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FoodRe: I Sell Dried Cow Skin(kpomo) In Abuja. by Joyekpen: 9:07am On Dec 03, 2020
Please after buying the Kponmo, I am a caterer that cooks delicious African party food. I cook for naming, birthdays, wedding ceremonies in any location you want us to cook for you (back of your house, office etc) in abuja. Contact us 08036346223
Christianity EtcRe: Mike Bamiloye And Wife, Gloria Celebrate 32nd Wedding Anniversary by Joyekpen: 11:25am On Oct 08, 2020
Happy anniversary!
Pastor organise talk show for men
While Pst Gloria organise for women
The rate of divorce is so scary oooo
PoliticsRe: Official Results Of Edo Governorship Election 2020 As Announced By INEC by Joyekpen: 11:28am On Sep 20, 2020
Esanland !!!! Esan West !!!! I love my people.
Esan oyeeeee!
FamilyRe: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Joyekpen: 12:13pm On May 03, 2020
DEAR CHRISTIAN HUSBANDS:

I was interviewed on a TV show some time back. During the interview, the anchor asked "WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?" He said from his research, this question was burning on the lips of many men. According to him, many men are of the belief that, women are very complicated; difficult to understand, manage and please.

In answering the question I said to him, women WANT TO BE CHOSEN. That is women's primary want.

I said, when it comes to marriage, a lady leaves her father's house where the love she enjoys is certain and dependable, to marry a man whose love is most likely going to be fluctuating. She drops her family name, leaves everyone she grew up with, to take up the man's family who are most likely waiting to judge her actions and inactions, so as to label her a good wife or not.
The only reason she embarks on such a delicate journey is because she WANTS TO BE CHOSEN. As much as her father may love her, he cannot choose her. He chose someone already. Her mum cannot choose her either. The same applies to her siblings.

DEAR HUSBAND, when this lady comes into your life and you decide to directly or indirectly start choosing others ahead of her, she will naturally feel unloved, unwanted and of less importance to you. She is most likely going to fight you, everyone and everything you put ahead of her.

It is an error to put your parents, siblings, friends, Job, car, computer, phone and other gadgets ahead of her.

Before you complain, 'she is not interested in my job'. Honestly ask yourself, am I putting my job ahead of her? Before you tell us she does not like your mum, and does not want to see your people. Have you placed your mum and your people ahead of her?
You make SUBMISSION difficult for her, when you make her SECONDARY.

Stop behaving as though you did her a favour by getting married to her. Scripturally speaking, you need MARRIAGE more than your WIFE. It is you, the man, the Bible says, " it is not good that you are alone". Therefore, if there is anyone who should be praying, fasting applying scriptural wisdom and going for counselling to make the marriage work, it should be you, the husband.

CHRISTIAN HUSBAND, the abuse of your wive must end. She came to HELP you and not to go through HURTS by you. Stop acting the uncle of God in Church, a good man at work, while playing an abuser at home.
I hope you know you cannot be treating your wife any how and remain whole? Yes, you may have money and riches, but covenant wealth as defined by scriptures will be far. With your money, something will still be missing and broken.

HUSBAND, have something doing. Work hard and work smart. To lead effectively, provision is a must. If you have to get down and get dirty, to put food on the table, do so. God 'wired' women to SUPPORT and not to PROVIDE for men. Stop waiting for your her to FEED you. Adam did it and they FELL.

I can understand when you are BROKE for a season or for some seasons. But making being BROKE your default setting due to laziness, 'no be am at all'. It makes you look irresponsibly and un-Christ-like.
No matter how godly a woman is, taking the driver's seat of ENDLESS PROVISION will some day, activate her nagging and disrespect button.

HUSBAND, believe in your wife. The proverbs 31 woman was a happy woman. Her husband believed in her, supported her, allowed her travel and encouraged her to make decisions. Including major investment decisions of acquiring properties. He was quick to praise her every effort. No wonder, the man was lifted by God. He became prominent and sat as one of the major decision makers for his city.

HUSBAND, in the finally analysis, where God will PLACE you in PUBLIC will be ultimately be determined by where you PLACE your WIFE in PRIVATE.

