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princeade86:
in a sane country, with sane mind, both buhari and atiku will never be president.

Sirjamo:
I am just waiting for when Buhari will be officially declared the winner of this election. This Nairaland will not contain me and all wailing wailers

Na that one you dey wait . Me I am waiting to see the aftermath of relecting Buhari and APC. People go flee from this country before 2021.

dguyindcorner:
Guy, goan face your music na steal you sef wan go steal.

Moreover, Atiku can never become the president of Nigeria even if declared the winner.

KingWarri:
Another educated illiterate.... na road be economy?
abi na Okowa go put food for ur table before you go comot from poverty?

KingWarri:
see hater..... Delta has a diverse economy... Who no know go say na only oil...

slapacha:
It still can’t compete with iPhone X. Not to talk of iPhone XS and Xs max

Oblang:
If Lagos/Ibadan rail is a crumb, then I prefer that kind crumb to whatever PDP have to offer as they have never bin of use to the region for their 16yrs of misrule...

limeta:
Even the contract to print election paper are given to northerners

Every thing seem to be north
How do southerners make money or do they just depend on crumps

BluntBoy:
Every country owes debt. Even the United States owes substantial debts to China and Japan.

Who China and Japan come dey owe

collinsuchendu:
Like for Manchester United, Share for Liverpool

ShawttySoFyne:
Lol the struggle is real.
Why didn't davido think of something more intelligent than this

24hoursreporter:
In every broken marriage or relationship, somebody is always at the receiving end. If someone has ended a relationship with you unceremoniously before, you will understand what I mean.

Trust me, if you are still in love with your ex, you will be reading on how to make your ex wants you back so bad. We understand the feeling when your partner break up with you even if you are still much in love with him or her.

While there are several reasons for breakups, it is sometimes not easy to deal with it. It can be tough, it comes with depression, loneliness, confusion, sadness, to mention but a few.

But if you are reading this article, you are a step closer to making your ex come back running to you after a breakup. The steps outlined here is very detailed and will definitely yield the result you seek.

However, you don’t rush emotional decision after a breakup. Yeah, we know it is very painful and you feel disappointed. But if you really want your man or woman back, you need to fight for it.

Don’t let your instinct or emotions affect your decision. But if you think the time you spent with him or her was awesome. And the memories are unfading, then we can help you with this.

In this article, you will learn the unfailing tips on how to make your ex want you back after a breakup.

Unfailing Tips On How To Make Your Ex Want You Back After A Breakup


#1. Get Some Space


A breakup can be very painful. But it is advisable to get your space after a breakup. This will go a long way to make things easy for you. No matter how much your soul long to be with your partner, try to understand the fact that you guys are no more.

For this singular reason, try to get some space for yourself. Otherwise, you tend to be emotional and transfer aggression easily to people around you.

During this period when you are alone, don’t be aggressive or mean towards your ex. Although you guys are no longer together, you still have history and memories.

When you run into him or her, try to be polite and friendly. While doing this, have it at the back of your mind that you guys are no longer together. But for memory sake, you still need to be friendly.

According to relationship experts, giving your ex some space is necessary. This will enable them to appreciate your true value. Also, you will be able to identify area of faults in the relationship and what you could have done right.

During this time, you can pursue your passion, work on personal development and make yourself valuable. In the end, nothing attracts your ex back to you better than success.

The mistake most people make after a breakup is that they constantly harass their ex. This is definitely wrong, especially if you want the relationship back.

Sometimes, they may feel threatened with this type of behavior and start doing everything possible to avoid you. So, getting some space for yourself is one of the tips on how to make your ex want you back.

#2. Make Yourself Happy

Being happy is one of the tips on how to make your ex want you back after he or she dumped you. You should be able to live your life freely without showing that your happiness depends on them.

We understand the fact that it is not easy, but try to move on happily. Let them see that you are even happier without them. With this attitude, the same person you dumped will come back begging.

I don’t need a soothsayer to know that you love and miss your ex so much. If you don’t love him or her, you will not be reading this article.

Indeed, it is normal and acceptable to love your partner or ex passionately. But it is very wrong and dangerous to depend too much on your partner. This is a great threat to any relationship as it will make the love to be one directional.

Try to always be happy with yourself and don’t depend on anybody to give you the happiness you crave for. Otherwise, your expectation from your partner may crumble the relationship.

Without an iota of doubt, your ex will start longing to be with you again, once they see how happy you are without them.

So, try to master the art of being happy by yourself. If you can do this, every other thing will start falling in place, including your broken relationship.

#3. Try To Figure Out Why Things Ended


Sadly, most people don’t know the reason why things actually ended. So, the first thing to do if you want your ex come to come back is to figure out why things actually ended.

It is not actually advisable to contact your ex and ask him or her what happen. Try to figure it out yourself. Reflect on what actually went wrong during the time you were together.

From experience, most relationships break for two main reasons – lack of proper communication and lack of respect. When these two elements are lacking in a relationship, it is doomed to crumble.

Also, there are some irreconcilable issues that are almost impossible to handle in relationships.

They are like puzzles that are difficult to crack. One of such is feelings not mutual. And one partner trying to change the other, especially if it is completely different from the lifestyle he or she is used to.

Once you figure out why things ended, reflect on how you could have handled them differently.

When you objectively look at the entire circumstances surrounding the breakup, you will know how to discuss with your ex the next time you call or text.

#4. Have A Plan That You Can Implement


Having a plan is one of the most important tips on how to make your ex want you back so bad. If you are still interested in a relationship that once ended, you must have a plan in place to make things better.

