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The fear of coup is the beginning of seat up in some countries.

IF YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW

ahnie:
It's not worth it.

e worth am abeg.
See wetin she dey yan.

ahnie:
Rest abeg!!!!

This coming from you a well known tribalist calls for serious sanction from members of this forum.

Make una dey try get small sense, because non Nigerians are also on this forum.

You have bn on the Igbos neck on this forum ...point to know I m not an Igbo lady but I would always Stan the Igbos on this forum.

Before you quote me with derogatory tags,just know say my head nor correct this morning o

hahaha. Abeg mek ur head correct this morning so dat u ho give am wotorwotor

Olaolex:
Lol... Our politicians have shown people shege.

Shegebanza-wofi promax is what they've shown Nigerians.

Olaolex:
Hope it's not what I'm thinking?

It is o and I am in support 100% too.

Ozommadu:
Abeg dey quote people properly.

Me, I be igbo, you said the truth whether you're igbo or not...democracy has not helped Africa, the military government built more infrastructure in nigeria than the useless election riggers we have now.

If e pain anybody, they should hang themselves, i say it again, I be igbo and I don't care.

your opinion.

JASONjnr:
The day Nigeria will organise a coup will be the end of foreign parasites in Africa.

Why do you say its going to be the end of foreign parasites in Africa?

Pls can you explain more?

helpee:
Wait for hopeless agbado crew to come and educate you for free,lol.

Dem job no easy aswear[i][/i]

@ozommadu.



Let us assume you are talking to Yorubas. I take it you are a child. Ask your grand parents. People trooped to the streets to celebrate anytime the military took over in the 80s and 90s. It usually takes them an average of 6months to start crying blood.

I can see the Igbos are now clamoring for coup just because obi lost. It is the same Yorubas that you called Agbados that usually fought the military in those days while your grandfathers in the east were hiding.

From Gani Fawehinmi to Wole Soyinka to Femi falana to Fela, to Beko Kuti to TAI SOLARIN to NADECO and many more

WHILE TINUBU WAS FIGHTING ABACHA IN EXILE, PETER OBI WAS BUSY COLLECTING JOB as TIN CAN PORTS CHAIRMAN FROM THE BRUTAL DICTATOR.

I only hope you Igbos get what you want again. Another Coup. By the time the military incarcerate your generation for speaking thrash on Twitter and Nairaland , you will beg the AGBADOS to fight for you the way your grandfathers have been relying on them to help them anytime their leaders like Ojukwu escape into Abidjan.

May Africa know peace

Am not an igbo but the fact remain that its bad governance like what we are experiencing that's bringing back the military.

ThiefnubuBandit:
We support the military take over in Gabon. On their mandate we stand!!!

I see same happening in Nigeria in no distance time.

Anambra state again?

Alliswell248:
Keep chasing shadows....

That is why Tinubu kept people from the sad East far away from him.
Buhari never appointed any of them as service chief.... because they cannot be trusted.

Bros, this has nothing to do with chasing shadows.

Don't you see the hand writing on the wall? Do you need Daniel to come and read it for you?

People are fed up with the suffering going on now.

Next is NIGERIA.

WHY IS IT THAT BAD THINGS DO COME OUT OF ANAMBRA?

Our NSA. I believe you'll do a better job that what you did in EFCC.

More grace to you sir.

Tomebi:
My uncle came to father and ask for his contract papers my dad never really wanted to give him the contract papers, the man begged my dad to allow him use the papers, so my dad ask what he will gain from him by signing those papers to him, he said he will give my dad 5million as tax and give 50k every month for the fact that he is the owner of the contract company. After this agreement my dad signed the papers to him, any he applied for the contact, luckily for them the contract was awarded to my father company and the first and second money was credited to my dad company account, so my uncle came to ask for the money and my dad transfer the money to him without hesitation because is a project money, and my uncle started paying my dad every month and also assured him that before the project is complete he will give the 5million.
After some period of time he stop the payment for each month and also refuse to pay the 5million for the tax, so my dad went to him to seek for money but he didn't give my dad any response, so my dad have to go and involved some elders of the family, and one of them ask my dad to go and print bank statement so did as he was told, from there we found out that million has credited to my dad company account in different occasions without him receiving any credit or debit alert, for the fact that it a company account my only use the account when he has contract and period he didn't have any contact of it own.
And for the fact that my uncle don't want pay the tax so each time the company credit my dad company account, these man will go behind my dad back to transfer the money to different account shapely he won't even allow the to sit on the account for even 3days.
But my problem is that how will my uncle was able to transfer all these money without my dad's knowledge and how he was able to get access to account and even make it possible for my dad not to receive credit or debit alert and my dad know that he only give the account number that was why when the first and second money was paid he has to come to my dad to transfer the money to him.
As for me my uncle shouldn't have transfer money out my dad account without him knowing and even the phone number use in the account is my dad own, when the first and second was credited my receive alert then the rest he didn't.
So guys I want to know if it a crime for my uncle to transfer all those money from dad company account. The first and second money that was credited to my dad account was 62million naira and dad transfer all these millions to him without hesitation for them to start working on the project. From the third one my didn't have any idea that money was coming in and out of his company account.
And the money in question is more than 40million naira.
So quys if it's a crime for someone to transfer money out your account without your knowledge, if it's a crime I want to report this case.

