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|Jokes Etc / Re: How To Say NO When Someone Wants To Borrow Money From You by jnrprof(m): 5:04pm On May 06, 2015|
You see how you have exposed yourself for blasting. what's cuz?? i believe the word is "because"
|Family / Re: How Can I Surprise My Wife And Show Her More Love? by jnrprof(m): 3:31pm On Apr 30, 2015|
You could order something online and have it delivered to her at work.
Likewise you may ask a friend/sibling who is available to help deliver it.
During your next visit, you can cook her lunch/dinner. Its not necessarily about how much you spend, but more about the thought behind it.
|Romance / Re: Is Anything Wrong With Dating A Girl Without Having Sex With Her? by jnrprof(m): 3:22pm On Apr 30, 2015|
The fact that you are in love and your desire to have sex with are mutually exclusive and have no correlation at all.
Virgin or not, she has decided not to have sex before marriage. Don't focus on what your friends are saying (everyone seems to have friends that think with their balls, rather than with their brains). I believe she made that stance known to you from the start, so why is it an issue now after 2 years?
I think i should ask you: why are you in a relationship with her? Do you really intend to marry her?
|Family / Re: In-laws Attack! by jnrprof(m): 10:55am On Apr 29, 2015|
I think you are the one who fails to see the issue here!!
Read the original post again. The trip was never in the plan, until the wife brought it up out of the blues. Obviously he made plans for the fees and basic living costs before getting the car. He owes nobody an explanation as to why he bought a second car, and you can't conclude he has priority issues considering the fact that visiting the wife's mother wasn't a need at that point. Are you sure you're not one of the in-laws? Cos you failed to address the attacks from the wife's brothers and focused only on the fact that he bought a new car.
|Jokes Etc / Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me And I Am Trying To Commit Suicide by jnrprof(m): 2:09pm On Apr 27, 2015|
Try coke and mentos. Thank me later
|Religion / Re: Should I Reduce My Age So I Can Go For NYSC? by jnrprof(m): 1:52pm On Apr 24, 2015|
Rather than being defensive, why not look at the bigger picture? the poster simply used that nysc as an illustration. The references he quoted speak against lying generally. Is it now wrong to preach against something wrong?
|Romance / Re: Millionaire Socialite Joro Olumofin, Shares 10 Tips On How To Get A Boyfriend by jnrprof(m): 1:29pm On Apr 24, 2015|
Spot on! Here's one very intelligent lady.....i love intelligent ladies
|Romance / Re: Am Scared! Can I Have Fun With Her by jnrprof(m): 4:09pm On Apr 23, 2015|
Run from fornication.....it always has consequences.
|Family / Re: Why Would A Man Insist On Not Having A Registry Wedding by jnrprof(m): 3:55pm On Apr 23, 2015|
Even a church wouldn't marry you without getting registry papers.
Without the official marriage certificate, what will the woman use as the basis for her change of name? What will she use to support her marital status when applying for a visa?
I suspect the man is already married legally to another woman, hence his hesitation to do the registry wedding. She should investigate his motives properly before entering one chance.
|Romance / Re: Dear Men, How Long Can An Average Man Go Without Sex? by jnrprof(m): 3:48pm On Apr 23, 2015|
I've held my peace for 29 years......kini big deal?
Man should control his organ, and not have his organ control him.
|Family / Re: Soon To Be Mother In Law Insists On Traditional Marriage!!! by jnrprof(m): 4:27pm On Apr 16, 2015|
Last time i checked, in yoruba culture its the bride's family that calls the shots for the wedding. Let your parents tell your MIL that the traditional wedding is taking place in London and that's that!
|Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Calls Me Uncle. by jnrprof(m): 10:09am On Apr 14, 2015|
Its not that serious joor!
When next she calls you uncle, call her aunty.
You can also tell her to call you daddy boo or uncle bae instead
|Romance / Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by jnrprof(m): 1:24pm On Mar 17, 2015|
I'm sure you heard sound advice previously about abstaining from sex, but you shunned the advice.
I'm sure you heard sound advice previously about using a condom if you couldn't abstain from sex, but you shunned that also.
Considering your previous notorious track record of shunning sound advice, why should we give you any now, and what's the guarantee that you won't do the exact opposite of what we advise?
|Romance / Re: I Lose Interest After Sex With Most Girls by jnrprof(m): 2:02pm On Feb 27, 2015|
You loose interest because you have objectified women as sex tools. You need to start looking beyond their physical appearance and get to know what's really on the inside. Sex clouds the mind, so learn to tame your 3rd leg and change your mindset. If you are out for a real relationship, then do away with sex and focus on other activities that would increase your bond with your woman of choice.
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Can Christian Attend Job Interviews Without Lying To His Boss by jnrprof(m): 11:18am On Feb 26, 2015|
I'll share my own experience.
When i was invited for a meeting for my present job, i was given the opportunity to choose the time i wanted to come. I chose to come by 8am. The company is in Victoria Island (Lagos), while the company i was in then was in Ikeja. Off course i didn't want to lie. So the next morning all i did was to send an sms to my manager that i was going to be late that morning because i had to handle something urgent. As God would have it, there were no questions raised as to what exactly i had to do. When such interviews come ones way, just pray for favour and direction, and you'll see that the whole thing goes smoothly without you having to lie at all
|Family / Re: Can I Marry My Brother's Wife Junior Sister ? by jnrprof(m): 5:09pm On Feb 25, 2015|
i personally don't see anything wrong...we have a few cases of twin brothers marrying twin sisters
|Romance / Re: Why Are Men Too Attracted To The "Physical" by jnrprof(m): 4:24pm On Feb 25, 2015|
I guess its the same for ladies who are moved by what they hear. They can fall for a haggard looking tout, or woman beater as long as he uses the mushy romantic words on them.
