₦airaland Forum

oldienavie:
So I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and she is perfect, actually she is a virgin, well behaved and very respectful. The relationship is going very fine but I am starting to really think deeply and I may just break up.
Why ? I have lived abroad for a while and do have a very serious phobia for travelling on Nigerian roads, her parents are a journey of 4 hours from where I am and I understand the area is rife with kidnapping and robbery of all sorts.

I find myself obsessing over having to make that trip to her parents place and also have my family embark on that journey and I always shudder at the thought of it.

I am seriously considering breaking up with her and looking for a lady whoose parents are here in the same city I reside, cos one of the things that gives me serious head ache is travelling on Nigerian roads.

Since I got back to Nigeria I have not travelled outside of the city that I am and it is because of how serious that phobia is.

But how do I tell her I am breaking up with her for this reason, it sounds very trivial but its a serious issue for me.

you are nothing but childidish and unserious boy! let me talk to you like that.

funshint:
It's not the amount of oil that makes a great Nation....may we not have a President like Buhari and Obasanjo again....never again!

Amen with also useless governor's of that Elra

TheSourcerer:
YWH hasn't guarded anything since the beginning on mans walk on earth .have a great morning

morning too, yes you may be right from your angle but the fact remain that, with this I tried to state here, Yahweh will speak to you through professy, so he has automatically speak to you.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Something happened to me on Sunday that made me wonder what people would have been writing if I had died.
Went to cute my hair and even tinted it pink. I'm not the going out type i love my sleep on Sundays. But then i got someone who could cut, curl and tint it for me that Sunday and then i said let me do it since other days of the week are work days.
I didn't drive cos left my car at the mechanic on Saturday.
Now on my way back after making this beautiful hair and I loved the new look. I took Keke to and on my was and impatient driver hit us off the road and i fell out as the driver was struggling with the streering so that we don't tumble.
The luck we had is that the Keke man wasn't on speed and he was not also in the middle of the road if not an oncoming car may have smashed me when I fell
The crazy past of it is thean that hit us didn't stop.
I had bruises all over my body and while everyone was cursingthe mad driver, i was speechless. Many people tell like that and died.
If I had died, maybe the story would have been that my Yahoo boyfriend dumped me by the road side, of that i went to do ashawo and was killed in a hotel and later dumped by the road side.
Or if they never got to see my body, the story might be that i ran off with a man. Some people who know me well may even say it's her sugar Daddy that got her the car she's been driving and maybe his wife heard it and sent people to kill her.
And then i realized that the dead doesn't hear all these lies that fly about because they are dead. It's the living the cook up stories about a dead they know not jow it occured. Even those who witness and know how it occured may decide to add their own sugar or change the whole narrative.
May her soul rest in peace.

just listen to your self, you went and tint your hair, yes we will say that because of your indecent look! and for your Keke case, people are still around that will tetified what happened at that moment.i will tell you point blank that your right up here show that you are one of those girls! sorry if I say that.

TheSourcerer:
how do you know though ?
She could have been randomly selected and killed by a serial killer, stalked , ambushed or used for ritual , not nessesesarily her boyfriend doing yahoo.....

if you mind placeses you are going and you refuse to let things of the world to entise you, and always go close to Yahweh your Maker, even when Yahweh has bless you, learn how to pretend as if you don't have even when you have in abodant. such incedent will abide from us. Yahweh will guard us.

DontBullshitMe:
Ritual killing has become mainstream in Nigeria. WTF is happening?

If these don't stop, kids will learn what ritual is as early as they are 7 years old.

yes you are right, we are still fault of every thing, since we all know that rituals killing is the main stream in naija and we are seeing all this killers around us, we need to take a bold step and start killing them back if notice anyone around! cause is like they are numerous more than we inocent one, before we no it all this shit will stop.

Yobabad:
We Yoruba Muslims will keep praying and beging for one Nigeria

. I pray it work out for you yorubas, so this dead country can be buried finally.

Indian people, very heartless set of people, no be only expatriate, may be out guys have use the anoyance take back am down! cause the people are too wicked.

