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BellaElla:
Lol. Oga go and marry, give ya wife belle and kpekus her every day for 9 months.u can even demand for it the day she gives birth. It is ur right o. People are telling u their direct experiences, ur are countering it with your friends wives experiences. Ok o. No argument. When ur wife tells u she is pregnant, start kpekusing immediately o. Don't mind the fact that her body is against it cos of the safety of the baby. Throw her up o, hang her legs on the roof. It is ya right o.

Oh so people are telling me their direct experience I should keep mute when they use it to counter my own experience abi? Abeg take your time oh!!!

And is it by force to marry? Abi na u go tell me when and who to marry? If marriage dey worry you go find who to marry, no carry am come for my side abeg.

What I said was directed to the OP and the OP alone, not you or any busy body who can't stand when someone them show just how sentimental they are.

Thank you for understanding.

Ask her what happened.

analice107:
You are saying you like a hardworking, a level headed woman. not bossy and controlling

Exactly. To be frank and sincere, I'm yet to see any woman who will be bossy and controlling to me. That's something I will never take because in have this texan attitude of saying things the way they are. I'm not one who hide my feelings about stuff. When a woman do something I don't like, I tell her straight to her face. That's why when I'm asking a girl out, I lay it all out, no sentiment, just as I expect her to lay it all out. No pretending or forming.

Lumpyy:
see this is not a debate sir,to each woman,her pregnancy story.there are general characteristics and some are peculiar too.its ur generalisation that is a problem to me.its very insensitive to tell a man who is not having IT with his wife as he used too that his pregnant(1st one for that matter)wife is giving him filmsy excuses.if he believes you and starts distrusting his wifes complains nko?i told you iv been pregnant 3tyms.1st one is till 24weeks,sec1 till 38weeks and d 3rd till 40weeks.iv been to anti natal classes and all my friends are in child bearing age.you are talking by the book sir,moi have seen ALOT and being hot in pregnancy is 2/10.

You don't expect me to believe what you say, do you? You're talking from experience, and I'm also talking from experience, from what I've seen and heard. If I have 10 friends, all of them are married with kids, so are my sisters, I've heard what they say regarding sex. Plain and simple.

Since you said every woman isn't wired the same, why should you then be telling me I should believe what you told me, without asking you questions?.

I gave the OP an advice, he should sit down and talk to his wife. She has a responsibility to him, as he has a responsibility to her. That's the way marriage should be, not play to sentiment. Tell me, if you were the one who is Hot and your husband is denying you sex because he's not in the mood, what will you do?

analice107:
You like a woman who challenges you in what way?

A woman who challenge's me to me a better man, and what comes with the territory. I just mean a woman who gives me that extra push, even I want to relent...

Simple, no food for him, and if he's the type who can't cook, better, but if he's like me who knows his kitchen mathematics...

Jacksparr0w127:
you've had enough chat with me today. That's enough to make you happy for the day.


Have a lovely Week



NB: can't access email to this account. Can't reply your PM

LMFAO. It seem you ran outta things to say. Atta boi. Now run along and help momma with preparing Sunday rice and stew.

Jacksparr0w127:
ok.

You act like you hating but you religiously monitor my posts and stalk me around Dude, you are a fan; you're [size=18pt]JackHOLIC[/size]

It's allowed

From telling me, I'm obsessed, to asking if I'm straight, now you're asking if I'm a fan. Tell me Jack, are you this confused and misconstrued?

Jacksparr0w127:
Are you sure yur straight?

You can give me your sister, and let her give you the verdict.

Jacksparr0w127:
This obsession is real

Sorry, you still don't know the meaning of that word.

Jacksparr0w127:
now compare and contrast


Cc ireneony1

Dude, I'm sure you know looks doesn't put money in ones pocket nowadays?

sweetcocoa:
You and I will never be cool, stop trying whatever it is you are doing. I have told you all I want to, stup1d.

So how has your morning been going? Did you just wake up? Have you had breakfast?

sweetcocoa:
Aunty mi, don't mind some people looking for what to say I said to them, that guy bit more than he could chew, just wanted to set him straight.

LMFAO!.

sweetcocoa:
Ekwensu buo gi onu, anu mpama.

Good morning sweetcocoa. How was your night? Hope you dreamt of me?

