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A man with so many options?

A NEW NAIRALANDER GETTING THE OLD FOLKS FOOLED BY AN IMAGINATIVE COMPELLING STORY. This IS HER SECOND POST SINCE JOINING NAIRALAND. I GUESS BY THE RESPONSE YOU HAVE ATTRACTED GO PUBLISH THE BOOK NOW. IT'S FAKE, FAKE, FAKE STORY. YOU ARE ALREADY LOOSING THE GRIP OF THE TWIST AND TURN OF THE STORY AND AT YOUR WIT'S END. RATHER THAN SAY IT'S A PAINT OF FICTION, YOU KEEP FOOLING PEOPLE. NO HUSBAND CAN DO ALL THAT. THE ANGLE OF THE CHURCH SCENE, THE PASTOR, HIS WIFE AND SOME OF THE CONGREGATION VISITED YOU. THAT CAN NEVER BE A CHURCH OF GOD. PLEASE IT'S ALL A FIGMENT OF IMAGINATION OR FICTION. PERIOD!!!....ARE YOU THE ONLY COUPLE THAT MARRIED AND MUST HOLD THE CHURCH AND WITHOUT YOU THE SERVICE COULD NOT GO ON? THAT ALSO CANNOT BE A PASTOR REALLY. PLEASE CLOSE THIS FAKE THREAD. ENOUGH OF THESE UNWARRANTED EMOTIONS

Please this tale is about denigrating men, to sound that some men are maniacs. Don't fall for the OP commendable piece and mastery of prose. No newly married man will handle sex as described. To a wife... as if it's a woman he will never see again for life. No please!!!!... I don't believe you.

missterious:
I don't even know the Black Magic song. I thought that P square's song with T.I was overrated. "Murda" should have been higher on the list.

Don't mind them, always copying other people. That song was a direct lifting of Kool and the Gang song " lets get it down". Highly over rated and they used TI to sell or promote the song.

That is not and never DBang please. Take a better look.

What goes around come around and every day we age. The younger applicants have become domain defenders and want all the jobs even when the older job seekers with experience may do better. It's a war! The 45yrs and above obviously are discriminated against in Nigeria due to the deluge of younger and desperate applicants who are exploited by being engaged with lower pay. Underlying this trend is that such engaged applicant will not know too that in about 15 or more years time of this kind of job engagement, he would not have any savings enough to become an employer of labour as being opined here and at the same time accruing his age to the class of the poster. So rather than empathize they open their mouths to paint the poster in bad lights. But what is good for the geese is good for the gander. Is it not possible that an employee after so many years of work get an unfortunate dismissal for issues that could happen untimely and unknowingly? Such fate which then leaves the person without gratuity or severance packages and such other things could make one to be looking for job at this age, and they are so many of retired civil servants or retired military and police men in like manner. So friend you are not alone. Just keep searching, your efforts with God on your side something great will come your way. Nairaland is full of young unemployed guys and are here to disparage your views and you should not be downcast at all. Allow them to wallow in their self conceited arrogance and pride that will soon destroy them.

Why waste time looking for job when your ability to write novels or literature is undisputable at least going by this well written prose. I like the write up. You are gifted!

cococandy:
She will still get married to a nice man who
will love her until death do them part.

I'm ashame of your statement here cocoandy! I will threaten to unfollow you if care is not taken. Such a woman is a manizer and won't be satisfied in marriage.

What a pathetic, pitiable and confused girl that you are. You really need help, my mind tells me, you are a teenager or a timid unassuming, unconfident spoilt brat.

You must have committed fornication many times be4 meeting this current boyfriend of yours judging by your experience which you commendably stated to your boyfriend that you enjoy doing it.

Now it's six(6) months into this relationship and it thus means the relationship would have witnessed so many times that you have committed fornication with him, as I'm sure he was not forced.

