₦airaland Forum

Lanrelagboi:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10159109317276013&id=735776012

Una plan no go plan, June 12 we moveee.

Pos vendors bastards, always delaying Niggaz that wants to withdraw their lil change from the atm.

etokhana:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4165130746842717&id=509762239046271

this one the country is complaining of decongesting the cells, 2-3 months these men are out again.

Hunchogee:
GOVERNOR EMMANUEL INSPECTS ONGOING 8.4KM FLOOD CONTROL PROJECT

Governor Udom Emmanuel today paid an unscheduled visit to the construction site of the N14BN, 8.4km Ibrahim Babangida Avenue flood control project.

The Akwa Ibom State Government / World Bank assisted project awarded to China Road and Bridge Corporation,CRBC, cuts across 17 communities in 3 local government areas Uyo, Nsit Ibom and Ibesikpo Asutan.

Governor Emmanuel who was conducted round the project location by the State Commissioner for Environment and Solid Minerals , Sir. Charles Udoh, had in his delegation, top government officials.

https://www.facebook.com/214348235572139/posts/1447964598877157/

with the low population in uyo and rate of employment, development and infrastructure are increasing the state will be the top 5 best in Nigeria soon if a working governor like Governor Udom Emmanuel will succeed him.

Le124:
https://punchng.com/gunmen-rob-25-oyo-estate-households-steal-money-with-pos-machine/

there should not be a time when the poor will consume everybody.

StrangeCase:
My bank OTP Still Sends to My old number Instead of the Updated new Number and I went to the bank (FIDELITY BANK ooooo) and complained that my Otp is still sending to my old number which is already blocked and definitely with a new user Instead of the new number I came here to update.

The fidelity bank staff collected every details and told me it is done and that I should try again in 48 hrs which I did but the problem continues. I went back again and they did another magic and said I should try but still the otp still goes to the old number,

I went back again and the staffs there said they have tried their best that they don't know what to do again, lol ( I was shocked- Imagine, are fidelity staffs this Incompetent?). This particular issue has been on for like a month but still fidelity bank staffs couldn't resolve an online banking issue. Quite suprising.

Please Good people of God how can I resolve this issue because it is totally frustrating?


Please help oooooooo

had similar issue with access bank, as an ordinary man that don’t like stress had to open a new bank account with zenith and continue using my atm to do my online payments.

Mumu people, una no holy reach Israel but they did not pray, they fought for peace.

Hashabiah:
Israel has just started fighting a war they cannot win. The best solution is to broker peace because Muslims are more suicidal than any other religious group out there

palestine is no match to Israel, Israel alone is fire, combined with their American allies they can wipe Palestine off the map.

family6644:
I need serious advise from experienced nairalanders, please forgive my lengthy message because it requires detailed explanations.

I lost my wife exactly 3 months ago, 4 years of relationship and 13 years of marriage with her before she passed on, she left behind 3kids, 13yr old girl 7yr and 3yr old boys. I understand marriages are full of their challenges but we have been through the journey and we came out victorious having a loving and happy home, a union other partners appreciates.

My late wife was so organized and we trainned my kids to be independent while she travels on local business trips. So I just needed to continue our family habit of buying and stocking everything at home while they manage themselves with the help of an older maid who has been part of the family for many years, in short, we are faring quite well as I continue to mourn my wife and carry on with life.

Here is the problem, from a lot of condolence messages coming in on my Facebook, I had the chance to reply some of them 2weeks ago, I met this single mother of two who invited my kids to her daughter's birthday party, i was reluctant but she said it is time to start taking the kids out since they are yet to resume school, exactly what they needed at that point was the usual outing which has been missing for a while since their mother's sickness and after her demise, approx 6months in total. She said it's not a loud party that she needed only my kids for the small sitting room party.

I decided, went to the party with the kids, it was fun for the kids, I have not seen them happy like that in a long while, it made me happy too, they fell in love with the two sisters and their mother all like a miracle, my little 3year old boy started calling her mommy, others follow and it all seem like a family reunion. We left late at night with her girls asking that they meet again the next day which was a Sunday. To cut it short, my kids and hers agreed to meet the next day except for me. To be honest, the lady is a nice and lovely person to be with, she's a realtor who can work from home, she's real and beautiful, she has been a single mother for 4yrs after her husband travelled out and abandoned them to marry another woman, that's according to her.

She called me that her kids could not allow her rest, they said if we can't come, she should bring them to our house, I mildly rejected but i was persuaded by my daughter and my first son to have them around, I could see that they have bonded quite well, I want my kids to be happy too, that's what I have always wanted for them so I agreed and gave them our address. To cut the story short, I find it impossible to separate the two families that has come together to become one, when they were leaving back to their house my kids pleaded with me to allow them go with mommy to her house, I understand that is real because she's lovely with kids. I had the confidence to trust my kids with someone for the first time in my life. They didn't want to come back, I had to go and pick them up the next day, all of them made sure they came back home with me, we started living together as a family and everyone was enjoying it.

