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Timbuktou:
Ewuro, thanks for bringing this angle to the conversation. And this redirects me to Bukatyne who is a supporter of service for christians. Bukatyne, would you say this man was out of line for demanding his wife serve him? I'm asking you as a christian not as a feminist.

Timbuktou:
Please enlighten me on why a husband shouldn't be served the same way a father would.

By your second paragraph, I'm done with you. Move on to others with which have things in common. You do not have a boyfriend, talk less of husband.

Timbuktou:
Friends and lovers don't provide and protect. Friending and loving isn't the only thing a husband does. How many of your friends and lovers do you do laundry for or have kids for. A husband is more than a friend and a lover.

My wife prostrates to serve me . And she doesn't have any problem with it. Instead of you people to tell the truth that the man should be served like a king in his palace, you're here forming modernity.

I bet if her father demanded such she'd be floating like a fairy to feed and digest the food for the old man sef. Abeg, make una let us hear word.

byvan03:
Until women learn to marry their friends and not some psychologically stuck up old stick in the mud, woe shall continue to be their tales. Marry your friend and lover, period!

Haywhymido:
end the man Make me understand more

Kaybeeeee:
I tell u,any girl dat allow her husband wash her pants is not well brought up,and lack manner,so u will be proud of it if ur husband wash ur pants,
So if ur husband do not wash u panties u will carry it to anoda man,Smh for u,snap out of it dear

Kaybeeeee:
He is d man of the house,he works hard for the family to eat and live well,u don't expect him after working hard to nw come home and wash ur panties for u,the woman work is to take care of house,husband and kids.
So u can allow ur husband wash ur panties for u,can u said dat in public or tell ur friend and see their reaction
When our fathers do not wash our mothers pants,whic footsteps our we now following,
Any husband out there washing his wife pants is a disgrace to manhood(except juju case)

Jarus:
I will ignore your attack on my religious persuasion, or your attribution of my choice to my religious preferences. A couple of others people have shared similar sentiments here, and I guess they are all Muslims.

On acknowledging successful career woman, I will only share my interview with just 3 successful women professionals, not because I have anything to prove to you on your baseless accusation, but lest people reading you také your lies as truth.

My interviews with:

Nimi Akinkugbe, ex-GM @ StanbicIBTC

http://www.jarushub.com/foreign-trained-graduates-are-not-necessarily-better-nimi-akinkugbe/

Yewande Sadiku, currently an ED @ StanbicIBTC

http://www.jarushub.com/investment-bankers-work-long-hours-have-less-social-time-yewande-sadiku/

Abimbola Adelakun, formerly with Punch

http://www.jarushub.com/meet-abimbola-adelakun-punchs-youngest-backpage-columnist/

If these are not acknowledgement, then I don't know what they are.

Shame that despite stalking me for years, you have not come across these, or you chose to ignore just to have a way for your premeditated attack.

My choice remains: I prefer my wife to have her shop, a mini-supermarket, and that is what she does, and probably makes as much money as me that works in an oil company and still has time for the kids. Wondering how that is your problem.

I have a brother that is a GM in a bank. The wife used to teach in a school (public school) before she went into business.

I have Lekki-rated colleagues and bosses whose wives do these things, especially the home shop thing.

But have I castigated those that chose to do 9-5? If I do, I wont interview those ones.

But it doesn't stop me from contributing to this thread what my preference is, as requested by the OP.

remiotega:
I love women like you.

D most annoying thing is dat wen u hear dis men sayin teaching teaching everwhere ,you would think they hav very good jobs sef that can provide for dia familys everyday needs...

I pity for the fathers who spent so much on dia daughters not knowing they ar planning to be teachers and chewing gum sellers... Why cudnt they be kind enof as to tel d old man not to waste his money as they won't be needing all d Msc's to sell groceries.

On the other hand ..maybe na nemesis sef because the fathers too must hav turned somone elses Chartered accountant daughter to a crayfish seller.

Now I understand why som men don't even bother sending dia daughters to school but focus on dia male children.

But wait oo. Where are d men dat always talk about a woman(married or not) being very successful in her chosen career so as not to b a liablity to her husband?
Those men who praise rich women...and talk down on women that ar not there yet but want a rich man..
I noticed they ar not present here...or mayb they ar d same people shoutin teachers everywhere sef....confused people!

vizkiz:
where are those hoes shouting rape everywhere?
Let them come over here and realise they are not the only one in this messed up situation.
Guys too get forced to furcked

mutter:
Laziness is a serious issue in marriage.
A woman that is lazy cannot be a good mother. She cannot raise her children properly. She simply cannot equip them with the qualities they need later on in life.
She will raise children that can themselves not run a home and these children will also have issues later.
She also cannot fulfil her duties as a wife.
So what exactly is she bringing into the marriage?
Actually nothing. This shortcomming is accute and ever present.
Once househelps notice that you can`t do anything yourself, they also just do what they want. Because if you can´t do it you also can`t control it.
What is a woman that does not have control of her home. When a man has to come home and take care or control of everything.

Empredboy:
Just yesterday an op said it's not good for guys to sample ladies before marriage but this story has given us reason why a lady must be pregnant before marriage cos 70% of ladies in their 20s has had an abortion. Talking from experience

BeeBeeOoh:
This is the more reason why men will always impregnate their ladies/women before walking down the aisle. Girls of these days are something else, the rate at which they go for abortion makes one to wonder if it's now the latest trend; just imagine after so many years of massive kpusing & nyashing your wife but she's gat no womb. Mehn! God help her dat day.
How many abortions have you sponsored? Hypocrite







God also help those men that they've caged with God's time is the best..

BeeBeeOoh:
This is the more reason why men will always impregnate their ladies/women before walking down the aisle. Girls of these days are something else, the rate at which they go for abortion makes one to wonder if it's now the latest trend; just imagine after so many years of massive kpusing & nyashing your wife but she's gat no womb. Mehn! God help her dat day.
How many abortions have you sponsored? Hypocrite







God also help those men that they've caged with God's time is the best..

Fkhalifa:
WOW! I ill conclude by saying you are experienced and matured on issues like this, only if most ladies have this knowledge,there would have been calmness in the hearts of many and more lasting unions.

arabianights:
This fellow needs serious prayers for deliverance as he is living in hallucination.

"Song to feel presence of God...................."If i hear.THat is how we keep deceiving our selves till we turn our ownselves to the enemies

chinnyonwu:
Hi Kenny, just out of curiosity...
If a women is sexualy satisified, does she still desire to have sex with more men?

Icecomrade:
There are certain things men can't do!!
How was a woman's brain configured?

They do some stupid things, I can't just fathom where it's emanating from.

I ddoubt if this madness is part of the definition of a woman being a weaker vessel

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]"No" doesn't always mean "No"

"No" is not "No" when the act has begun already with your consent. You can't call that rape.

I'm not one who goes with that "seductive dressing" line of thought.[/color]

idu1:
we know, its getting to a year you get an attention from a man. Don't come to pour your frustration here.


Go to bed ok...