Lumpyy:
bros please dont cause wahala for the Op's innocent wife.i have been pregnant 3× and i was never HOT for once truout.women are wired diffrently and hence.......its 2/10 of ur friends wifes experience to the ops wifes.i hope when your wife is pregnant you wont compare her body to ur friends wifes oooo.PLEASE!

But I've read articles that support my saying. Might I ask you how you know 2/10 of my friend's wife's experience what the OP's wife experience?

BarcaBlood:
Jst wondering why dey do it...d guy isnt your boyfriend yet you hang around him most of d time and give him false hope. U even discourage girls who like him and get angry when he checks another chick out while with u
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Girls, why why why?

skarlett:
Funny enough its some of you that give yourselves hope when there's none. The lady in question is already dating someone else, you know that already, yet you stay on allowing her to make you a substitute or plan B. Later on when things don't work out, you'll blame the girl for giving you hope when you put yourself in that situation in the first place.

The truth is, you don't get what you're worth, you get what you require. No one can treat you less than you require them to. Whatever you have is because you've allowed and accepted it. If you don't want it, change it. If you can't change it, leave it.

[b]Life's too short to waste your time with someone who's already wasting their time.

This isn't what the OP meant.

BarcaBlood:
Jst wondering why dey do it...d guy isnt your boyfriend yet you hang around him most of d time and give him false hope. U even discourage girls who like him and get angry when he checks another chick out while with u



Girls, why why why?

This happened to me when I was a corp member. This girl was always hanging around because in was the studio manager in OBS. She virtually gave everyone the impression that we were dating, even when I asked her how far, she'll tell me we are friends, but she will continue giving others the impression that we are dating, till I made a fool of her before she let me be.

analice107:
Not really. There's no shame in it, the diversity or shd i say disparity makes the world interesting. Just imagine all of if doing the same things, Zombieville, wont you agree?
Men don't like women say to them 'Yes Love, okay i will do', They like those who disrespect and stand them up.
Women don't like easy men, Men who let them have their way.
I remember one guy long ago, anything i want to do is "Okay by him", What? Why do you always say yes? Why not say no sometimes? when i say yes, its okay. When i say no, its okay. One day i couldn't take it anymore, I told him to say no. Say no, insist on saying no if you don't like. He said " but you liked it", I was like, Which kind man be this?

Aye. But you know there are women who like to boss men, same way there are men who like to boss women. The disparity and diversity of life add spice to it.

I too like a woman who challenges me and make me put my back to work. But I believe I won't be far from the truth when I say women and men sometimes overdo it, thus challenging a man/woman too much turns out to be dis respecting them.

Ishilove:
Ehn ehn, Joseph tell me more

U no serious.

analice107 LOL. Believe me you deserve it.

analice107:
She's actually very mindful.

Indeed she is.

Ishilove:
A man who knows how to treat a woman will get good loving from the woman (except for those ones that have spirit husband, immaturity, bad friends and other stuff worrying them)

Ah so you know them? Lol. I've always maintained that those men who scream about hating to spend money on their wives or girlfriend's do so because they don't have money or they don't like the girl.

Even I can bear testament to the fact that when I like a girl, I fit dash her my entire salary. Baby u no na.

STFUareyouGod:
[size=28pt]STOP QUOTING ME![/size]

Good night

Dude, don't tell me you're having a b1tch fit? And good morning to you too.

Ishilove:
I have always known analice107 is a woman wise beyond her years

I just noticed how inexplicably smart she is at knowing how to treat a man.

Men, in a place full of many bad and spoiled eggs, spotting the good ones can be very different.

analice107:
Am i invited for some rice. Did you spiced it enough with pepper?
Great piece, BTW

And that's why she's mindfulness. I love the way the fullness of her mind works.

STFUareyouGod:
I hate obsession. Pls stop quoting me. Thanks

Excuse me. Please don't misuse the word 'obsession'.

How can one get rid of human bed bugs? They seem to be everywhere.

STFUareyouGod:
lol. Sir/Ma, let it slide

I believe the machiavellian hammer might have hammered him.

Blizzy9ja:
What a jerk


We can also say the Avengers are from Somalia

LOL. Now that'll make Tony Stark look like Seun Osewa.

analice107:
Human beings are essentially the same everywhere, male or female.

True that! We have dumb women just as we have dumb men. Oh what a shame.