It became an automatic affair with her, I was worried about it been too early, I had to involve few of my friends to seek opinions, some were happy that i could get a good mother for my kids this soon, others asked me to stop the family union and give it a little time to study her character. I suggested some space but she felt very bad, she thinks I am sending them away. I had to allow them stay while I use the opportunity to observe the new found love and family.

12days after, I realize that in a bid to reorganize me and help me to move ahead in life, she totally disregards anything that concerns my late wife whom I still hold dear to my heart, same as my daughter and my adopted daughter, I don't like to address her as a maid. We loved and cherished my late wife, everything she introduced seems to be strange to the norms of the family. If I try to raise my concerns for her to adjust, she will simply tell me that the dead is dead and I should just forget everything about her including whatever she stood for as a mother and wife.

If I try to talk some senses into her to make her understand that brooding over the dead is different from honouring and respecting the deseased, she gets really angry claiming I am comparing her with a dead person. Whatever she discovers as our way of doing things in the family she disregards it and replaces it with her own way without minding how we feel as a family or how easy or difficult it is for us to adjust.

It looks like we are the only ones tolerating and accommodating them here, I have tried with no avail to stop her from insulting the memory of my late wife. I discussed with each and everyone at home, they all wish I could perform a miracle to have them leave because no one can tolerate the mother and kids anymore, I am equally fed up myself and willing to take a break.

I have a friend who is aware of my problems with her, he told me that I am the problem here, he said it will be hard for any woman to fit into our family way of doing things and it will be difficult for us to cope with a different way of life introduced by another woman.

I hope I can get one or two advices that could help. I am quite confused

how do u want your wife’s family to look at u, barely 3 months u have moved on

Famousblogng:
A huge python has died after swallowing a pregnant goat earlier in sagamu.

allah blessed them with surplus meat for eid.

lalasticlala:
https://www.thecable.ng/ex-nhis-boss-bandits-are-tired-they-want-genuine-peace/amp

tell them no peace for the wicked

lalasticlala:
https://twitter.com/SaharaReporters/status/1391624514472132609

small bridge he cannot build properly what is the difference between him and Desmond Elliot

wale377:
Davido smacks his daughter for attempting to twerk at a birthday party in Atlanta


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ln5OF0C93E

she will twerk and do whatever she likes but not at this age.

fergie001:
The Federal Government yesterday re-introduced a nationwide 12am to 4am curfew as part of efforts to curtail further spread of COVID-19.

This prompted #lockdown trending on Twitter yesterday.

The FG has through Lai Mohammed, Information and Culture Minister, urged Nigerians to disregard the news.



TVC

that means a new lockdown is looming, this man always says the opposite of what will happen.

Donbabafx1:
Please help with the name and little information about this giant bird I caught in my house. I'm scared even my dogs are barking for the bird

please dont allow those dogs eat that bird, if you cannot keep it safe and feed it, just let it go

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

after nysc pays her, hopefully her place of work during service might pay her cos corpers are looking for places that will pay also, she can still task her parents they will pay, then u too will pay her. ask her what her occupation is that warrants monthly payment, for this girl to ask for monthly money that means u have been paying like maga. Am sure u are scared to leave because of what u have invested in her. U should try other relationships to gain experience since it’s your first.

envoymedia:
HAPPENING NOW!

South East Governors Hold Security Meeting In Enugu (Photos)


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1423026971374197&id=100010007227700

Nnamdi Kanu should be in this meeting or they should fly to wherever he is and hold meeting with him. This shit is becoming unbearable.

Ibehvictor24:
Jude Okoye Shows Off His Expensive Cars


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wG-Gqgynrow

see the hummer wey mayd drive come Dey sleep on top carton.

FaruqMadridCr7:
Good evening nairalanders,I saw this post on frontpage yesterday
httpss://www.nairaland.com/6500388/misconception-only-high-level-education and it really motivate me though I'm supposed to be in school by now but no money,so I've to hustle for myself.

I finished secondary school two years ago,and I did sales boy for 1 year and two months according to what he said hand skill,business and talent is the main thing to utilize in a country like Nigeria, now I'm currently learning graphics designing and printing because I also want to be skilled before going to school

In the post,he mentioned something that has got me thinking about it, which is starting a trade/business young.I've thought about it but never give it a chance,as I'm learning I also want side business with it and I don't know how to go it.

While working as a sales boy I was able to save #60,000 and I'm willing to put it on business I need an advice from you guys on which business is advisable to start with, I'll really appreciate your good advice.

just go and buy any cryptocurrency and keep hustling like nothing happened

mekaboy:
A guy meets a girl, they get her talking. He takes her out once or twice and the next thing she has a problem and asks him to help her with 30k to 200k.

Most guys out of shame will squeeze out the money out of their scarce resorces and give, hoping she will someday agree to have sex with them or date them.

