₦airaland Forum

KingCheezyPuff:
*You have heard lies but have beheld not
An you shall not
..... bye

Whatever...

Durentt:
mind yo fuvkin biz, bitçh.

Hey gay, how are you, tell me, when was the last time your hairy ass was defiled?

calliope:
Hey you got my vote if you ever want to contest

Now why am I not surprised....

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#8ab2e2]*Mines is the rare variety that words can't explain,normal reasoning can't reach
An when beheld it will leave you in awe
....
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Yea yea heard it all before...

KingCheezyPuff:
*But none as exotic an rare as this 1
.......

Rarity and toxicity has its own specimen, and I've seen a few, so what's so special about yours?

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#8ab2e2]*Then I'm glad I live so far from you [/color]

All the better, there are too many fish in the river.

chopchop2015:
lol...In a relationship where there's mutual love, sex/spending is the least of their worries.. Its just like taking a bottle of coke from the fridge..forget the side talk...

This isn't relationship bro, its about a girl asking you for cash, just because she believe you to be a philanthropist.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#8ab2e2]*That's is irrelavant to this topic
But yes,she could do those things as well.
Now back to the topic at hand,what's yer view on all this[/color]

My view is simple, any girl who asks me for money should be ready to get fucked_ otherwise, she can go fuck_ herself.

Audray:
Are u kidding me? There ar no "Happiest residents" of any city in Nigeria. You should create a "Reasons not to commit suicide out of frustration" list instead. Sincerly,there is BARELY anything Nigerians are happy about right now.

And how do you know this? Just because you're not happy doesn't mean others aren't. And just because you're suicidal doesn't mean others are.

Happiness is a thing that is solely in the hands of every individual. You have the right to be happy, or the right not to.

Monalisa185:

Thank you

vicdom:
Fayose, the greatest Yoruba politician of all time.....
The destroyer of APC
The Buhari's Nightmare
The Slayer of Tinubu and his minions
The incubus and succubus of zombies
I kowtow!!!!!! carry go for presidency 2019!!!

And he is all this because he stopped to buy beans along the way

Why is her face being hidden? And I'll want to know her motive for stabbing her husband to death.

Festivalofholi:
Our mothers didn't behave like dat, wen dey where young, dey dare not collect money frm a man dey r not bethroted to. Dats y i will always demand sex frm a lady who ask me for money. No sex no money, otherwise she can bleep off.

LMAO. I like your style.

PunkyV:
Our media dont report lies. We have strict regulations they have to live by. I'd take their word any day over the stories by the moonlight that gets told here to score cheap points.

Are you comparing stories you see on blogs to that of mainstream media, being told by qualified journalists?

Festivalofholi:
Yeah, dey feel its their right. Dont know who taught dem dat.

Well may be that's how they were wired to think.

Festivalofholi:
Same goes for d ladies. If she wants a transaction where money is exchanged without booty, she shuld go to her dad and relatives.

10,000,000,000 likes. Its funny how these girls can not ask their father and mother for money, but make it their business to pester guys, who they don't want to date for money, and the annoying thing is, when you give them, they'll be the first to call you a mugu!.

rose54321:
While I don't support asking for money generally (boyfriend or otherwise), I don't condemn ladies that do, the constitution gives us freedom of speech, she is free to ask what she likes and so are you, now it's your prerogative to give, SIMPLE.
You either say NO or give, it shouldn't cause any qualms.

So how come its now a problem if the boy ask the girl for sex in return? Or didn't you say there shouldn't be any qualms?

For me, I don't condemn guys who ask girls for sex, in return for the money the girls ask the guys, what I condemn is the girls making a big deal out of it. If a girl thinks her body is precious and important to her, she should also know a guy's money is also important and precious to him. Simple.

The problem is, most guys don't want to say NO, or don't know how to say NO, and so equate the money given to some sort of physical right over her body.

The problem is that of entitlement, that most guys feel they have when they give money.

The problem is, as far as I know, most girls never fail to think before they act, why should a girl ask a guy who she isn't dating for money?

So, I'll also say the real problem is both ways. The sense of entitlement goes both ways, most girls believe they have the right to ask a guy for money, and in return, the guys feel they also have the right to ask the girls for sex. After all, a guy can't come out of the blue and ask a girl for sex, without she making him believe its a give and give situation.

A woman did this to a baby, hmm if this was a man, nairaland female haters would have stormed this thread showering all manner of insults on the man.

I wonder where they suddenly went to.

