EreluRoz:
Whatever practices needed to satisfy a woman should be top priority for men and part of their life.

Sex isn't just for procreation sir, even the Bible talked about sexual pleasure

It's a biological fact that sex is designed for procreation and not necessarily for pleasure! It is humans that want to prolong it so as to derive maximum pleasure from it.

Other animals also have sex solely for procreation and that is why you don't here she-goats or hens moaning during sex.

dkidd:

Fuckuoff child... go play with sand u dumb ignoramus. At least i schooled u fools today. So go out there and put it to practice and say to ur self after confirming the truth that I Dkidd am ur Lord and master bichhh!

FULL


So much mouthing but no action!

EreluRoz:
How do you talk so much about someone you don't know?

Oh please we know all men are stallion on social media yet the rate at which women cheat these days is alarming due to inability to sexually satisfy them by their partner

Even the mugu guy still agreed with my point that it is only with learned practices like kegel and other delay tactics that can help delay a man's ejaculation aside using drugs. The evolutionary design of sex is for procreation and not necessarily for pleasure, that is why men ejaculate quicker if there's no deliberate delay tactics being employed.

dkidd:

Mugu when no fit last 2 mins without drugs dey is now claiming to be aware of delay ejaculation tactics... How old are u guys sef. Na myself i blame when follow una dey talk

I know your type! Too much talk with zero action!

Them that use mouth to fall iroko tree!

EreluRoz:
Then don't complain about nagging and disrespect, this is where it stems from. 30minuttes is nothing for my kind of person, one hour and more else I'll serve you with nagging and disrespect.

You're not being realistic. No wonder you've been meeting guys that use drugs in bid to please you. The goal should be to take you to 0rgasm and if you get there in 15---20 minutes, you should be good.

EreluRoz:
But people are countering your opinion strongly, don't you think you should check yourself?

Which people are countering my opinion? Is it that KID up there? Who I'm sure has not had his first sex compared to babas like us? See, the fact that I say it, doesn't mean that I am weak in bed. I can last very long but with some learned practices that delay ejaculation. I don't even use drugs

EreluRoz:
But I thought a woman is not supposed to like sex or be good in bed else she'll be tagged a LovePeddler?

I don't belong to that school of thought

EreluRoz:
A young man living a healthy life should not have problems lasting that long and even more. Don't project your vegetable prowess on others.

You're clearly living in fool's paradise and I know you'll soon come to terms with reality. Except with some practices that help to prolong ejaculation or with drugs, no man is designed to last as long as 30minutes at a go on a lady, it is biological fact!

Anashe:


Thinking you're far better than me is hilarious, isn't it? You're on a faceless forum but you've concluded you're better than me based on what?

You're right. Nairaland is such a leveler is why I have quit engaging with airheads like you because when it was raining brains, you clearly had an umbrella.

Mtchhhheeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwweweweeeewwwwwwwwww!
Dumb thing!

EreluRoz:
So they are free to sample around and come back to marry?

I'm not supporting sampling around o, but even if they stray, they'll definitely come back to you if you know how to handle them well in bed. Good sex has magical effect on men. Forget the fact that some men would deny it in public in order to be seen as holier than thou

dkidd:

Speak for urself and ur limp dick. U are not every man

This is what some of you say when confronted with the truth. You start claiming to be superpower in bed when in reality, you won't even last 5minutes.

Olboy, when I make a post here, I refer to what happens with the rest of humans. It is not about me! As a matter of fact, I'm stronger than you in bed. Not bragging but it is what it is

EreluRoz:
Forget story, they will still want to sample other ladies with the fantasies.

Even if they sample other ladies, they'll always come back to you and marry you.

EreluRoz:
And they can't do it naturally? Imagine a young man depending on drugs to satisfy a lady, it's a big tueinggg

Naturally, no man is designed to last as long as 30minutes! Forget the lies some guys tell! It is only with the use of drugs that guys can last that long. Even p0r.nstars use drugs to last long.

