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This is unbelievable. But where are the child's parents, or is the child an orphan?

jegz25:
but una girls dey also collect diffrerent kinds of joysticks b4 dt age in d south. J3 student knws hw 2 knack,nd so many unwanted child pregnancy.also served in d south.so let's stop d sentiments

But JS3 students here don't come to class when they're pregnant.

In the north, even JS1 student come to class heavily pregnant.

Ishilove:
Child gini?

Dude, his last wife was 18 when he married her. That's the legal age of consent.

Let's not be sentimental here. The North is the hotbed of culturally recognised, paedophilia motivated marriages but the case of Sanusi and his youngest wife is not one.

When I served in the north, the almost common disease you see there is VVF, and the have special hospitals for it, and of course, the usual patients are 'small small' girls.

Ishilove:

Ishilove:
Period is more genteel

Menses is so raw

I remember telling you I'm not a gentleman, right? And you know I'm ruff, rugged and raw.

Oliviaarims:
You should have taken note of my use of "sometimes. "

Indeed I did. All what I said was based on "sometimes" that's why I singled you out and asked you a simple question.

Ishilove:
Whenever men use the word 'menses' I blush. Abeg use 'period' or something less Jarring

Sorry oh. Sorry what about 'menses?'. period seem final, don't you think?

Laveda:
Didn't wanna press on.

You could ask him directly tho.

emmanuelpopson:
FP Things

democracy thrives under a strong opposition... PDP should bury their heads in shame as they can't manage not been in power for just four years of APC reign..

we pray for there soul to be restored..

I wonder why TonyeBarcanista shared this post, when he was the one who spear headed the campaign of falsehood, lies, deceit, half truth that bother on all manner of political prostitution here in Nairaland, in the bid to get favour from the same people who looted and plundered this nation stupidly.

RoyalBlak007:
Good opinion..

[color=#AB56BA] @bolded[/color]

Laveda, instead of liking and sharing this post, shouldn't you ask "what if that 14 year old girl have started seeing her menses?".

crackhaus:
There is some sanity to be found in her yet, to my utmost surprise.

https://m.facebook.com/nkechi.bianze/posts/10154880104472195

Yet, what she spewed above bothers on delusion. No man, unless he's a weakling and total wuss bag will applaud her for that nonsense she posted up there.

Oahray:
the op didn't say you should get married without having money. He's only saying you don't have to be very rich to get married. You CAN (not must) get married and build on what you already have with your wife. How's that delusional?

Yes you can get married and build on what you have. The question now remain, how many women of today will want to build on a marriage where the husband isn't raking in good sums up money?

I guess you OP should have actually hit the nail on the head and state exactly what he meant by "financially buoyant".

Berbierklaus:
Could this be another feminist hullabaloo or she actually makes sense?

lalasticlala

That woman is drunk with delusion.

Smellymouth:
Hahahahah.. I understand boss.. Gidi na crazy place..

Transportation From Ilupeju to Lekki fit collect person salary..

Oho! From Ilepeju to Lekki nahim be dis oh, den come talk of Egbeda to Lekki etc..

Smellymouth:

Hahahahah.. My fellow Barrackian, I have seen guys getting married with absolutely nothing and they are happy with their marriages..

I have also seen people have it all when they get married and then loose it all...

It would be unwise to only consider one aspect of the marriage and ignore the other aspects. You focus on money and ignore the type of spouse you are marrying, you focus on the spouse and ignore the finances..

Considering one aspect in its singularity is not advisable as they are all tied together in an intricate way. the finances are as important as the person you are getting.

Bros ye, abeg, me I tell you say the babe wey go marry man wey dey earn 40K go either be village babe, or an upright girl wey her papa and mama train her well well.

Indeed, I know money isn't all, but money play a major role. I tell you this, if na Lagos you dey dey earn 40K a month, after you comot money for transport, how much you think say the person go get for pocket?

Smellymouth:
Moral of the story, " Cut your cloth according to your size!!"


You are earning 40k a month, but you wan marry Genevieve Nnaji..Boda mi, suicide is real oo..

I believe there is someone for everyone..

Bros which modern day nigerian woman will want to marry a man who earns 40K a month?

Even many of our female Romancelanders here will run helter skelter if such a man approach them for marriage.

Oliviaarims:
But sometimes, when people say what they earn barely sustains them, it's because they try to live very lavishly....they tend to be extravagant, so much so that if the necessary adjustments can be made, it can cater for a small family....with the right woman of course.

Please even people who don't live and spend lavishly still complain about their meagre earnings,

Tell me dear, do you know how much the average graduate earn in a month? That is after removing transportation and the likes, especially if that graduate work and live in Lagos.

Also, which modern day nigerian woman would want to marry a man who 'manage' his 'meagre income', I believe this same modern day nigerian women will readily call such man "a miser" or even "a stingy man".

Then again dear, can you marry such a man?

Henrybright:
I really don't know what to call this, is it modelling??

It's Art!!!. And it's beautiful.

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Ok, I get you now.[/color]

Bro, I'm glad you do. If you earn a living, and what you earn isn't even enough to carter for your own very need(s) then my friend, you shouldn't be thinking of even getting married, or having a kid.

Spending money on women is not the same as spending money on a family. As spending money on women isn't an everyday thing, but spending money on family is a life time endeavour.

Marriage and having kid(s) is a life time investment. You should ask any married couple you know how much they spend on pampers and baby food alone for a start.

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]So, men should remain bachelors because they don't have enough yet?[/color]

Nope! Men should do according to what their heart desire, any man who wants to get married should know the onus fall on him to do whatever he it takes, as if he hasn't come to know that money solves almost 80% of a man's problem (Nigerian man) then I'm afraid he's going to find himself answering questions from his kids, and if care is not taken, his wife.

ayusco85:
True Story

Hmm. This is more than 'True story' bro. If there's another word I can use apart from 'cinch' then I'd use it.

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Yeah, it is.

But from the write-up; he said buoyant doesn't mean you have to be ranking in millions.

You could have a business that earns you at least enough to cater for the family.[/color]

Then from the write-up you should know the OP isn't abreast of what is happening in today's Nigeria.

Having enough to carter for ones family isn't even enough nowadays, especially as nothing is even stable.

Then again, when one see glaringly that what he earns isn't enough to carter for his family immediate needs, then one will know 'finance' play a major role in not just marriage or family matters, but every facet of nigerian existence, because Nigeria, is a money centred society where people worship money.

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Nice one.

All I know is as long as you can take care of your family, you can get married.[/color]

Doesn't taking care of ones family mean one is 'financially buoyant?'.

I couldn't even finish reading this. The OP failed to know that there's a vast difference between, "when a man sees a woman as a means of entertainment, and when he sees them as his equal".

And I never knew there's a right way for one to have baby or start to family

Beside OP how many married couple do you have as friend(s)? I'm curious to know.