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Me sef no understand this story.

Most ladies think of now and not later. Ladies, if he's true to you, loves you, wants you for keeps but earning low or close to nothing now, your duty is to encourage him, love him and always pray, pray, and pray some more. Thank God for you, Op dear.

Universal truth, abi? Maybe I do, mind to educate me?

AJ5ive:
This article is nothing but the truth!
You've a problem with comprehension!!

dollyjoy:
longer hiss.



Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwowwwwwwww

You took the word outta my mouth. People will just sit and be writing nonsense mtchewww!

dollyjoy:
Nonsense article.

Thanks, and Amen!

femlex:
Sorry Sis. I appreciate, your testimony is sure soon. Thanks

That aint my intention. Was only referring to his kung fu act. What ever religious faith one chooses to follow should be respected.

freshcvvs:
Still doesn't change anything. Those who can think can see the "rubbish" underneath the comment. Insulting him for converting is not a joke. (Even though its a hoax).

I bet you aint quick in decifering things or can't seem to read in between lines. Those who understood what I wrote lauged over it. Sorry, but I can't help your reasoning ability.

freshcvvs:
English, i read and read and read, can't find anything reasonable there than the kinda of response i gave it.

Thanks oo, and it's "sis" not "bro"

femlex:
Thanks for the advice Bro, but I don try too for street too o, this na my eight years after my NYSC o, I don struggle add ACA to my name and I started with 35k after six months of searching and praying, so na just time, you go pass here soon.

Maybe you should go through my comment again, read it o'er and o'er to really understand the angle I'm coming from...don't be to quick to quote without understanding.

freshcvvs:
See this one, like say u no where u go be when u die.

For your mind, you think you're qualified for heaven shey? you better start cutting your own firewood o.

Hmmm, I've been job hunting for months now, praying to get a job that pays even if it's 20k for a start, I no see and someone here is talking about 400k job...Lord Jesus, are you awake and seeing this? well Op, I'll advice you stick to the job you love and have passion for. I'm sure your superiors know your worth now and would do anything to keep you. Goodluck!

Pls this govt should take this recession back to where they brought it from. We are praying it ends before this year runs out and Dede VP is saying "before 2020" Does it mean it might get to 2018 or even 19? before then one quarter of Nigerian go don run mad due to excessive thinking, the other go don graduate from the thinking to permanent change of residence and the remaining go be those wey get strong mind to see the end of the whole events. Pls you guys should have a re-think oo.

Very true!

Tochex101:
She took the words out my mouth, its very easy to scream "take your car back", " cut him loose" or "send him away" but I think you need to apply caution and wisdom for as sad as it sounds; that your brother can hurt you.
It's a pity man is soo wicked and ugly natured.

Thank you jare, but it's true

Vorpal:
Your dp is hilarious.

Jus leemii to cry the cry...pple will be using pictures to tell lovers to do impossible things

DONCHRIS9:
... stop cryin nah just an opinion nt a commandment ok?

Hehehehehee, abi oo!

Mekzyzeus:
My dear..his ghostly back flips and death in the monkey shadow style will be TOO MUCH

Ahh!! Very close to my house, I'll try and attend.

jay89:
Godiya's Palace opp Chimcherry Hotel Near Living Faith Barnawa by 12pm

Good for him. At least he'll still be able to practice kung fu when he dies with the wood abi firewood placed above him in his grave.

What if my bf is very large and I'm thin, I should still back him to prove what? Biko, leave this talk. No wonder most ladies develop severe back pain.

Where in Kd? I'd love to attend.

You already know what to do. Unfortunately, persons like this might go the extra mile to inflict injury on their benefactor when they refuse to lend a helping hand again. Maybe you should call the elders in your family and have a meeting.

What's his view about his parents broken marriage? If he's strongely against and condemns it, then he's a keeper. I know parents opinions matter but my dear, it's your life and not theirs. Most people from broken homes strive to keep theirs intact no matter what it takes. And I hope he's not the type that listens to and act upon advice of parents else each parent might poison his mind. As for the 3rd guy, you should imagine the kind of children you'll have if you married him..though that's a secondary consideration when it comes to matters of the heart, but you see the womanizing aspect, it's a "no no" don't even think of getting married to such a person cos there's no guarantee that he'll change after marriage. I'm even surprised your parents mentioned him, that means they care about wealth and not their child's happiness. As for the Pastor, pls he should find another Sister to marry.

gregvash:
Thank you so much. I stopped talking to my In-laws when I first reported her calling me Gold Digger Issue to them, and they laughed at me saying they were watching me to know the real motives behind me marrying their sister and daughter. According to the mum "If the purpose you marry my daughter is because of our wealth, then you have failed".. Sorry to say, all my wedding gifts, I never saw any of it as her family seized it saying it was their tradition and I never fought over it. I am not perfect but at least I have always known the value of Empathy and so I am careful with anyone's feelings

hmm! This is deep. Just talk to her about your feeling and the lack of affection you've developed towards her due to her character. Give her a second chance, if she still exhibits same character, pls let her go before you lose your mind and sanity. I wish you well and Good luck!

I can only imagine what you are going through. In as much as Christianity abhors divorce, the Bible clearly states that it's better to stay on the roof of a house that live in a house with a troublesome woman. I believe your wife doesn't really understand what marriage is all about and her vows at the alter was formed at the tip of her tongue and without meaning to her. My candid advice is you tell her you can't live with her again cos of her character and you need time to get your mind settled, then watch what her reaction will be and her nxt move. And again, pls 'fall out of love' with the other woman and work on this issue. And by the way, have you communicated with your inlaws? Since they took her in the first time (which they weren't supposed to do) I bet they know their daughter and the things she can do. Lastly, it's only a foolish woman that'll disrespect her husband because she's older than he is. Once a man marries you, whether you're 20 or more yrs older, just drop it at the doorstep before entering his house and see him as your lord, master and ruler of the home and stay humble. My one cent though.

Must you even request for alcohol? And yes, you look underage.

Hahahhahahaha, walahi, you wicked!!

yarimo:
SOMALIA

Abeg which country get border with Kaduna make I trek enter.

HolyHero:
Dangote lost 5.5billion dollars and he is still breathing fine.
I lost my 1k yesterday and my chest is doing me somehow

hahahhahahahahahahahahhahahaa...oh lawd! Una no go kill person oo. I'm practically rolling on the floor cos of this comment.

Ahh! These corrective devices..lol. Then, I used to think Mum was wicked and heartless, I'm glad she didn't relent in training us the best way she could.

If he says it's waste of money and she wants it, she should go ahead and buy na. Abi na only man dey spend money for everything during wedding ne?

*falls down from Uziza tree* this has just made my night.