If they ask some of you guys to stay in the village to learn some culture it will look as if they want to kill you guys, why won't you know that the yam is bad by main looking at it, even at your age you could hardly recognize that the yam is bad, you guys think everything is township altitude.

crazygod:
You are probably right. Chelsea na very useless team. Chai.

how are dey useless sir, is it only ur team that need wining? Dronkard people

ekineme:
The Truth is that Peter obi is the most competent Candidate among these present crop of politicians that has indicated interest, put vote buying aside via rigging and thuggery, Peter obi will win with a landslide.
But this is Nigeria anything can happen untill the youths decide to change the narratives.

yes, I will like to say thank you on this your comment, one thing I will like the youth to fight is to team up together fight a labour against local content in our labour, we need a direct employment from our employees, only that will change the nation to a sertain level.

This guy don dey turn to craze small small ooo!

This guy don dey turn to craze small small ooo!

Babaflenjor:
This pretty lady joined our company in 2019, She is a junior staff, she works directly under me. At first I didn't like her, in fact I'm more friendly with other ladies in the office than with her, but in 2020 those who were my friends left, and I was left with no option than to be more friendly with her. Within few months we became very close.

She is very beautiful, smart, and very intelligent, She loves me and she always show it, I love her too but I didn't come out to tell her I love her, though I always care for her anytime, others think we were dating, in fact many people say it to our face.

Now my feeling for her is very strong. I belief she knows this too, for some time now she always wants to be around me.

To cut the story short, the management gave her a sack letter early this month, meaning today is her last day in the office.

NOTE her sacking has nothing to do with my relationship with her, I'm seriously missing her already. For over two years in that office she is not in any relationship, but now she is dating one guy, and she is leaving Today.

is like you are in that office as womanizer!

hammermcc:
No Nigerian city looks like this 3d rendering. not even Abuja or Onitsha with it's 4 story buildings. Only Onitsha and maybe Aba comes close though, but not quite. Most Nigerian cities are actually towns, not real cities. in this modern times , highrise structures define cityscapes.
In recent times there's been a lot of focus on roads in Nigeria, albeit we still haven't mastered building roads with drainage and sidewalks. Even so , I think attention should also be given to buildings.


In order to achieve this , all Nigerian cities need new city plan. many structures would have to demolished to erect highrise apartments. It may not have to occur all at once, it could be within a period of time , as long as the blue print is followed by successive governments

the rising sun will look like that.

pinkPUSSY:
That man doesn't know how Nigeria sees him..

He thinks that Nigeria begins and ends at Obiakpor... Well he's a local champion.

I don't blame him

you have said it all my sister, but why your name come be pinkPUSSY?

We are not interested in the opening of the borders we are ok with the way we have been living with out the borders, we are surviving with out any of those borders, idiot and heartless clueless government. old fools

EastisBae:
This re.tar.ded fool who used 8 years to build one flyover is not even ashamed to talk in public. The kind of idiots Abia State keep producing as governors has become a source of embarrassment to all Igbos.

Imagine a lunatic campaigning for wike when far better and capable hands like Obi is there already.

They call him Ikpeazu i.e. last man and he continues to live up to the name.

Ewu gambia!!!

Ewu Gambia kayamma nwanem. this man is nothing but remnant Ogboko.

Kingosytex:
Salah and Mane above him? In what aspect please?

listen to your argument.

johnnychuks:
na when be the time to correct small boy wey insult his elders! he has no regard to ikpeba.

Kingosytex:
Salah and Mane above him? In what aspect please?

listen to your argument?

sfinkzslot:
Uncle Ikpeba should leave the boy, this is not the time abeg!

na when be the time to correct small boy wey insult his ethers! he has no regard to ikpeba.

Anything North are good at killing, if you like quote me, but that's the basics truth.

kristonium:
Still wondering why the police haven't arrested him till now?

where you from they come?

Women are the problem of this earth! take it or leave it

Where is your location sir? this is not the issues that is facing us now in naija? as a Lagos Base like me I watch local station every day, with good program, if you are in Lagos hit my like and be in position to know better, we don't toil with local Tv here

That has been the altitude of an army on earth, is in inside their DNA.

Parkleader:
If nigerians are as smart as you think they woundn't be choosing this politicians. So you think worst things than this news don't happen in Nigeria?

don't complicate issues from the contest of the terms.

Babaken:
Who is that lucky man not even his picture.

how is it a lucky man in this situations?

This one is western argument and their issues.

Liebermantic:
Federal Government should station military anywhere Around Hausa-Fulani residents to deter this terrorist called IPOB

you better go and join federal military now so you guys will be more numerous than the IPOB, but if you fail to do that, the law has stand in Biafra land, for the safety of our people. idiot like you.

immortalcrown:
Shebi una say na ESN. ESN dey Osun?

them never see something.