Anashe:


What are you saying? You're the one who is clearly delusional because you're not a woman but you think you can speak women. Your mom got married at 15, that is your problem. She was a child at 15 - she didn't have dreams of her own? Lol. And if you knew how to read, you'd have understood what I meant, instead of looking for who to transfer your frustration to. But I'll let you wallow in your bubble.

See a nitwit referring to someone far better than her as "frustrated". Nairaland is truly a leveler!

EreluRoz:
How many young men can even hold their erection that long . Men of these days are mostly vegetables, one minute men everywhere, that's the reason they are victims of the danger of sexual enhancement drugs. We are tired of reading their stories of how they died in hotels during sex. Young men tuehhhhhhh

They die trying to please your gender and you're tuehhhing

Collins4u1:
Mama cooked his way into Obi's heart.
In this life as a woman, know how to cook and guard your kitchen with all jealousy.

And how to nack! Some ladies don't know that they can actually hold a man spellbound with good sex. Just knowing a man's deepest sexual fantasies and capitalizing on them can get a guy hooked to a lady forever. But some ladies would be saying "no sex till marriage"

Obakoolex:
If Obi go ahead and marry that pregnant lady, he's the biggest fool of the century.

Why is he the biggest fool of the century? Ladies have been doing same thing to guys without anyone castigating them. Obi simply saw a better woman in Cici and decided to go for her. Cut him some slack!

eazzzy1:
Given women public utterances in support of such when the ‘victim’ is a guy, it’s difficult to be sympathetic when such things happen these days. If it was CiCi’s ex bf doing the ranting most women would have justified her betrayal. Our resident feminists have repeatedly told us no one owes anyone loyalty until marriage.

If you were in your friends situation you most likely would have done same. I guess Obinna can thank you for flying his soul mate to Port harcourt.

Exactly! Like the lady that thanked her ex husband for taking abroad where she met her soulmate.

If Obinna was the victim in this matter, nairaland pseudo feminists would have supported their gender.

drimzsmoke:



😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
Go through his posts, he is looking for a poverty alleviation scheme!!!

So because he's actively searching for job means that he's looking for poverty alleviation scheme But men would pick your gender up from the gutters, brush them up and marry them! Yet men cannot get similar consideration from well-to-do ladies! This is why I think that the idea of gender equality and women empowerment is useless to humanity and should be abolished asap.

Anashe:


Yeah. Color me surprised. A woman argues or speaks up for herself and others and she's automatically tagged a feminist. Lol

I've known that lady for quite a while here and she has always identified as a feminist. So, I didn't just start referring to her as a feminist based on her opinion on the topic of discuss.

Anashe:


It's because we're wiser and we know that we cannot be fully dependent on the examples of husbands and fathers we see today (examples are on Nairaland). We want our own bag, not having to depend on people who will use it as a means of abuse. We know that society isn't as kind to us as it is to men; even a failed marriage or the inability to bear offspring is blamed on us women. Lastly, the idea of marriage in Africa have little to no benefits for women, except the man they married is progressive. Marriage has been known to truncate our dreams, so no. We're only doing it when we're ready to, and because we want to, not because the society insists that we must. We saw the way our mothers and grandmothers were treated, not being able to speak up, and the pretense of being happily married, so we decided otherwise.

Speak for yourself and stop dragging all African women into your delusion.
Many of those our mothers you write about are/were happily married and couldn't wish for any other thing from the peaceful homes and lovely children they were able to raise. My mom for instance got married at 15, had all of us and my dad was able to train all of us up to the university level. Just about the time they were to start enjoying the fruit of their labor, my dad died leaving only mom to enjoy. Today, she goes from one location to another and enjoy the fruits of her labor. I'm very sure she doesn't regret marrying at the time she did.

kkins25:



I think life today is far, far better than life yesterday, and a billion times better than life 70 years ago.

