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I like her to be pretty,supportive, caring, accommodating,home maker and average in height.

If you love her then don't agree to the trick because if you have sexual adventures in her presence with another girl; you may end up dropping her and she drops you

Social media crazy as you highlighted in your text shouldn't be expected less from our Nigerians Elites.
He is definitely not scared of anyone or any authorities in the country maybe he is the member of I will shoot you and nothing will happen gang.
I think he will be massively supported by the elite so that he won't be extradited otherwise he would be singing in FBI table and prison department .

They want to keep him in Nigeria in all cost in other for him not to vomit everything by sending him to correctional centre.

Another another government will give him presidential pardon. If it's not used as a compaing promises.

He should be extradited to US in other for him to say all the truth and nothing but the the truth.

That's Nigeria for you, they can hire you and fire you at any provocation. So find another job or you can be your own boss

Lazybones is a disease, is it not your mate that are hustling in the street day and night. You have 2 legs and 2hands and you can see and hear but you don't want to make use of it.

It seems that this suicidal threat is trending now. Maybe you can your phone and buy food.

Skull minning republic.

Kobojunkiee:
Oh, I remember your advice which was that he put the noose on his wife instead. And do you recall my response to you then too?.

This man is telling you here that instead of listing after his own wife, he is instead lusting after a girl, and you think blaming his wife makes sense?

He suggested that the house gal should go, so that he may not do what he will regret in the future (lack of self-discipline) and it happens mostly when the wife turned deaf and dumb to his body language but the wife insisted that the girl will stay. So what is your point on this

Kobojunkiee:
I have more than made my self clear by pointing the many potential dangers of his current situation. A man who has little to no self-discipline of this kind risks not only his marriage but also screwing up the life of his victims - the gal, his daughters and even his wife- if he does not do something about those wicked thoughts he keeps harboring there.

. So what did you suggest he should do or actions necessary to be taken to stop the current danger of the house girl and for the future encounter

Kobojunkiee:
Advice ke? All you have been doing is cooking up reasons why OP shouldn't be help accountable for just about everything. So how can you properly advice him when you don't even see the potential dangers of his current situation for Pete's sake?

Read my first reply there you will see my advice to the OP.

Kobojunkiee:
So it is OK for Op to feel this way about someone else's child but not his own?
If a friend of OP'S felt the same about OP'S child, would that be OK too?

Lol, please what the OP needs is our advice

Kobojunkiee:
How exactly did you reach these conclusions of yours about the OP?

If I were to have a penny for everytime someone admitted to a weakness only to then succumb to it, over and over mind you, I would be a billionaire by now. But here you claim that admitting to having a weakness implies one could never succumb.
Where do you get these bullsheet conclusions of yours from?

So what's your take on it

Kobojunkie:
So in all the stories you have read of such cases, you came away believing no young man can rape his own child?

It happens but for the OP to voice out his weakness it means that he can't rape his child

Simran94:
What are you saying now? What if he has a female child? Are you telling us that OP would not be able to control himself from having erections for his teenage daughter because of his inability to think with his head and not his d*ck?

I think the OP will not have erection when it comes to his daughters.

Goldie16:
Which marriage are you even talking about? By the time all these upcoming bloggers carry him matter for head, he go fit remember marriage?
Which kind of wife is not sensitive to her husband's body language? Which kind of wife will invite a nubile teenager into her home after opposition by her husband? Which kind wife be that? wife that does not know her husband's strength and weakness, is that one a sensible wife?

Maybe it's a recommendation wife or they didn't date for long

Kobojunkie:
So all the stories we read of father's raping their own daughters are what, fiction?

He is a young guy and I don't think that it will result to that

Kobojunkie:
Temporary dismissal of the househelp will cure this man how?

Should the wife also send away their daughters, assuming they have kids, in the same token?

What evils and ugly habits are being Orchestrated again biko?

I think such thing will never happen to his daughters maybe it's because the house help is not blood related

Kobojunkie:
Hasten up to doing what exactly?

Are you insinuating that men who struggle with the same lack of discipline and are without wives are doomed, and this because you claim this man can't be cured of his lack of self-discipline except his wife supports him?

Hasten up with the house help temporary dismissal. He has a problem and he has identify the problem which is his lack of self discipline.

Some evils and ugly habits are been orchestrated within the environment/homes. So I suggest his wife listen to him, then they should find a way to deal with it so that it won't get more horrible

Kobojunkie:
I don't follow at all!

The man is struggling to keep his libido in check, and harbors thoughts of possibly raping his househelp, yet you are suggesting his wife should live in apprehension as a result?

What else? Should she abort all female children they conceive for fear that the child may end up raped by her husband who lacks self-discipline in the sex department?

One thing thing problem is the wise thing is always to seek help to resolving them. You aren't even suggesting the man seek resolution but instead suggest he guilt his wife into living in apprehension of his lack of self-discipline.

Thats my thought though but am not supporting his lack of discipline but i think that should make her to hasten up.

His problem is incureable apart from the support of his wife

Kobojunkie:
Why does he need to offload the consequences of what is his lack of self-discipline on his wife abeg?

Must her world stop rotating on its axis because this man failed to learn self-discipline when his mates were?

People have different types of problems and they tends to put on the alarm before things gets out of hand.

It's better he puts the danger on the wife so that she will give it a serious thought because women hates war with a maid in their various home. So he should put it that way, so that she can act fast

I suggest that you tell you wife your weakness and fears also tell her that if anything happens to the marriage tomorrow; then its her fault.
Which you can send the girl to school in other to help or you send her out with a good compensation. For Gods and humanity seek

She better leave unintentionally since she flings unintentionally. I can not come and kill myself. It's either she stays with me with all her mind, body, Brain, trust and love or she should leave unintentionally

Its a good thing that you have realised that you needed to help yourself and be strong for your kids. I would only advice you to
Argue less with him
Get a job
Look good and dress neat
Choose your friends and finally
Pray for him.

It seems that this administration is good in blame games. They are quick to blame people for their negligence and failures.

What are the positive thing that you guys have put on ground for the youths.
is it high cost of living?
High cost of school/tuition fees?
After school no work?
inflations?
Budget Padding and corruption at the highest order?

I hope you won't be angry or pained if someone did the same to your sister or your relation.

That child could be your only child in your life time and could be hers too.

Abortion could endanger the girl's life or damaged her womb forever and it's a second degree murder called infanticide.

So be guided because you actions today could save or destroy you tomorrow.

No reconciliation no friend talk more of marriage. Since he don't want to let you in his past then I don't think there will be a cool future.
Stop picking his calls and if he visit;don't allow him inside since he don't value you.

Maybe she have a better plan for you na

Your the only person that knows if the girl is good for you and she is the one that you wish to spend your life with. So it's either you get her pregnant then double your hustle for the family or you leave the girl alone

I suggest you give yourself a break for one or two months outside of your house

What does it have to do with you even if she decide to live in the same room with you.
Stay focused on your education, have self control,be the boss of your own and pretend as if she never existed

He will be fine, God will save him.

Senomii:
E no go pass one useless quilox club hype man wey talk that thing

Lol