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TooNoisy:
This is where some men lack leadership. Leadership at home is not necessarily about earning more, it's about being visionary. It's about trying to keep to your word and it's about showing commitment to the family.

Your husband is not disciplined with his finances and it's showing. You need to help him be more disciplined. But please don't keep secrets from him. Let's him know you have been paid but let him know that some of these things he's spending on are not too important. Or better still, keep some in a savings account you cannot touch and then you both can spend the rest. But let him know why you are saving the money. He may be angry at first but with time, you both will find something that works for you.

best advice op, help him to be more disciplined, am sure he has been like that before so he needs your help

Cutehector:
Sometyms I dnt get it, befor marriage, we are afraid of havn sex and she bein pregnant and all d drama associated it wit.. Buh wen we marry, we try so so hard to get her pregnant...

its because, making love should naturally lead to pregnancy so one become scared to do it when not married not knowing if there could be some complications or incompatibility of some sort. in as much as some people want to wait till after marriage, some will still want to get the fiancee pregnant before the wedding to avoid stories that touch..

lol @academic boyfriend....hmmmm

i dont have a daughter yet, so no comment for now

please send your location and VIN, very interested buyer,hope it has auto powered doors

hi OP
i need two 4ft and two 3ft metal doors around winners chapel iyesi ota ogun state by the end of the month, can you give me the cost and other details for delivery.
thanks

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Nigeria does produce far above 2million barrels per day, the govt knows about it they just closed them eyes and are feeding us with lies, 2 major terminals known by govt discharges well over 20million barrels per week and we have about 24 terminals in Nigeria, so iran isnt a threat at all, we only need to manage NNPC properly and OPEC to do their job

Nigeria please allow this Biafra people go joor, i been dey eye some duplexes for my area owned by ibos, na to just go pursue them take over dem properties sharp sharp, yeye people

Do you work in your father inlaws company cos i dont get how he gets to know all thats happening in your house; discuss with your wife about it, she knows her dad better than you and she should be able to handle it maturely

Anger doesnt stop me from eating

whao, these are very lovely pictures unfortunately cant share mine with my kids here, my boys are wonderful

but these set of people are not online, they dont use or have access to internet, op you need to go to the streets to educate them on family planning and not on social media. na poverty cause am anyway

@op, please postpone your wedding till a later date while you hustle like theres no tomorrow, you really need to be stable financially to have a successful home, theres no way you wont procreate unless you have issues so get out there make some money and marry your woman. The lord is your strength, better still relocate to lagos you will find something to do

@op, better go talk to your gynecologist, all these chew this, eat that may cause harm to your baby,

can someone explain to me how MTN charges these days? am on mtn zone tarrif plan and lately do not understand the deductions, my BBMIDIM plan for BB10 that usually takes about 2weeks before I exhauust it now finishes in a day, from there they move to my call credit till that also get finished.

this is so annoying and I really wish I could catch one of you guys, mtn and dstv are big pooh, vvery big pooh shity network, bad customer service you guys are thieves

Mr Inze, help me run this sir
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behavioural Event interviewing is the way to go now, people should change their perspective that you must know someone to get a good job, that's pure fallacy, most multinationals recruit on merit am a typical example.

when going for your next interview, prepare upto 12 scenarios of past events and the part you played in all the circumstance to fit the role, respond to your interviewer question with confidence and passion, don't over prepare so you don't get confused at the end of the day.

don't forget to pray

repogirl:
Your wife cannot communicate with you obviously, she is scared you would read the wrong meaning and jump into conclusion which you always do from all you have said.....

I agree that its wrong for her to keep these relationships but maybe you also over react when you find out about them. You are right in how you advice her against these men but try not to get her scared like you have caught her doing something she shouldnt be.

Make her safe in your home and let her be able to relate with you freely or you will scare her off into doing something you will both regret.


Your wife is also at fault and needs a good talking to but since you are the one here, its your own part I am focusing on.

are you married?

op is a gentle man;

5minsmadness:
This made me want to shed tears

I tell you bro, people come to nairaland with one sided story and may be it's even a 15yr old girl will be advising married woman how to run her home and divorce her husband cos he doesn't have job.
you can go ahead and divorce him I bet you that guy will get a good job immediately you take that action maybe na you dey block the guy progress sef

Same Terry G I still saw some few weeks ago in a bar at oko oba to come smoke weed, he came with one rickety range rover like that.

Not hating but this isn't Terry Gs house abeg, I sabi Terry G back then in Balogun Iju ishaga

it maybe her upbringing many families never discussed sex with them daughters so when they get married they find it difficult to get out of the cocoon, I think women hardly initiate romance so they are not tagged as being *bad girl*

talk to her bro, let her know you want her to do those things as you do to her, won't come immediately but she should improve gradually.

Billionaires loves durability, those high end phones ain't durable, they can crash anytime, they wouldn't want to miss an important call. If a billionaire buy something very expensive, he sure knows thhat thing will last for long, they know how money works, they don't just buy to show off

vin please?

nice jobs

Go for lexus bro, camry is low na, our roads are bad, though maintenance cost is higher so it depends on your budget but for luxury, comfort and class go for camry they both toyota products and are very reliable

sweet ride.....

@op can you post the VIN, very interested buyer and your location

VIN please and location? looks like the front glass is broken or is it the picture?

RileyFreeman1:
If nobody had resumed for this said opening, I won't have bothered.
And what's with the silent treatment? Next time they should keep their interview feedback success mails till whenever they are ready. Instead of sending success mails and going mute after that while contract staff resume.

Its hurting!!!

I'm just saying tho. Its humans like you and I that run Nestle, they should atleast behave like humans.

It's like you new in this game, you need to take a chill pill bro, you will be called, just calm down, cos they have called contracts doesn't mean that's the end, they prolly want to mix contract with new hire from external to form a team so yours will definately come after the contract.

I understand the frustration but with multinational you need to relax, continue searching for other jobs, am sure if you get a mail to come for medicals tomorrow now all your gragra will calm down. Congrats in advance

RileyFreeman1:
I have done mails and calls, nothing positive.
The email was not replied and the call receiver said they will look into it (which I don't believe).

Interview success mail was the last I heard from them.

People have resumed for the same position(contract staff were used to fill up the openings).

Ok good, since you haven't done medicals that means the process isn't concluded yet and Nestlé can't be blamed here since interview success doesn't translate to offer, medicals is still there, that being said don't loose hope, people waited for 2yrs to get DPR job,n I waited for 9months to get mine though in my own case the company clearly stated in their mails that interview success isn't offer so just chill, continue searching, wish you the best