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Foreign AffairsRe: What Are The Direct Implications Of Coup In Africa To The Rest Of Africa? by JONSYN7154: 12:07pm On Aug 30, 2023
JASONjnr:
The day Nigeria will organise a coup will be the end of foreign parasites in Africa.
Why do you say its going to be the end of foreign parasites in Africa?

Pls can you explain more?
Foreign AffairsRe: What Are The Direct Implications Of Coup In Africa To The Rest Of Africa? by JONSYN7154: 12:01pm On Aug 30, 2023
helpee:
Wait for hopeless agbado crew to come and educate you for free,lol.

Dem job no easy aswear
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@ozommadu.



Let us assume you are talking to Yorubas. I take it you are a child. Ask your grand parents. People trooped to the streets to celebrate anytime the military took over in the 80s and 90s. It usually takes them an average of 6months to start crying blood.

I can see the Igbos are now clamoring for coup just because obi lost. It is the same Yorubas that you called Agbados that usually fought the military in those days while your grandfathers in the east were hiding.

From Gani Fawehinmi to Wole Soyinka to Femi falana to Fela, to Beko Kuti to TAI SOLARIN to NADECO and many more

WHILE TINUBU WAS FIGHTING ABACHA IN EXILE, PETER OBI WAS BUSY COLLECTING JOB as TIN CAN PORTS CHAIRMAN FROM THE BRUTAL DICTATOR.

I only hope you Igbos get what you want again. Another Coup. By the time the military incarcerate your generation for speaking thrash on Twitter and Nairaland , you will beg the AGBADOS to fight for you the way your grandfathers have been relying on them to help them anytime their leaders like Ojukwu escape into Abidjan.

May Africa know peace
Am not an igbo but the fact remain that its bad governance like what we are experiencing that's bringing back the military.
PoliticsRe: Price Hike Looms As Customs Begins Implementation Of VAT On Diesel by JONSYN7154: 11:01am On Aug 30, 2023
ThiefnubuBandit:
We support the military take over in Gabon. On their mandate we stand!!!
I see same happening in Nigeria in no distance time.
CrimeRe: Newborn Rescued From Pit Toilet After Three Days In Anambra by JONSYN7154: 10:13am On Aug 30, 2023
Anambra state again?
Foreign AffairsRe: Military seizes power in Gabon by JONSYN7154: 8:42am On Aug 30, 2023
Alliswell248:
Keep chasing shadows....

That is why Tinubu kept people from the sad East far away from him.
Buhari never appointed any of them as service chief.... because they cannot be trusted.
Bros, this has nothing to do with chasing shadows.

Don't you see the hand writing on the wall? Do you need Daniel to come and read it for you?

People are fed up with the suffering going on now.
Foreign AffairsRe: Military seizes power in Gabon by JONSYN7154: 8:12am On Aug 30, 2023
Next is NIGERIA.
FamilyRe: Family Members Arrested For Forcefully Taking Underage Children Of A Widow by JONSYN7154: 6:57am On Aug 30, 2023
WHY IS IT THAT BAD THINGS DO COME OUT OF ANAMBRA?
CrimeRe: Special Edition! Ribadu Narrates How He Risks His Life As Efcc Boss, How He Jai by JONSYN7154: 5:11am On Aug 29, 2023
Our NSA. I believe you'll do a better job that what you did in EFCC.