The relationship should be redefined and has a well spelled out goals and boundaries. Even if your ex come back, you must ensure that you have plans in place to make the relationship healthier and more interesting.

Also, ensure that both of you work together as a team and take things slowly. It is very important that when your ex is trying to come back, talk things out with him or her to ensure that you are on the same page.

As a rule, don’t rush into physical intimacy with your ex when you guys are trying to come together. He or she may mistake it for a one time fling.

In view of this, it is advisable to communicate things better and arrive at a decision before you kick start the relationship again.

#5. Try To Avoid The Same Mistake

It is very important to avoid the same mistake that led to your ex breaking up with you. In fact, try to be a better and more improved person the next time he or she sees you.

This is one the most important tips on how to make your ex want you back. Even if not for the sake of getting your ex back, but try to avoid the same mistake in your next relationship.

However, the only way to avoid the same mistake is by figuring out what actually went wrong. Once you know the mistakes you made, try to avoid them and prioritize things in the relationship.

#6. Try To Rediscover Yourself


While most people often feel depressed after a breakup, it could actually be the perfect time to rediscover yourself. Take your time and discover your true worth outside the relationship.

During this initial breakup time, instead of feeling depressed, identify your area of interest and start working on it. Also, try to take good care of yourself during this time.

Take yourself out, feel a new atmosphere and sometimes it is advisable to go for a short vacation outside your city. Once you develop yourself better and improve your self-confidence. It is natural for your ex to fall in love with you again when they see these traits in you.

#7. Get His Attention Again


It is a known fact that absence makes the heart grows fonder. When you didn’t contact or text your ex after a breakup, he will naturally miss you. And if he does, he will be tempted to check on you either via call or text.

You must be very rational about this, even if he wants to see you, don’t be too available. When you eventually agree to see him, don’t sound too interested. Be very casual and formal.

When you do this, you have been able to get his attention. Trust me, he will want to see you more. But don’t be too available. This will naturally give you upper hand in the relationship if you guys come back together.

#8. Make Him Jealous


Well, the effectiveness of this tip is a function of whether your ex is the jealous type or still has feelings for you. But if he doesn’t have feelings for you anymore, this may not actually work.

You can look for a casual friend and make your ex feel jealous about him. When you see him very jealous because you are with another guy, it is an indication that he still loves you.

Furthermore, you post a nice picture of you hanging out with some random guy. This will make so jealous that he may want to contact you.

When he contacts you, you will hear a statement like “Babe its been a while, your new boyfriend is handsome”. He can even ask you, so “it is because of that guy you didn’t fight for the relationship?” Once your ex start asking you questions like these, just know that he is still much in love with you.

#9. Reach Out To Him


This is a bit awkward yeah? Reaching out to the same person who broke up with you unceremoniously isn’t an easy task. But when you are still in love with that person, it is worth trying.

Don’t be emotional or romantic when you contact him. Be very polite, formal and friendly. Discuss interesting topic with him and make him feel excited about talking with you. Again! Don’t be emotional and romantic in the conversation.

After having a long conversation with your ex, he will end up thinking about you. In fact, he will end up having strong feelings for you again. This tip is very effective, it is as effective as the love portion of a soothsayer.

If you can apply this tip very well, he will start confiding in you again, even if you aren’t back together yet. In fact, he will be calling you when he needs someone to talk to.

Trust me, this is the first step in the right direction of reunion after a breakup. As the conversation you have with him sometimes will remind him of the good time you guys spent together in the past.

On second thought, he may start looking for ways to patch things up with you so that you can start on a new slate. Just try it and see how it plays out.

Conclusion


Knowing how to make your ex want you back is not easy. There are relationships that are irreconcilable while others still have some glimmers of hope.

Once you still see hope in a broken relationship, these tips shared on this article may work. But it requires consistent effort and patient. It doesn’t happen overnight.

Source: http://www.24hoursreporter.com/2019/01/15/how-to-make-your-ex-want-you-back/

studio14:
It is not that Ngige o

Wilfredpat22:
They are married. Sit down there in your fathers house till 2030 when we meet at Shiloh

dingbang:
Port Harcourt sef. Just live a quiet life and mind ya biz should be your motto if you live in ph.

No go dey claim say you be superman for ph, person wey pass you plenty.

Dshocker:
These are Almajiris that lack vital information about the welfare of the economy...

Albert0011:
U must be very stupid...demented inane vagabond, u re too useless so i will ignore u with passion.

Albert0011:
My able governor more grace to u... i know okowa is not perfect o but when it comes to road construction i will give him a good remark...He has completed 360 roads and some are undergoing construction now, i have felt his impact in my community.

OkumagbaBOY:
There has been some late achievement by Gov. Ifeanyi Okowa by working on some abandon project in okumaga layout Warri Delta state.
According to research,this project has been awarded so many years ago but nothing to show about it.
Many of the people who are living in those street said that "These are tricks Gov.Ifeanyi Okowa is using to buy vote for the forth coming election" While some others said "He's just trying to make Delta state look better"....
See photos below....

Slow11:
Hi nairaland Family,

kindly help out, i had to create this alternative moniker because I'm widely known here with my other moniker.

I'm a female nairalander, today is really a black Thursday for me. I have lost total Focus and concentration, very depressed at the moment. I'm diagnosed with HIv positive, being crying since morning. the worst part of it is, i'm a virgin, had never sex with any man in my entire life. I was advised to start taking medications immediately...

doctors and well experienced nairalanders in the house, will this medication prolong my life? will it cost me expenses? or the HIV will one day turn to AIDS despite the medication? I'm deeply confused!


kindly help push this to the front page, God bless you all!