Onegai: Please calm down, can I send you information via email?
And offer counseling
Let us step back from the cliff.
Because Divorce is wonderful for lawyers looking for rent money.
2 years mandatory separation, if you want to file before then it will cost more.
N1million-N6million to file (yes, I am not joking, especially if you're in Lagos or Abuja). You will pay for extra like printing and any other documents lawyer needs.
File in High Court, she will be served a month later, she has 30 days to respond and your first court date will be 4 to 6 months after, just for Mentioning.
After that, another month or 2 for Conference (you and your wife will go before the Judge, no lawyers allowed to speak and mediate).
Then another month or 2 after for your trial.
Courts are backed up, so unless she responds back Uncontested, expect to spend 3 years on this matter, some people that got caught during Covid spent 10 years.
Even with no kids, you fit spend 2 years if clerks go on strike and since na high court, I dunno how backed up it will be with election tribunals next year (Political Aspirants pay more so their cases will be heard faster than your inconsequential marital issues, sorry )
Are you fighting for custody? Add an additional year plus you'll pay extra for Child Welfare Officers for the mandatory house and school visit. You need to be financially buoyant because you have to pay Child Support or she can garnish your bank accounts
If you start dating, she can sue you for Adultery and sue your side chic for alienation. Upto N10million, another court case.
Court cases are open, so everyone in court that day (bloggers, other petitioners and anyone who just feels like attending) will be listening to you and her air your very dirty laundry in public. They can write about it too, mentioning your name. Not a crime.
Still interested? There's more o...
Oya please drink water, let's talk
Well over 50% of marriages are salvageable and in 5 years time you'll probably feel different.
But if we work on it now, and you give yourself to this process, in 5 years time, I pray I never see you again
Please, let's talk
It is 3 years separation six million Naira is outrageous even if you are a SAN and within a year you can complete the case if you take advantage of the fact that you can sue anywhere in Nigeria for a divorce case and you choose low traffic court like high court ,sagamu .
Kobojunkie: Find the court closest to you. Call and ask them about filing fees and stuff. If the court has a website, check it for more information. 😒
Courts don't quote fees on websites. While the constitution allows a citizen to conduct his case by himself ,it is best you go to NBA office or legal aid or ministry of justice to seek help if you don't have money .
I'm not bouyant financially, how possible/easy for me getting a divorce?
I have had it to the brim, I have been holding it for long and now I'm losing it. It's getting to being violent.
I don't want to lose my freedom by committing any crime.
A child is involved and one is just starting a journey.
If u get a lawyer at 250/500 ,he may abandon the case midstream I will advise you budget 1/1 5m and it should be filed in sagamu high court .I know what I'm saying
Truth is how can a sane man marry someone who is already married ,either to her child or to the baby daddy or both .
And most ,not all.single.motjets are just seeking a burden bearer .a man who will bear the economic burdends of her and her children .a lazy single mum is the real one to avoid .sitting on the internet all date doing cameras down for money .
FOR RENT Very decent 2 rooms +parlour @ aound Total petrol station Isara Remo ,Ogun State suitable for a Modest Christian Young family ( not white garment ).
It is a bq apartment going for 350k plus 50per anjum electricity deposit.
No agency fee no agreement fee
Suitable for GATEWAY POLYTECHNIC STAFF . CHAT ENITAN WhatsApp only 08027345419(
Kalulu44: There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday. We got talking and a friendship developed. From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times. Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes. Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily. . So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail. Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be. Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it. I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem. By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there. 30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun. The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off. Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me. I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off. She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me. I became worried about her. There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day. Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts. That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me. The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days. My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year. . So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye. So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming. . Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money. . So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her. Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask? I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex. She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning. I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me. I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex. . She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500. It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o. . So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that. . P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days. So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind. So guys, what do you think I should do? Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.
Ur parents already warned you about this kind of girl.butnu won't listen till you enter trouble
Just like armed robbery is a choice not brought about by poverty ,prostitution is also a choice unrelated to poverty .poverty is a readily available excuse for men women who will not want to take responsibility for their choices
kaludestiny10: Former president Olusegun Obasanjo already said it before that Fayose lacks character. Fayose doesn't know how to carry himself with charisma as a former governor. He has reduced himself to a boyboy to Wike. Meanwhile, Wike sidelined him and submitted his other friends name to Tinubu for ambassadorial appointment. What a pity.
Glimpsetv: A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her frustration after none of her friends bought her Asobi, just two weeks before her wedding. According to her, despite all her friends being part of the Asobi WhatsApp group since October, not a single one has purchased her Asobi. She shared, "Guys, see how wicked some people can be! My marriage is just a few weeks away, but these girls, none of them bought this Asobi. They’ve been in that WhatsApp group since October, and I even did Asobi for one of them!"
She revealed that almost 29 friends were involved, yet none have stepped up, leaving her feeling that her money has gone to waste. The post has sparked various reactions online, with some suggesting that perhaps the Asobi is too expensive, which might explain why none of her friends have bought it yet.
If u hate apologizing .treat every one of his mistress as your co wives .thanks for telling us your husband is a true African king .I'm also like him .
Properties › To Let 2 Shops By The Main Roads At Takete IRoad,,isara Remo,ogun State by josite(op): 2:54pm On Jun 30
)