More grace to you sir.
CrimeRe: Should I Report This Case To EFCC by JONSYN7154: 4:50am On Aug 29, 2023
Tomebi:
My uncle came to father and ask for his contract papers my dad never really wanted to give him the contract papers, the man begged my dad to allow him use the papers, so my dad ask what he will gain from him by signing those papers to him, he said he will give my dad 5million as tax and give 50k every month for the fact that he is the owner of the contract company. After this agreement my dad signed the papers to him, any he applied for the contact, luckily for them the contract was awarded to my father company and the first and second money was credited to my dad company account, so my uncle came to ask for the money and my dad transfer the money to him without hesitation because is a project money, and my uncle started paying my dad every month and also assured him that before the project is complete he will give the 5million.
After some period of time he stop the payment for each month and also refuse to pay the 5million for the tax, so my dad went to him to seek for money but he didn't give my dad any response, so my dad have to go and involved some elders of the family, and one of them ask my dad to go and print bank statement so did as he was told, from there we found out that million has credited to my dad company account in different occasions without him receiving any credit or debit alert, for the fact that it a company account my only use the account when he has contract and period he didn't have any contact of it own.
And for the fact that my uncle don't want pay the tax so each time the company credit my dad company account, these man will go behind my dad back to transfer the money to different account shapely he won't even allow the to sit on the account for even 3days.
But my problem is that how will my uncle was able to transfer all these money without my dad's knowledge and how he was able to get access to account and even make it possible for my dad not to receive credit or debit alert and my dad know that he only give the account number that was why when the first and second money was paid he has to come to my dad to transfer the money to him.
As for me my uncle shouldn't have transfer money out my dad account without him knowing and even the phone number use in the account is my dad own, when the first and second was credited my receive alert then the rest he didn't.
So guys I want to know if it a crime for my uncle to transfer all those money from dad company account. The first and second money that was credited to my dad account was 62million naira and dad transfer all these millions to him without hesitation for them to start working on the project. From the third one my didn't have any idea that money was coming in and out of his company account.
And the money in question is more than 40million naira.
So quys if it's a crime for someone to transfer money out your account without your knowledge, if it's a crime I want to report this case.
this is a simple case. Your father can sue him for taking money from his account without knowing.

You father can claim he's the main contractor.

ABOVE ALL, YOU NEED A VERY GOOD LAWYER TO DEFEND YOUR FATHER.
RomanceRe: How Do You Stop This Female Colleague Of Mine by JONSYN7154: 4:26pm On Aug 28, 2023
Solofresh2:
Omo that's another topic on it's own
so when you go drop the topic?
Anytime you drop it mention me biko
RomanceRe: How Do You Stop This Female Colleague Of Mine by JONSYN7154: 4:09pm On Aug 28, 2023
Solofresh2:
Brother it's not even about mummy's boy.Woman don show my uncle shege for this life no be small
gist us the story
PoliticsRe: Proof That President Tinubu Attended Chicago State University (Video, Photo) by JONSYN7154: 12:01pm On Aug 28, 2023
KanwuliaExtra:
Nor mind dem.
Thief must born thief ke! cheesy

Name -fake
Parents-fake
Age-fake
Certificate-fake
Life-fake
Education-fake
Employment history-fake
Genes-fake


Haba!!!
Hahaha 😆 you just made my day.
I don laf Taya piss for pant for here.
PoliticsRe: Proof That President Tinubu Attended Chicago State University (Video, Photo) by JONSYN7154: 10:41am On Aug 28, 2023
KanwuliaExtra:
All I see is 'forgery'.
Where dis ya video dey since?
Is it possible that all these video and photo shops exist and A FAKE CERTIFICATE WILL BE GIVEN TO INEC?

All these do not make sense due to lack of consistency.
Too many lingering questions.

NO PRIMARY SCHOOL
NO SECONDARY SCHOOL
FEMALE TRANSCIPT.
DIFFERENT GRADUATION DATES.
TERRIBLE ACCENT FOR SOMEONE WHO EVER LEFT NIGERIA.
LICKING MICROPHONE TO 'TASTE IT'.
DIFFERENT AGES.
TOO MANY LIES!!!
LONG HISTORY OF DISHONESTY AND LACK OF INTEGRITY.


Bottom line?
We can NEVER forgive this drug baron for rigging the 2023 elections and insulting NIGERIANS WHO CAME OUT TO VOTE FOR THEIR CHOICE NOT EGBEKEBE APC!

Oya carry on.
Photo shop wey AI go fit do.
Dem tink say we be mumu.
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Flood Atiku's Tweet On Tinubu's Educational Abracadabra by JONSYN7154: 4:12pm On Aug 27, 2023
ochejoseph:
Those in the lab trying to manufacture 9 technicalities should stop wasting their time Tinubu should prepare to vacate the seat he is illegally occupying
oine, I support you 100%
TravelRe: You Won't Understand Nigeria's Situation Until You Visit An Embassy by JONSYN7154: 6:02am On Aug 26, 2023
Mummyfour:
21st if August, I was at the American embassy for a visa appointment.

From the period spanning 3 hours I was there, nobody left the interview room with a smile or laughter. Almost every one there was rejected.