Your post which is coming six months after you have committed the act is suggesting that the guy may have started loosing the respect for you and you appear to be feeling so, and the reason you posted the question.

Based on your openness, both you and your boyfriend are 'non born again' christians, otherwise your boyfriend ought to have ended his interest in you as you are like a sheep in a wolf's clothing.

You should have asked for opinions from here six months ago to be corrected from your previous errors of your thought and to prepare you for the life of a born again christian

Yes, your follow up post where you stated.., "maybe I should not have stated I'm born again" is right. You are really not born again. You are a sex starved girl and a compromising church going christian who cannot be called a born again child of God yet.

My humble opinion.

When's the best time to have sex to conceive?
The most effective time to have sex is during your fertile window, which can last up to six days every month. These six days are the five days leading up to, and the day of, ovulation, when your body releases an egg.

Your egg will survive for about a day once released. But sperm can survive for up to a week. Hence there is a six-day window for sperm to meet an egg. Our expert obstetrician, Dr Ashwini Nabar, however says that sperm can only actually fertilise an egg for about three days. "Therefore, I count the fertile window as three days," she explains.

You are most likely to conceive if you have intercourse one or two days before you ovulate. However, it's tricky to pinpoint the exact day or two just before ovulation. So if you don't want your love life to be ruled by the calendar, your best bet is simply to enjoy making love every two or three days.

If you want to be more precise, though, you will need to work out when you will ovulate. When you'll ovulate in any given cycle depends on:
the length of your menstrual cycle
how regular your periods are

A menstrual cycle can be as short as 22 days or as long as 36 days. On average, a woman gets her period between 12 days and 14 days after she's ovulated.

If you have a 28-day menstrual cycle, you're likely to ovulate around the middle of your cycle. If you have a short cycle, you could ovulate within days of your period ending. A long cycle could mean that you won't ovulate until two weeks after your period has ended.

Nearly half of women have a cycle length that varies by more than seven days. If your menstrual cycle is different from one month to the next, your fertile window may also vary by about a week between each period.

That's why it's best to have intercourse every two to three days throughout your cycle. It's more effective than focusing your efforts only on the days you think you're about to ovulate. Also, sex every two to three days improves the quality of sperm compared to daily sex.

How do I know when I'm about to ovulate?
You may be very aware of when you ovulate, or you may not notice any changes at all. If you're thinking about getting pregnant, get in touch with your body. Signs that you are approaching ovulation can start around three weeks before you expect your next period. Try looking out for:
Increased vaginal discharge that's wetter, and like stretchy egg white. This is called fertile mucus.
Slight discomfort on one side of your belly (mittelschmerz).
Feeling more sexy.


One of the simplest ways of working out your fertile days is to check your cervical mucus every day. Changes to your mucus are one of the easiest things for you to spot.

CULLED FROM BABY CENTRE, please google if in doubt.

Please do they offer M.sc Economics? I'm interested. Kindly reply ASAP

Liar!!!!!!!, all lies. BTW, how does one believe twice of act to be rape?

nwekesimon68:
Does this address houses all the staffs of the institute including the DG or President of the institute or do they have separate office 4 the above mentioned?

Please don't get yourself confused. The recruitment is for Petroleum Training Institute Effurun, Delta State. The Public Service Institute Abuja is the government parastatal mandated to carry out the recruitment. Stop looking for offices where none exists, and if Effurun /Warri does not sound a good environment to you then don't bother applying at all. The advert in Newspapers like the Vanguard mentioned PTI=Petroleum Training Institute Effurun Delta State

Askralph! Does it just sound as justifiable like that? What is not right can not be right. Who said the husband will die because of the temporal joblessness or set back. Now if based on God's judgment something bad like death happened to the woman, hell fire awaits her for the immorality and concealment of the act. And who said the Job and wealth cannot come to an end. And as commonly said, does the end justify the means?

NobleDandy! And what happens if the wealth vanishes based on the fact that God's law does not support adultery? How do U live with the nemesis of the act?

