it’s not by holding military drills fire 1st shot, then he will know the countries waiting to see his downfall, ally no be for mouth. If they have helped us against bokoharam with all these military wares north would have been a peaceful place.
stampo: Good morning fellow Nairalanders. This is real matters that needs your advice..
A very close friend of mine has found himself in a confused state and will need best advice on how to handle a critical situation.
This guy is already planning to get married with his girlfriend later this year ...plans going on. During the last holidays, he ran into his ex girlfriend after a long while, they exchanged number and he invited her over to have a drink then hang out somewhere.
During the course of the meeting one thing lead to another they had sex...this happened 2 months ago.
My friend just got a call from the ex girlfriend that she missed her period and she is pregnant for him.. My friend was like trying to explain to her that he is get married in few months time and has no plans for her as regards marriage.
The ex girlfriend says she is keeping the pregnancy that my friend should do what ever he feels The issue now how can he tell his girlfriend and parents about it.
Should he stop the planning of the wedding or should he continue with the ex girlfriend ?.
Please your advice on this issue is needed.
After marriage his wife will conceive also since he is a sharp shooter. Nigga better stop that marriage and focus on himself and child first.
I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..
Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.
I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches, at times she makes use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.
The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation.. It's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.
She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she gets her salary.. I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.
I have pleaded with my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.
I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..
I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.
I think no amount of advice you see her will help you out, you have been in an abusive relationship not even married and yet you are scared to act, must have been used to the beatings.
FalseProphet1: I see mummy GO building a mega church in the coming months, I see actors, actress, native doctors, politicians, force men and women filling the place up.
I see her riding in flashy cars and buying a private jet soon, I see her joining politics, I see her threatening fire and brimstone that anyone who doesn't vote for her will burn in hell, I see her winning.
This I have seen.
Are you Daddy GO or pikin GO? this ur prophecy you typed it with confidence.
Dagger111: We got this killed this morning in Sambisa... It was a stressful hunt though. This snake prey on our livestock in same environ. Thank God we nailed it. Sorry we didn't show face, we are only following social media policy, lolz.
my own understanding anything that is harmful to we humans and our livestocks should be terminated, this python can easily kill a 5 years old kid and swallow, if the child wanders carelessly.
otokx: The locals are involved and that is why the political class was a bit reluctant in intervening.
Wike should threaten those motherfuckers, any community that fails to report this act houses and lands will be revoked. Drones should be flying at night to monitor the atmosphere ,those Niggaz born that shit when everyone falls asleep, any other approach is dead on arrival. I never saw a clear morning sky whenever I wake up in that town for 4 years of my stay there.
daggy1987: Ure really an idiot …I don’t think you are in rivers state..come down to aluu some nights u can’t even breath cos of the smell of diesel
The one way to tackle this issue to pay the locals to snitch. It’s really crazy over there. If covid was in the air like black sooth no one will be alive in ph.
EkehPraise: Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..
I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace. So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots. Thank you.
I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.
give her ur own condition too, if she is not a virgin you are getting divorced ASAP.
mu2sa2: Mr man, hezbollah is next door and the isrealis can't crush them. But they have been issuing empty threats against Iran for over a decades. Know this, Isreali society is very sensitive to casualty figures, so isreal just keep "making mouth" but won't start a war with Iran.
if Israel knows hezbollah positions and camps I bet you they will not survive the night, Hamas used residential buildings, school premises, office buildings as shields but were not spared, as we saw the videos of Israel airforce turning high rise buildings to dust, no consequences just Twitter trends and life goes on. The only problem is Innocent people being caught in the crossfire.
HeeBraHim2: Israel is also a terrorist state.... But in this war, Israel has nowhere to hide, they will be wipe out by the Iranian troop.
Iran is the biggest threat in the middle east to the America, Europe world and israel..... Even Satan cannot dare Iran.
Remember that Iran is not something you can toy with without hard consequence.... When a man want to die, he play with tiny lion.
NOV 27 2020 father of Iran nuclear program Mohsen Fakhrizadeh despite keeping a low profile was killed by A.I.-Assisted, Remote-Control Killing Machine, Smuggled bit by bit into Iran and assembled in Iran, Israel controlled the robot gun from satellite man had his wife in the car but was hit severally after then the gun self destruct into pieces, debris picked up by Iranian officials and Investigation lead to Israel being the culprit. They issued threat till date nothing has been done.
gassbee: Isreal has even acknowledged that hezbolla has precision guided 100,000 rockets that it can use on Isreali cities, this wan no b hamas o
iron dome will intercept 98% of the rockets, Israel knows the threats within their borders go to ur map and see the world class terrorists countries surrounding Isreal, if you are the leader of Israel am sure u will be everly ready, you can fire at Israel no problem, when they detect the direction of those rockets, I bet you don’t wanna see their comeback, ask Gaza. Today Israel is a big threat to terrorists than America. What did Biden do when they lost 13 soldiers in Afghan, try that with Israel and see what will happen.
