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Laveda:
I've been supporting, still supporting..

EngrWanted:
It came to a point it was obvious her mother was the one instigating the whole melodrama. The woman even threatened to deal with me if I don't leave her daughter. The father call me on the phone one day and told me to forget her daughter and move on since her wife has started threatening. He sympathize with me and told me in confidence his wife is the problem.

The girl still want me, the father said he's not the one that'll get married to his daughter and that whoever she brought home he'll give his blessing but the mom had been the manipulator.

What do you think?

TheArchangel:
Nay. Ain't seeing any CBN or NNPC or any of them juicy companies there. So do me a favour and fix me somewhere damn it

Vick4rill:
i will be a big liar if i claim to make sense out of the crap u wrote up there. my take is this: the church consist of different calibres of people who are far better than u in all ramification of life. the church has doctors, barristers, great scientiest, presidents and men of great wisdom. so hw come a jobless person like u, who spend all his time on nairaland regard them as fools? and why been hypocritical by calling on the mod, while somebody shows the senselesness in ur post?

TheArchangel:
A job at CBN clinics or its equivalent will do. Thanks

Vick4rill:
that is nt an insult, she jst told u wat u really are. pls answer me, hw are u better than the thousands and millions of people watching that program? what gave u the audacity to call them foolish?

TheArchangel:

TheArchangel:
yeah right?
Awesome

thorpido:
How many uncles sleep with their nieces guy?

TheArchangel:
you must be in your andropause or something

ihatebuhari:
u are senseless bro

ChangeIsCostant:
good one but what about his trial over building collapse

TheArchangel:
What are we even discussing here cos I fail to understand your disses.

TheArchangel:
You do also lack critical thinking abilities. Uncle means uncle unless otherwise stated.

TheArchangel:
Nnaaa eh Your mind is warped. The uncle is now a sugar daddy ba, wtf??

thorpido:
There's no issue here oga.
You knew she's a catholic from the beginning.Catholics prefer to wed in their churches and you need to go through the marriage requiremens too in the church.You should have been prepared for that.
I don't see any issue with an uncle sponsoring your fiance's education after marriage as long as he's not a sugar daddy.
The issue of not laying your hands on her should not even be a point.

Go ahead as long as you are sure of your fiancee's love and commitment.

EfemenaXY:
I honestly don't get what the issue is.

Your lady / fiancée is a medical graduate and it's only normal that she'll want to further her studies in her field, albeit in the U.S.A. Her uncle will be footing the bill so that eases the pressure off you. So what's your problem with that? Pride? Can you afford to shoulder that responsibility 100% or is it that you don't want her to further her studies at all, because what? You're insecure? Is that what the real issue is? If it is, then I'm sorry, you're what we call a dream killer husband.

Re: wedding in the Catholic Church, her parents do have a point. One of the seven sacraments undertaken by Catholics is a promise and comittment to wed in the Catholic Church and bring up their kids as Catholics. Additionally, for a marriage between a catholic and non-catholic to take place in the Catholic Church, you the non-Catholic will be expected to 'convert'. i.e get baptised, receive holy communion, and be confirmed in the Catholic Church.

You may not like this, and you certainly don't have to do any of these, but that's just the way it is. If you love her enough, it's a sacrifice you'll just have to make unless of course she's open to switching over, and from what you've written, that seems unlikely given her family background of staunch Catholics. But either way, it's a good thing you bring this up now and thrash out your differences because this issue will certainly rear it's head again when you start having kids, and decisions will have to be made on where they'll worship. So it's better you have those uncomfortable discussions now, rather than later.

Re: your third point, is that an issue with you?

Really?

Ishilove:
Genetic mismatch or something like that. It's not viable

Ishilove:
I don't think human sperm can inseminate a goat...

Pidggin:
Only the truth will set you free