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Romance › Re: Strong Advice And Counselling Needed by Jodha(f): 8:03am On Dec 10, 2020
FahBuLous:
what kind of business would u suggest?
Yhu have to sit down.... observe yhur environment....think outside the box and know the kind of business that'll flourish there.. based of the kind of prospective clients available to patronise yhu...
Romance › Re: Igbo Guys Why Do Yhu Call Yhur Girlfriends "Mummy" by Jodha(op): 8:01am On Dec 10, 2020
DMerciful:
As if you'd tell us otherwise. Calling you mummy is a pet name and a nice one at dat
I might not but I wouldn't deny it....if it were true...
Romance › Re: Igbo Guys Why Do Yhu Call Yhur Girlfriends "Mummy" by Jodha(op): 8:00am On Dec 10, 2020
Lekan1o1:
But u presented the topic like u don't actually like the mommy he calls u..
Smh
It sounds weird that's all...
Romance › Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Jodha(f):
odinson1:
You ladies never disappoint!



@Op Pls I will advice you not to Ever Take Relationship Advice from women because the don't really care about you bro,They are only interested in what will benefit Their Fellow woman so they will give you any advice that suits their Selfish narrative,so long as it Is in favour of A woman.

Now bro Pls Don't make the mistake of Marrying or Impregnating that girl because she will become a burden to you in the future if you are not Financially stable yet! Leave relationships now, pursue your dreams,make money first because a woman will only slow you down(The only exception here is if she Is an Independent working class lady who doesn't make Stupid and Unnecessary demands)
Yhu didn't even read the post...smh
Romance › Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Jodha(f): 11:26pm On Dec 09, 2020
Nazgul:
Lol...that's exactly what I said in my first post. You obviously didn't read it.
Yhu said marry her and get her pregnant..

I'm saying it's not necessary for her to get pregnant....at least not until he's back...he can pay her brides price and travel
Romance › Re: Am I Addicted To My Oga's Daughter? by Jodha(f): 11:25pm On Dec 09, 2020
It's like yhure ready to loose yhur job....yhu better focus on the work yhure paid to do..and avoid that girl..
Romance › Re: This Is Why All Women Deserve To Be Worshipped by Jodha(f): 11:23pm On Dec 09, 2020
May God heal y'all of yhur bitterness... cause this ain't normal...
Romance › Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Jodha(f): 11:21pm On Dec 09, 2020
Nazgul:
She supported and contributed greatly his journey to Scotland according to the op, it's not like he just woke up one morning and decided to leave the country.

He can be supporting her financially, and maintain constant communication with her pending when she'll join him over there.

As for her career, she can apply for maternity leave in her place of work, and look for a family relative who can help with the domestic work in the house while she weans the baby.

In less than 2 years, she'll be reunited with him... and they can both live happily ever.
Just marrying her will equally do the trick don't yhu think so?
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Guy For The First Time? by Jodha(f): 11:19pm On Dec 09, 2020
collinsuchendu:
grin .. and initiating 2k the first time is called?
Please I'm not one of those... hungry jobless girls...
Romance › Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Jodha(f): 11:11pm On Dec 09, 2020
Nazgul:
She will be married to him, or has it become a crime for a married woman to get pregnant?
She's also working and pursuing her career....how do yhu expect her to leave all that and single handedly take care of a baby in the absence of it's father..
Romance › Re: Guys, What About A Lady Attract You? by Jodha(f): 11:09pm On Dec 09, 2020
odinson1:
And of course he should be rich Too because Security (which includes Resources like Assets and money) is the only reason you Nigerian ladies go Into relationships

"My money is my money,his money is our money"

How can one be so lazy,selfish and greedy all at the same timehuh But don't worry though, Shiloh 2030 got you covered
See I don't want to insult yhu...but please don't ever move mad in my mentions again....

Take yhur mental instability elsewhere...
Romance › Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Jodha(f): 11:07pm On Dec 09, 2020
Nazgul:
It's not easy to get a girl who will sacrifice so much for you. If he looses her, he might not find someone of her caliber.

My advice? Tell him to marry her, impregnate her, then move to Scotland. Within the 9 months of the pregnancy and the 16 months of weaning the child, (which should make it over two years in total) he should be able to get her to join him in Scotland. That way he can be rest assured that she wouldn't be cheat cos she would be very busy taking care of their child.
Impregnate her because she doesn't have plans for herself ??
Romance › Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Jodha(f):
Her type is rare o...if yhur cousin faqks this up... that's he's loss seriously...

To avoid stories that touch... I'll advice him to do the needful by paying her brideprice... nothing elaborate but just to mark his territory....

So that when he comes back...the full wedding procedures may commence..

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Romance › Re: Reasons Why Women Expose Dia Bodies On Smedia. by Jodha(f): 11:01pm On Dec 09, 2020
Who wan read this epistle?


