₦airaland Forum

Stillfire:
Who are the mothers that keep on raising bastard sons like this?

I am capable of killing my son for demanding such from his wife. Them never born am well...

What a selfish, devilish and demonic idi.ot.

The character flaw here is beyond sickening.

I tell u. By God's grace, I'll never raise men like this.

Gaidenk:
So men shouldn't be traditional abi? We should mimic the white man in some things like kissing feminists ass then reject some like being gay yeah. If you aren't married pls shut the trap,if you are married pls tell him he's being childish when he tell you to dish his food,in his house,with his hard earned money. I'm waiting for your thread. All these indomie children

Please be traditional to the fullest. Fling that phone that you used in typing this comment after all it was made by white men.
Hard earned money ba? Sheybi women don't contribute financially?

CSTR2:
And yes a leader is called to serve.
But the followers must submit and follow his orders and instructions.
It is the quality of service the followers render to the leader that determines how well the leader serves.

Must? Do you follow ALL of God's commands? If you don't, you are just a hypocrite

sonofananimal:
UNTILL ONE WOMAN TAKE YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOU.
YOUR STUPID HEAD GO COME BACK TO IT SENSES

E no go ever pass this yeye threat. Will the world end?

Johnrake69:
Sorry my mother serves me. Is that a problem? In fact she craves for it. Am sorry for intruding, that part got my attention. . Peace

Mothers be raising spoilt brats everywhere. Tomorrow now ur wife will be cursing ur mother for raising such an entitled brat

CSTR2:
Bringing chistianity into this argument make its ridiculous.
Husband means Master.
Sarah called her husband master.
A christian woman should have no problem serving her husband.
That is her God given role as a wife.

Christ said husbands love ur wives as Christ loved the church. A husband should be ready to give his life for his wife if need be. The relationship between God and us is not even a master/servant relationship, so what are we saying? A leader is to serve not to be served

6fit:
i wonder y junk like this is making FP? Ko kan aye now!! How does dis info affect people life? Soon u come to NL to tell us yur husband aid yu shuld use yur hand to open yur punna bfor he insert his joystick.....slowpoke

Come! Is there sand in your head? Do you have to comment? Rubbish

SonOfEl:
are you teachable at all?

how old are you sef?

Sarah had a large home to manage because her husband was wealthy, but does it stop her from reverencing her husband? was her husband her first priority or not?

I ask again, how old are you?

I hope you also noticed how Abraham respected and listened to his wife

KingEli:
U cook food for am but u no fit dish am abi??.....congratulations.........he will find someone else who will dish n even spoon feed him.....mumu woman

Better sef. She can then find a man who'd tell her 'baby go put ur feet up. Lemme cook n bring the food to u in bed'.

chrisbaba1:
[size=13pt] My friend wants to divorce his wife and she doesnt even know it, he says if they have a slight argument, she keeps malice and wont cook his dinner after a long day at work, if he soaks his shirt and leaves for a business trip, the woman wont touch the clothes...... He wants to get a house help the woman says no, He was thinking about impregnating another girl outside to piss the wife off so bad she will leave his house...... All these modern women cause most of the problems they have, talking about equality, how about that nurturing heart God or nature has placed within you, the nurturing heart that every man naturally loves ?? Feminists (who are mostly heartbroken, bitter or lesbianwomen ) have deceived you.

Don't serve your husband o, he will find a young beautiful lady who will even put food in his mouth followed by a peck[/size]

Is this supposed to scare us? Mtchewwww

orogodoganyin:
u don turn urslf to village champion abi? u wey go carry tray 4 head, hold am with one hand. cum use the other hand hold ur lips.

Ok. I'm done with you

orogodoganyin:
it's pretty reasonable 'cos once in a yle i'll get to cook nd d kids must obviously prefer my cooking to hers. once in a yle, it's good to eat out too.

obviously, not with joy1706 thow .

Must I notice you? Warrisit? Good u knw it can't fit be with me

SonOfEl:
your comments were misleading, so correct yourself and save face abeg....

I believe u read the original post. No? Abi u just rushed to run ur mouth?

raayah:
why cant the man treat the woman as a baby too. the woman does not want to do something. Pamper her and let her rest too. Cook breakfast for her and look into her eyes when she eats. I too want to treated like a baby.

Ah! No o. Only men have the right to behave like babies.

orogodoganyin:
hahaha... buh ur husband isn't ur parent. anyway, r u planning on marrying me? 'cos i'll evn rest my feet on ur shoulder

Exactly+ Husband does not equal parent. See this one. By d time I handle you, you no go even fit say pim to me. As in ur voice go dey shake when u wan talk to me.

bukatyne:
Suddenly everyone can understand?

Suddenly o my dear. I wonder if they were not the same people strongly in support of the man

orogodoganyin:
actually, ther's a hint of neglect in not doing it. it's little things lyk that wch prolong marriage.


on the other hand, just b happy i'm not ur husband. if not, i'll tell u to kneel down, put the tray on ur head while i eat 4rm it.
mtchewwww

Better know the woman u try dat rubbish with. When I have never done that for my parents. You can tell me all u want. Lemme see u try and force me to kneel down. Rubbish

Timbuktou:
Maybe she should hire someone to serve her husband. What do you think?

