₦airaland Forum

yemite100:
I made a post about a month ago on Nairaland about my landlord. He gave me a quit notice when my rent is yet to due, we have not been in good terms, I was rest assured that I still have three months left so no need to panic.

I got home now and saw carpenters removing the roof of my apartment with two abled young men which I haven't seen their face before, the roof of my apartment has been removed now.

I went to the nearby station to lodge a complain but I was told the man had come earlier, and told the police has giving me quit notice that he wants to renovate his house.

It's really a hard time for me and my siblings, getting a quick accomodation. He never informed us of renovating the apartment, I just lost my job last week and this is happening to me again.

My life is in a mess right now as I don't know where to start from, this is just a challenge for me and I will stay stronger and fight this battle till the end, probably God is preparing me for a better place ahead....

iCauseTrouble:
Make Boris and UK keep deceiving themselves.
I pity Nigerians living in the UK.

JONNYSPUTE:


Could this be a sign? Who knows. Lol

mike404:
PROSTITUTION OR SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS NOT AFRICAN WAY OF LIFE

AFRICAN TRADITIONAL RELIGION IS AGAINST IT

CHRISTIANITY IS AGAINST IT

ISLAM IS EQUALLY AGAINST IT
So that is why they should arrest her nonsense

Nonexisting:
I can only leave this country when I decide to have children. If I have children, I will choose the gateman in America over ordinary bank manager here. My reason will be to give my children better opportunities in life and there's no law that says I can not improve myself and even be a bank manager in the USA later. Nothing in life is static, gateman today, bank manager tomorrow but it will be worse if it's bank manager today, gateman tomorrow and we have seen it played out many times, no be Nigerian bankers again.

JAMO84:
Wasting money on a dead body


ISLAM IS THE SOLUTION FOR HUMANITY

TempleHouse:
They suffer discrimination abroad and a little mistake can take you to jail or get deported apart from the very hostile weather !

Job satisfaction remains in Nigeria !

Not all that glitters are Gold !

davidadenrele:
Hello,
First of all i salute your courage for been able to come out and ask for advice, been a divorcee can be challenging for a woman in typical Nigerian society however i see you forging ahead since you are not afraid, you will have to work very hard let be honest having a kid is not that easy not to talk of 3kids, may I asked you did you request for child support in court while you filing for divorce through your lawyer because you will need child support from your kids father, it's either it's paid in weekly or monthly and its has to be something substaining for you and your kids.

Secondly you have to either work twice or get a business that will help you finance your kids financial burden without you being a burden to your friends and family at this moment Nigeria economy is not smiling at all, it's not easy out there trust me people will give assurance not worry that they will support you it's all a lie no one cares everybody is struggling to survive now in Nigeria. aside yahoo plus boys and ritualist, and politicians.

You will have to sit down a make a plan on how you intend to provide for your kids every month, your house rent, feeding, school fees, extra school needs, what kids of now are days can't do without like bobo, biscuits, sweets and stuffs. Let me be honest with you it's not going to be easy I know of a divorcee with kids it's not an easy task, but with God on your side you will be fine at the end. You will need support you will need assistance and you will your immediate family around you if it's only you it would have been better having to take care of kids in Nigeria of today is like climbing Mount Everest because of their excessive demands, they keep calling Mummy we want this we want that!! You have to be firm with your kids, at the same don't be too rigid and don't be too gentle when applying discipline where necessary at the same time montior them they could embrassed you if your not careful cos when they go hungry they could expose you unintentionally to your next neighbour cos at that moment what they cared about is there belly as its possible if you don't arrived from work in time for them to go and into your next neighbour house will not be a thing of shame to them afterall they have friends as next neighbour. Restrict them from collecting things from strangers, monitor them very well to avoid sexual pedophiles who could take advantage of no father figure in their lives. Provide quality to ensure they do their home work and take their studies seriously.

On a final note be you a Christian or Muslim ensure they observed prayers and good home moral training it's well with you.

helinues:
Nice One from our gallant security officers