this is a simple case. Your father can sue him for taking money from his account without knowing.

You father can claim he's the main contractor.

ABOVE ALL, YOU NEED A VERY GOOD LAWYER TO DEFEND YOUR FATHER.

Solofresh2:
Omo that's another topic on it's own

so when you go drop the topic?
Anytime you drop it mention me biko

Solofresh2:
Brother it's not even about mummy's boy.Woman don show my uncle shege for this life no be small

gist us the story

KanwuliaExtra:
Nor mind dem.
Thief must born thief ke!

Name -fake
Parents-fake
Age-fake
Certificate-fake
Life-fake
Education-fake
Employment history-fake
Genes-fake


Haba!!!

Hahaha 😆 you just made my day.
I don laf Taya piss for pant for here.

KanwuliaExtra:
All I see is 'forgery'.
Where dis ya video dey since?
Is it possible that all these video and photo shops exist and A FAKE CERTIFICATE WILL BE GIVEN TO INEC?

All these do not make sense due to lack of consistency.
Too many lingering questions.

NO PRIMARY SCHOOL
NO SECONDARY SCHOOL
FEMALE TRANSCIPT.
DIFFERENT GRADUATION DATES.
TERRIBLE ACCENT FOR SOMEONE WHO EVER LEFT NIGERIA.
LICKING MICROPHONE TO 'TASTE IT'.
DIFFERENT AGES.
TOO MANY LIES!!!
LONG HISTORY OF DISHONESTY AND LACK OF INTEGRITY.


Bottom line?
We can NEVER forgive this drug baron for rigging the 2023 elections and insulting NIGERIANS WHO CAME OUT TO VOTE FOR THEIR CHOICE NOT EGBEKEBE APC!

Oya carry on.

Photo shop wey AI go fit do.
Dem tink say we be mumu.

ochejoseph:
Those in the lab trying to manufacture 9 technicalities should stop wasting their time Tinubu should prepare to vacate the seat he is illegally occupying

oine, I support you 100%

Mummyfour:
21st if August, I was at the American embassy for a visa appointment.

From the period spanning 3 hours I was there, nobody left the interview room with a smile or laughter. Almost every one there was rejected.

The funniest thing about the rejection was the verdict on the light blue paper given to the intending travellers which read" you have not demonstrated that you have enough ties to bring you back to Nigeria "

In a layman's terms, it means we are suspecting that you want to japa into the US.

The most painful aspect was a lot of undergraduates that were turned down. A guy that had a $60,000 worth of scholarship was bounced too.

I saw someone who was just going on a study leave from a whole Deloitte where he works in presently in Nigeria being bounced too.
Most of the interviewers didn't even check out relevant documents of the applicants, but just drew their conclusion based on face value.

I was discussing with people and they said inasmuch as the reason for that verdict was baseless and stupid, we Nigerians are viewed as the worst of the worst world citizens to allow access into the US, irrespective of one's qualifications.
We have a government, system and people that are fantastically corrupt.
We have people who engage in and support illegalities.

Our judiciary is biased and is for the highest bidders, and our political system and elections are flawed (none is perfect anywhere in the world) but ours is glaring and very embarrassing.

Our leaders are not patriotic and that is why when we as citizens have our rights trampled on locally or internationally, nothing is done about it.
Nigeria is not regarded as anything again.
In other words, we are just seen as nothing but irritating pollutants.