Women have not been sitting at home, that's a new thing, or atleast, forced on other cultures by the Romans. Women have always been contributing members of the society, even aside child birth. Some tribes had warrior women, others, women were also farmer, textile "engineers," nurses and doctors, spiritual leaders, hunters, and so on.

The economy isn't tough, nor have women raised their standards. The issue here is, many men with a mobile device all want their women to be submissive Tacha.

There are thousands of women, literally thousands, who will date you. All you have to do is ask. But, all men are now gunning for the same small cohort of women, the slay queens. To get the slay queens, they need money. But, in an economy like naija, money no dey. So, men get frustrated---frustrated by their pursue of wild-sex life, imposed on them by only themselves.

Why aren't men going to pick the women doing night vigils looking for husband? Simple. They don't twerk on social media.

You must be living in fool's paradise for you not to realize that the majority of 'modern' ladies now set unrealistic standards of the the kind of men to marry. How convenient it is for you to blame men and accuse them of going for twerking ladies.

Try to approach those ladies in prayer houses disturbing God for husbands, maybe then you'll realize that their problem is not that suitors are not coming, but that the kind of men that meet their high unrealistic expectations are not coming for them.

Believe it or not, western civilization created a generation of greedy and insatiable women and that has put a strain on our traditional family system and created a chaos in romantic relationships between men and women.

Odidigboigbo:
Apologies in using the word pharmacist. Should I say medicine dealers?

They're called patent medicine dealers

Odidigboigbo:
90% of pharmacist in Nigeria are Igbos. Even 90% of pharmaceutical companies in Nigeria are own by Igbos ; hence the majority of counterfeit products can be found with them

Pharmacists are not involved in drug falsification! Most of the people faking drugs in Nigeria operate from the open drug markets and are mostly illiterates who never went to university let alone studying Pharmacy.

Pharmacists are under oath to do the right thing and ensure that patients get high quality medicines. Also, Pharmacists are always very careful because if caught in any compromising act, he's not only going to face prosecution by the laws but his license would be withdrawn! Every Pharmacist dreads having his license withdrawn because that would mean no more practice for him, a waste of his years in school and also a big dent on his reputation as a professional.

Biglittlelois:


So Nigerian women put a gun to the head of Nigerian men to meet up to expectations? Nigerian men, with all their egoistic display of always being logical, emotionally succumb to pressures from women and their demands, then kill, steal, and destroy to meet up? You're admitting that Nigerian men cannot think properly for themselves, and the only way they can have any form of achievement is if they satisfy women even if it resorts to crime? Nairaland and the kind of people you are made to chat with

Bride price that your ancestors gathered one blessed market day to decide how to fleece their fellow men, of which every ummuna agreed to, which has been passed down to generations, yet you're waiting for women to help you contribute 50%, as in you men are to lily livered to challenge and kick against the bride price culture, but you want women to do it for you? You then blame it on women education and employment? Women not kicking against or contributing 50% of bride price is the reason traditional family system is being destroyed?

Nairaland would make you question education, hell, you want it abolished so why am I not surprised.

Well, like I previously stated, I don't expect you to understand my point because as a feminist (pseudo feminist), you have conditioned your mind to argue selfishly once the argument is about the two genders.

1Sharon:


What is a traditional birth attendant? 🤔 I'll love to see their mortality rate.

Check it out on google.

Maysdevices:

I don’t really care for anything that divides Nigerians.

Call the criminals to order, do not generalize a whole tribe and make comments that incite tribalism or violence. We have criminals in every tribe doing all of sort of bullshit.. or you want to tell Tony Elumelu to pull UBA or Jim Ovia to pull out Zenith bank and go back to their states all because you can’t seem to understand that YOU DO NOT GENERALIZE A GROUP OF PEOPLE.

Do you know the economic consequences of what you’re saying? You want Lagos to turn to Ekiti? The politicians don’t and that is why they will ignore your unthinking self and still keep shining teeth with each other while you fight imaginary enemies

You are not Igbo by the way and neither am I

I'm Igbo but the attitude of my tribesmen towards therapeutic drugs is sickening! They believe that everything is "business". The illiterates don't even understand the dangers of selling fake drugs, yet they keep doing it.

1Sharon:


And when those men of Afghanistan want their babies to be delivered, who will do it since the women are all illiterates sitting at home and a man can't handle a woman in labour?

Stop comparing yourself to brute savages

They have traditional birth attendants

Maysdevices:
Seun

Why are you calling Seun Igbos are majorly the ones destroying Nigeria's therapeutic drug markets!
From bridge head markets to Sabongari market to Idumota market, most of the merchants of fake drugs are IGBOs. They're are also the ones fighting every government's policies to tackle this problem.

Mind you, I'm Igbo but the truth must be said if we must find a solution to this menace.

BareFacedLies:


Na wetin Nigerian men do you.

Jman06 is a small minded fellow and does not speak for us.

By the way I hope you're not a lesbian, it would be such a terrible waste

You're the one who's small-minded because you would rather pretend that all is well whilst our family system is getting decimated.

Yes, she is a feminist and a lesbian, so no chance of you getting laid by her, captain save a wh.0re!

Biglittlelois:



Oh so women are the cause of the death of traditional family and marriages, purely women, because we were empowered with education, so education should be withdrawn from us, that is the only way traditional marriages can thrive, only when women become illiterates

No wonder Nigerian men cannot produce anything, they cannot invent anything, they cannot even rule their country right, except to kill, kidnap, steal, yahoo, skull mining, cannibalism, cultism, corruption, fraud, and all sorts of evil vices, Nigerian men have spoilt our images abroad, you are not known for anything good outside this country except negativities, that is why in your own little 2 by 2 cubicle, you can spew all this nonsense and think you are making sense, western countries that are above you in every ramifications will never be caught saying utter rubbish like this and be proud of themselves, no wonder Africa is seen as a cesspit and a third world continent when the men ruling it are nothing to write home about with their sad little thought process

The world is failing, from Africa to the whole world, thanks to men and their bad decisions, yet what your limited brian could only think of is women education as the cause of men's inability to hold the home front as the captain of the ship by sailing it to the right direction for a productive end result,

The next generation of Nigerian men will be the undoing of this nation, which is a good thing anyway so that everyone will be accountable to their own region, which will make it easier to remove shafts from wheat.

If you could think properly for once, you'll realize that many Nigerian men are getting into crime nowadays in order to meet up with the expectation of their women. This is because the empowerment of the women folk reduced their chances at work places and also created a generation of women whose expectations from men are so high that only a few privileged men can meet up. This is one major reason why some guys now resort to crime in order to meet up.

Why can't Nigerian women kick against payment of bride price and also contribute 50% of the funds required to run their homes? If they cannot do the above, then their education and employment is of no benefit and would rather destroy the traditional family system. I don't expect you to understand the point I'm making though

I blame this on those saddled with the responsibility of regulating therapeutic drugs in this country. The laws are there and empower these government agencies viz NAFDAC, PCN etc to prosecute these unscrupulously evil traders who indulge in sales of fake and adulterated unwholesome drugs.

But these agencies are sleeping in offices and collecting salaries and allowances while the merchants of death operate freely and killing unsuspecting Nigerians.

PCN was actively involved in inspection and enforcement duties when the immediate past registrar was in office. But immediately this current Hausa man took over, the agency stopped working. All they now do is to go graduate 400 poorly trained Pharmacists in UNN alone ( even when other universities don't graduate that much). Pushing out many Pharmacists without securing their work environment!

I wish all the regulatory agencies concerned with regulation of therapeutic drugs can borrow a leaf from Buba Marwa's NDLEA.
Nigerians may not really know that the problem of fake and falsified medicine is on a very high level at this time. It is getting worse by the day and many people are dying as a result!