attempt to satisfy their women sexually, what does that tell you?

The problem is just that men allow themselves to be fall cheaply for women and even pay for the sex that is even enjoyed more by women. How I wish that more men would get hold of their sexual desires and not give their bodies cheaply to women. Honestly, if all decide to abstain from sex for a period of time, you'll be surprised that women would be the ones begging and paying for sex.

Kobojunkie:
This isn't a new trend... it dates back to the period around the 80s. 🥱🥱

2. Such women are not victims; the vast majority of them willingly submit, against reason and common sense, to being treated like baby-making machines by such fraudsters. 🥱🥱

3. Women are responsible for their actions and decisions, even in relationships.🥱🥱

Is this coming from you? Or is someone else commenting with your phone? Ha...thank God, there is hope.

Ayes na big boys!


Who no come no go know...

zoghys:
Boy, I have read some of your comment here on NL as regards some topics and I can conveniently say you are a disturbed soul. You need help help and that must come really fast.

I had to jump her posts on this topic because I knew it'll be full of gibberish and annoying. She'll rather direct all the blames on the op than seeing all the evil machinations of her gender!

@op, good that you've taken the decision not to go ahead with the marriage. That lady and her mum are evil and on a mission to drain you. They want to make you the scapegoat for the sins of her first baby daddy. Run for your life and never look back!

The characteristics of that lady are in tandem with the so called gen zs. They believe in killing their men with billing instead of being conservative and prudent like our mothers. That is why she'll rather have you waste money buying already-made food instead of cooking. Please in your next relationship, don't get too carried away with infatuation but try and instill the consciousness of being prudent and conservative on the lady.

Itiswell234:
Obviously, I watched the initiation video during her Marriage. As long as the bride price is not returned, any touch from another man could be devastating

Story for the gods!

If I have a chance with Regina, I'll shatter whatever covenant she did with Ned Woko.

This my babe that should have just waited a little for me to finish school and come and marry her instead she hurriedly married pa Ned Woko

Local car assembly companies should try and cut down prices in order to attract more Nigerian buyers! This is especially now that imported cars sale for exorbitant prices that average Nigerians now find it difficult to own a car.

The other day I saw some Innoson cars lined up for sale in a government hospital probably to attract hospital staff who may want to buy. When I enquired about the price, the amount I heard was so high that it could buy me a good foreign-used car with some change left.

Basicend:
It will create massive unemployment and funds repatriation to China.

Ain't you tired of China milking almost all the little free funds you have left.

Chinese govt is too desperate. They know the right process but like cutting corners with everything.

In international trade, there should be adherence to the required supply chain process.

It'll not create any unemployment instead, it'll help bring down cost of goods in the markets! Meanwhile, the greedy Nigerian traders don't care about the plight of civil servants when they inflate the costs of goods so, why should the rest of us suffer hardship just to have them continue swindling us?

Nigerian government must protect these Chinese traders from the hands of our greedy and barbaric Nigerian traders! We need more of the Chinese in our markets to help bring down the prices of goods and curtail the excesses of our traders!

Who says women are paid less at work Is there a separate wage in the Nigerian labour market for men and women I even wish the country could introduce a system that pays men more than women considering the enormous financial responsibilities men are expected to shoulder in our society. Honestly, any legislator that could propose a bill to introduce a higher wage for men than women would have my full support!

Imagine a situation where both men and women have equal opportunities for education and jobs, earn equal wages yet the men are expected to carry the financial burdens of the family! That's lopsided to say the least!

The other day, Kwara state governor even bought the Dangote refinery IPO only for female teachers in the state. The men were left behind, yet they are still made to pay for the same women that earn equal wages as them plus other special pecks.

It's high time we stopped heaping all the financial loads on men. If we continue doing this, then why are we educating the girl child and paying women equal wages at work? It's either we stop educating women and giving them jobs with equal pay as men or we stop placing all the financial burdens on the men! It is obvious that the current system is already creating a lot of fracas and dissatisfaction in our homes and things would go worse in the nearest future if we don't stop the trend.

Women cannot eat their cakes and have it.