Calibrator:
Doubt if they will be expending same energy if the guy is not well to do.


I know his type.

we use the same energy for all family members even extended families. we dont behave like you people.

Jesus said the man left 99 sheep to go look for just 1

Calibrator:
I said what I said.


This mentality is always fronted by the less privileged and entitled peeps in every family.


If you are doing well for yourself, life na per head. Nobody should leech on another.



Face your immediate family and let communication amongst siblings be strictly about courtesy not billings as if the elder bro is in charge of the family trust fund


As the first son of the family who is forging ahead without any past or present assistance, just sheer individual willpower, I know first hand how people like OP reason, I also followed the initial thread page to page that year.


Nonsense and entitlement!

people like you are the problem we have in this part of the world. you just open your mouth and vomit rubbish without reading the post

Calibrator:
Entitlement attitude is a progress blocker..... Doubt if you will notice your brother's cold shoulder if you are doing well yourself.


I don't blame him for cutting off dead weights.

did you ever read the post before making your useless post. who is talking about entitlement here. for your information all of are doing well in our various field and nobody is asking him for money. all we were looking for was the love we all shared as a family.

read the initial post, i have 10 people am feeding to the Glory of God.

why did he come back to us if he fills we are pestering him

Karleb:


You are a fool!

keep exposing yourself

Mariangeles:


When I read comments such as this one, it shows me how much I'm blessed.
I can't help but be grateful for the kind of family that I have.

Truly, some of us don't even realize how blessed we are until we read/hear the story of others.

some people dont know the joy in a happy family. some pray for the downfall of others because of the katakata in their own

Karleb:
Everything is no about money but money also matters tho.

Don't be ashamed to admit that.

one day your money will disappoint you.

Lalasticlala, myd44, seun you can move to front page for update as the thread made front page then

https://www.nairaland.com/5494102/rich-brother-does-not-care

Hello house, i opened the above thread some time ago about my elder brother attitude towards us his sibling. am here to give update.

my brother has gradually changed, he can now pick our calls and we have some discussion unlike before. He now calls to check up on us when there are issues in our places of residence. He has even joined our family whatsapp group and he participate actively.

i want to appreciate all who gave meaning advice during that discussion. money is good but everything is not all about money. most times what family members needs is love and care. I love a happy family and its wonderful to see family that live in peace.

i want to thank Madridguy, your post then really gave me hope that families with similar issues can be restored.

my advice to those who feel they can do without their family is remember God blessed you not because you are the smartest but by his grace. we dont have much time to stay here on earth so lets love and cherish one another.


NB nobody was asking him for money for people shouting entitlement this entitlement that. we are all doing well and we wanted our brother back. now that he is back everybody is happy and the family is moving fine.

No more false subsidy claims

MedicH:
if i were you and i have the luxury of time i would allow her pick all she want but when it comes to payment i will gladly object with a smile. i do that a lot to a lot of worthless girls i meet. Most of my meet-ups are during lunch hour so one day i was eating in crunches and this girl i was talking with while eating, i just gave her the water i bought for myself, she wanted to use my card and buy ice-cream and meat pie i objected with a smile and she walked out of the date. She didn't understand the degree of fvck that i don't give.

Exactly the point. Entitled ladies

ChybuzzDD:


But she hadn't asked you to pay yet. Who knows if she actually wanted to pay by herself? The human mind can be unpredictable.
You should have patiently waited to see how it would pan out.

My dear I cannot because of girl swallow thick saliva

Coborona:


I was expecting something better than this

Entitled man?

Come on... It's the other way round

I'm not disputing that there are entitled men..

But more women act entitled

Right from dating... Most Naija ladies to be specific start asking for money to fix hair, to buy phone...
Money that they can't ask their fathers
They were not there when he was hustling, just toasting a Naija babe alone. She starts feeling entitled... I need money for subscription....I want to fix this.... If you shut her down... She starts giving you attitude

I laff is this is the best counter thread y'all can come up with, this thread is a failure at best, like shooting yourself in the leg or scoring an own goal

Dead on arrival

Spits*

I support you......see my experience here

https://www.nairaland.com/5793003/experience-lady-met

I will try and make it brief.

I met a lady on Tuesday 2 weeks before the lockdown in an office. We exchanged pleasantries and she gave me her number. I called her later in the evening to check up on her.

On Saturday that same week, I put a call to her around 7am to find out if we can meet later in the day, She agreed. Around 4pm I called again but she said she is tired and needed to rest. She advised me to do like. I agreed and told her am going to shoprite to pick one or two things before going home but to my surprise she said ok can I meet you there?...

For 2 seconds I was shocked and asked her to come. trust me I know what I was doing. While at shoprite I dodged her calls and called her when I was on my way home.

I thought she has given up but she said she will wait for me at one junction. Again i agreed but on getting there I met her at one boutique. She said want to pick up some clothes from there. I said to myself can you imagine this girl. I told her to go on and select while I wait outside. After awhile I told her am going and I entered my car and zoom off.

Did I do anything wrong as some people said I was wicked.

As a Christian I have seen the great effect of the two. But which one has more effect on churches

This is why history should be reintroduced into the school curriculum

What do we do now?

I cried reading this post. We have lost it as a nation. Nobody cares for anybody again.

Our police and hospital are not helping at all. God created us to live in love.

The aftermath of helping people in need is what scares people away.

madridguy:
First, May God bless you brother for saving this woman. You have made a huge sacrifice and only God can reward you for.

I can relate with your story brother because I've been in your shoe before both in Lagos and Ogun state respectively.

As my late father used to say, " It can happen to anybody " i used to wonder how people feel bringing out phone recording people in need of help? What do they do with the videos, share on their status or page for worthless likes and comments?

As for the doctors, i don't blame them since majority of them are heartless and wicked. They derive joy in seeing dead people since our government won't question them.

I could remember how God Almighty used me to rescued a woman like that and only for the doctor and the nurses to be abusing me, calling me bad man that i want the woman to die so i can quickly marry another woman. For their mind they think she's my wife, this is a person i don't even know her name. I lied to them that i was away for work when they called me so i have to quickly rush home, one nurse with razor blade mouth still said because am not a caring man reason i did not know my wife is sick....felt like slapping her but i knew if i ever mention that she's a stranger they won't attend to her again so i have to play along for the sake of the woman.

After every every, she was stabilize and she asked what am i doing here, the nurse with her told her your husband brought you here bla bla bla the woman said am a single mother and please let me see the man. Na so dem know, the woman call her children and friends when dey arrive am about going when the doctor called me inside her office and asked me if i know the risk and repercausion of what i did? She asked me what if the woman die? I just told her, what happened to her could happen to anyone and i left.
The risk i have took for total strangers alone, at times when i remember i just shake head for myself.

Again, OP, you deserved the Nairaland BEST MAN OF THE YEAR award.

My brother you are a wonderful person,full of wisdom. Your father must be a great man. I follow your comments and how you talk about your father. I will like to meet you.

This thread will be taken down soon

From prison to......

This format still dey

psychologist:
0 and 1 which one comes first in number scale?

0 comes first and so whats your point.

Which of the 2 is more important in the Christian world.

Can someone explain with reasons

Dantedasz:


Sex is NOT meant to be enjoyed. Sex is for procreation only.
Be fruitful and multiply. Did you see any admonition of pleasure in that statement. Just a "wham,bam thank you,ma'am" routine.
And make sure you pray before the act begins. It should be over in a minute.

How can you say it's for procreation alone. Why did paul tell couples not to deny each other except when they want to pray

Lalasticla

Hello nairaland, it's that time of year when the traffic toward south is high. Most people travel to see loved ones they have not seen in years while some travel to show off others travel to look for life partners. In all these there are dangers on the road ranging from kidnapping to armed robbery attack .

An uncle called me this afternoon to be careful on the road as bad boys have besieged the major road leading to South especially Abuja-okene-lokoja-onitsha road.

Fellow NL please let's share update to help people travelling to stay safe and avoid danger spots.

Cc : Lalasticla
Seun

Lies...... bloggers ssss

Lies

Love is sweet

johnmba:
I was applying for visa and I got the mail below

Dear U.S. Visa Applicant,

Thank you for contacting the U.S. Visa Service Desk. We would like to inform you that, we are unable to view the passport copy you’ve uploaded / does not match the profile you want to duplicate.

We request you please upload the correct passport copy.



Thank you,
The U.S. Visa Service Desk

Somebody help me. How do I resolve this issue. During the process of scheduling for interview I got a message that I have existing profile. Now I received this email after scheduling. Pls what do I do

I was applying for visa and I got the mail below

Dear U.S. Visa Applicant,

Thank you for contacting the U.S. Visa Service Desk. We would like to inform you that, we are unable to view the passport copy you’ve uploaded / does not match the profile you want to duplicate.

We request you please upload the correct passport copy.



Thank you,
The U.S. Visa Service Desk