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Politics / Re: Pandora Papers: I Have $15 Million In Offshore Accounts - Peter Obi by josite: 3:25pm On Oct 11, 2021
Twice Reuben abati asked him to be specific about how he made the money,the man was parambulating.hevsaid he supply champagne to arise chairman years ago in surulere and he owns majority shares in 3 banks.

He lost a golden opportunity to prove his money is legit.he lost my vote forever.

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Politics / Re: 2023 Presidency : Osinbajo's Moves To Succeed Buhari Pitches Him Against Tinubu by josite: 8:01am On Oct 11, 2021
Electing anyone who has a huge political debt to settle will not help nigeria.lets us have a breath of fresh air and leave tinubu ,osinbajo out of the race.
Romance / Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by josite: 9:33am On Oct 07, 2021
U will regret if u marry that girl because you yourself you are the most unstable man alive

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Politics / Re: Pandora Papers Implicate Peter Obi, Nine Other Nigerians by josite: 2:57pm On Oct 05, 2021
And this is how Peter obi lost a good chance.
Politics / Re: Abubakar Suleja: Why I Called Tinubu Mr President In London by josite: 2:52pm On Oct 05, 2021
We must do something .sanusi already warned pdp apc will present us with 2 useless candidates
Family / Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by josite: 8:24am On Oct 04, 2021
You have made an error.kmowing they don't have a house .u ought to have explained to them what your plans are for them in terms of permanent accommodation.

If the documents your wife's name as well ,use it to convince them u won't mind if d house belongs to u alone but since it is both of u then u will.try build a house for them while they stay in the house for the time being.

Next time be wise.dontbentrust your affairs into the hands of those you cannot invoke the law against.
Family / Re: Why I Refuse To Help A Pregnant Woman, What Can You Say On This? by josite: 7:39am On Sep 30, 2021
Lostchild:
I refuse to help a needy pregnant woman because I am running from my real self. Yes, I needed to save my peace and sanity

In 2018, I move to a new place, a married woman with children started and always comes to meet me to give her whatever she wants from me which I always do. One day, the husband came to me with anger, and told me to stay away from his wife. I said, OK.

Even If i use common sense - helping people I know has landed me in too many conflicts, they are just too over many for me to overlook anymore.

Because of the many years of constant betrayals that lead me to regret my life, I move to a new town and decide to start afresh. In the past I have shown too much financial care and love for women that backfire and work against me. so I decide to stay focus on myself for the first time of my life.

After living in this new place for about six months, a pregnant woman who also live in the same visinity ask me to help her. She told me to lend her some money.

She told me that, she had not eaten since morning and she wants to cook something to eat and her hubby is out of town and will be back later.

She told me she will refund me when her hubby comes back. She was pregnant, hungry and need help.

I badly wanted to but I instantly had many flash back and I told her, I don't have the money right now. I told her, why can't you go and meet that your fellow business woman down there? she may be able to help you, she replied me with God forbid.

The money she asked me, I have it in my base, three times over but I refuse to give her. I painfully refused to help her because nigeria society has made me look like a fool.

To save my peace - I just have to only help strangers and not give help to the people I know

Did I do wrong?
grin
What do you think?

U are a st u pid fellow. A hungry person ask u for help and u decline
Crime / Re: "Baba Ijesha Defiled Minor Twice", Child Forensic Expert Tells Court by josite: 2:25pm On Sep 28, 2021
Very stu pid prosecutor.so it is the expert that was not there that will say d victim was defiled twice.such s statement ought to have come from the mouth of the victim or any body who actually saw it this is how a sick person will finally walk away free.

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Crime / Re: "Baba Ijesha Defiled Minor Twice", Child Forensic Expert Tells Court by josite: 2:24pm On Sep 28, 2021
Very stupid prosecutor.so it is the expert that was not there that will say d victim was defiled twice.such s statement ought to have come from the mouth of the victim or any body who actually saw it this is how a sick person will finally walk away free.

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Religion / Re: Adeboye: My Friend Screamed Praise The Lord When We Heard Nigeria's N55trn Debt by josite: 10:44am On Sep 28, 2021
Daddy GO should know Nigeria's situation is beyond joke and he can joke because he has many plan b.

Elders should please be circumspect when speaking.
Romance / Re: Tenants, Please Share Your Experiences With Your Landlords And Landladies. by josite: 10:02am On Sep 27, 2021
What we don't do is ask previous tenants about a new landlord and ask previous landlords about a new tenant .and we don't insist on tenancy agreement being signed before we move into the house.
Most tenants assume if they have 5 cars ,they have a right to pack all inside compound.unless your agreement says so ,u can only park your car inside with the permission of the landlord.

