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SonOfEl:
now you keep contradicting yourself. HEAD NA HEAD, if you like, accept it or reject it. I leave you to crucify your husband. congratulations. IMO.

GoodFaith:
Do you know if this man wake up at 330am on call
and work till 530am
Get ready to go to work for 700am
like some bankers leave home at 700am and get back at 1000pm

SonOfEl:
wrong again. answerable to her in what context? see, your husband is your head. you should reverence him. I will tell you the truth whether you accept it or otherwise.

anyway, its your marriage isn't it? suit yourself.

yellowb:
she go born am na.but not in my house ,since she n d husband decided to punish me.if we already HV kids togeda I'll stay but if not I'll move on with my life

GoodFaith:
Stillfire:
If you want to have balance view of this issue
you need some facts
What time the man wake up
What time he make it back to the house at the end of the day
Is the wife a full time house wife eg

GoodFaith:
Kid you will tear me apart-- sad we are all online
Are a dump bitch
thinking you know it all
Fucker you don't have any life experiences
If you was a smart bitch you will know all marriages are different in terms of needs
People like you, whom can't have balance view is the reason Nigeria is behind in technology
One way traffic
Kid go play

Stillfire:
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Please go and learn how to love your wives the christian way
Save yourself from hell fire.
Because many women are willing to look away and condone your excesses does not mean you have the right to act like a self-serving brute.

SonOfEl:
excuse me, submitting yourselves to each other has to do with intimacy, NOT headship.

the bible never said man should submit his headship to you, stop misrepresenting the scripture. your husband is your head. Reverence him.

loving you does not stop him from being YOUR HEAD.... GOT IT?

TV01:
You are still here prating .

I command absolutely . When a man presents properly and enunciates his wishes clearly, he doesn't have to command repeatedly. Authority doesn't always have to be on show, leadership is in some regards about empowering.

A truly submissive wife does not have to be bossed, but you wouldn't know this as there are no leaders, no commanders and no authority is wielded in your "equalist" household .

Christian wives know how they do - feminists don't be pained

Ephesians 5:22 - Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
Ephesians 5:24 - Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
Colossians 3:18 - Wives, submit to your own husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
1 Peter 3:1 - Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands,
1 Peter 3:6 - as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good


"Lord Commander" TV

SonOfEl:
battle of the sexes. I also knew all along this is what its about, not sincere marriage matters....

good luck to your marriage.

you know what? fight him, bad mouth him, in short, DIVORCE HIM....so you can have your peace.

yimu.

SonOfEl:
*laughs* it that all you can offer?

SonOfEl:
INDOMIE CHEWING GUM GIRLS, ALWAYS HIDING UNDER THE COVER OF "BUSY"

A WISE WOMAN KNOWS WHAT HER HUBBY DOSENT TOY WITH. AND IF SHE HAS TO MAKE AN EXCUSE, SHE KNOWS WHERE AND HOW TO APPROACH HIM.

NO MAN WILL SEE HIS WIFE ILL, INDISPOSED, TOO BUSY, OR AWAY AND STILL BE OFFENDED FOR NOT BEEN SERVED.

OP WANTS THE THREAD TO BASH THE MAN SHE VILLAINIZED.

ALL THIS IMMATURE WANNABES SPEWING TRASH WILL DEFINITELY LEARN THE HARD WAY.

babygirlfl:
Kimoni and edwife, after reading your last few posts, it's clear that you two are the ones who are still living in the past. I am not a vindictive person and what the two of you have written there just shows how vindictive you two are. It's sad.

QueenHeart:
Hunger neva wire am.wen it does no body will show him d road to d kitchen,na pot him go dish from.silly man

dinachi:
How did you manage to escape from your curse and come to nairaland?
Go back and die of your well deserved frustration, stroke, HBD!

dinachi:
Then remain single and die in your foolish pride.

stonecoldcafe:
Someone cooks a meal for you serves it in a large bowl with plates around and you want her to run or walk from whatever she is doing and come and plate the meal for you? Mr man you are a boy in a man's body. You sef nor dey pity person so if she is bathing the kids or taking her bath you will sit down there until she returns. Is she not your wife? Is she a slave or something else. Does the man not have hand? Is he getting some sort of kickback trying to relieve his baby days?

