Tonero5200: Any little issue we have she report it to her brother, just because am the cool headed type. I'm tired of the all whole thing, several times have wanted to call it quit but we end up getting back together. On Friday she went out with a guy to shoprite, when I asked who he was, she said they are just friends which was a lie because that guy normally calls her when she's with me.
I i told her, that she can go ahead to date him that me am done with the whole relationship. At first she laughed, then told me I NOR FIT. She's been calling since then which i ignored. his elder bro came to my house with some friends of his that has several stab wounds and injuries all over their body, they didn't touch me, he just asked me what happened and I told him then what he said is I should try work it out with his sister then he Left.
Have made up my mind, but I know this isn't the end of it.. the dude is well known all over the town for his problems and he will be back.
break up oo, report to police and family members incase something happens to u they should know where to start from.
Alaigbopress: Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment. I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.
The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.
I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.
My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.
questioner: I'd like to summarize my issue, Confused on the way forward.
1. I met this beautiful babe at a restaurant - pretty face, fresh baby skin, nice catwalk. She was damn proportionate, average boobs, average butt, avg hips, average height, angelic look, you can take her anywhere kinda girl. She leaves the restaurant some minutes before I do.
2. While driving out, I notice she's still at the bus stop waiting for a bus/cab, so I beckon her and gave her a lift home. We exchanged numbers.
3. Called her two days later asking to hang out, she was hesitant but I persisted and she later agreed
4. We chill out at a bar in the evening but she wasn't acting too friendly, not answering my questions and just behaving hesitant. Infact, a friend I met at the bar wondered if i offended her, I explained we just met and don't know her too well. Luckily, it was one of those Real Madrid Champion's league match days where Benzema was rescuing Madrid from the brink, which made up for her boredom.
5. We were about leaving when she got a call from her younger sister who said she was nearby with a mutual friend of theirs, so younger sis (YS) agreed to join us and then I'll drop them at home together.
6. YS came into the bar and behold she was a stunner! As beautiful as the older sis (OS) but she (YS) had huge boobs and was tall - not kidding but video vixen stuff. Almost every man around turned as she made her way to us. I mean Those boobs was bouncing as she came in She also turned out to be the life of the party extrovert, came in with a big smile, greeting everybody on sight and immediately initiating conversations. infact about 3 guys came to the table adjacent us, just to take her number while we were there.
7. So I ordered another round of drinks and meat and peppersoup and since YS was easier to talk to, I was more comfortable asking her about what they wanted to take etc, which annoyed the OS who asked why I was talking to her YS while she was with me.
8. It came to a head, when YS wanted to request for an extra bottle of water , I couldn't hear cos of loud music, so I placed me hand across her shoulder to pull her mouth nearer my ears (innocent action, believe me) so I can hear her. I suddenly got a slap in the back from OS who warned me not to try what I did again and totally stopped talking to me - I wrote her off after that incident.
9. Shortly after that, we decided to go home, I managed to slip my biz card secretly into YS hands and whispered call me, she looked annoyed and said 'why?'
10. Dropped the girls home and practically forgot about them, I felt OS was no go area and didn't think YS was going to call back...
11. Some days later, very early in the morning, my phoen went boooom....YS was calling and asking why I told her to call me. I suggested we meet later in the day.
12. Picked her up (at junction some distance away from their house) and brought her to my place. While I was still thinking of how to break the ice, she was already stylishly bombarding me with questions. Do you stay alone in this big house - Yes What job do you do - Banker Are you married - No Do you have kids - No You must be old O ? - Just 31+ What about my sister - Nothing between us, I have not spoken to her since that day and that was also the first time we met
She seemed satisfied with all my answers cos she relaxed and became very chatty
13. She came back to my place the next evening and this time around we got smashing, it was mind blowing, she was amazing, energetic and that her long legs were put to good use. I would have called her a 10/10 overall and one for the long haul aside the fact that she said she dropped out of Uni while her older sis is a graduate
14. She later warned we should keep things on the low for now cos her sister might not be happy.
15. Everything seemed to be going well until bang...bout a week later, I got a call from OS, she was obviously trying to win me back asking why I didn't call her back and sh*t I just responded politely but she wasn't deterred, she kept calling like every other day, while I only called back once a while in fact, I had to lie that I had gone for a training and would be away for the next 3 weeks.
16. Problem is, the 3 weeks will expire this weekend and this girl (OS) has promised to give me what she failed to do weeks earlier. Talking smack about how she wanted to spend the night at my place but she was so angry back then bla bla and how she's looking forward to me being back.
Herein, lies my dilemma Younger sister is hooked and we have a little secret going Older sister is also getting hooked and she wanna be starting something Me, the beneficiary (or is it victim), I don confuse - both girls are top tier babes
What do I do?
a) Do the right thing and continue with YS
b) Do the right thing and stop the low key games with YS, and go for OS
c) Do the right thing and enjoy life with both sisters, shebi I no force them
Frankly, I would have gone with option C, na the stuff of dreams, but the things I am hearing these days about babes, I dey cautious about safety, these girls are sisters and if they find out, nobody knows wetin dem fit do.