While the guys that understand that money is a a medium of exchange for goods and service, immediately demand sex in return. They tell the girl to meet them in a hotel or home.

Then the girls will always use this line to blackmail the lily livered guys. " What do you take me for?" ," because of common 30k?" ," You can't give me 30k but you want to date me?" you think i am cheap?".

Yes dear, you are cheap. If it was that common you would have it. The guy goes out to exchange a product or service for that money. Why would you want to get it for free?

Most of these girls travel to other towns and sleep with strangers for money in the name of hookup for less.

Now a guy will toast them pay more for what they charge less in transaction.

The girl that would sleep with a guy for 20-40k a night, will now ask a guy for 40k favour. The guys gives, hoping for the same sex.

Tomorrow she asks for 25k, he pays. Next time she asks for 30k and he pays. Finally they have sex and thats it.

See how much he has spent when he would have asked for it in return from the first day she asked .

Now dating is different. When you are dating, you can give any amount to your partner as long as she is understanding.

But these girls that claim they want to know if you can take care of them by asking you for money, are runs girls. Don't be shy to ask for sex as soon as they ask for money.

Its better the friendship ends early enough and you save your money than to start paying. Because once you have paid the initial 30k, you will be hopeful, you will pay another 50k. And now you have invested 80k and you can't just walk away. You will still pay 100k.

So as soon as they start asking for that money, dont be shy to ask for something in return. Money is legal tender, used in exchange of goods and services. The only thing you owe a girl you are toasting is to take her out on a date. Buy her food and drinks.

that’s y I like working class ladies, even when they are in need at least you know this lady has something doing not being jobless and demanding for money anyhow.

seyi360:
Ladies are most guilty of this, after feeling choked by a man's relentless wooing, to pity his "destiny", they give in. This wrong footing gives undue advantage to an exploitative woman calling the shots. In some instances, the lady eventually falls in love , but not often. On many occasions, after milking him , she dumps him.

Some guys too do the same.
Have you loved or been loved out of pity?

if a girl says no or not interested just run �‍♂️ as a man, but you keep pestering her and forming I must get her. It’s pitiful relationship you will get.

This terrorism linked to pantami will forever hunt him, he should just resign.

He just came back from checkup in London he is shocked, bubu should take it easy so he will not go back to London.

Iamdemola1:
Previous threads:
https://www.nairaland.com/6512127/driver-caught-driving-against-traffic

https://www.nairaland.com/6512488/lagos-one-way-saga-police

https://www.nairaland.com/6513946/sanwo-olu-praises-professionalism-rrs-official


https://punchng.com/he-was-so-calm-nigerians-raise-n-5m-for-armed-lagos-policeman-assaulted-by-civilian/

RRS police unit have been the best organized police unit, sars and the other squads are rogues.

Pernotti:
I hear a lot of complaints from guys regarding this so here's what you can do to sort it out.

First thing to remember is that never talk to her about it regardless of what anyone tells you or how bad the behavior makes you feel.. its very counterproductive because she'll never tell you the real reason she does it which is that she's just being mischievous. Besides it makes you sound whiney.

So let's say you send her a message and she takes 15mins to reply, then you should take 15mins as well before you reply her. Next, watch the time it takes her to reply that second message and this time around double that time before replying her... So if she takes 10 or 15mins to reply the second time, take 20 or 30mins respectively before you respond.

Sometimes she can be genuinely busy at work, then you can use your discretion and vary your own texting time, by sometimes responding quicker and other times taking longer to respond.

Happy dating.

Do people still chat like this? If u are busy write it why 15 - 20minutes wait, any other reasons no love found in that relationship

kahal29:
•C’River LG chairmen, 196 councillors threaten to leave party

By Chuks Okocha



https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2021/04/15/pdp-mobilises-tambuwal-obaseki-saraki-to-stop-ayades-planned-defection/amp/

God will purnish all out politicians from apc to the last party in Nigeria. Who gives a Bleep about apc or pdp just do your jobs as leaders and make your people proud, but in this country everything is about political party this and that.

It’s only a fool that will say nigeria is not broke right now. Let’s keep watching.

ogbiwa:
https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/world-news/monster-12ft-alligator-caught-before-23889314

trust my fellow naija brothers as long as it’s harmful to humans snakes, sharks, alligators and other wildlife we go kill them chop before them kill us.

mmadu4:
In a sane country this bokoharam would have been a thing of a past . It doesn't take any special thing to destroy this guys

On God, same thing I have been thinking these men come in hundreds with bikes and cars they leave trails of bullet shells and tyre marks as they move, there is no way nigeria armed forces will say they don’t know boko haram locations.

OEPHIUS:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1413921455618082&id=100010007227700

only wike and Nnamdi Kanu get small sense give their security nice names. Amotekun, ebubeagu and co are wack names

Xscape1993:
Congratulations to them all!

after completion we shall tell

I pity the hunters embarking on something like this with their 1923 guns against ak-47.