Pastor Ohiani F.
PoliticsRe: Apc And Pdp Crashed In A Fight At Dei_dei Market Road In Abuja Fct by Joyekpen: 7:12pm On Feb 09, 2019
That white car is candido campaign vehicle used for his campaign activities in abuja. Candido is APC candidate for AMAC chairman. I guess they ran into Vivian anazodo PDP group and received some baptism. Chai
Christianity EtcRe: Daddy Freeze Reveals Paul Adefarasin Is Behind His Boycott From MC Jobs by Joyekpen: 2:03pm On Sep 27, 2018
Sirpaul:
Hausas have Dangote
Yorubas have Adenuga
Igbos havehuh??
Though I'm not an Igbo person, they have many of Adenuga's and Dangote's silently through hard work. Wealth is not concentrated in a few but it spreads across a lot of them. Majority are industrious.
PoliticsRe: ‘Don’t Panic’; Air Force Begins Training For Aerial Displays In Abuja. Photos by Joyekpen: 5:33pm On Sep 17, 2018
It was frightening yesterday, I thought abuja was under attack. My child was so scared due to the sudden loud sound from the fighter jets. They should have informed us days before the commencement of such exercise.
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage's Ripped Bum Shorts At Afrorepublik Got Fans Talking by Joyekpen: 6:45am On May 27, 2018
Those condemning her and still zoom in on the picture to see more, God dey see us oooooh � �
PoliticsRe: Precious Chikwendu Fani-Kayode Welcomes Triplets, All Boys - Ragnar, Aiden, Liam by Joyekpen: 1:46pm On May 25, 2018
Ragnar a great Viking king. A great warrior who thinks differently from ordinary men. FFK giving names that are great to his kids even though not Nigerian names.
EducationRe: Types Of People At A Secondary School Reunion by Joyekpen: 10:16am On Dec 20, 2017
Hmmmm, I withdraw sharp sharp when they turn the group to welfare group for paying house rent, school fees, burial ceremony contribution, hospital bills, feeding families, haba! no shame at all. The only guy wey blow well well, they nearly bankrupt the guy as if he made his money for them. I run before they bring me to their level.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Lady Is Looking For Igbo Husband, Tall, 40-45 Years, No Born-Again by Joyekpen: 5:25pm On Sep 07, 2017
Those of you insulting her and will still go on instagram, facebook to look for her. God is watching you in 3D ooooo. grin grin grin grin
PhonesRe: What Words Do You Hate Seeing On Social Media? by Joyekpen: 2:26pm On Aug 26, 2017
eleojo23:
Afonja and Igbo

Once people start using these words just know that the argument has gone tribalistic and nothing constructive will come out of it.
Once I see afonja and Igbos. Gbam! I read all the pages cause I know LWKMD. Honestly I hate LWKMD. But I love the afonja and Igbos yabs alot
CelebritiesRe: Daddy Freeze, His Son, Baby Mama, Father And Mother Pictured In A Family Photo by Joyekpen: 12:43pm On Aug 26, 2017
thesicilian:
The child looks like an albino.
The father looks like a crossbreed between a Ghanaian and a Kenyan.
You are wicked! Lol grin grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: At What Age Should I Open Bank Account For My Child? by Joyekpen: 3:47pm On Jul 19, 2017
After naming ceremony. Any money received as gift during the ceremony should be used to open the account. Thereafter get a piggy bank for the child as soon as he starts talking to save any cash given to him, which should be sent to bank every year end. Let the child go to the bank with you, explain the process to him, even if he doesn't understand all the details. With time the child will come to understand and be proud of such act.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Today Is Seun Osewa Birthday...let's Show Him Love (post Your Greetings) by Joyekpen: 1:19pm On Jul 17, 2017
Happy Birthday Seun!
FamilyRe: Photo Of 10 Siblings From Same Parents: 9 Girls, 1 Boy by Joyekpen: 10:28am On Apr 24, 2017
Lord I thank You for two things:

1. For saving this woman's life who gave birth to these kids, cause it seems she was popping almost every year to satisfy her husband and his clan. It can only be you Lord! Cause she will have rest in that village now.

2. For making this man cleave to his wife until no. Ten came out. That he did not listen to his clan to marry another or try a baby mama. This type of man is a rare breed.

Children are inheritance from God. Don't discriminate.
BusinessRe: 78 Bank Directors Get N10.34bn Dividend In 2016 by Joyekpen: 8:44am On Apr 24, 2017
The bank will never collapse with such risk they have. I can continue to bank with them. The directors share in the bank is a good source of confidence anytime and when they start to sell their Shares, I will run and remove my money sharp sharp
FamilyRe: Unemployed Man Welcomes Quintuplets In Abuja (Photos) by Joyekpen: 1:49pm On Apr 20, 2017
She works in National Population Commission. The place of work bless her wella!
Car TalkRe: Why The Obsession With 20W50 Engine Oil? by Joyekpen: 2:01pm On Apr 12, 2017
[Thanks, I did service the car with 5w30. Honestly the car is so smooth now and the silly sound reduced and is almost gone now. I will never listen to some mechanics again. Thanks Nairaland family. The important thing that made me happy was when the service center now placed a paper on when next to service, oooh boy! Unlike 20w50 which is almost monthly. I am so happy for using this oil though expensive but worth it. Thanks again. quote author=Niyitoba post=54010510]