The main reason ladies exposé their bodies on social media is... loneliness...I want to feel among...low self esteem/inferiority complex..lack of self worth etc..
Romance › Re: Have you Ever Been Rejected Because Of Where you're From? by Jodha(f): 10:59pm On Dec 09, 2020
collinsuchendu:
grin But are you not guilty of that?
Not really...

Romance › Re: Imagine Studying Breast As A Course In University. by Jodha(f): 10:58pm On Dec 09, 2020
tnerro1:
I swear if I fail, make I repeat 2 times

Romance › Re: Guys, What About A Lady Attract You? by Jodha(f): 10:32pm On Dec 09, 2020
Uzomacharles:
Perceiving Something....

Me I like curve ooo and breast ooo...
I respect slim girls not lekpa ooo..
They turn me on easily...
What's the difference between a slim girl and lekpa?
Romance › Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Jodha(f): 10:15pm On Dec 09, 2020
collinsuchendu:
shocked it's obvious the poor dude heading to oblivion..
Meaninghuh
Romance › Re: What Are You Words You Dont Want To hear This December and in the next year? by Jodha(f): 10:14pm On Dec 09, 2020
GreatAchiever1:
New year, new me...
Time to cut fake friends.
undecided undecided
Wahala for yhu o.

Because new year new me..

And I'll surely be cutting off fake friends cool
Romance › Re: Imagine Studying Breast As A Course In University. by Jodha(f): 10:08pm On Dec 09, 2020
Many people will still fail the course...
Romance › Re: Nigerians React As Man Marries Lady He Met On Twitter (photos) by Jodha(f): 10:06pm On Dec 09, 2020
This would be rare in a forum like nairaland filled with misogynistic crooners ... that are always in a bid to form woke..
Romance › Re: Guys Listen And Listen Good, Itz Not Every Pussy You F***k by Jodha(f): 10:04pm On Dec 09, 2020
Conclusion: just wait till marriage...stop fornication..
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Guy For The First Time? by Jodha(f): 10:03pm On Dec 09, 2020
If he talks about himself too much.....and general talks too much...

Initiating sex the first time is a very big red flag...
Romance › Re: My Husband Doesnt Spend Money On Me And Wont Show Me What He Spends On by Jodha(f): 10:01pm On Dec 09, 2020
Yhur write up is too long and confusing...


But if he's not spending on yhu as a wife....talk to him...
From the onset yhu should have been meticulous about knowing everything about his income and how he spends every dime...

I know everything about my bf income...I always advice him on usage because I know he's a reckless spender..
Take charge sis..
Romance › Re: Guys, What About A Lady Attract You? by Jodha(f):
If I was a guy.... I'll be attracted to a tall lady with ass...either dark or fair....she should be really smart... simple and well behaved.... that's the kind of lady I'll want for my brothers...

For the guys
..
I'll want a tall dark guy with cute smile....and attractive lips... He should be humble...God fearing..a man of little words... straight forward etc

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Romance › Re: Have you Ever Been Rejected Because Of Where you're From? by Jodha(f): 9:52pm On Dec 09, 2020
Rejected is a strong word..


But some guys have been skeptical because they feel ladies from where I'm from....do away with men anyhow...
Romance › Re: How I Changed It For A Slay Queen That Thought I Wanted To Toast Her. ( Pics) by Jodha(f): 9:50pm On Dec 09, 2020
That lass has strength to be exchanging words with yhu....yhu deserve to be blocked..
Romance › Re: How I Changed It For A Slay Queen That Thought I Wanted To Toast Her. ( Pics) by Jodha(f): 9:50pm On Dec 09, 2020
greymiles:
Mr Lawyer from the East well done
Because of hundred naira transport now, she should be running heads over heels around u

Mumu
Person wey dey ment
Romance › Re: Strong Advice And Counselling Needed by Jodha(f): 9:46pm On Dec 09, 2020
Look a job...no matter how small....work for about 6months-1year... Save up yhur salary...then start a business
Romance › Re: Ladies, Things That You Hate Seeing At A Guy's Place When You Visit? by Jodha(f): 9:21pm On Dec 09, 2020
Evolutionlove:
Lol Jodha see attack from left and right, gbas gbos. An average Nigerian male/female are lousy extrovert. A lot of Men won't buy Into that Idea of yours and the funny thing Is that's exactly what I like and what I am. Although I'm an Ambivert but Crowded place or group of people drains my energy a lot. I will only endure If It's beneficial and purposeful......
My dear...attacks left and right for expressing my own views...I was even banned because of this...

My dear ...I hate crowded places AHH...I generally loathe going out... unless it's really important..
Romance › Re: Ladies, Things That You Hate Seeing At A Guy's Place When You Visit? by Jodha(f): 9:17pm On Dec 09, 2020
Brian47:
what do you mean by "Boundaries" can you explain more.
Boundaries as in the definition of the word...
Romance › Re: Ladies, Things That You Hate Seeing At A Guy's Place When You Visit? by Jodha(f): 9:16pm On Dec 09, 2020
galaxy2020:
...yeah, you can be in talking terms with all your neighbors and still some boundaries.
Exactly my point...

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