The funniest thing about the rejection was the verdict on the light blue paper given to the intending travellers which read" you have not demonstrated that you have enough ties to bring you back to Nigeria "

In a layman's terms, it means we are suspecting that you want to japa into the US.

The most painful aspect was a lot of undergraduates that were turned down. A guy that had a $60,000 worth of scholarship was bounced too.

I saw someone who was just going on a study leave from a whole Deloitte where he works in presently in Nigeria being bounced too.
Most of the interviewers didn't even check out relevant documents of the applicants, but just drew their conclusion based on face value.

I was discussing with people and they said inasmuch as the reason for that verdict was baseless and stupid, we Nigerians are viewed as the worst of the worst world citizens to allow access into the US, irrespective of one's qualifications.
We have a government, system and people that are fantastically corrupt.
We have people who engage in and support illegalities.

Our judiciary is biased and is for the highest bidders, and our political system and elections are flawed (none is perfect anywhere in the world) but ours is glaring and very embarrassing.

Our leaders are not patriotic and that is why when we as citizens have our rights trampled on locally or internationally, nothing is done about it.
Nigeria is not regarded as anything again.
In other words, we are just seen as nothing but irritating pollutants.

So for those of you that applaud evil in this land, pray you remain forever in Nigeria because even if it is just to go and visit and come back, they will not allow you.
If you even have a scholarship or any good thing that can take you out of this country, you will be frustrated at the embassy.

And for those of you that left already and are destroying the name of Nigeria, God's punishment awaits you.
And for those that are still making us proud in the US and elsewhere, may God continue to bless your efforts

I rest my case.
Please mods front page
is your visa application turned down too?
TravelRe: You Won't Understand Nigeria's Situation Until You Visit An Embassy by JONSYN7154: 5:58am On Aug 26, 2023
Mummyfour:
Did you bother reading the post very well.
Did I indicate anywhere that Nigerians don't travel to the US.
I only said people are facing more rejections more than before.
You can confirm from anyone that hangs around embassies or are into visa runs
I work with an embassy and what you said I absolutely true.
RomanceRe: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by JONSYN7154: 11:23pm On Aug 25, 2023
You married him in court right?

Go to any court and divorce him and the court judgment will bind. I have seen people who got married via court and still divorce.

Divorce him and enjoy your life to the fullest with peace of mind.
slimzypink:
So quick one, I will try not to make it long.
I was living in an Asian country and I met a Nigerian . I had a very good job, apparently I got a better offer to another country. But then I was seeing this guy . He proposed marriage i was a bit held back as I wasn’t so sure of it. Anyways his parents came to mine in Nigeria and we did a kind of online trad wedding. I moved without him to my new country. While he was left back in Asia. Told him he would have to come to Nigeria so we do court marriage then I can apply for him to join me.

The issue now is that before he came to Nigeria as I was coming for a short visit, I broke up and said I don’t want to do the court marriage . But he insisted his family kept begging and I stupidly agreed.

There have been so many red flags that made me scared

1-he drinks a lot and I have tried to caution him . He said he changed
2-he was illegal in the Asian country for over 6 years making it seem like he is using me for visa purposes
3- his anger issues is top notch and it seems I really can’t control his anger
4- he has nothing doing just anywhere hustle is he does , no focus . all he has is big dreams and he said I should take a loan for his dreams.
5. Told him that if he eventually moves in with me he must work. But I am scared that the lazy attitude he had will still be there . And for some reasons he always attacks me that I am proud cause I have a good job.
Now I am not looking down on him to be Honest. I can be with a man who I am higher than but he should show prospect of wanting to be better than me or at least prospect of wanting to work.

Now he has been illegal in Asia for years so he never left cause he had no papers but because of the court marriage he took the leap and left. During the court marriage on the the day I said I couldn’t go on with it.all my friends that knew him said I shouldn’t go on with it . And he begged and begged. Felt bad for him and I agreed. At least so I take him out of naija back



I went back to my work and he is left in Nigeria just for me to process his papers . But I am having those fears again. That I made a big mistake. My brother met him and the first thing he went doing was going to buy alcohol about 33% own and he downed it in front of my brother he was just meeting the first time . Even on the day of the counselling at regristry the lady there was saying your husband is not patient and all. So I am in a dilemma

I want to look for a way out . How do I divorce him. I fear he will not give me the divorce. Court marriage is barely 2 months as well.
PropertiesRe: Guys' Apartment That Girls Died For In Those Days by JONSYN7154: 6:18pm On Aug 25, 2023
Amotolongbo:
Most especially the one with video or cd player and color TV.

