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Hatricks in 10 separate competition

Southsoul:
I don't need to spell you to believe me but then that's the truth those two Nations are strongly thirsty to bring America to her kneel just wait let the war start then you will know that Nations that is angry with America is many

Lol.... Just don't try America... America will only fall when it's God's appointed time... But for now, don't try them

Southsoul:
Russian and China wants this war trust me they will support Iran to humiliate America

The same US that destroyed the Soviet Union which Russia headed??

China?? That the Japanese could have finished if not the US??

Godwin2am:
don't look down. afraid of height ?

I trust you had your PPE on??

seunmohmoh:
Oga, my money

So this trouble maker is this busty and beautiful??

sheriffindy:
YOU DON'T PHUCCK WITH GUARDIOLA TWICE... OLE.. ASK MOURINHO HOW E DEY BE.

Make Espírito Santo catch you

osazsky:
Pls will there be second leg and how many teams are left in this competition

This one dey fear Liverpool

Scammer

By the time the judgement of God comes upon you now, you start doing restitution everyone disturbing peaceful brethren

Foolish Twitter stories

Iconic007:
Inquisitiveness leading to more worries and more questions...Which makes me to just focus on living a peaceful happy life, to die one day and face whatever that comes after death!

Accept Jesus as your lord and personal savior for peace and life after death

100 light year away

So if I go there, I will be 100+ years old or what

Lol... Before nko??

Iran (Assyria + Babylon) has no chance

BlindedIrony:
Listen and listen to me very well. Some of what I am going to say is going to hurt, but they are facts. They will help you too.

Why you have problems with Staff?

You are a young man that just waltzed into an environment you are not familiar with. At first, i bet the staff were nice because they did not know what manner of man you are. They probably started testing you out when they began to notice afew things contradictory about what you project and what you are. First time must have been either the way you waltzed into the school and subtly demanded the respect that your father commanded (something you never earned). But hey, who comes to work to play tic-ta-toe with his employees?
The Nigerian culture is one where elders demand respect regardless of whether they are assholes or gentlemen/ladies (or you are a fellow adult). That in itself could be a problem or a blessing:
1) Too much respect could make you look weak. This is because people can see you are trying to curry favor; that's insincere and a lot of people can smell that a mile away. In addition, you could indirectly shift your power to the staff because they would continue to see you as a child or tell you how to run your business.
2)They can appreciate your respect and they will work toward the goal of the business. This is rarely the case though since people are after their own self interests.

Therefore, to handle the issue of respect, you have to be polite. I don't mean being a kiss-arse. I meant being polite when working with your staff, but non-hesistant to fire anyone not doing their jobs right without a second chance. This will accomplish two goals:
1) It will make you unpredictable. People will not known how to handle you; it will keep them on edge.
2) Comfortable old gossips will be wary of losing their positions since they know they can be replaced. Afterall, there are hundred of thousands of graduates that will travel hundreds of kilometers to get that position (You don't need to tell them this of course- let your unpredictable action speak of your immense iron grip). That is every worker's nightmare.

In addition to handling the issue of respect, i suspect you are not genuinely interested in your workers. You need to change that. People like to talk about themselves or be asked after. Get to know these people. Praise them when they come in early. Inquire about families, hobbies, their students, how their day is going and so on. I DO NOT mean sitting down to have a full blown conversation. Nay, I mean every now and then approach one and strike a conversation about that person that will make the person talk about himself or herself. You just have to listen- this is not time to open your bladder mouth. Just seem genuinely interested (or at least fake the shit) and ask interesting questions every now and then. The person will feel better after that. This is going to create two events:
1) It will make the person feel you care. People like it when other people let them talk about themselves. You and I are like that, that is why we cannot wait to talk about ourselves every slight chance we have. Oh look! You just talked about your problems in this post. Didn't it make you feel good that everyone is replying or engaging you? : )
2)It will create dissension in their ranks. This is due to number 1 reason, and this is because other gossips will stop talking to the person you talked to. They will think he or she is a traitor. This is really good because you can use that to divide, conquer and expel undesirable elements of your team.

How do you regain your power back?

