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Properties / FOR RENT 2 Br Flats Alagomeji,Isara ,near Gateway Poly ,Sapade/Isara.Remo,Ogun by josite: 10:26am On Sep 09
Newly renovated
2 (Nos) 2 flats up and down with 2 toilets and 2 baths located at Alagomeji ,Isara Remo ,Ogun State ,in the vicinity of Gateway Polytechnic ,Sapade/Isara Remo now ready for rent at N450,000 per Annum with further N45000 payable as agency fee and further N45000 payable as Agreement fee and a further N25000 payable as refundable caution deposit .

Please tell a friend .

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Family / Re: I'm Contemplating Divorce After Two Years by josite: 3:41pm On Sep 03
Successtube:
I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.

Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.

“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.

But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.

My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.

I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.

The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.

I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.

Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!

If u are yet to have kids with her .run fast .

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Car Talk / Re: See The Price Of Brand New Peugeot Saloon Car In 1984 and Its Worth Today by josite: 8:20pm On Aug 26
A 504 gr brand new with ac is around 8000 naira in 1982 .
Romance / Re: How Do I Stop Them From Doing This? by josite: 11:44am On Jul 08
Only a fool complain about what he allowed .

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Religion / Re: We'll Build A Better One: Pastr Chris Reacts To Burning Of Christ Embassy Church by josite: 8:30am On Jun 24
And fire shall consume the tents of bribery":
Job 15:34
Business / Re: What Happened To Mr Biggs? by josite: 8:53am On Jun 15
Over franchising .same as redeem church .poor standards

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Properties / June 2024 Lettings At Sapade/ Isara Remo,ogun State by josite: 7:47am On Jun 14
1.
4 rooms for 4 female Students of Gateway Polytechnic Sapade ,Isara Remo Ogun State to share within a very decent ,newly renovated flat in a gated premises at Alagomeji .

Total package for each of the 4 rooms is N200k per room.

2.
2 bedroom flats at N400K

3.
A room self contained apartment at Mada Hospital ,Isara 264k total package


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Celebrities / Re: Davido Visits Pastor Tobi In London, Invites Him To His Wedding by josite: 7:27pm On Jun 12
One.mote assignment for pastor tobi
Celebrities / Re: Davido And Israel Dance Together Ahead Of Davido's Wedding With Chioma (Video) by josite: 6:45pm On Jun 12
[quote author=IgbuduMonkey post=130431575]I like Davido's friendship with Israel, it will save him from depression associated with being very successful and having all you need and most of what you dreamed of[/quote

I laugh.
Education / Re: 25 Ajayi Crowther University Students Arraigned For Beating Student To Death by josite: 6:55pm On Jun 05
Dennisochampa:
The only form of true justice will be to sentence all of them to life imprisonment without the possibility of a parole.......
This will also serve as a warning to people who take laws into their hands....
j

You will be shocked when their lawyer is done. None of them will be linked to the murder .


It will be one long trial ,I sense tempers will eventually cool and settlement will be made out of court .they are way too many to be hanged .may the Lord comfort the parents of the deceased .
Politics / Re: Infrastructural: Governor Abiodun Commissions Sagamu-Iperu-Ode Road by josite: 6:14am On May 30
promobot04592u:
Here is Summary:

The thread discusses Governor Dapo Abiodun of Ogun State commissioning the Sagamu-Iperu-Ode road as part of his second term activities. Some key points:

- The 8km road was divided into 3 phases for quality construction. Phases 1 and 2 are now complete, with phase 3 awarded and contractor mobilized.
- The road connects Lagos to Ibadan and the rest of the country. Travel time from Lagos to Sagamu has been reduced to under 50 minutes.
- The governor also announced the award of the Siun-Ogere-Iperu-Ilisan road contract to further improve connectivity in the area.

My Comment:
Good to see the Sagamu-Iperu-Ode road completed. Improving road infrastructure is key for economic development and reducing travel times. Kudos to Governor Abiodun for delivering on this project.


