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Proserpina:
He lied.

He is not lying!

Proserpina:
Do you have evidence to back this claim?
I know for a fact that Nurses, Assistant care providers, care workers are never in short of jobs anywhere in the world. Especially not in UK that spend over 60% of its revenue on health services. Lol

Those people practically pay citizens to be mad

I know a nurse who just returned from the UK because he could not get a job while there

Caaz:
P square's Audio song comes to mind.

How do you mean?

Traditional marriage and white wedding done and dusted! I'm officially a married man!To God be all the glory!

Lame excuses to justify the peanuts they're paying Nigerian workers!

Congratulations to the smart kids. More of this please

Suicideboy:
He should go rest. There are other kids like him. Some are way more intelligent than him but lack opportunities. At his age i was already writing my macro assembler for the motorola chipset, memorized hexadecimal and i can do differentials and polynamials without using a calcuator.

What do we call this? Jealousy or what? What has the boy done wrong to deserve this reaction from you? Or maybe you're angry because he's from the Igbo tribe? Some of you can take tribalism to a level where one begins to question your intelligence!

Congratulations to the prodigy! May he continue to soar higher and higher in the world of STEM and in all other aspects of life..Amen

I don't see anything wrong in what the first lady said. She was encouraging the poorest of the poor to take advantage of small scale businesses like akara, corn and kulikuli to make ends meet.

As a matter of fact, I know a lady in my street who sells corn. She has a very high patronage from people within the neighbourhood and I'm sure she makes a lot of profit every day.

Dtruthspeaker:
Ah! Bros, don't wound yourself oo. Have you not noticed that after marriage many wives change and if/where before there was no chance of her cheating now that she married and gave birth she is now hungry and all men, including her husband can see that the wife needs to be blasted and scattered thoroughly with the priqq?

It's called mid life cryses only in books, movies and articles they play up the one of men and left the woman unwatched. So, i watched the women and i saw that they too were had the same mid life cryses and that even the husband's mid life cryses also arises from his wife's changes. That also contributes to his unreasonable and abnormal behaviour. As my guy in this thread confessed.

https://www.nairaland.com/8330559/there-second-whorre-phase-women#133936255

Where before marriage she was not interested but after marriage now, she's always hot 🔥 and always ready for the bbang.

And sorry to ruin your beliefs, as Tyler Perry confessed in Madea "your mother was a hurr". Mothers of the past were equally unfaithful especially with all the beatings they got. And you might call their own worse if you knew the who, who soothed and comforted them. And of course remember, it was in their time that it was said that "women are full of secrets they take to the grave" which of course when the secret everyone was always shocked wondering how and when it happened.

So, faithful wife almost no dey. And as you see from the silence of women, e no dey.

In my village, the issue of infidelity among married women is one that is never taken lightly. It is one of the biggest taboos and any woman caught faces a lot of stigmatisation and shame. Even the man involved with her is not spared as he performs a lot of dehumanising rituals to appease the gods. I'm not saying that it doesn't happen but it is often exaggerated by guys like you.
How many people are even attracted to married women? Only some few accursed men get involved with the few reckless and equally accursed women around. How many married women have you successfully wooed in the past?

This is obviously a case of gynaecomastia which results from an imbalance of the female hormone; estrogen. He has higher than normal estrogen which explains the development of breasts.

Dtruthspeaker:
How naive!

They are going to still cheat on you when they are 30 upwards.

And how did you know that? Any lady that wants to cheat would cheat regardless of her age! Our mothers were married at even younger ages but they remained faithful to their far older husbands. Decent girls with good upbringing would be very faithful in marriage. You guys like to exaggerate this issue of infidelity among married women. Any occurrence of such infidelity is blown out of proportion without considering the higher number of faithful wives.

You have made the right decision by resolving to go for girls of 18-23yo. That age bracket is the best to marry because aside that their fertility is topnotch, they'll develop further in your house with little to no tendency of getting corrupted by the older unmarried women.

Older ladies usually think that they know it all and will be there rejecting suitors for flimsy reasons. At such older ages, they are usually very confused and find it hard to make the decision to accept suitors. Having dated multiple guys at such ages with numerous body counts, they are usually confused about which of the numerous boyfriends to accept for marriage.

Marriage is not for the "I too know" people and that is why it is better for ladies to marry young because as they age, they become too "wise" and picky and that is one reason men run away from such older ladies.

pocohantas:
Alright then. It is okay to believe in what works for you. I wish you two the best.

Thank you, Poco. God bless you

Jozilinn:
God bless you Op and your wife to be you'll both grow old together un jesus name AMEN 🙏🏻

Amen! Thank you very much

Munzy14:
Say no more , only wise men understands this. From the meeting of your wife as girl frienď, you will start noticing serious positive vibes. The day you took the bold step to make her a wife, the doors of blessings and favour will open. As long as she is genuinely into you.