Men like what they see. Tho i'm moved more by her intelligence and sense of humour. But off course, na d good looks go make me discover her intelligence and humour
|Romance / Re: Guys Can You Date And Marry A Lady 10 Years Older Than You by jnrprof(m): 4:20pm On Feb 25, 2015|
Heck no! make i come dey call my wife aunty boo or sister bae? ko joor
|Romance / Re: I'm Attracted To My Friend's Wife...what Do I Do? by jnrprof(m): 4:15pm On Feb 25, 2015|
As its been said before, avoid going to their home for as long as you can, likewise any occasion where she will be. That would also mean telling your friend that you will no longer serve as his alibi to steal him out of his house.
Are you in any relationship? Maybe you just need someone to channel your affection towards.
|Romance / Re: What Do Women Want From Men In A Relationship? by jnrprof(m): 2:45pm On Feb 25, 2015|
Women...do they really know what they want? even when you fit into the list they have drawn, they still expect more. HIAN!!!
|Romance / Re: Which One Do U Prefer In A relationship by jnrprof(m): 2:41pm On Feb 25, 2015|
chats...bbm/whatsapp. enables me do multiple things, rather than focusing all d time on the phonecall, especially when i have many things to do. Also, we can also chat the entire day without having to end the conversation till we're about going to bed at night
|Romance / Re: He Is 30 But Doesn't Have A Girlfriend by jnrprof(m): 2:33pm On Feb 25, 2015|
Oh Please!!!! Is having a gf an assurance of eternal life? Is it the ticket to heaven? Or would it guarantee his name entering the forbes billionaire list? If the answers to these questions are no, then free the brother abeg! Not all guys make a fuss about chasing girls. When he is ready to settle, he will settle. At least he didn't say he has issues meeting with girls.
Na so dem harass my life untop gf matter....didnt start a serious one myself till last year at age 28.
|Romance / Re: RE: What Do Boys Gain In A Relationship Without Sex? by jnrprof(m): 11:03am On Feb 12, 2015|
Oh puhlease!!!! any guy that becomes a girls mugu chose to become one. The only guys that become mugus are those whose brains turn into pap because they have "fallen in love". Being in love and being stupid are two different things! There is no correlation between being in a sexless relationship (which is the original design both culturally and based on religion) and being mugu. Excluding sex from the relationship actually enables the parties involved to truely get to know each other. Sex actually clouds ones better judgement, and you're able to put more conscious effort into working on the relationship when sex is not involved.
Please lets stop making excuses for our lack of self discipline.
|Romance / Re: RE: What Do Boys Gain In A Relationship Without Sex? by jnrprof(m): 3:38pm On Feb 11, 2015|
Great post! at least a few nairalanders have their brain up in their heads.
Now i await the comments from those whose brains are somewhere between their legs
|Romance / Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by jnrprof(m): 2:46pm On Feb 10, 2015|
Too many woman wrappers in this world!Na dem dey make women feel like sey na dem control the world *scoffs*. Women will always have an endless list. No matter how wonderful the man is, they will still want something extra (Oliver Twists), whereas you hardly see lists of what guys want. Guys are very simple and go with the flow, women are just too frigging complicated!
|Nairaland / General / Re: Should I Pack Out Or Remain In My Father's House? by jnrprof(m): 12:22pm On Feb 06, 2015|
@32, its totally your call to move out of your dad's house. As a man who's doing well financially, its not even expected that you'll still be in your father's house at this age. So if you feel moving out will give you the space you need to get certain things done, by all means, find your way out.
Btw, based on your dad's expectations from you, are you supposed to get married and brig your wife to live with you in the family house?
|Religion / Re: As A Christian, Going To Church Is Not Important At All by jnrprof(m): 9:58am On Feb 04, 2015|
Bros, abeg na devil send you on errand? why try so hard to dissuade us from going to church? na by force? oya, we say we no go stop attending church because we know the value we get from it, so go knack head for wall
|Religion / Re: Living Faith Envious Of Redeem Church by jnrprof(m): 6:10pm On Feb 03, 2015|
Common!!!! Every individual has a right to support whoever he wants to. Oyedepo is under no compulsion to support Buhari simply becos his running mate is a pastor. Heck, many RCCG members will still vote for GEJ
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|Religion / Re: As A Christian, Going To Church Is Not Important At All by jnrprof(m): 6:07pm On Feb 03, 2015|
OP, every true Christian understands that going to church is not for its economic value. If you don't go to church, that's fine but don't try to dissuade those of us who value its importance. I for one can't take for granted the role my church brethren played in my life during a difficult period. The words of encouragement, sermons and prayers really helped me to hold on and built up my faith. When my story changed and i shared my testimony, they rejoiced even more than me and. A friend in church even told me that my testimony had increased his own faith as he was waiting on God for his own miracle. Now that's one reason why church is important!
|Religion / Re: As A Christian, Going To Church Is Not Important At All by jnrprof(m): 5:25pm On Feb 02, 2015|
Read your Bible again.....its instructed that we should not neglect the fellowship of the brethren! So no matter how much you think you know, fellowshiping with other Christians is still very important.
|Romance / Re: Honestly She Is Becoming *over Posessive!! by jnrprof(m): 4:10pm On Nov 14, 2014|
This guy babe na real kolomental case o.
Lemme consult the oracle, i shall be back with the advice from the gods
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