A man was very poor and he had
nothing in this
world except his wife.
One day, his wife came to him and
said"Honey i've
found a job for you
in that big company, do you like it?" The
man was
very surprised and
happy at the same time. He then
accepted the offer
swiftly.
Three months later, the man became
very rich and
he had his own mansion
and cars, he was very happy living with
his lovely
wife. He always
thanked his wife for helping to make
him a better
man.
Another year past & the man got an
information
from one of the company's
workers that, the company's manager
had sex with
his wife in exchange for
giving him the Job.The man got very
angry and went
home to ask his
wife.
On getting home, the man shouted and
questioned
his wife about the scandal,
the wife didn't deny the accusation,
she said "Its true
honey, i had to do it becos
i love you so much & could no longer
watch you
suffer"{Crying so bitterly}

Now the question is;
1. SUPPOSE YOU ARE THE HUSBAND,
WOULD YOU
FORGIVE YOUR WIFE??

2. WOULD YOU HAVE DONE SAME AS THE WIFE?

Rjasan:
There are three spirits that speaks into the mind of a man.
1. Spirit of the flesh.
2. Spirit of the devil(demons).
3. Spirit of God(The Holy Spirit).
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For we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers and rulers of the darkness of this world and against spiritual wickedness in high places.
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The quality and quantity of the word of God you know and "understand"(If you don't understand it, it won't work for you) sharpens your life as a christian. We are not to resist sin(no form james bond) it'll end up resisting you. Joseph flee he didn't resist. So don't resist evil thoughts. Fight them off with the word of God and they'll die completely. You won't even know when they leave you. If you're a strong man and you're at war with another strong man. You need the help of a stronger man to help you defeat the other strong man.
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The spirits of the devil or demons are principalities and you can't fight them off with your power. These spirits puts thoughts into the heart of men in form of suggestions and if you're not sensitive enough. They encourage the individual to carry out that plan. So you must realise that we are at war with powers and principalities. Who wins depends on who you feed. But thank God. For the weapons of our warfare are not but mighty through God for the pulling of strongholds and casting down imaginations. So feed on the word daily and be devoted to prayer. And every sexual or evil desire will be cleared off your mind and you'l have a renewed mind. REMAIN BLESSED.

God bless U for this piece. My thoughts exactly. In short I cldn't have said succinctly like this.

Winnie1950:
liar!!
I'm from kogi state and got admission to study med surge this year. Pls don't say what you don't know

Winnie, please what was your utme and post utme score?

kennygee: Since when has a laptop become an Ukwu?

Laptop!!! Lol! Flat screen rather.

Oahray: When we say feminism is anti-marriage and anti-family, you femi-nazis would cry foul. Here:

1) An obvious strawman. When did men say submission is THE recipe for success? Hard work is the recipe for success, and at times such hard work is rubbished by arrogant insubordination. If you or your pseudo-Reverend knew the least about social psychology, you'd have realised that dominance and submission is a recurring theme in all human and animal relationships even between platonic friends.

2) I like the way the first two questions are asked without adding marriage to the picture, so you femnists can shift goal posts when you like. I would answer the way it was asked. The key advantage of female submission is the same as the key advantage of male submission to higher (managerial or political) authority. It helps stem unnecessary conflict and it's effect.

3) There's no real 50-50 partnership anywhere in the world that doesn't involve signing legal documents to that effect. Why? To stem future conflict. Why? The average human likes to be dominant over 'equals'. How does this relate to marriage? The man and the woman are not equals in every sense of the word.

Women are generally physically weaker than men. The average woman is more emotional than logical, unlike the average man. Many women have fluctuating emotions because of hormonal issues (pms and post-natal depression anyone?)

A submissive woman helps build up her home and earns the admiration/respect of her husband (if he's reasonable).