These were the instruments Boda Luku used to impregnate 4 sisters in a family
Are you serious or just joking?
FamilyRe: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by JONSYN7154: 4:47pm On Aug 25, 2023
Verokeena:
It was more of a warning to him.. I didn't neglect him there.. he had access to his phone.. even though as first he wasn't taking my call but I kept texting him..

Now the thing is he was supposed to come out the next day but he refused. Said since I placed him there he'd wish to die there(emotional blackmail if you ask me)

I had to go with his friends to beg him the next day..
Madam, you've left an indelible mark in his life that he'll never forget. Just know that you've lost your husband for good immediately he get another job.
EducationRe: Seeing This As The Parent, What Would You Do? by JONSYN7154: 8:19am On Aug 25, 2023
Am sure the school is in yoruba land. 🤣😂
Foreign AffairsRe: Yevgeny Prigozhin's Dead Body Taken To Medical Examiner's Office by JONSYN7154: 1:30pm On Aug 24, 2023
AfonjaEmir:
Two People that planned to overthrow Putin.

The bad Guy took them out...

Putin is Rugged.

NOW THAT WAGNER OGA is DEAD can Tinubu now enter NIGER REPUBLIC and effect RENEWED HOPE, as a worthless defender of democracy?

If Tinubu doesnt achieve anything..he is a Bloody and certified Coward. Worse than Awolowo.

We watch.. cool
is Awolowo a coward?
What made him a coward? Pls I want to know.
RomanceRe: What’s Your Weirdest Food Combination by JONSYN7154: 1:05pm On Aug 24, 2023
My cousin eating indomie with 🍞 bread.
RomanceRe: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by JONSYN7154: 11:08am On Aug 24, 2023
addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.
Didn't you see the RED FLAG before marrying her?

You're to be blame
RomanceRe: What Do You Do In This Scenario? by JONSYN7154: 9:13am On Aug 24, 2023
mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]You stop talking to someone nine years ago and she keeps asking your family after you…meaning[/color]
Monitoring Spirit
RomanceRe: Please Guys I Seriously Need Your Input On This by JONSYN7154:
Rtk4:
Before i narrate everything, I would like to say that i swear I'm not a SIMP, I was just trying to be a good husband right from the beginning not knowing it was gonna lead to this.

I'm married with three children and my wife is not working for the past 7 years of our marriage. I'm responsible for everything in the house. I'm not complaining about the too much responsibilities but i really wanna end the marriage due to the following reasons, my wife lacks respect for me as a husband sometimes the way she talks to me as if I'm her boy or her mate. This woman called my wife is also very ungrateful. She never appreciate anything. I can't correct her when she's wrong without her getting angry, most times when i send her to buy something, her mood changes or she starts complaining, i can't tell her to cook what my appetite yearns for without her complaining especially swallow. The only thing this woman does consistently are as follows;

**Please could you stay with the kids i was called that my cousin is sick and they are in the hospital

**Please could you stay with the kids my mum's sister is sick and I want to go greet them

**Please could you stay with the kids we just lost our uncle

**Please could you stay with the kids my father's brother wants to see me

**Please could you stay with the kids, this, that and that.... I'm so angry because it doesn't allow me go out to Hussle. One of the most annoying part is when i have an important place to go, i'll have look for where to drop the kids or go with them? Sometimes you need to see the shame in me due to how people always look at me carrying 3kids up and down everywhere as if i don't have a wife. Even if i want to go and watch ball alot of times i'll have to go with them. She has 5 female elder siblings who are all married, why don't they behave like that to their husbands? Sometimes she'll be sitting or maybe she's doing something and one of the kid tells her he/she wants to poo, she'll tell the child go and meet your father, I'll have to go put the child on potty. The frustration is too much. I really wanna end the marriage. Most times when i report some things to the mother, the mother always looks for a way to cover for her daughter, the mother never sees anything wrong in what her daughter does. Do you know one of the thing she does that has gotten me fed up? I'll be in the middle of a very important work or meeting. This woman will start calling and calling, you will think it's something very important, the next thing she'll start texting me that won't you come home? She wants to go and check on her this or that who is in the hospital. So i should leave something very important which will give me money just to come and stay with the children so you could go visit a family member? This is a place you can go with the children. Please guys how do i go about ending this marriage because she is very violent and i don't want to create a scene because she likes creating scenes.
Bros let me tell you the truth.
I'm sincerely sorry because the truth am going to tell you will HURT you.