But NL people, what do you think ?
if they both find out they will have issues with each other, just keep the younger one and tell the other one u not interested or leave both.
APC2: I created this new account to hide my identity.
We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.
Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.
I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.
Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.
So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.
When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.
I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.
just divorce her, you can be sending money for your child upkeep nobody should trap you with child, or she sends you the list of what your child need for you to buy just to prevent your 1 naira from entering her hand. As for the beating you did well, if you have not done that she will continue assaulting you in any slightest provocation knowing fully well you won’t do shit.
They like attacking shops and businesses on mondays, why not lay ambush and open a disguise shop with operatives and volunteers ready to waste these illiterates that are ruining the east.
OyigboUpdate: The owner of the shop is in tears but they are doing it for Buhari to be in tears
They like attacking shops and businesses on mondays, why not lay ambush and open a disguise shop with operatives and volunteers ready to waste these illiterates that are ruining our east for us.
slimfit1: Whoever is close to this man, tell him to keep quiet. Even Buhari kept quiet has his people kept on killing. Dialogue with them, they know you, you don't know them.
crime rate in anambra is high now because of ipob, young men now mobilize themselves to Robb and kidnap in the name of ipob. Go to nnewi or any other ipob territory to get first hand information about their doings, even the ones that did not make it to the news. Citizens are loosing their cars and being kidnapped by gunmen on a daily basis. Wealthy men don’t drive their cars again most of them uses bikes to disguise because of fear. P.O.S stands being robbed daily. Dialogue is not an option, even if my blood brother is making life unbearable for law abiding citizens I support his life should be cut short. No support bad thing.
Francis609: My mum have never liked my wife to the extend of wishing her death when she lost our first baby and I had disowned her for saying that. So far we haven't had any contact since the incident and we are finally proud parents of twins boy and girl born in February. My stepmother have been here for us since day 1 she is in my house taking care of my wife and babies , my mum called saying that she want to come over and take care of my wife and kids and will be spending a month . I lied to her that my wife is with her sister and will let her know when she is back to the house so she can come over. To be Frank I don't want her near my wife because she doesn't likes her and I don't think she have any good plan for us. Did I do the right thing for lying to her my wife is not around or should I give her the chance to come over and see if she have truly change?
Please If you want to understand the full story go through my old threads
don’t scatter ur family with ur hand, go with your wife and kids to visit her whenever u guys got spare time.
jaelz: So today I went for the induction ceremony of a close family friend and the mum to the overall best medical graduating medical student was giving a speech about how she almost aborted him because she got pregnant as teenager out of carelessness and the father didn't want anything to do with the baby so she almost aborted him.
She ended by saying: "God I would have never forgiven myself if I had aborted this baby"
This had me wondering guys if you have ever aborted or failed to abort a baby and how it made you feel on the long run, are you thanking God you didn't or you are happy you did and if you did does the guilt still hunt you till today?
I know of 2 guys, their lives went from 100 - 0 real quick.
TkhGuy: It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,
I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,
She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified, I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,
I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..
I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,
I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,
I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes
I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes
I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,
I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife
I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,
I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder
This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,
We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,
I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,
some said you used her for 3 years, hopefully they go back and read your second paragraph. When it comes to break ups people always think it’s the girl that ends up being used.
Moz22: Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg
if it was abroad as she was the one that hit you first, you have the right to call the cops and lock her up, our African mentality makes some elders will want to ride on us in the name of respect and elder shit, I bet you after reconciliation with her, she will be very careful in anything concerning u because of what you did. Btw I have not seen any comment on here blaming your mom for hitting you first, you are not a kid, she can continue with her verbal fight but not hitting a grown up man.
the least news coming from amambra, methamphetamine boys are becoming brazen robbing residents in the community, while unknown gunmen killing, robbing and kidnapping, I have few friends that lost their cars to robbery in anambra state, don’t drive your flashy car in anambra.
I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.
Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.
There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.
But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.
But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.
I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.
Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also.
Marriages of 15 to 30 years still ends, it’s your mere 8 years, have to move on. I have a friend that dated a chick for 10years the streets and market where he sells even knew them as couple, but my friend saw one smallie that melted his heart, he left the relationship after training his girl in sch and all sorts of spending to be with pretty smallie, there are lots of pretty homely women in nigeria, let no one stress u. As long as u have not put a ring on it, she’s for the whole earth.
There is nothing like heaven or hell, no life after death. All these things are just narratives to control us humans. With the religions just take a look at how the world is, just imagine a world without religion how things will be, Mad max will be better than the world sef.
he said Russia will respond, how will Russia respond, by crippling Russian economy the more, the west controls almost everything, Putin didn’t know the sanctions will hit this hard, he still got close ally in Belarus they should rub shoulders.
L1TTLE: I've been dating her for over three months now, first day I saw her I didn't like her or anything, I just did some biz with her, had a short Convo and left, so along the line we got familiar and we exchanged contacts, went on a casual date, then she painted herself as a God fearing girl, who don't want anything with guys, then I asked her how come her relationship status isn't single on fb, she said she put that to deter guys, I was wondering what she's doing with me since I'm also a guy then she gave me a shocker, that immediately she saw me she knew God want us to be a thing.