4) About the same reason you femi-nazis call every criticism of women misogyny. If you grab every chance to attack the generality of the male folk without ever praising the good parts as if there isn't any, if you blame them for your misfortunes (but never yourself), exaggerate bias against women but downplay bias against men, and bring up gender equality only when it suits the female-folk; face the truth, you are a bitter, man-hating feminist. If you maintain that women don't need men, that makes you lesbian.

5) Many men are brought up from childhood (a mother is usually involved in this training) to believe they are the natural heads of the family. For this, some do not bother trying to earn the respect of their wives. If you BELIEVE you are the head of your firm, how would you view an employee who likes to think you have no right to set any rules? Be sincere.

6) Same reason some people (male and female) defraud others who are trusting. Same reason some ladies lie to get men in prison for a _rape that never happened. Same reason some women maim or kill their innocent babies. It's not because they are men. It's because they are terrible persons.

7) If a man is a monster, he deserves to be treated as one. If he isn't, don't give a dog a bad name so you can hang it.

8 ) Societal norms, family upbringing (including those mothers who pamper their sons), religion. Such a view is as widespread as the view that you must never hit a woman, no matter what she does. Same source, same flaws.

9) See number (6) above. In addition, although domestic violence is bad, a woman should try not to provoke the man unnecessarily with her tongue. There's no monopoly of abuse (verbal abuse is also abuse)

10) Again, it's not because they are men. It's because they are reasonable persons. That's a man that has earned his wife's respect and natural SUBMISSION. Conflict doesn't result in happy families. It could also be because they have a wife who isn't a bitter, selfish, man-hating, blame-pushing feminist.

NB: You feminists seem to have a warped view of submission. It doesn't mean being a puppet or blind obedience. It's simply letting the other person lead. In a group of women, there's always a natural leader. For whatever reason the other women look up to her and let her lead (even without realizing it). Why is submission an issue when it involves men?

Absolutely! Beautiful reply, U wrote my mind and God bless ur beautiful soul. The OP must be suffering from dementia of the brain. Let her advocacy create lesbianism that she is. No sane person would ascribe such derogatory remarks on Biblical injunctions written of old. God is not mocked, U will reap what U have sown. Demented heart!!!....

The Woman should keep quiet. She has skeleton in her closest. Obj knows all the secrets and she has decided to fight dirty. Farida should explain the recommendations made on her by the disgraced Attorney General and Minister of Justice - Aondoaka. She should tell us her relationship with Aondoaka because Aondoaka and chief Ibori are an item. This fight would expose mrs Farida, Aondoaka and why Ibori was given a clean bill of health in the Nigerian Courts

To me, this confirms that they(GEJ & PEJ) do not want to end the beef with Amaechi. So the woman was just watching and expecting Amaechi's physical visit for condolence and the hypocritical way others visited her. Pathetic!

caesaraba: This one is more expensive than buying bulbs na! Haba! From getting the water bottles, filling them up with water and adding bleach. Then to the unthinkable boring of holes in the roof and using adhesives to hold the bottles in place! Why not buy 50 naira bulb that can serve you both during the day and most importantly at night.

On the creative side, it's cool. But it's not really productive......well except of course I find myself in a prehistoric times or in a very remote region without electricity.

Haba, so if u buy N50 bulb to serve both day and night, do u get the light free or u do not remember ur meter or almighty PHCN. Do u think before u talk? Compare the overtime usage of electricity with this concept that only has a fixed cost at the beginning: the cost of bleach, and adhesives.

Hey OP! Why not ask your parents this poser? I think a parent no matter the level of his/her poverty would never hear or support such intention by a daughter. Now you are sexually active, active with who? A boyfriend or guys in random? Does the boyfriend understand your predicament and not willing to do something? So many questions can be asked.

[quote author=Uyi Iredia]Happy married life. And PLEASE don't fall my hand by adding yoirselves to the growing list of failed celebrity marriages. Remember T.W.O

T.W.O! Are u not referring to TUNDE WUNMI OBE? Are they not a couple again? Please tell me.