Okay, when I first saw the word 'prickly,' what jumped into my head was 'when did monalisa185 become kinky'

Nice thread though...

MUVA:
Amaka must be one helluva cheeful giver!

Shagging all Funmi's BF's

And Funmi must really suck in shagging, how else can you attest to why her boyfriend's always run into Amaka's thighs...

I think the world need more Amaka's than Funmi's...

Just course of one loser, she's busy endangering her life. I still fail to understand how some women reason.

rose54321:
If you want a transaction where money is exchanged for b.ooty, I believe what you need my dear is a prostitute.

Then the question becomes, why should a girl be demanding for money from someone she's not dating?

TV01:
We are all free to make efforts to clear the excrement . I am personally a big fan of "received societal wisdom". However, attempts to vary it are fine, but we should do so with due consideration.

Agreed.

That is besides the point. Society recognises it. All and sundry know what it means and entails. It carries prestige and legal/state recognition, regardless of the fuss made, or those party to the actual ceremony.

LOL. Remember all work and noo play make Lezz a doll boy. I still believe in couples being silent as regard throwing enormous marriage ceremonies, but then again, its left for the couples to decide.

That's part of the beauty of marriage - it's very light touch in terms of regulations/oversight. The institutions provides manifold benefits, with little or no downside.

You think? If those regulations/oversight involve allowing and applauding situations where the husbands cheats, and the wife is expected to keep mute, I'll say such beauty is a sham waiting to blow up.

Society can prove to be a class act deviant most times, this we've seen over and over again, as regard what society hold normal, in term of marriage.

So we encourage and support, rather than deter or burden. Restrictions are minimal, and once you fulfil the criteria, off you go. Society does not police you.

I believe me you by 'you' you mean the man, cos as far as I know in today's Nigeria, society has made it its business to police the woman.

And there is sufficient room within it's definition and criteria to personalise it - without a deleterious effect on it's purpose - hence my reference to the dynamic of individual unions.

Understood.

However, if marriage simply becomes whatever a couple want it to be, then it effectively becomes meaningless, and difficult, if not nigh on impossible for society to recognise or codify, celebrate or support.

The crux however, will be whether it delivers the same benefits at the same cost, if everyone interpretes marriage as they personally desire.


TV

Well I believe this applies to you and you alone. Because I believe my marriage should be a personal thing, many couples enter marriage looking for different things, for me, when I walk that path, happiness is my forte, and I'll damn well make sure its devoid of any nonsensical societal belief, norm or value system.

MUVA:
How many BF's does Funmi have? First it was William, and then,Tunde



This sh!t just doesn't add up.

I believe the right question, should be, who tha fuck_ is Tunde? And hell, if you want to ask ol' man Joe Blocks, I'll say Funmi is also cheating on Williams with Tunde, that's why she had the effrontery to blow Tunde's brains out.

Then again, the question now should be, if you were Williams, what will you do to Funmi?.

rose54321:
On the contrary, a fool is one who thinks because he gives her money or spends on her, he's entitled to some boo.ty

And a big fool is the one who always ask for money and others things, but refuse to open up when sunny comes demanding.

KingCheezyPuff:
*°She is NOT a prostitute being paid for services rendered!!!
...you buy for an do nice things for her because you love her an want to!!
She shouldn't have to repay that in some(any) way!!!!

Pardon me, but why can't she buy him nice things, and do nicer things for him also. Or is giving now exclusive for men alone

TV01:
Marriage - whether you believe it is religious or culturally derived - is first and foremost a societal artefact. It is in fact, society' way of affirming the prime relationship that underpins the very notion of society itself.

No doubt. But we all know society has it own very unique way of being full of sh1t.

It why the announcement and ceremony are very publicly carried out. The couple declare their intent to join the institution, society in turn acknowledges, and celebrates with them.

This is why I said its a personal thing, must one announce his marriage plans, and call multitude of people who will not even contribute half a penny to the couples welfare.

Even if marriage is a societal artifact, I still believe the persons intending to get married, don't need society's approval, but the approval of the person one intend to get married to, and their parents. (if need be)

The definition of marriage remains with society - what it is, what it is for - the "dynamics" of any individual union is however down to the couple. A seemingly minor but important distinction.


TV

I believe you know fully well that, we now live in the post modernist era, where everything is subjected to various degree of personal interpretation and definition, thus forming, uninformed opinion?

Ishilove:
With all the PMCs marriages are still breaking up left, right and centre.

The very reason why marriage is suppose to be a personal thing, and as such, its suppose to be defined by the two people involve, not society or religion.