Quickly migrate to the recommended Toyota Motor Oil 5w30. I have used it and will continue to use it, after previously using the wrong oil specification in my cars. The first thing you notice when you change the oil to the Toyota oil is how quiet your engine runs...almost silent. The drive is so cool now and i look forward to driving everyday. Frankly, i think this is one of the best OEM oils you can find. Make sure it is the US Spec oil you get and not the Dubai one that comes in metal containers. The difference between the two is really large[/quote]
Christianity EtcRe: Mount Zion Ministries Speaks On BBNaija (See Reactions) by Joyekpen: 9:48am On Apr 12, 2017
Hope the church will reject the tithe, when he pays it. I just wonder self, Christ came into the world for the sinners. These pastors should be Christ like and not condemn!
LiteratureRe: NAME the Nairalanders writers And Their Stories That Made U Read All Night by Joyekpen: 7:13am On Apr 08, 2017
Oyinprince
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Car TalkRe: Why The Obsession With 20W50 Engine Oil? by Joyekpen: 12:33am On Feb 23, 2017
autotrader2:
And for those engines specifying Ow20 you can use 5w20 for it. Excellent substitute.
My car is 2003 toyota Highlander, with above 250k mileage, normally used toyota oil 20w50 in servicing and the last time I went to service at total filling station, I used their oil 20w50 in November and since then whenever I accelerate I hear a funny sound. Now I want to service car, can I go back to toyota car specification of 5W30 without any negative effect or should I continue with the 20W50 but toyota oil .
Thanks you. I use the car within town. No travelling
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri Blasts Adeosun "A Polytechnic Graduate As Finance Minister" by Joyekpen: 6:44pm On Feb 19, 2017
OK where do you place dangote? Reno
SportsRe: Enyeama Snubbed Me, Rejected My Calls Over 10 Times - Rohr Opens Up by Joyekpen: 12:05pm On Jan 04, 2017
A man who buried his mother and was still mourning, he went ahead to play for his country, just to ensure his country does not suffer any defeat. What was his reward, he was disgraced, castigated for speaking about their own safety. I wish him well, he did his best and we will always remember him for good.
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by Joyekpen: 8:37am On Jan 04, 2017
Meanwhile, some couples are praying for just a child and you are complaining. Mr Deliberate, you had no form of family planning in place and you continued the shoki unprotected, what were you expecting? Father Abraham enjoy your handwork jare!
InvestmentRe: Dial 112 If Any One Attempts Suicide Due To MMM "Crash"- LASEMA Advises by Joyekpen: 6:43am On Dec 14, 2016
Meanwhile the people running this MMM and their families will enjoy a nice white Xmas somewhere. While our hard working and long throat brothers and sisters in naija will spend Xmas checking their phones for any latest updates. Chai!!!!! Please if you are affected, please buy 100 Naira bitterleaf, extract the juice always drink a cup in the morning, then use the leaf to cook soup. This will help reduce your high blood pressure oooo. Until next month and if no unfreezing, I will come back to add more natural items to the bitter leaf. Long throat nor good oooooooo
InvestmentRe: MMM Nigeria: 'I Am Doomed; I Need My Money Back...' Tears, Wailings Trail 'crash by Joyekpen: 10:48am On Dec 13, 2016
MMM is on Mannequin challenge till next year. Hope it's not permanent oooo, high blood pressure go Finish many Naija people ooo. grin
CrimeRe: 17-Year-Old Girl Caught Stealing Boss' Money On Hidden Camera by Joyekpen: 5:54pm On Dec 10, 2016
Na somebody future wife and mama be this ooo!!!! and they say women can fight and stop corruption. Make EFCC change am to some women can assist in stopping corruption
CelebritiesRe: Peter And Paul Are P Square Not Jude - Peter Okoye Rants On Twitter by Joyekpen: 9:34am On Feb 17, 2016
Seun and Lalastica make e nor be una turn one day oooo grin
PoliticsRe: See Pics 4rm Yesterday's Fire At Wuse Market,Abuja Which Destroyed Many Goods by Joyekpen: 7:04am On Dec 21, 2015
Explosive xmas knock out stored caused it, boy wuse area was scary yesterday wit loud explosion
BusinessRe: Pic: A Building In Wuse Market In Abuja On Fire A While Ago. by Joyekpen: 7:46pm On Dec 20, 2015
Explosion 4rm stored bangers. It was scary! Thought Abuja was under attack. Ran out of my house in zone 5 opposite the market.
PoliticsRe: Gbajabiamila Writes Dogara, Accuses Him Of Undermining Principal Officers by Joyekpen: 3:13pm On Nov 04, 2015
Just when u think its only senate! now when will NASS face the reason why they are gathered!!!

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