What? Was it the car he were referring to when he said "she deserves more than?". Men, "she deserves it" Your love or what, rather than love brought u together.

She looked pregnant in that picture, or the man has already impregnated her?

NAIROBI, Kenya (AP) -- Officials in Kenya investigating the massive airport fire that gutted the arrival hall at Nairobi's main airport said Thursday that first responders looted electronics, a bank and an ATM during and after the blaze.

The officials said first responders stole electronics and money from an ATM. Another official said that police guarding the site overnight attempted to a take a safe from a bank in the burned-out arrivals hall, which also houses several foreign currency exchange shops.

All four officials who described the alleged looting are close to the investigation. They insisted on anonymity because they weren't authorized to share the information before the investigation is complete.

The fire-fighting response to Wednesday's inferno was criticized as slow and inadequate, but the officials could not definitely say the looting was carried out by firefighters. One official said there was now behind-the-scenes finger pointing taking place between the police, fire department and army. Another official said specialized police units had attempted to steal the safe overnight.

The criminal investigations policeman for the airport, Joseph Ngisa, said he hasn't received formal complaints of theft and that police are waiting for affected institutions to report what they lost in the fire.

All public servants in Kenya, including police, firefighters and soldiers, are poorly paid and frequently accused of corruption. Police officers who guard the entrance to Jomo Kenyatta International Airport are well known in Nairobi for demanding bribes from taxi drivers and other vehicles with Kenyan drivers.

International flights, meanwhile, resumed Thursday as officials improvised immigration and luggage routines.

Kenyan officials, assisted by members of the FBI, investigated the cause of the fire. One of the security officials who spoke to AP said the investigation had ruled out terrorism and was now trying to determine if the fire was intentional or accidental.

Michael Kamau, the cabinet secretary for transport and infrastructure, said Kenyan officials were receiving assistance from international agencies "because we intend to carry out a full investigation on what happened yesterday." One of the officials who spoke to AP confirmed that members of the FBI were assisting.

Kamau said the design of the airport — constructed in the mid-1970s — made it challenging for firefighters to access certain areas with water hoses. Kamau said he was "satisfied" by the response of firefighters from private companies but did not mention the airport firefighters, who responded slowly and whose equipment wasn't fully functioning.

Jomo Kenyatta International Airport is East Africa's largest aviation hub, and the fire disrupted air travel across the continent as the airport canceled all international flights Wednesday. Many inbound flights were diverted to Tanzania and the Kenyan coastal city of Mombasa. Domestic flights were being operated from the airport's cargo terminal.

Firefighters were desperately short of equipment Wednesday. The airport has fire trucks but some were not filled with water and personnel couldn't be found to drive others. At one point while battling the blaze men in government uniforms lined up to pass buckets of water to fight the fire.

No serious injuries were reported.

President Barack Obama called Kenyan President Uhuru Kenyatta to offer U.S. support. The fire broke out on the 15th anniversary of U.S. Embassy bombings in Kenya and Tanzania that killed 224 people in total, mostly Kenyans, but also a dozen Americans.

Nairobi is the capital of East Africa's largest economy, but public-sector services such as police and fire departments are hobbled by small budgets, corrupt money managers and outdated equipment or an absence of equipment.

http://news.yahoo.com/apnewsbreak-banks-looted-kenya-airport-164148691.html

You are likely a Man U fan, though I am a man u fan too, I don't like u making jests of coaches and their club stars. The other day u said Fabregas was scared of Wenger, Arsenal drogbad etc. A girl shd not hate like this. Pep is finer than Mourhino, forget the baldness of his head.

Because of that fake penalty awarded, Drogba makes pranks alot and always get away with it. He is not spectacular and even with him in elephants of cote d' Ivoire they were defeated by unfazed Super eagles at the Nation's cup and went on to win the cup. Drogbad my foot!