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HOW WOMEN PUSH MEN AWAY.

In all relationships that ended, it is always women complaining that they were left, or the men were on the wrong or men messed it.
My question is, are women always innocent in case of a break up?
No, this is a clear answer.
In some cases, women are the wrong and led to the man leaving them. What I know, women always play victim. They might even push the man to going away so that it will seem like it is the man who left or the man was on the wrong.
Tactics women often use are: -

1. Rationing sex. This is a sure deal breaker. A man who was used to getting constant sex is suddenly denied. Slowly, such a man eventually reaches a breaking point and “cheats” thus giving a woman the perfect excuse to go.

2. Being overly demanding. This literally chocks the man until he feels he is not a man enough for her and simply bails out.

3. Living beyond her means making the man feel useless.

4. Nagging. No man ever wants a nagging woman and this is a sure way to push the man away.

5. Flirting with other men openly and when the man raises an issue he is told, “they are just friends, you are just insecure, you are just too protective, it is just casual friendship, etc.” but she knows what she is doing.

6. On the flip side, a woman who knows she has a very high libido might become overly demanding to the man making him feel not a man enough and thus the man literally runs away from her.

7. She begins to dress unattractively so that the man gets pissed and embarrassed to be with her. With time the man begins to notice other more attractive ladies and it is a matter of time before he leaves.

8. She cheats on him, and throws the blame to him e.g. you are never there for me, you do not satisfy me, etc.

9. She begins to compare him with other men often richer men until the man gets tired of her and bails out.

10. If she gets married with a child, she begins to get in touch with her baby daddy something which men really hate. Very few men can survive this.

11. She begins to slowly cut off communication and when the man asks why, her reasons are she is busy. When the man pushes further, he is labelled insecure. Within no time, the man is tired and going away. The girl is smiling
But after all these, they often cry foul of being dumped but they engineered the entire process.
So, men, be wary of the above and much more. When a woman wants you to leave, she will craft a way out for you such that you will seem like ‘the bad one’.
Be wise.

Candidlady:
Sharap say what you know

Thanks for the insult.

Pls what's the score.

Goodlady:
Na wetin you think o. Your mom sef dey there.

e pain you?

But na question I ask o

1Alex:
Abeg wetin dey happen for wuse2?

na olosho full there fir night 🌙

Goodlady:
Dear, you made my day. I ran away from a bag snatcher around Wuse 2 last Tuesday night.
I thought I was going to fall down as I ran away as he dey move towards me.
Abuja is beautiful. Jabi lake is the place to be at weekends. But don't stay late if you can't fight off crime especially if you are a lady. Many has been kidnapped or raped. More us to be done on security at night in Abuja. May we not be unfortunate, amen.

wetin carry u go WUSE2?
Hope it's not what am thinking.

Can igbo or yoruba DPO do such thing?

Despite hausa's fanatic behaviour that are 10,000 times better than DPO from the aforementioned tribes.
I was once stranded on a trip and and hausa man helped me out after reaching to our Christian people from the South.

IF YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW.

Longinyamapucci:
I'm very sure that Hausa Fulani and their Yoruba brothers who voted massively for Mr blue are ready for Niger fight... keep us from the Delta off this.

Which keep off?

Asari Dokubo Don drag una enter the middle olredi.

Quality20:
Trials do come in various ways and we all are under test. So how does one treat or what should one do when one's most damaging enemy is a hypocrite among family members, instigating and provoking evil from a secret vantage point?

Its not a new thing.
The bible say "a man's enemy are member of his family" 👪

illicit:
Nothing much bro

Ok

So at the bar in the little hotel at Ilesha garage

I waited for princess to arrive, she did after some minutes. From her appearance, she looks like she was trying to disguise. She didn't wear ear rings. She was wearing track suit. A fez cap. She wore trainers.

She still looked cute. I saw her alight from the bike at Mobil filling station. She made sure the bike left before she called me.
I didn't pick the call. I just walked towards her and signalled to her. We went to the bar. She told me she didn't want to stay long that we should change location. That she wants to tell me somethings.

I said okay. After some thirty minutes. We got in my mum's car and drove towards her house. At the other end of town. A new site.
When we got there she saw my mum's fresh grave and told me sorry. I said it's okay.

She told me that she was trying to leave Nigeria to Ghana with those drugs I saw her bought at Shasha.