The above will gradually put the balls back to your court. However, there are a hundred ways I could take back the power as the head of the school, but I am not going to waste my time writing them here since you are a nobody to me, and my time is important to me. I am going to tell you two additional steps you need to do based on the issues you have highlighted. They are:
1) Call a meeting. Provide refreshment in the meeting. The purpose of this meeting to them is for them to voice their opinions. To you, its purpose to lay new rules and fire afew people that show up late.
Example:
"Hello, thank y'all for coming. The purpose is to tell me how I can help you do your jobs better. Do we need coffee machines? Or donut tuesdays?," You say playfully.
Meeting was supposed to be at 8am (or any feasible time), but Mr. No-shoe-is-bigger-than-me walks in late. Say, "Hello, I am glad you could make. Everyone here was beginning to wonder whether everything is okay with you ." Laugh as you say this.
After meeting or day, call him to the office and fire him. I'd prefer end of school session, fire him. This will prevent him starting a few or arousing others to his cause. You don't want the whole staff walking away; it is bad business. Also, when he is of high value to you, that's a good thing because people will not want to be next when they see you fire someone better than them. It will show that you do not need them, THEY NEED YOUR COMPANY.
When everyone has spoken, note their views and say you will do your best. Praise them for their loyalty and hardwork (including the lazy ones); be specify when you are praising. DO NOT flatter. Mention what you like about a specify action of a teacher and praise it. Do not criticize in the meeting. At the end of the meeting, tell them what you have thought about things that may help them attract more students and boost their earning/salary. Talk about what you want changed- NOTE: Say it in the way their self interests are reflected. People are only after their self interests. Once you hook them up by presenting greed to them through their self interests, they will take care of your interest.
2) They cannot be two managers in a school. Either you are or your mother is, they can't be two people due to conflict of interests. You need to be honest with yourself. If your mother is a better manager than you, let her have the position and be the man behind the curtains. Also for number 1, discuss with your mother before embarking.

Finally, you need to be friends with the wife of your mom's brother. Next time, security man misbehaves. Pull him into the office- pour a shot of schnap and tell him you appreciate his efforts. However, his behavior may put everyone out of work in the long run. This is because parents would not want to send their kids to school and they will be no way of generating revenue to pay him. It will mean he, the staff and you will go back to shoving the dirt. Tell him you employed him because you heard he is the best (although, he is just a locust eating away your crops) and you don't want people to see that reputation is not true. Tell him every time parents walk into the school, they trust their lives of their kids to him. Tell him that probably explains why they speak highly of his abilities; however, a lot are beginning to discuss otherwise. Tell him you hope he helps you prove them wrong.

That's all I have for you.

Thanks

Some mischievous people do not know than Real Madrid and Man utd are almost on the same level

Lol.... Lingardinho ke

I prefer we give Barca Lingard and take De Jong for 50m

Snapchat:
But Ronaldo and his families are not matured when it comes to Messi. Lol.

Same as Messi fans likewise

No ooooooooo

Hope this motor car dey museum o.. Biko

The way Ronaldo send person country go house in 2013 can pain sha

u11ae1013:
We should stop godifying these doctor cadets, as far as I am concern, an Engineer is more important in any society than a doctor.

I'm telling you.

Sirjamo:
US is the number one terrorists organization in the world

So what are you gonno do about it??

First off, the audio was real

She went to a multi national company and met bigger boys ni

Imagine she couldn't forgive you ... Hahaha

You be akpa

izik4real:
AND LIVERPOOL MADE HISTORY ALSO BY MAKING A TOTAL OF 969 PASSES IN A SINGLE MACH ,WHICH NO TEAM IN EPL HISTORY HAS DONe .


LIVERPOOL WE ARE HISTORY MAKERS

Lol... I thought Man City were passers of the ball

Why are Barcelona fans always crying on this page??

Liverpool team is 4th best EPL team ever after

Man utd (1999)
Arsenal (2003/04)
Man utd (2008)- producing CR7
Liverpool (2019)
Man city (2017)
Chelsea (2004/05)

Who cares??

Pele is still the GOAT of football

3 world cups
1260 goals
108 goals in the year
Player of the century

Better.

At least e go play better especially when he collect yellow card tire from marking Laliga dribbling AM..

Una don dey hype Arteta... The way United been hype Ole on the wheel then

Lol

Classic Jose.

Diverting the loss to himself

Lol... How??

That can only manage to do traditional wedding alone

That amount can never do white wedding alone

Hustle

Mtvheeeeeeew

We made it. Now unto successes. Amen

This guy doesn't look like a criminal