Once i sit down and open the large bowl, my heart will be overwhelmed with gratitude and i will help myself generously. Why would i want her to come by my side again and begin to dish food for me like i am back again in kindergarten? Why would i take offense and throw a tantrum because a woman who has painstakingly prepared the same meal is not there to dish it out for me?

No siddon there wait dey whine make she come wear you bib join

SmartMugu:
I think women should be in charge of minor issues like this while men focus on the bigger issues. I'm a married man, and I'm so consumed with bigger issues. First is providing for everyone in my home.
The issues I worry about are macro compared to what happens in the kitchen. I'm busy thinking about the best solutions to the war in Syria. I'm thinking about why the price of limestone dropped in the stock market and what that means to various economies in the world, why Mexico's tomato production declined Q2 2015 compared to analysts' expectations. Should I be the same person worried about spoons and kitchen affairs?

Stillfire:
I will not even mind at all serving this kind of person.
God will give you a great wife that will love to do anything for you by her own self-will, not because you are demanding it or she feels threatened you will cheat.

dinachi:
Sorry that bus has moved with beautiful kids. But you are free to continue in your foolish pride and die at shiloh calling for Gods intervention when you clock fifty years.Or you can open your dark heart now and learn. The choice is yours. A foolish woman pulls down her house with her hands while a wise woman builds her own house. The choice is yours between foolery and wisdom.
And this matter is between married peeps, if marriage is not a priority for you may God grant your request and may you die single.

dinachi:
Pity your own miserable life full of bitterness before you think of the Angel that so readily complements my life.
Enjoy your divorce occasioned by your foolish pride and unrestrained bitterness.
Only a foolish women considers chores more important than their husbands. And I hope you wont mind when he has important chores with his secretary while ignoring you. Hope you wont mind when he ignores your requests and focuses on the important chore of watching his favorite football matches. Hope you wont mind when he ignores your request for money and focuses on the very important chore of driving to work. My dear prioritize your life. YOUR HUSBAND COMES FIRST AFTER GOD. So when it comes to serve him food unburden yourself from every chore and do the needful

dinachi:
You still missed it again. Nothing absolutely nothing should be more important than your husband. Those chores can wait until your husband is properly served. Any smart woman who loves and TRULY cherishes her husband will readily see this. Get it into your skull no chore is more important than your husband. This matter is as straightforward as they come. The woman in question completely erred. And when it is your husbands turn to do his due diligence no chore should stop him.

dinachi:
Missed entirely! Just pray you dont get a divorce over a well prepared and delicious egusi soup not properly served!
Only foolish,bigoted,shortsighted and idiotic women fail to understand that serving ones husband is an act of love, care and devotion to the man you love most.

Kimoni:
May you live long Oga. I might as well not cook the damn food at all and tell him to go to the kitchen himself...why sweat for 1hr cooking the food, then come to NL to whine about an extra service that will take just 2 mins?? I can't even reconcile where the issue is exactly. Fish brains indeed

therapistmrs:
ma, try to do anything to please your man and keep your home. there's no big deal in dishing your husband's meal.all the best
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sonofananimal:
SIT DOWN THERE NA.

Johnrake69:
Pardon, whats your point? She rarely sees me, I visit my her once a year. Anything she does its out of love and thats the essence. Sorry to say, buh with your current state of mind it will be difficult for a man to stay with you. You need to be schooled on how to keep a man happy. Its not sex, Which of course a man can always get anywhere. Its little things like this that will keep a man. And point of correction am not a spoilt brat. Peace

6fit:
do u have to post rubish? Or r u clueless?

lastpage:
Women like this should be divorced ASAP.

You are either ready for marriage (and its responsibilities) or you are not.
What is the big deal in dishing food in a plate, if you could cook it and place it on the table?

Foolish women whining about nothing!
And u think ur ready for marriage? Mstchewwww! To a dog perhaps


Lastpage!

majekdom2:
Where is the submission the bibke talked about. Do you have a job ? If no , then gladly dish that meal