Not a bad idea

SonOfEl:
stop fooling yourself, everyone can understand the instance of her hands being full with rigorous chores, not the 'forming' your type does nowadays....

Everyone can understand? But you did not understand instead u went on and on about how women should revere their husbands like Sarah did

SonOfEl:
maybe in your family, stop generalizing...

On nairaland, men are too high and mighty to do anything na even something as simple as dishing out his own food

Timbuktou:
Heheehe. Joy, are you ugly?

Lol. What do you think?

SonOfEl:
Abraham didn't have to, and Sarah chose to as a symbol of honour she had for her husband. today, nobody is asking you to call them lord, what husband want is to be treated with honour in his home, and serving his food is not a taboo, it is another way to show honour. get that into your brain. are your so busy or handicapped to serve your husband food? it is your type that demands for heaven and earth from their husband, that Is if they ever successfully settle down with a husband.

A woman wants to be treated with love and care in her own home. You see your wife's hands are full with chores yet you insist she dishes out ur food for u. Is that a way to show love, care and consideration? It's ur type that will end up jumping from wife to wife

Timbuktou:
At the risk of sounding insulting, I'd advise you to speak for your circle of influence, you know;n your friends, family and such. Thank you.

Judging from the way you nairaland guys sound sef, my point is very very valid

edwife:
Where i come from those are basic things men do.

Like i said earlier,check yourself if you end up marrying a loser,you have yourself to blame and not take a simple and natural thing like serving one's husband as a sin.

Well the case at hand involves a nigerian wife and her husband. Here, the men are too lazy to get anything done in their homes

Timbuktou:
Sarah elected? Bukatyne, I know you're a bible student. Is this claim true or was it the custom at the time? I really want to learn.

Alright show me where Abraham compelled Sarah to call him Lord?

Timbuktou:
what does this mean? Let's assume, and this is an assumption, that husbands don't do these things, who gets them done or hires those who get them done? Joy, Joy, Joy, Joy. It is hot here abeg, don't add your own. Please, I beg you.

She alluded to the fact that husband's actually do these themselves. It's one thing to do a thing. It's another to hire someone to do it. Which anybody can do by the way.

Timbuktou:
How is a woman properly serving her husband his meal a problem, to begin with? No wonder men call women fish brained. What is the woman's work if not to make and keep the home? You think that's an elective? *facepalm*

She served him his meal. Is he paralysed? Why does he feel too big to dish out his own food from the plate already before him?

edwife:
Don't mind them,the same people here when you ask them how many of them do the plumbing,electrical repairs or car servicing will raise their hands.But when it comes to cooking and house-chores it is equality.

Have you watched soul food,the black american series?and most of Tyler perry movies?

After all this is Nairaland.....

How many husband's do plumbing, electrical repairs or car servicing themselves? Your point is of no moment my dear

SonOfEl:
I know you are a spiritual illiterate. was Sarah ever a servant to Abraham? yet she called him lord, that is honour for you, if you truly love your husband, you will show him REVERENCE, that is, deep honour, just like Sarah did.

mugu.

Look here you retard, if you don't want to see red this afternoon you will refrain from abusing me.
Sarah elected to call Abraham Lord. Is there any place where Abraham said to Sarah 'you must call me Lord'?
Did Abraham ever portray the attitude of a tyrant or dictator in the bible? Go figure!

Timbuktou:
Yet, theses disciples called him master and they served him in the way Jesus expected of them, didn't they? now, that you're referring to Jesus and his disciples, shouldn't wives call their husbands Lord? Anyway, moving on.

Surely, you're not referencing the conventional bible we have all come to know. If not you'd have no issues with the head of the house and Lord demanding that his 'disciple" do as the master demands. Then, again, it's you. We don't know what bible you read.

There's cooler/tray in the bible? Or her expectations trump that of her master and Lord? In what biblical planet are these roles reversed Deaconess Bukky? Which means she can leave foods half-cooked or burn them because there are other chores to handle. Having chores is a good reason to leave other chores half-done or abandoned completely? That wife is a very special foolish breed.

We greet you, our 'Nigerian' wives.

Sorry o but I didn't realise husband/wife relationship is synonymous to master/servant relationship. Like seriously, you'd be happy if your wife called you Lord? Na wa o. Nigerian men sha

edwife:
I will never understand some women ,really? how does serving a man you love and call "better half" a problem?

How long does it take self?

How is a man dishing out food for himself even a problem in the first place? No wonder women refer to men as babies. Upon all the work plus children she needs to attend to o.

Timbuktou:
My mother would be served ny my wife were she to come visiting. Seriously, Joy, put some mental effort into this thing.

In any case, the place of the husband should be held in higher regard than father by the wife-daughter

No no. You asked what's wrong with a wife serving her husband like she would her father. So I'm asking if you would have a problem with your wife demanding you serve her like you would your mother