Why are you misinforming the public.thr road did not reach ofe .it stopped in front of the governor iperu home
Politics / Re: Infrastructural: Governor Abiodun Commissions Sagamu-Iperu-Ode Road by josite: 6:10am On May 30
SheikhMuniru:
This Idaru Dapo Is Very Sick.. Sagamu-Ogijo-Ikorodu in front of Lafarge Cement Factory Is Yet To Be Completed.

Really.even the sagamu sapade road he is commissioning stop at the entrance of his home in ioeru .

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Crime / Re: Armed Robbers Use Babies As New Tactics: Share With Your Neighbours by josite: 7:35am On May 27
This is an old something on the internet .the poster lied as if it is recent
Romance / Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by josite: 5:55pm On May 10
U.no.get work
Events / Re: My Dead Friend's Funeral Is Causing Problems by josite: 3:43pm On Apr 09
shortgun:
Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.

He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.

In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.

Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.

Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them.
Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.

What do you guys think?

Hear urself .DJ for an untimely death.u deserve being beaten with firewood.

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Politics / Re: Akinwumi Adesina Proposes ‘United States Of Nigeria’ by josite: 9:12pm On Mar 30
Adesina is certainly overstepping his boundary.
Nairaland / General / Re: Money Or Wisdom, Which Is Better? by josite: 8:17am On Mar 29
When you get to a point where u don't have a single kobo and you feel suicidal ,it is only wisdom that can help u do things , say things ,that will turn the situation around .

But when u get to a stage where u have billions and no wisdom ,it is that lack of wisdom that will cause u to purchase untimely death for yourself and your family if they also lack wisdom and will go along with you to watch football in America when your nation is mourning and famined.

Wisdom is the principal thing .get wisdom .wisdom can bring money .many in dilemma wil gladly you seek you with good money so they can benefit from your wisdom.
Business / Re: Modupe Alakija Suspended By Ikoyi Club For Slapping Member by josite: 2:24pm On Mar 24
gforce5:
You get it mate. Ikoyi Club isn't for any Tom, Dick & Harry. If you cannot ascertain the source of your wealth, they will never allow you to become a member. It is a Gentleman's club not a club of touts & prostitutes. Most of these "celebrities" , especially actresses, cannot be members because their source of wealth is suspicious. The same thing with Ikoyi & Apapa Boat club. You cannot be a member unless your source of funds is verifiable.



I.laugh.u don't even know ikoyi club

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Politics / Re: Who Is Your Best Performing Governor? by josite: 12:49pm On Mar 24
Dapo abiodun
Religion / Re: Can A Christian Still Be Under A Curse? by josite: 10:06am On Mar 10
kingxsamz:
Christians will claim to find peace in serving Jesus and their god, but yet they're one of the most troubled people on earth. Even Muslims are not as troubled as they are. You can't tell me you've found peace but yet attend night vigil every Friday midnight, go to church and shout "die by fire" for several hours, cast and bind before you sleep at night and when you wake up in the morning. Pay offering, tithe, first salary of the year e.t.c...All these just to live a normal life that many people who aren't even Christians are already living. It's well. cheesy


Lol.

Troubled on all sides but we are not distressed day
Politics / Re: Niger State Governor, Mohammed Umar Bago Kneels To Greet President Tinubu by josite: 7:02pm On Mar 07
That's how to get the favour of your boss or your husband .
Travel / Re: Airlines That No Longer Exist In Nigeria. Do You Remember Any Of Them? (pic/vid) by josite: 3:08pm On Mar 04
Where is kabob air

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Politics / Re: Hardship Will End Soon, FG Tells Aggrieved Nigerians by josite: 9:36am On Mar 01
As if he knows how and when his presidency will end .let's focus on God.
Politics / Re: Tinubu Admitted To Me He Had No Blueprints On How To Govern Nigeria — Naja'atu by josite: 3:48pm On Feb 21
franchasofficia:
Of course Tinubu made it obvious to all Nigerians that he doesn't have any blueprint or plans on how to govern Nigeria when:


1.) Tinubu refused to show up for Presidential debate to sell his agenda to Nigerian voters


2.) Tinubu went to Chatham house in London and when the anchor asks him questions on how he planned to govern Nigeria if he is elected President of Nigeria, Tinubu instead of using such a rare opportunity to showcase his leadership skills rather assigned various APC members in the room to answer each of the questions while he formed boss of a narcotic gang before the whole world


3.) Tinubu rejected all invitations by journalists and different Nigerian media houses to come and tell Nigerians how he plans to govern Nigeria differently from the calamitous Buhari.