I once refuse a house cus landlord insists my car will.be parked outside.

Let us take time to price market very well before buying and once you notice the landlord is not good for start looking for another place.

Then always pray before u lay your head to sleep in any house even for an hour,talk less a year .
Romance / Re: Tenants, Please Share Your Experiences With Your Landlords And Landladies. by josite: 9:43am On Sep 27, 2021
I remember one prospective landlord in ogudu gra who said her undergraduate daughter is no go area and I reply if she is adult it will be her decision ,not her father to date or bang a tenant and he asked further if I can ever sue him for anything and I said for sure since Breached agreement are justiciable.

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Family / Re: My Brother-In-Law Caught His Wife Cheating! by josite: 9:38am On Sep 27, 2021
Easy to condem the wife.you should also tells us how far the husband of this woman provides for her needs.
Are her legitimate basic needs being met.
A woman ,married or single is bound to show her gratitude in so many ways for the man solving problems for her.
And the internet just made it easy for women who needs help in any area if life to access help.

Failure toeets needs will have consequences when it comes to today's wives.

The choice any man must made is whether u want long life or not and wether u will take advantage of dna early enough or not.

I hate this idea of calling anybody cheats because they find solutions to their problems.

Stupid men should learn,women knows how to find solutions to problems than men and u will only kill yourself if u don't accept this fact.

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Education / Re: NDA Dismisses 18 Cadets For Exam Malpractices, Brutality, Indiscipline by josite: 8:04am On Sep 27, 2021
Bolaji26:
cry.

I was among.


I didn't cheat or involve in malpractice but i was accused, charged and dismissed.


I am a son of nobody but God knows the best cus he is the only evidence i have.


My offense was that my sister called me that my mom fainted and they rushed her to the hospital that her left leg and left hand paralyzed.


I asked for permission in school just to go see her since she only have me and her sister but i was denied the permission.


My mind was not at peace knowing the way my younger sister was crying on phone and she has no one to stay with her.


I left without the permission and was close arrest after a week of being abs in sch.

I was charged for awol and was surprised to see the outcome as dismissed.

I have accepted my faith



.
I look forward to seeing myself in a better place again. cry




Please pray for my mom, don't want to loose school and my mum.


She still can't take her left leg


Sorry about the your mother.

Don't quarrel with the verdict.you are a soldier and you cannot leave your station without permission.


After 2 year.apply for a review.even dismissed soldiers get their case reviewed.

It is a right decision.

Meanwhile find a private security job in a company to do and be very honest to tell them what happened to you and your plan to reapply to nda

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Religion / Re: Limousine: Pastor Kumuyi, What They Expected Of Him Vs What He Came With (Photo) by josite: 12:41pm On Sep 26, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
I have still never heard Kumuyi bragging about material possessions as some other church leaders do, so I don't understand what all the fuss is about.

Take it or leave it, he's closer to God than most church leaders of this nation are.

He tried to get things right because of his love for God, but made some errors along the way. It's better than not trying at all or caring about doing things the right way, which is what many others are guilty of.

By the way, I am not a member of his church and don't think I have ever stepped my feet into a deeper life church building, but I have some respect for the man because I can see in him a man who really has the interest of God at heart.

God bless.

Are you God.even the Bible says it is only God who knows those that he is how do u know that kumuyi is closer to God.did God told you that ?
Romance / Re: “I Always Wonder, Who Gives Men Money When They’re Broke” – Nigerian Lady by josite: 7:58am On Sep 26, 2021
Very good question.now some stupid man now knows he goes through a different path in life some of which d women he tries to reason his situation with,never had to pass through.
Properties / Re: Things To Know Before You Hire An Architect In Nigeria by josite: 11:19am On Sep 25, 2021
AsomArchitectNG:
4.) Previous Designs

I have had clients asking me to send designs of previous works (most times they specify the design they want). This may be the norm, but it is not proper. I know clients want to see how an architect thinks, which is clear in their designs. However, an architect by definition is someone who creates.

By this, I mean you should have the trust that he/she can provide whatever space plan you need. That said, seeing previous designs from architects may not help you achieve your goal. 99 times out a 100, you end up getting a new design with no input from the samples sent.

This is so because every design is unique to the client. I love spacious bedrooms, you may prefer something compact. This would not reflect in previous designs the architect may have done. Also, previous designs may not have all your requirements. Designs shouldn’t be shopped. Prepare a brief and send to your architect. That is the best way to go. 10 times out of 10, they will prepare a unique 3 bedroom bungalow design.

Some clients expect architects to have a sample design of all building types. This is a wrong notion. All architects prepare designs based on the clients’ brief. We do not prepare designs for fun, we prepare them on request.

