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kpolli:
Ur a big fooooolllll!!!! Gosh

Ijogz K:
You need heavy deliverance, U are sure under a spell,

She's way above your class, Confirm runs gurl, she would kill you and sort herself out,

2goodbobo:
Johnwell, wallai you be big mumu. Cut that crap you call love. You cannot and can never change the colour of her present skin. Such women continues with such attitude even after marriage!

Sorry: please I needed advice, not all these, !

I met my wife-to-be early 2010 in Eket; she told me she is schooling in UNICAL, after some months I told her my plans of visiting her in Calabar, & she accepted but with conditions. The condition was: she said she is staying with her aunty, when I drive to a particular point in calabar, I should call her so that she can come & meet me there, which I did.
November 2010 something terrible happend: A man used her line to call me & told me the she is his GF & the most funny thing is that they're staying together; I was shocked to hell,  After few days she visited me, I asked her "why didn't you tell me?" her answer was "you're the best that has ever happend to me, I didn't want to loose you". she pleaded I should not quit the relationship. Well, as a man, I played my own part but the wound was still in my heart. The most painful thing was her line was always barred from receiving calls or switched-off, even when she visit me, she either puts her phone on silence or she switched it off completely. One day I called her & she told busy the call, later send me a text and said "pls why can't you let me go? it was fun why it lasted" JESUS! I shouted, I tried all I could to contact her but to no avail. well, I was in the middle of nowhere. early 2011 I travelled to Cuba, there she start communicating again, she ask me to send money to her to enable her secure accomodation that she want to seperate from her guy; I refused to send the money, few months later she told me she's homeless, her relationship colapse because of me. she keeps on sending me sms sometimes MMS her pics to me.
Ending August 2011, I returned from Cuba, I called her & we reconcilled. September we meet, something terrible happend; I looked into her hand bag, I saw more than 5 etisalat lines, a pack of condom, etc. "holi-moses", I was speechless. I travelled to Ghana, getting there I called her & asked her indirectly but she denied, I then open up & told her the whole thing & she was ,  December 2011 we met & she introduced me to her mom as her husband to be, she even introduce me to her pastor in calabar too. weeks later i visited her in calabar; a  man called & I intercepted the call; she faught me & brought her kitchen knife & said if I don't gve her the phone she'll kill me. she said "it can never happend, he is my helper, when he helped me where were you?". hours later she came & opologize & said "I don't know what came on me, its the hand work of the devil, please forgive me", after weeks, another man called & she rejected the call. well, I asked her to terminate all hanging  relationships by sending text message to all her share-holders if she really want me, she accepted, but she asked me to give her a new line with phone which I did, but uptil now Feb 14, 2012 ,  8:39am, she has not sent it. I asked her this morning why she has not send the message, she asked me if I have send to all me EXs the she should send. the question is: Can I change her? can I go ahead to marry her? what should I do?
my problems are:
1,  I don't double date
2,  I don't beat/fight  women
3,  I love her,
please what should I do?
Akwa Ibom idoho OK!

gulfer:
This is everywhere from fake president, fake first lady, fake ministers, fake governor etc even fake policemen and fake husbands and wives. Nigeria is full of fakes. Father of them all; fake DEMOCRACY.

the problem is not the big Dr. But it shows how disorganize cross river state gorvenment is, even the health sector. Party-party gorvenment. DEVIL minus D equals EVIL, (Nigerian Government)

I think this white beard he-goat that was gorvening cross river state needs proper interogation by efcc. No good roads into the state, cutting off staff salary every month. I thank God for gorvernor Godswill Akpabio for repairing one of the abandoned interstate road (odukpani road).

, nonsense, what is friendly about the police, until when cats & dogs unite, then can the Police be your friend if u need one.

Everyday, the Government and her agents are fighting crimes but yet, they are worst than those "hustlers". of what use is the new registration number? what is the advantage over the so-called old ones? Is GPS planted on it? this is what BABA FELA KUTI (r.i.p.) called "Head Robbery" (Which head we get wey no dey st**l; which president we get wey never st**l?, ).

How can this type of so-called development be tagged?
What name will they give this one now?
Is this part of Economics development?
Is this part of youth empowerment?
Is this part of Job Creation?

It is written in the Holy Bible; Jeremiah 10:21
(GOD'S WORD Translation)
The shepherds are foolish. They don't look to the LORD for help. That is why they won't succeed, and all their flocks will be scattered.

(King James 2000 Bible)
For the shepherds have become senseless, and have not sought the LORD: therefore they shall not prosper, and all their flocks shall be scattered.

what is going on in this country is the manifestation of this portion, but it's a pity if the negative side of the scripture manifests in this country.

Bless you all!!!

nonsense; cheat! cheat!! cheat!!!, what of poligamy? this is customarry cheatin; manifestation of the husband's cheating. thats why 95% fails.