He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord.

A morally sound with a genuine Interest wife.

Those who experienced diff, na only them know wetin them marry🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 One can't eat their cake and have it


Lastly, Congratulations on this new phase. And never you cheat or make her have a rethink, otherwise the glory of God will take the Ben Johnson from your side.

Thanks alot. I'll never cheat on her.

franchasng:
Don't let anybody brainwash you. Hold on to what you believe. What you believe work for you in life. Those that believe that if they marry it will drag them back because of increased financial responsibility always experience it because it is what they believe and that is the energy they emit and same energy is drawn to them to maintain energy balance. So keep believing that your new wife or your fiance is bringing you good luck and it will continue to be so for you, dont change that believe because of what people are saying here or anywhere else.


I love encouraging people with my personal life experience whenever I have the chance to do so. I am a happily married man, in few years from now I will be a decade in marriage, and I can boldly say that God has been awesome to me ever since I married my wife. Yes I didn't marry her as a broke man but I got instant confirmation from prior to our wedding day and immediately after our wedding, as in same day that my wife was about bringing plenty fortunes my way.


Before our wedding day, while we were lodged in the hotel doing last few days planning cos the wedding took place in a far away city from where I was residing then. A few days to my wedding, while in my hotel room, I got a surprisen email of a positive news of a small contract I applied months back and already canceled in my heart thinking I won't get it cos I just submitted quote for it carelessly without hoping to get a positive reply. Hold and behold I got a yes mail 3 days to my wedding.


Few hours after our wedding, we were now together in one hotel room, relaxing and laughing at the event. It wasn't that stressful for us cos I made it simple; no gifting, no MC trying to do things to raise funds, just strictly to witness our joining together, get entertained and boom finish. Right there in the room, I received a call asking me if I could make an instant supply for something worth millions. It was like magic I must say. In less than 48hrs, I concluded the whole supply and made a profit of millions. I even started suspecting my wife whether she was a witch cos I confided in a very close married friend out of fear and curiosity lolz. He encouraged me not to worry that it happens to some people when they get married and not common to every couple, that I should thank God for it that this my wife go bring me fortunes oh, that it seems our stars match, I laughed, we laughed.


In order not to make my comment too long, my brother like I said that I didn't marry my wife as a broke single man, I was doing fine to an extent Sha, but immediately after I married her, my life took a fast turnaround like magic, everything started changing so fast for better. Me that was happy that I was doing well started witnessing a new type of financial success that I never witnessed while single. It became more as soon as she gave birth to our first child, that one come be like say he went to where they kept money fortunes and used his legs to smash the locked door chains and boom, things turned around for me. My small one man business I was managing after quitting working for others started transforming to a small company like play lol. I then realized some of my wishes while single; I wished to be a boss and an employer of graduates before I marry. I wished to carry my son to my office to show him my office as a company owner. These were some of my wishes while single, so it was like marriage and having a child brought those wishes to reality for me. When I was single, I also wished to buy my wife a car and give her a driver when she gives birth, so as I saw how God was blessing me after I married my wife and immediately she gave birth, I quickly hired a driver for her that drove her to work and back shortly after she gave birth. I fulfilled that my wish and anytime I reflect on thesr things, tears of joy fill my eyes. Dear Lord, I am still grateful to you, thank you Jehovah for your mercy and blessing upon my wife. Let me stop here.



My point is, marriage and child bearing bring good luck or good fortunes to some people and families while its otherwise for some people. Same thing happened to my father when he married my now late mother. My father and even my mother told us the story. My mother brought light to my father's life. Same applies to my elder sister. So it happens, hold on to that believe that your fiance has brought you good luck and glorify God for it, dont harbor any negative thought towards her or your marriage, just believe that you will become bigger after your wedding and it will be so for you. Those that confess that to marry is hard and that to find a good wife or husband is hard will always find it hard. We attract what we believe, think, wish and confess with our mouth most of the times.


This is why people go into serious prayers before choosing someone to marry, me I did not pray oh, maybe I was lucky or God just decided to show me mercy but I won't lie, I never prayed for revelation of who to marry but many people do it and its good if one can identify good man of God to intercede for him or her in prayers before accepting to marry anyone. in the olden days, Igbos consulted soothsayers and traditional priests, but I will only advice people to seek God's direction via a true man of God or Prophet.

Wishing you and your fiance Godspeed and more wins as you guys prepare to start that wonderful journey of life as couple

Thank you very much for the wishes and detailed response. I have taken note of what you said. God bless you, sir.

cutieBR:
Congratulations to you and yours!!