THE TRUTH IS THAT YOUR WIFE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR AND THE MOTHER IS AWARE OF IT, THATS WHY SHE'S DEFENDING THE DAUGHTER ANYTIME YOU REPORTED HER.
ANYTIME SHE SAYS SHE'S GOING TO SEE SOMEONE ITS THE BOYFRIEND'S PLACE.

TAIL HER AND YOU'LL CATCH HER RED HANDED.
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop? by JONSYN7154: 1:41pm On Aug 23, 2023
Vampire 🧛‍♀️ 🧛‍♂️ 🦇 on the loose.
RomanceRe: True Or False : Men Don't Generally Like Women With Tattoos. by JONSYN7154: 12:59pm On Aug 23, 2023
True
RomanceOur Children Are Sexy! by JONSYN7154(op): 3:29am On Aug 22, 2023
OUR CHILDREN ARE SEXY!

Parent competition on making children go astray.

Few weeks ago, I was at the local airport and as I waited in the departure lounge, I noticed there were many children roaming about but it was understandable since it was summer holiday.

One other thing I noticed was the way most of the children were dressed. Most of them, especially the girls, were dressed in bum shorts, halter necks, cut off jeans, etc.
The clothes in themselves weren't the issue per se; it was the overall look of the children that had me bothered. That was definitely not the first time I noticed it.

A few months before, I had taken my kids to a birthday party and found myself in what could easily have been a night club for kids.
Scanty clothing such as tight or very short clothes, bum shorts, long weaves, etc, seemed to be the dress code.

I noticed my son glancing around, probably wondering, "What in God's world are these other children wearing?" Or something like that.

Not long after, the kids were called out to dance to the hit songs of the season - these songs in my opinion should be rated PG 16. 4 - 6 year olds trooped to the dance floor, miming the sexually explicit songs and gyrating their bodies in the most sensual manner.

They could have given Beyonce a run for her money. They ran their hands over their bodies, shook their booties hard while their parents cheered them on. The boys had their upper shirts unbuttoned and rapped along perfectly to gangsta raps while doing flawless break dance.

Those who danced like actual children where shooed off the dance floor while the lewd ones were cheered on.

As I watched, my child stared out of this circle looking longingly at the others dancing. I knew it was time to leave.

As we left, we went to an eatery where I bought them ice cream and gently explained to them the concept of decency and dancing with decorum.

Another time, at a game arcade for kids, I ran
into a lady who had made-up her kids' faces like they were mannequins for Tara or Mac beauty products. Their skirts were so tight, that running up and down the slide was uncomfortable for them.

So the question is, why are we sexualizing our kids? Why does your 4, 6 or 9 year old girl have to look like a chick?

Why does she have to be hot or sexy?

Should your 8 year old son go around with a comb in his hair and his pants sagged almost to his ankles?

If your child wears bum shorts out of the house at age 3, why should she be expected to wear longer ones at 15?

If she wears 2 rings and 12 bangles at 6, why won't she pierce a second ear hole at 17 and her bellybutton at 19?

Why won't your son pierce his own ear at 15?

Are you setting your children up to be immodest and indecent? What trend are you starting them on? That all these are fashionable or trendy doesn't mean it's ok.

What happened to children wearing dresses.
Children can look very nice and decent, they can be well covered and still look good.

In this age, when children are being abused. Is it wise to make your child an object of anyone's sexual attention?

When I hear some children belt out sexually explicit lyrics, I ask myself how they became exposed to this songs!
As a parent, you can't play the CD of such songs and not expect your children to pick them up; the same goes for watching Mtv Base, Channel O, etc with your children.

