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mrbenjame:
I’d be short. Me sef no get time to type plenty.

I’ve been so disappointed in myself lately.

I’m in my early 30s. But I’ve come to find out that I usually back out from any sweet girl I approach and make as a friend.

The funniest thing is that I would be very committed till she falls for me. But when she starts I’d feel no vibes anymore. Even when nothing intimate has happened between us. Please who experiences this same thing.

I think I need a therapist. Or is it normal? Please help a brother. I know I’d be criticized but let me condemn myself first before you do. Please I need help.

NOwazobia:
I love the kind of atheist we have in Nigeria. They are always forming woke and educated, but in reality their life is no better than the average so called religious/superstitious man. Many of them can only feed off crimes and they are very familiar with such words as schizophrenia, illusion, dellusion and many others coined by foreign psychologist just to please their inexperience/doubts, massage their dillapilated ego, and to keep them in the dark. You can even see some of them asking foolish questions like 'why only africa?', you can see the level of the acclaimed exposure.
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They don't even live an enviable life that could attract others to their so called education, as such could not be found in them. With all their life of education and enlightenment they claimed, they are still yet to invent or fabricate something out for society advancement.
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When you look carefully into many of the people adding value to themselves and society, they are mostly religious people that they so much abuse.
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Spits

Guestlander:
I will give you 250000 Naira if you can provide a verifiable evidence here on Nairaland. I will send the money to Seun and everyone will agree this is not a hoax.
Hallucinations cannot be accepted as evidence o.

johnmartus:
Trust me he can't do anything. I have experienced this like 3 times. The first person was my dad Although I'm still small like 16 years then. He was hospitalized and mom was with him there meanwhile it was only me and my sister was at home taken care home .

That day he was gave up the ghost me and my sister went to school, when we came back home the door we closed was opened and my sis asked me why I didn't close door in the morning I told her that I did she said she was surprised too because she saw me when I was locking up the door.

Well I entered and I saw my dad sat down on the chair I was so happy that he has came back from hospital Meanwhile my sister was still outside talking to her friend.
Then I went straight to my room off my clothe and I came back from room to sitting room played with dad and he asked where is my sister told him she was outside two minutes later my sister came in and she joyfully greeted him he was talking to my sister that she mustn't being talking to a friend in halfway while coming from school.

he asked us what we are going to eat and my sister there is a food inside freezer and we will microwave it. And he asked me I told him bluntly that I want chicken mr Biggist was still popular then.
Then he gave money to my sister and she went to buy it and me and dad watching movies at sitting room. It got to a stage he told me that he need some rest and he entered his room when I still sat at sitting room waiting for my sister.

Few minutes later she came home and we are eating she asked about dad I told her he was sleeping she said she going to woke him and I told him to leave him so he can rest very well.

Meanwhile we asked about mon but he couldn't really give much details whereabouts he only told us she is coming that she stopped to greet her friends when they are coming home.
Just a few minutes we finished eaten my uncle drove entered the compound which is unusual be he does packed outside ...And he came Although my sister asked him why his eyes was so red was it angry? And he said no that hope we are okay.

Well I told him that dad was at home sleeping Meanwhile they have told uncle that dad has gave up the ghost so he came to evacuate us to his house. But he was surprised that we told him dad is around relaxing . He asked us since when and we told him we met him at home and left seating room when my sister went to buy food that we are eating Because my sister hasn't finished her meal.

My uncle was socked and he went to the room he didn't see anything he came to meet us that we are going to his house we asked why Because we can't leave dad alone in the house and moreover mom is on her way coming.

The man said he will bring us back home Because he has surprised for us. We didn't bring anything when our uncle drove out of the compound he said he forgotten something inside that we should wait for him .Meanwhile he just used that to discharged us so he can lock up the door Because he don't want us to know that he wanted to padlock the door Because he knows we will ask him why is locking door that our dad still inside.

On our way to his house he stopped at supermarket he asked us to buy anything we want he toothpaste and brush he asked what kind of cream and soap we are using we told him.

We proceed our journey we stopped at boutique and we bought clothes and shoes sandals. My sister asked him uncle why are you doing this he didn't offer a word well we are like whatever.

When we got home he called my sister and told her I know you are more wiser than your brother and she should listen to him very well that we are going staying with him for some months. My sister asked why he said he lost his brother my sister asked him which of your brother he said your dad .my sister said hell no that he is at home sleeping. My sister walked away and came to meet me and explained to me I just told him we should go back home and we mustn't take anything along with what he bought for us. That the man is trying to kill our dad.

We call him he didn't answer us and we went to tell him that he should go and drop us at home. Unfortunately the man was crying bitterly even as little as am I then I was touched and we cried together he explained everything to us. And mom phone him and he ordered him to give my sister phone it was when my mom told us we belive that we shouldn't go back home that she will come and pick us.

The irony of this story is that ghost is real I mean very real its not a superstition Although it will look like one to you except you experience it.

Enudapan:
Nah eh! No qualms
This is so unsophisticated

In every atom of rumor lies a truth



It can only simply means that I hang out too much with girls, or behave like a girl
Hence an atom of truth concerning girls must be found in the so called rumor (although the main gist might be a lie buh it must be opposite or directly related to the truth)

konfusedgee:
so Im kind of confused on what to do about a particular colleague of mine in the office,, I just hope my boss who's a nairalander won't see this post

so in a office of four,,
there's this particular girl who gives me greenlight but I didn't really take her serious,,didnt believe,,, I'm like she's just trying to pull my legs,,, you know girls, once you take them serious they start shakara

I noticed when I try to touch her, she's receptive to my touch, but then she immediately resists me in a not so serious way,, I make sure she catches me staring at her lips, ass,,boobs and body, once caught me trying to look under her skirt,, covers up,,,only to later let me have a peek ,, I try to touch her bum sometimes but codedly, she just ask if I can ever keep my hands to myself

thing is I don't talk or chat dirty or romantically to her at all,, just work stuff and we just laugh dats all...

I feel I should do something about it,
make I close eye run this babe or make I just end this and stop playing with this girl and go back to my serious ways, cos when I dey work to touch dis girl body dey hungry me die

Enudapan:
Nah eh! No qualms This is so unsophisticated
In every atom of rumor lies a truth

loosennike:
No smoke without fire.. all rumors have an element of truth in it

Beckysexy:
Awwwnn Happy birthday But God When?

Telegram234:
beautiful. I like her style. na others like her type dey drink sniper.... she accepted her fate... All praises to God.... Happy birthday..

Exodora:
Both of them look familiar to me too.

ijewejones:
Mere looking @ the plate used in covering the food eeh


I even pity the complainant.. In short somebody should call Nairaland pastor to tell us what the Bible says

righteousness89: