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Yaay! merci

sanb: Me too...

I nominate jnr prof!
https://www.nairaland.com/jnr%20prof

I really do hope that you're able to make the necessary changes. Remember, it starts with your mind so work on changing your mindset and add some discipline to it. Best wishes.

debayun: Case closed where were u since haha hv been waiting 4 u u jst gave me d best advice fnk u sir u must b God talkn to me in disguise

Mr OP, i'm still a virgin at 27 so there's no big deal. That's what you get for surrounding yourself with narrow minded people.

Secondly, you cannot claim to be a virgin if you go as far has making girls cum! who are u deceiving? The reason the gals think you're strange is because u go that far and leave business unfinished. There are no grey areas here: you are either having sex or not. You can't eat your cake and have it. So if you are serious about sticking to your decision, its high time to quit the hanky panky with dem gals, stop trying so hard to form bad guy just to blend with dem boys (thats soooo childish) and take responsibility for your actions like a real man does!

He's too busy with his PhD programme to come and see your mum, but he can create time to attend a wedding outside town.............that says a lot. Seeing your mum is not a priority for him, hence his lame excuse about forgetting that she was around. The issue with confronting him is that you may end up looking like a lady desperate for a husband. I'll say you should calm down a bit, be more observant and look for more subtle hints that could be the deciding factor as to whether he has serious plans for you or not.

Lets stop kidding ourselves here! For the vast majority, its all about the power. In a lawless country like ours, being in the military makes you 'untouchable'. You see military officers bullying their way everywhere, thus many people want to attain that level of power to drive against traffic and call the bluff of the Police, Road safety officer etc. In addition to that, the freebies that come with the job. If you're looking for for military men with passion, visit the USA or UK

20 gbosas to you for this! Very well said

OP, get a grip of yourself!!!!!the issue is that you're too self absorbed. See yourself as a 'normal' person and everything around you would seem normal. Several gals have had crushes on me, some were so obvious that others noticed but i didn't cos my mind wasn't focused on that and i didn't see myself as the finest guy alive.

From my understanding, the marriage institution is a blessed one (He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord). Not sure it has anything to do with whom you marry, but I've heard many guys give accounts of how things turned around for them for the better after they got married. Anything done that contravenes this sacred institution has serious repercussions.

I don't see anything wrong with the closeness you have with your friend. I'm sure she knew how tight u guys were before the marriage. I'll just ask you and your friend to check closely and ensure that you're not neglecting your wives in any way. As long as you give her attention when she needs it, or respond to her when she calls u, there's no problem. She's just jealous, let her get over it. Thankfully your best friend isn't female so there can't be any allegations of infidelity. I've been that close to a friend before and pple began to say all sorts, so i understand how it is. It takes someone having such a close friend that you can call a brother and would stand by you no matter what happens that'll understand. Maybe u should do as you have suggested: bring both families together for a meeting.

I think she should threaten to leave him, lets see if he'll beg her then or at least be apologetic. If he's not, abeg make she carry her load dey go. Courtesy is an attribute of a mature gentleman. If he's lacking in that area, then he's not worth being in a relationship with!

Yeah it looks weird, but there's nuffin wrong with it. As long as she gats no issues to being with a man she's taller than, nuttin do una

Off course I'd marry a virgin if i get one! Pls disregard any guy that tells u he can't marry one, he has his brain in between his legs

@Killz, spot on! there's much more to a woman than how bootyliscious she is

huh what nonsense!!! abeg discard the nuisance. U don't need any advise to do that.

Yinkwamo: Hi guys. I met this Lady during my Final year at the University and we have been dating for about eight months now. I am an Ex-Player who repented for Love and was moved by the ill-treatment she got from her first boyfriend after he dis-virgined her. Our relationship has been blossoming right from the very onset and so is our sex life until Last night when she asked us to abstain from sex for the next three years for just no reason. Every attempt made by me to convince her to weigh the pros and cons of her decision and possibly arrive at a compromise fell on deaf ears. I am a good looking, sexually active but very considerate guy. I love her so much and i have been faithful to her. Please advise me on how i should go about this without cheating on her with the numerous girls lurking around me because as it stands now, i am confused and heart-broken. N.B: Please forgive the error(s) made in the course of this write-up, thanks!

errrrm bros, my only advise is that you change the location of your thinking faculty from the middle of your legs back to your head where it truly belongs! Its obvious yu're quite shallow minded and the only thing you're enjoying is that relationship is sex. Its been said a million times: SEX IS NOT FOOD!!!!!!. U should be in control of ur intimate urges and not have those urges control you. That's what makes you a man, and not the number of girls you've slammed or the frequency of slamming

No way! that's simply callous. Only a guy who thinks with his balls and not his brain would do that

Only a shallow minded nuisance would do away with a girl he clicks with simply because she's not as busty as Pam Anderson. If the dude acts funny after meeting u, abeg let him take a hike. You're better off without him. I still don't understand why some ladies would bother themselves over such trivialities. In as much as you have a lot more to offer asides your bosoms, then you'll be fine.

HELL to tha NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You're the one in the relationship, not your friends so keep them out of it! They have no clue what went down with you and your ex. If it wasn't a serious issue, you won't have ended the relationship in the first place. So move on with your life already and make sure you don't mess this new girl up

thanks dear

adabeke12: We need more men like u... Smart bobo. It shall be well with u!

I can reason with him. I'm 27 and never been in a relationship (had attempts tho) and I'm considered abnormal. Just let him be, when he's ready and his heart clicks with the right gal, he'll settle down. He may just be like me: the more pressure u mount on me to get a girl, the more i run from them. It seems to many pple, having a girlfriend has just become a norm even though the relationship is leading nowhere. I made a decision never to enter a relationship if i know from start that I cant marry the girl. He might also be a coded dude (just like i am too), and is keeping his relationship affairs away from all prying eyes.

Your relationship should make you happy and not deprive you of happiness! If you have to compromise, than you are in prison an not in a relationship

Close friend of mine grew up in the barracks, Ikeja Cantonement to be precise. In his next life he would never smell a barracks again. According to him, it takes special grace for a barracks kid to come out good. He got exposed to sex at age 9, infact it was a free for all trade. Older gals despoiling younger boys under d staircase, and every other free space available. Thankfully, after a great deal of struggle, he's been able to overcome all the bad habits he imbibed from living in the barracks

i nominate myself!

I go sell that pikin into slavery!