Nigerians knew all these but tribalism and religious madness didn't allow some sections of Nigeria to reason well. Instead they went ahead to vote for a clueless, confused old man called Tinubu in the name of its Yoruba turn even after Yorubas produced Military President in 1976, Interim President in 1993, an annulled President in 1993, another civilian President in 1999 to 2007 and another Vice President from 2015 to 2023. Their conscience and voice of reasoning didn't tell them that they ought to tell their son Tinubu to step aside and allow their Igbo Southern brothers to try for once since 1970, and you guys think nature and God will be happy with Nigeria and Nigerians for such injustice and inhumane treatment of Igbos in Nigeria?




Worst off, the criminal, corrupt INEC Chairman helped some of the deluded heartless Nigerians that gave Tinubu the few votes he got legitimately by switching off the IREV viewing portal to enable Tinubu and his evil APC gang to carry out an electoral heist that led to the foisting of a clueless, drug trafficking criminal as Nigeria's President. Now take a look at where we are today?



Naira is becoming worthless by the day, tell me which other country's currency loses almost 15% of its value everyday?


Kidnappers, terrorists and foreign fulani herdsmen terrorists have taken over all Nigerian forests, rural communities and farming communities, wrecking havoc, molesting women, killing farmers, kidnapping road users and travelers, crippling our economy and rendering Nigerian children parentless and turning many to orphans on daily basis yet the man we call President doesn't care instead he is busy telling Nigerians an imaginary story of how to endure temporary for an unrealistic better tomorrow that even the failed Buhari promised during his own calamitous 8 year regime that never came.




Construction sector that employs majority of Nigerians is already crippled by exorbitant price of cement, agricultural sector that also employ most Nigerians in rural areas have been completely crippled by insecurity caused by rampaging foreign fulani terrorists imported into Nigeria by same APC politicians still Tinubu doesn't care.


Whatever Nigeria is going through today is self inflicted out of hatred and dislike for one another, especially unjust hatred for Igbos that have lasted for decades.


The hatred Hausa-Fulanis and Yorubas have for Igbos when it comes to national politics and development is the reason Nigeria will never develop the way we desire. Until Hausa-Fulanis and Yorubas genuinely repent of their evil mindset towards Igbos when it comes to national politics and economic development, Nigeria will continue to remain below par, it's not a curse, its scriptural.


You cannot cut off one of your hands and still expect yourself not to be handicapped?


Hausa-Fulanis and Yorubas don't want Igbos to produce President of Nigeria so that the evil policies and hidden traps they set against Igbos after the civil war ended in 1970 wont be dismantled by an Igbo President, for this, they are happy a mad man from any other tribe becomes the President of Nigeria instead of a competent Igbo man becoming the President.


Hausa-Fulanis and Yorubas want Igbos and Igbo region to remain underdeveloped to teach Igbos political lesson they had been teaching them since 1970 the civil war ended, and because of that they kept the entire Nigeria on the floor thinking they will destroy only Igbos and their 2x2 shop businesses



Nigeria make una brace up, the future of Nigeria as a nation looks so bleak

Nice write up.

I.am yoruba .
The choice of tinubu was a most difficult choice.we had to choose him to avert another Fulani regime.if tinubu was not in the race ,obi would have been muscled out by atiku.

Election is past.lets advance solutions rather than engage in blame game .