Honestly I'm not a God guy, I'm not religious at all, but I have good morals, I have been single for long so I decided to give it a go and we started dating.
not long after that she came to my place, and one thing led to the other and we had sex, it was a very foolish mistake I made because we agreed not to indulge, at least for like three months, and barely two weeks into the relationship we had sex, then I started noticing changes, first she became possessive, like she always wants to know what I am doing, who I am with, where I am at, and I hate that, I don't like feeling like someone owns me but she would always throw a tantrum when I point that out.
Things started going bad for me, financially I was failing here and there, it was a clusterfvck, bad luck everywhere, but I didn't think she was the cause because like I said, I'm not religious, I just believed it's just trying times they come and go, but it started shortly after the sex, I'm just stating it because it's significant.
Second, she calls herself a goddess, at first I thought it was this self appraisal thing girls do, I discovered it's not self appraisal at all, her birth name is some kind of deity where she's from, at this point I started wondering what I got myself into like she's all over me, I can't breathe, I sat her down and tried to talk to her that maybe we should breakup, she started crying and guilt tripped me into having sex with her, and since then whenever she comes around it's always sex, like I'm tired of it now, I will resist and she'll do things, touch me in places and I'll be aroused in seconds, for someone who claimed she's not into sex, she's a vixen on bed, I feel like I don't even know her anymore, lastly I have terrible nightmares now, and it's always sexual, that wasn't the case before I met her, right now I can't think of a way to free myself from her shackles, I just want to undo everything, make everybody dey him dey.
you know the solution to your problem, if you want your normal life back.
Mtschewwww: A GSM network provider (GLO) engineers visited my land yesterday and said they want me to lease a space for their mast installation for a period of 15 years. (They have not told me any amount yet).
The land is in a residential area. Please those who know about this sort of engagement should tell me what it entails because I was asked if I would accept the offer or not so as to tell them the amount and other things involved.
I really want to know the real benefits as well as if there are other health damages that may adversely affect residence living around my compound on the long run?
Their generator will always be on, but not noisy. The mast should be the tallest structure in that environment because of the rays. 24hours light for you. Demand your payment yearly don’t collect that 15years payment once.
Munamoqel: With the high level of prostitution, runs hookup, how do guys cope when getting married to avoid marrying a run girl. Some sites have increased the tempo of transactional sex by ladies. This has increased the probability of marrying a woman that has slept with hundreds of men.
Lagos men how do cope?
Level of prostitution is on the rise in nigeria, people future wives. These girls are literally everywhere, most started from school even after graduating with good results they still can’t stop prostitution.
obembet: There are lots of harmful things in the world such as alcohol, drugs and cigarettes. Cigarettes are smoked and liked being smoked everywhere besides it is poisonous. Although smoking is harmful for people's life.
Even it boldly written on the cigarettes parks. why some say it's very dangerous to the health. But why people still smoking?
WBworldwide: I have been dating this girl for more than a year and she has been nice to me. But things hasn't been fair to me. She's an orphan, same thing as me.
I am a street boy and we are both in our final year in school. I made some money before she came into my life and then I went broke ever since, i am not blaming her or something but there are some things i can't share here about her.
So she travelled for the holiday for like three months now. She has changed, she told me her cousins are doing well and that their boyfriends' bought cars for them and that she has tried for me.
I really feel for her. That was one of the reasons I didn't want her to go home at first, negative influence. So, she told me she needed space that i have not been trying financially.
I told my friend and he said i should forget the girl for now. The thing is, I don't even blame her, I wouldn't stay with myself if I was her.
I'm just heart broken not being able to do anything.
I'm not simping o... Things are going well for me this period without her being here, i just feel for her that's all.
I'm a full stack hustler... I believe myself die... Even area believe me too
. Move on and work more on yourself, Some ladies will be with u thru thick and thin but everyone will not be the same. Marriages of 10 - 25yrs or more still crash and pack up, then what is relationship, u are not even engaged. Don’t feel for her, She have met someone better or will meet someone better.
Bluezy13: Lets say I am to believe this lie... Girls can play the game but with a simp.
Why should a girl invite you for dinner and you went Why didn't you foot the bill instead of her ?? Why did you allow her to fvck you instead of you fvcking her ?? Why didn't you leave impromptu immediately after the fvcking ??
A girl can only do this to a gigolo.
why can’t she just invite you for dinner, Be like Na broke ladies always asking for 2k u always meet. I met a lady online 25th December we wrote for sometime, she invited me for dinner to her crib on 26th, her family came everybody had fun, drinks and food excess. That is how we roll on the island. Ur IQ is just low.
I was in anambra first hand I know lots of bad news that went unreported in the media. a friend of mine called this morning saying his car was snatched yesterday morning, not even at night. Ifeanyi uba 9 million that was snatched also went unreported. Anambra is a dead zone for now.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's Brother Is Taunting Me Always, pls Help! by Jorge91: 1:28pm On May 23, 2022