I know very soon the government will start clamping down on prostitutes, they are just everywhere. wrote this on Twitter few months ago, you can’t even take your little child out without seeing semi naked ladies here and there, from eatery to beach they are just everywhere. If rivers state give start clamping them down at night, they will start appearing day time.
Lanrelagboi: UPDATE: Governor of Lagos State, Mr Babajide Sanwo-Olu today signed the Year 2022 Appropriation Bill into law, the Budget is Christened: “Budget of Consolidation”.
dboY1123: I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.
I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.
My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.
Please what should I do?
The format sharp, have to look for a girl that will not lost her phone. Ain’t acting like a simp, Simps won’t agree they are simps.
NovesaTillie: Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.
Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice. This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him. I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.
Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..
Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also. Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him We both stay in Abuja.
Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.
So this story about some Abuja guys is real, it’s your house you have to right to tell him when to leave.
DamnnNiggarr: Hello Fams, How can I Save my wife's kid brother from taking meth(Methamphetamine)?
meth (methamphetamine) has almost destroyed my wife's kid brother, as i went to my wife's village in imo state to celebrate the christmas with them, what i saw got me devastated.
since we got to the village, my wife and i have not been ourselves because this boy in question is a very humble, down-to-earth boy, he runs errands like there's no tomorrow. i developed this undying love for him when he came to leave with us in bayelsa, he's such a wonderful champ, this has given me a very serious concern because he's my wife's favorite ally in her entire family.
now, i'm planning on arranging some group of men from anambra state to give him the meth treatment but this boy does not like seeking for anybody's trouble but do not look for his, if you seek his trouble one fold, he will give it back to you in hundred folds, that makes him a kind of dangerous human being, and my life and that of my wife will be at stake considering the fact that he has mingled with several bad boys in the hood.
sincerely, i really want to help this boy from the depth of my heart, not because it's affecting my wife negatively, but because of humanity sake and because of who he is.
please family, how best will l go about saving this boy from an impending doom without putting either my life or that of my wife in danger?
lalasticlala seun sissy3 mynd44 dominique
he is gone bro, that drug is very potent, anywhere u take him to he will locate the dealers.
Simvan: Please try and ignore my punctuation errors.
I have plans to study robotics after getting my bsc degree in Nigeria, and I am here to find out from those that have idea on how things go in both countries(Japan and Singapore), with regards to; 1. Cost of living. 2. Where can I get a better degree. 3. My chance of being accepted in their university. 4. My chance of getting a job after graduating.
Please if you have a better suggestions aside the two countries I gave, I am open to learning from you.
A schengen country will be better, at least you can travel to other parts of Europe with ease, if one does not favour you.
iamyemiakins: The holiday season can be a difficult time for introverts. It’s a time of the year that relies heavily on social gatherings that occur in the weeks leading up to Christmas, and even in between Christmas and the New Year. It’s a period which can exhaust us socially and leave us wanting to be left undisturbed in our spaces in peace.
My fellow introverts, how are you coping with all the disturbances during this festive holiday?
I only come out when the sun is down, call up my hood Nigga, hit up some of our hood beer parlours, then back to the house. Approximately 7 to 10pm. About to sleep so I can get ready for my 7pm movement.
bestme: Hello, nairalanders in the house, pls I need your sincere advice in this matter.
I have known this lady I really want to marry for over 2 years now. Though our friendship have been a casual one. The issue is she told me she is a graduate and then i visited her house over 2 years back I met her mom and she asked me where I came from- my tribe and if I am a graduate and told her my tribe and yes I am graduate.
She said she wants her daughter to marry a graduate because she has done her best to train her school. It was of recent we started a serious marriage relationship and I told my pastor and we both met with pastor already.
It Is now she told me that she did not graduate that she was unable to pay school fees, though she went up to 500level and did I.T but her parents only paid 100 and 200 level school fees. She said she has no result/certificate. I told her am honestly disappointed for hiding this from me ever since and she said it is because I have not really made my intentions know to her.
One of the reasons I like her was being a graduate and I have not dreamt of marrying a non graduate.
Pls your sincere advice.
go to her school find out the issues she’s having if it’s something that can be sorted out, then do it. There are things we do for love, don’t forget the check your genotype also.
proxillin: I guess you know about her condition? How grave is it?
I like this babe no be small
U like her no be small, be like u never die before, u need die maybe Na for grave u go get sense, so u can agree to marry someone you have not had sex with before.
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