We will not let the president go to sleep.now he has come to realize Nigeria is not lagos

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Politics / Re: 1,500 Redeployed CBN Staff Resume At Lagos Office by josite: 12:09pm On Jan 30
Queengee:
Now that CBN here in Lagos, how do I get job in CBN? am a first class Economics graduate
drop ur WhatsApp.
Politics / Re: 1,500 Redeployed CBN Staff Resume At Lagos Office by josite: 12:08pm On Jan 30
Queengee:
Now that CBN here in Lagos, how do I get job in CBN? am a first class Economics graduate

Send ur cv.
Religion / Re: "Your Colleagues Will Come To You For Food" - Adeboye's Prophecy Sparks Outrage by josite: 9:15am On Jan 21
i recall a pastor os saying ,about 20years ago "you open your door and see some members at your door looking for help and you wonder what they are doing at your door"

and this a pastor that thrives on the offerings and ththes of member ,he is entitled to be helped by members but his members cannot seek help from fellow members.

if you reckon with some of this pastor you will miss heaven so just ignore ,it is not a sin for anybody who is hungry to ask for food so dont be ashamed to do so if you need food

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Politics / Re: Osun Governor, Ademola Adeleke & His Daughter Dancing To Davido’s Song (Video) by josite: 8:43am On Jan 05
This is what u get when you vote an slowpoke as governor.the dancing has now become irritating

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Travel / Re: Nigerian Beaches Have Lost Its Glory. My Journey To Oniru Beach by josite: 8:03pm On Jan 03
Chevrolet076:
After more than 15 years since I visited a beach (Eleko beach), I anticipated seeing and having the usual beach feel of
strong roaring foamy waves,
very cold winds that can sweep you off your feet,
the wide expanse of water so wide and so blue that connects to the sky as far back as your eyes can see,
hundreds of sea creatures especially crabs running back into the sea as it recedes,
the freedom of trekking kilometers down both sides of the sea,
the non-existence of any foreign thing like tractors, restaurant etc close to the sea... Just the traditional dishes and feel.

Everything is so bad that I just felt I wasted money on overrated stuffs.

No roaring waves,
no cold winds,
swimming pool-like water waves and forced waves from the jet skis and boat l cruise.
Green colored sea filled with sea weed
Cans, bottle, food pack littering everywhere
Guys with intimidating looks smoking up and down
Loudspeakers playing useless music and disturbing the peace of the sea,
Almost non-existent sea shells. Except for few tiny ones
Tractors everywhere with security guard threatening you if you dare to cross over to landmark side
Sand heaped on all four sides of the sea making it look like a swimming pool. Imagine a whole beach o


Everything has been monitized and the beach is so small that it's choking.

You can only have fun by buying overpriced things. Boat cruise at 3k, horse riding for just a short distance at 2k per person, one tiny suya at 2k, entry fẹẹ increased to 2k as well.

If not for the other families that came with football which we started playing, what would my holiday look like?

It is well. I just think not everything should be monitized and milked so it loses its natural feel.

Felt so bad for nature. The beach's sadness penetrated through my bones cry cry cry cry cry cry

Has anyone experienced this? Any idea of a good beach that is still an actual beach?


Thank you so much.i have nothing more to add .for me it is the rough looking guys all over these beaches to hat used to be so serene.
Celebrities / Re: 'I Am Dead To My Father' - Emeka Ike's Son, Michael by josite: 11:35am On Dec 27, 2023
if indeed he sent the email below to his son,then the man is the most unfortunate fellow on the face of the earth.and i dont even want to know what the child must have done or said .
“The next morning I create ten minutes film. He sent mail to me, it’s not the first time, he had always sent mail to insult me. He said, ‘you’re doing music, you will never prosper. Don Jazzy will never see you. If I see you on the side of the road, I will spit on you"

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Nairaland / General / Re: Explain Your Year 2023 In One Word! by josite: 11:22am On Dec 27, 2023
is to day not 27/12/2023.its a premature question .wait till after 12midnite on 31/12/2023 for this question to be appropriately asked.for me it will be my best year ever in jesus name ,for me and my household
Politics / Re: Immigration Clears 60,000 Passport Backlogs In 4 Days – Olubunmi Tunji-Ojo by josite: 3:38pm On Dec 14, 2023
https://passport.immigration.gov.ng/applicationhttps://passport.immigration.gov.ng/application

somebody should please help,this site is not respomding or it is not the site for passport renewal

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