Studies have shown that children exposed to a high level of sexually explicit information tend to become sexually active early. Is that your goal as a parent?

Being a parent involves sacrifice. You will need to avoid listening to such music where your children are. Most of those lyrics demean women and teach your daughter that she's just a intimacy gadget and her body is for squeezing.

It teaches the boys that money is everything and women are things to be used to satisfy their primal urges. These music introduces them to a degrading pop culture.

Our children have their lives ahead of them, let's set them on the right path by teaching them to dress decently and sing nice or age-appropriate songs.

Let your children be children. Train up a child in the way that they should go and when they are old, they would not depart from it.!
FamilyOur Children Are Sexy! by JONSYN7154(op): 3:19am On Aug 22, 2023
OUR CHILDREN ARE SEXY!

Parent competition on making children go astray.

Few weeks ago, I was at the local airport and as I waited in the departure lounge, I noticed there were many children roaming about but it was understandable since it was summer holiday.

One other thing I noticed was the way most of the children were dressed. Most of them, especially the girls, were dressed in bum shorts, halter necks, cut off jeans, etc.
The clothes in themselves weren't the issue per se; it was the overall look of the children that had me bothered. That was definitely not the first time I noticed it.

A few months before, I had taken my kids to a birthday party and found myself in what could easily have been a night club for kids.
Scanty clothing such as tight or very short clothes, bum shorts, long weaves, etc, seemed to be the dress code.

I noticed my son glancing around, probably wondering, "What in God's world are these other children wearing?" Or something like that.

Not long after, the kids were called out to dance to the hit songs of the season - these songs in my opinion should be rated PG 16. 4 - 6 year olds trooped to the dance floor, miming the sexually explicit songs and gyrating their bodies in the most sensual manner.

They could have given Beyonce a run for her money. They ran their hands over their bodies, shook their booties hard while their parents cheered them on. The boys had their upper shirts unbuttoned and rapped along perfectly to gangsta raps while doing flawless break dance.

Those who danced like actual children where shooed off the dance floor while the lewd ones were cheered on.

As I watched, my child stared out of this circle looking longingly at the others dancing. I knew it was time to leave.

As we left, we went to an eatery where I bought them ice cream and gently explained to them the concept of decency and dancing with decorum.

Another time, at a game arcade for kids, I ran
into a lady who had made-up her kids' faces like they were mannequins for Tara or Mac beauty products. Their skirts were so tight, that running up and down the slide was uncomfortable for them.

So the question is, why are we sexualizing our kids? Why does your 4, 6 or 9 year old girl have to look like a chick?

Why does she have to be hot or sexy?

Should your 8 year old son go around with a comb in his hair and his pants sagged almost to his ankles?

If your child wears bum shorts out of the house at age 3, why should she be expected to wear longer ones at 15?

If she wears 2 rings and 12 bangles at 6, why won't she pierce a second ear hole at 17 and her bellybutton at 19?

Why won't your son pierce his own ear at 15?

Are you setting your children up to be immodest and indecent? What trend are you starting them on? That all these are fashionable or trendy doesn't mean it's ok.

What happened to children wearing dresses.
Children can look very nice and decent, they can be well covered and still look good.

In this age, when children are being abused. Is it wise to make your child an object of anyone's sexual attention?

When I hear some children belt out sexually explicit lyrics, I ask myself how they became exposed to this songs!
As a parent, you can't play the CD of such songs and not expect your children to pick them up; the same goes for watching Mtv Base, Channel O, etc with your children.

Studies have shown that children exposed to a high level of sexually explicit information tend to become sexually active early. Is that your goal as a parent?

Being a parent involves sacrifice. You will need to avoid listening to such music where your children are. Most of those lyrics demean women and teach your daughter that she's just a intimacy gadget and her body is for squeezing.

It teaches the boys that money is everything and women are things to be used to satisfy their primal urges. These music introduces them to a degrading pop culture.

Our children have their lives ahead of them, let's set them on the right path by teaching them to dress decently and sing nice or age-appropriate songs.

Let your children be children. Train up a child in the way that they should go and when they are old, they would not depart from it.!
RomanceRe: I Will Soon Do The Unthinkable, Nobody Wants To Listen To My Predicament by JONSYN7154: 3:05am On Aug 22, 2023
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