Agreed.they create so I look for signs that u are creative.if I derp the hint ,u should perfect it.
Properties / Re: Things To Know Before You Hire An Architect In Nigeria by josite: 11:16am On Sep 25, 2021
AsomArchitectNG:
2.) A Considerable Amount of Time is Involved

I get it that time waits for no man. Everyone is in a haste to get things done. Be advised that designs, construction and all its links TAKE TIME!

From the design process to approval to construction, it is a time-consuming process. I mean, it involves a considerable amount of time. If you intend to hit the ground running, then you need a head start. It is not advisable to be in a haste. Take your time, be sure everything is in order.

There are variations in every stage of the design. Some because of clients’ demands, others unforeseen. The bottom line is, they happen. Clients need to be patient. However, be rest assured that the well-planned time constraints result in excellent finished work.


Very bullshit.so I give u 7 days to come out with a design and be paid 2billion naira,u will tell me u can't.
Health / Re: What Kind Of Disease Is This And What's The Cure Please Help Me by josite: 8:23am On Sep 25, 2021
Above all.pray into olive oil and use the oil daily on the wounds daily prayerfully.yhere is a balm in Gilead

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Crime / Re: Joshua Usulor Jailed For Killing Feyisayo Obot In Lagos Hotel Room by josite: 8:24pm On Sep 22, 2021
The plea bargain is wrongly done.justice for the victim and the society is not served .he should get a minimum of life imprisonment.
Family / Re: Do You Want A Career Woman Or A House Wife? by josite: 8:05pm On Sep 22, 2021
Full-time wife will turn into an emotional wreck for lack of flexing
Politics / Re: Defection To APC: Watch This Before Comparing Jonathan And I To FFK - Reno by josite: 8:10pm On Sep 18, 2021
PerformOrResign:
Defection To APC: Watch This Before Comparing Former President Jonathan and I to FFK


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Xh-2YC4-po

Very confused.u telling them they have the spirit of God and also ask them to follow their intellect.

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Politics / Re: Pay Pentecost Tax – Osinbajo Advises Preachers by josite: 2:44pm On Sep 18, 2021
Buckeyemedia1:
Speak for yourself, I wouldn’t expect a village minded person like you to operate on the intellectual capacity of The Vice President.

Please stop this shout about intellectual.capacity.hoe much intellect has Jacob got before God prosper Laban because of his presence in Labans household.tbis vp is overrated
Politics / Re: My Defection To APC Is Not Finance-Related - Femi Fani-Kayode To Seun Okinbaloye by josite: 7:45pm On Sep 17, 2021
Very insulting question indeed and seun himself got bruised.
Family / Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by josite: 1:42pm On Sep 16, 2021
My friend.why not focus your energy on getting another job .instead of this you should be advertising your CV and not this.

What if her staying on will constitute a distraction to you.
Romance / Re: My Neighbor Damaged My Expensive Electronic During Romance. by josite: 11:54am On Sep 16, 2021
You must be a fool to confront someone when you do not have the proof he actually damaged it.be ready for his uneexpected response which may lands you in a mortuary.learn your lesson,don't let him in ever again.coynt your loss,go repair your TV.
Politics / Re: Fayemi's Opositon Of The $418 Milion Bailout Consultation Fee Was To Stop A Scam by josite: 8:00pm On Sep 12, 2021
That's the price med nwoko will pay for showing he can't be trusted with money.behaving like a kid with young women all over the place
Family / Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by josite: 4:29pm On Sep 12, 2021
Let him take the loan himself.
Politics / Re: Osinbajo Lauds Emefiele, Adesina, Others At Leadership Awards by josite: 10:13am On Sep 12, 2021
Is this the time for leadership awards?
Family / Re: A 50-year-old Man Impregnated My 16-year-old Sister. by josite: 4:14pm On Sep 11, 2021
If your dad is alive.find put if the man made efforts to marry your sister.

It is easy to shout about the man raped her but 16 is not a kid and cannot be said not to know how to shout if the man sexually assaults her.

The man needs to be handled wisely so he can properly arrange to take care of your sister and the babe if truly is the father.
Arrest him,charging him will only worsen the situation ..she is not the 2st 16 to get pregnant so heaven will.mot fall because she did.

Help the man to help your sister is my advice.

Happy child dedication
Politics / Re: Farooq Kperogi: Pantami’s Fake Professorship Joins Other Intellectual Frauds by josite: 9:17am On Sep 11, 2021
Nemere2020:

https://tribuneonlineng.com/pantamis-fake-professorship-joins-other-intellectual-frauds/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook
Mynd44
Lalasticlala

God bless this writer this is the trend right now in Nigeria ,persons who has no grounding in serious academics are being made professors .

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