Na only calabar babes me i fit marry, if u doubt me, come for carnival and try one.

My brother, well, life is full of wonders; I would advice you to suspend everything for now, study your new found soul-mate and compare the both. Remember "it is always better to have a broken relationship than a broken marriage".

Please be extra careful before you're poisoned, because a desperate woman is like a provoke soldier.

BE WISE

Read Proverbs 31:2-3
2Listen, my son! Listen, son of my womb!
Listen, my son, the answer to my prayers!
3 Do not spend your strength on women,
your vigor on those who ruin kings.

Wonders in my house last night!

I call her to come but i did not disclose to her that my fiancee was in the house; the devil came half-naked and I set the whole place ablaze. I am a bit re-leave, but I still sense anger in my fiancees attitude.

She said that her appearance is as if she is dreaming, she wanted to call her family members to complain the issue but i stopped her, was that a good idea? what should I do next? it seems there is fire burning underground. please advise.

Addressing her in the presence of my fiancee would have been a good idea, even when I told her her response was so cold, she's so lesss concern. am even confused if its a plan between both of them.

@mamacy; this is not a joke, whenever she comes, i have to leave the house for them. i can't go home when she's alone.

@sexkills, am MAN ENOF, am scared because she answered so carelessly, less concern & since then she has not ask me anything concerning that.
@SAFO, I cant do that, she will not respect my home, its a time bomb.@sexkills, am MAN ENOF, am scared because she answered so carelessly, less concern & since then she has not ask me anything concerning that.
@SAFO, I cant do that, she will not respect my home, its a time bomb.

@sexkills, i thoughr telling my fiancee would have been the best sollution, but when i told her she adviced me to "be careful". thast all she said. the reply scared the hell out of me.

its not a big deal, its all about her character.

If I was told that Nigarian pals still have this type of mindset, I would've not beleive. what is the fear? fueling her ride or paying for routine maintenance? stop this nonesence please, this is nothing but a "POVERTY MINDSET". get connected & you'll not regret.

My Fiancee niece is madly seeking for my attention, what should I do?

What will be the cost of getting one from Cotonou?

Ever since I've joined NairaLand, I've not seen a discussion so educative like this.

One thing I know about this is "Life is full of choices; there's no free choice in life, to every choice there's a price tag on it"

Personally, I think buying from Cotonou  or Nigeria is individual choice with his/her own reasons, but one this is certain:

Using shortcut with fake documents is like a credit card, enjoy now & pay later but going through the normal clearing process is like a debit card , pay now & enjoy later. Abi na lie?

Tuzen:
what is your budgetwhat is your budget

my budget is 1.3m

I urgently need a 2005 Toyota sienna xle limited, please if you have it post the the details here including the pictures ans price.

Thanks

do you have complete factory fitted left hand drive dashboard for honda accord 2005?
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k4kblues:
Hello NL I am a 26 year old virgin,I rerally want 2 but don't know how 2 go about it can any 1 help or can any gal help me through?

abi na nollywood virgin?

Description & Options
*3.2 straight-6 engine
*Power Windows
*Central Locks
*Cruise Control
*Security System
*CD Player
*Air Conditioning
*Leather Seats
*Power Steering
*Rear Defrost
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Description and Options
*3.2 straight-6 engine
*Power Windows
*Central Locks
*Cruise Control
*Security System
*CD Player
*Air Conditioning
*Leather Seats
*Power Steering
*Rear Defrost
*Automatic transmission
*standard electric tilt & slide steel sunroof
*Alloy wheel

Only Professional bachelors suggest that men sacrifices most in the home, 75% of loads in the house is on the women

bros, Don't be deceive by anybody with stupid advice in the name of being mature, i cannot see any reason why you share the same house, the same property, the same bed even share blood during sexual intercourse, then what is phone,  if you don't take action now, she may end-up getting married before your marriage month arrives. if she still continue, break-up, after-all love comes and goes. there're better one out there eying and praying for you to just smile at them.

Post Pictures Please

The question is: Who are you married to? who paid the bride price? who is the head of the family?, your post sounds so nigerian moovious, so to say. even the Holy Bible says ", 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'?, , it did not say unite with the mother-inlaw. even if she is a widow, send her away, if you don't know this just know now that in as much as she is still there, physical and spiritual she is the head of that house, and as long as she is still the head of that family, xpect problems.

How long shall you cotinue to sleep in your office, how long shall you abandoned your family, how long shall you behave like a house-boy, when will you realize your manship & fathership, how long shall you continue like this? wake-up and take-up the challange ahead of you, this is broad-day-light witchcraft, send her to hell where she belongs, there is no respect for the devil. even when you remove letter "" from the word "DEVIL" the result will still be "EVIL", don't xpect change from her, she was only pretending and waiting for the right time to strike.