Thank you very much

pocohantas:
I don't believe marriage brings goodluck just like that, but I believe it is more of synergy. Maybe better ideas and moves. You are more intentional about protecting your family's future and finances, which is lovely to read.

As long as you keep to our agreement over your fiancee, we are good. But if I hear any complaints from her end, I will drag you alongside NL draculas.

Lolzzz...I honestly believe there's a sort of divine intervention. It's not about synergy or personal efforts because I had been synergising and trying hard before now. Those favours actually came without me breaking a sweat.

Don't worry poco, I'll take very good care of my girl. I can assure you that you won't hear any negative stories about my marriage.

I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

It's because many of them live with the illusion that marrying a nurse will grant them an automatic visa to travel abroad. They don't understand that it doesn't always work like that and that UK which used to employ Nigerian nurses have tightened their boarders and workforce such that even some Nigerian nurses already living in the UK no longer get jobs easily let alone those still in Nigeria.

Congratulations to you lad. Thank God they didn't succeed in denying you this honour on account of your tribe. More wins

This is the reality most women face. At the prime of their youths, they're always hot and command men's attentions. Some of them would reject and even insult their male toasters and admirers at this point. They usually think that they have all the time on earth and would be attractive forever, forgetting that age is one thing that is not in favour of women. So, from the ages of 16 to 23 when they're in high demand, the majority of them would be so unserious with men until they hit the age of 30 when old age has drastically drained their beauty and sexual appeal, then they'll start disturbing God with prayers and fasting for a husband.
Wise girls take advantage of their youthful allure and hook their husbands early enough while the f00/ish ones and the so called feminists would keep wasting away until they have no more saps left in them.

Honestly, if I have daughters, I'll encourage them to get married from the age range of 16 to 23. Even if they are not done with schooling, I'll sponsor their educations from their husbands' houses.

MadPolitician:
Very cursed city.
The sodom and gomorrah of Nigeria too..

You don't know what you're typing! Benin city and Edo state generally are a nice place to be. The people are cultured and also hard-working.

Esan people are offshoots of Igbos. Even Bini people have alot in common with Igbos aside their traditional rulership type. Many Igbo languages and derived from Bini words!

This is very wrong! You don't assault an officer on duty!

Let the courts hasten their imprisonment to serve as deterrent to others who might want to toe the same path.

Samantha125:
Allow other people's husbands to have some fun in peace...😑😑😑... If the wife is not complaining and she's the one who consented to it, then why should you be having issues with it? It's like you're an enemy of progress...😑😑😑

It is abnormal and against God's plan for marriage.

DeepSight:
Lol! You are not serious. This argument you have proffered tells me not to waste my time with any serious discussion with you.
Non stop firing by any creature will lead to death, besides an absence of a climax will defeat the reproductive purpose.

So you know that continuous firing could lead to death but somehow you think that sex should not be put in check by encouraging monogamy?

Samantha125:
Men are polygamous in nature, so we shouldn't deprive them their right to explore every once in a while...😋😋😋

They have succeeded in brainwashing you to believe that jargon that men are polygamous in nature. Men are not polygamous in nature. Some men are just unable to control their urges due to lack of discipline.

DeepSight:
Let's be scientific here. Look at the natural world. Very few creatures are monogamous. Penguins, some birds and some few others. Otherwise it's not the norm. Now let's be scientific. Look at human sexuality. We are one of the creatures that has sex at all times of the year (we don't have a specific period of heat or mating). Sexual maturity comes at puberty. For a man if he is celibate sexually he will have wet dreams. Also both men and women get attracted to multiple people. These facts of nature tell us that what is natural for humans is quite different from the man made and religion enforced monogamy. And many societies recognize this in their culture.

We are humans and not animals. Our ability to put our cravings in check and not indulge in every bodily desires is what makes us rational humans.
One way to know that humans are not meant to be polygamous is the fact that we climax during sex and once this happens, we do not go on doing it, instead we go through a refractory period before we can have the urge again. If we were meant to be polygamous, there won't be climax so that we can fire nonstop for as long as we want.

Samantha125:
You're a grown man, so if you don't get it, forget it...😋😋😋

I'd even book him into a hotel for a whole week so that he can have some unlimited fun...😋😋😋

Is it that you can't satisfy him yourself or you have an aversion to sex?

DeepSight:
I am of the mind that strict monogamy may be unnatural.

It is natural! Humans are the ones trying to make it appear unnatural and impossible due to their selfish nature

Samantha125:
There's a reason why she's giving him a day every month to see other women... What a wise woman, I'd give him a week...😋😋😋

What could be the reason?