So for those of you that applaud evil in this land, pray you remain forever in Nigeria because even if it is just to go and visit and come back, they will not allow you.
If you even have a scholarship or any good thing that can take you out of this country, you will be frustrated at the embassy.

And for those of you that left already and are destroying the name of Nigeria, God's punishment awaits you.
And for those that are still making us proud in the US and elsewhere, may God continue to bless your efforts

I rest my case.
Please mods front page

is your visa application turned down too?

Mummyfour:
Did you bother reading the post very well.
Did I indicate anywhere that Nigerians don't travel to the US.
I only said people are facing more rejections more than before.
You can confirm from anyone that hangs around embassies or are into visa runs

I work with an embassy and what you said I absolutely true.

You married him in court right?

Go to any court and divorce him and the court judgment will bind. I have seen people who got married via court and still divorce.

Divorce him and enjoy your life to the fullest with peace of mind.

slimzypink:
So quick one, I will try not to make it long.
I was living in an Asian country and I met a Nigerian . I had a very good job, apparently I got a better offer to another country. But then I was seeing this guy . He proposed marriage i was a bit held back as I wasn’t so sure of it. Anyways his parents came to mine in Nigeria and we did a kind of online trad wedding. I moved without him to my new country. While he was left back in Asia. Told him he would have to come to Nigeria so we do court marriage then I can apply for him to join me.

The issue now is that before he came to Nigeria as I was coming for a short visit, I broke up and said I don’t want to do the court marriage . But he insisted his family kept begging and I stupidly agreed.

There have been so many red flags that made me scared

1-he drinks a lot and I have tried to caution him . He said he changed
2-he was illegal in the Asian country for over 6 years making it seem like he is using me for visa purposes
3- his anger issues is top notch and it seems I really can’t control his anger
4- he has nothing doing just anywhere hustle is he does , no focus . all he has is big dreams and he said I should take a loan for his dreams.
5. Told him that if he eventually moves in with me he must work. But I am scared that the lazy attitude he had will still be there . And for some reasons he always attacks me that I am proud cause I have a good job.
Now I am not looking down on him to be Honest. I can be with a man who I am higher than but he should show prospect of wanting to be better than me or at least prospect of wanting to work.

Now he has been illegal in Asia for years so he never left cause he had no papers but because of the court marriage he took the leap and left. During the court marriage on the the day I said I couldn’t go on with it.all my friends that knew him said I shouldn’t go on with it . And he begged and begged. Felt bad for him and I agreed. At least so I take him out of naija back



I went back to my work and he is left in Nigeria just for me to process his papers . But I am having those fears again. That I made a big mistake. My brother met him and the first thing he went doing was going to buy alcohol about 33% own and he downed it in front of my brother he was just meeting the first time . Even on the day of the counselling at regristry the lady there was saying your husband is not patient and all. So I am in a dilemma

I want to look for a way out . How do I divorce him. I fear he will not give me the divorce. Court marriage is barely 2 months as well.

Amotolongbo:
Most especially the one with video or cd player and color TV.

These were the instruments Boda Luku used to impregnate 4 sisters in a family

Are you serious or just joking?

Verokeena:
It was more of a warning to him.. I didn't neglect him there.. he had access to his phone.. even though as first he wasn't taking my call but I kept texting him..

Now the thing is he was supposed to come out the next day but he refused. Said since I placed him there he'd wish to die there(emotional blackmail if you ask me)

I had to go with his friends to beg him the next day..

Madam, you've left an indelible mark in his life that he'll never forget. Just know that you've lost your husband for good immediately he get another job.

Am sure the school is in yoruba land. 🤣😂

AfonjaEmir:
Two People that planned to overthrow Putin.

The bad Guy took them out...

Putin is Rugged.

NOW THAT WAGNER OGA is DEAD can Tinubu now enter NIGER REPUBLIC and effect RENEWED HOPE, as a worthless defender of democracy?

If Tinubu doesnt achieve anything..he is a Bloody and certified Coward. Worse than Awolowo.

We watch..

is Awolowo a coward?
What made him a coward? Pls I want to know.

My cousin eating indomie with 🍞 bread.

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Didn't you see the RED FLAG before marrying her?

You're to be blame

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]You stop talking to someone nine years ago and she keeps asking your family after you…meaning[/color]

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