Someone she met at the club had introduced her to the biz. She had gone on like 5 trips. She doesn't fly to Ghana. She takes a bus from Mile 2 in Lagos. She has arrangements with the law enforcements at the border and in Ghana. In Ghana after selling the drugs to a certain Nigerian. She buys gold with the money and returns to Nigeria by flight to Kano. In Kano she sells the gold to a certain Lebanese couple. It was profitable but dangerous.
That's how she makes her money....

She just trusted me.
Why the law enforcement were after her was because her contact in Ghana was arrested, he was into child trafficking as well. On his phone they saw her contact and receipts of bank transactions between them so they thought that they were actually partners. They wanted to net her.

That night at Osolos palace, that was what that drug dealer with a pistol was telling her. Infact he refused to sell to her but he directed her to another dealer in Shasha who didn't mind the risk. She thought that the Ghana guy will be released, that it wasn't serious.

She knew that some cops came to find her at the club but her boss shielded her. She resigned that same day I met her. She wanted to go into drug biz fully, she makes a lot from it compared to her job at the club. She doesn't have a boyfriend just admirers.

She didn't know that they have located her in Ijapo. But they didn't know her house until that guy came to the hotel....
The issue is being settled presently. She had hid the meth in a place she wouldn't tell me.
Anyway she helped me make some rice.

She missed her fish, she bought out a packet from her pocket. It contained the fish food and she fed it.

She stayed with me for the next one week. We go to town at night. We were like lovers. She made me forget my grieve.

Thanks.

Mention me anytime there's an update

Illicit, what's happening?

Why no update?

DenreleDave:
Pls don't send her anytin yet.. She is yet to come out honest.

Confirm first....

OK thanks bro.
I'll do the investigation immediately I return to Nigeria. Naka is not far from my place.

TemplarLandry:
Funny.
I'd marry my wife over and over again.

Me too.

She's one of a kind.

Edo no be Lagos.

We dey behind Una

SIMPonPatrol:
Show us your own let's see

I don't have. I'm. Ghost reader

Your picture look like a riverine 🐸 frog.

Illicit, come and give another update please.

seunmsg:
His response his just laughable.

Peter Obi told Nigerians that he won the election and he will prove it with evidence in court. The court case is about to end and we’ve not seen a single evidence of how Peter Obi won the election conducted on February 25th 2023. He couldn’t even present to the court in his final address how he won the election. So, what’s the lie about retrieving a stolen mandate all about when he never won the election?

Obi’s petition has now been reduced to calling for the disqualification of the actual winner and then conducting another election between him and Atiku to determine the actual winner. He has completely abandoned any claim to victory.

Sadly for him, Tinubu will not be disqualified on any ground as there is absolutely no reason to disqualify him. The so called forfeiture is in relation to a civil matter that has no criminal conviction. The US government clearly stated in a letter tendered in court that Tinubu was never convicted and that’s the legal position of the forfeiture.

So, even in the unlikely event of the court ordering a second ballot on the basis of 25% in FCT, it will still be between Tinubu and Atiku. Of course, this will not happen as section 299 clearly stated that FCT should be treated like any other state in all matters.

UNRIPE COMMENT.

Following. Thumbs up bro.

Dcass:
may God keep them safe and protect them.

Amen. How many children do you have

Dcass:
good morning sir how is the family?

they should be fine I guess. Have not called them yet

Dcass:
Good morning sir.
This is how I go your number

OK.

Gullah:
Goalless

Tnx

What's the score pls?

Dcass:
thank you sir

Tried replying your email and I can't because my email is having issues.

How do I get your phone number?

BABYLUVLY:
Yes. Sorry am just seeing this.
If you have someone in Owerri that can check for you.

I'd like to see it for myself.

BABYLUVLY:
Get a land in Avu Resettlement and thank me later. Same Avu has 1-3M plots of land. The resettlement goes from 5.5M upwards. It's a well planned Area. You wanna bambam and be with the big boys in Owerri? This deal is for you.

is the land still available?

How can o w see the land?

samonak:
Go and learn how to spell "Liar" correctly, then I'll consider if you're worthy of getting the facts.

Hahaha
My oga you get bad mouth.

Dcass:
naka Benue state

If it's Naka I believe you. I heard about the killing there.

Am from Benue State too. Send DM let me see what I can do, but presently I'm out of the country.

Hope to help you when I come back in three weeks time.

Johnholt909:
Hello, are there any responsible girls and wife material here?

How many yards do you want?

Minime10:
Doing his father's business🤓

Who's the father

4KNGOATS:
Na weytin concern you? U b man? Why should I be worried

😂😂😂