Food › Re: Cooking Vs Buying Food: Which Is Really Cheaper. What’s Your Take? by JuanDeDios: 6:42pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
Apus: It depends.
If you are cooking for yourself alone, it can be expensive. Cheaper when cooking for a family size, we call it economies of scale. You go even chop belleful and visit pot again. Buying food is only cheaper cooking if you're eating a reduced quality and portion. |
Literature › Re: Frederick Forsyth, Author Of The Biafra Story, Dies At 86 by JuanDeDios: 6:35pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
Maxymilliano: May his soul rest in peace Day of the Jackal Odessa File Devil's Alternative The Negotiator The making of an African legend and others really thrilled me Yeah. But you omitted The Dogs of War (his second novel), No Comebacks (A short story collection) and The Shepherd (a novella). If I might add, I read all his books. |
Culture › Re: Ojude Oba 2025 (Pictures) by JuanDeDios: 3:48pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
Konquest: @JuanDeDios
Aha! I have an elevated view of your original perspective and appreciate your clarification.
I've never read that book. I'm curious to read that "Gandoki" novel (based off of the 1933 writings of Muhammadu Bello Kagara) in FULL down the road.
I've ONLY just read a 2012 critique of that book and I'm stunned that Macmillan Publishers went ahead to publish this kind of book for Primary school kids. The critique is right in the link BELOW. =>https://saharareporters.com/2012/01/19/gandoki-and-our-school-system-leo-igwe
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Politics › Re: Marketers Engage Global Suppliers To Crash Petrol Price To N700/litre by JuanDeDios: 2:24pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
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Culture › Re: Ojude Oba 2025 (Pictures) by JuanDeDios: 2:13pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
Konquest: Interesting takes based off of your primary school experiences of the 1980s and alleged "military control of what you read." I brings back recollections for me.
For folks like me (who was alive and witnessed unfolding events back in the 1970s right to the 1980s), I can say WITHOUT a shadow of doubt that aside from the Federal government control of NTV (which became NTA) and FRCN, the military dictators didn't have FULL control over what we read and the publications of the private-led media outfits such as the Punch, Sketch, etc, newspapers that printed over 500,000 copies daily for circulation around Nigeria. With the advent of LTV in Lagos and CTV in Kano in the early 1980s, information dissemination became even more liberal and interesting. There were private magazines as well such as the iconic "DRUM" and "EBONY" magazines and other political and social consciousness international publications such as "West Africa" that emphasized on the struggles of indigenous folks in South Africa through ANC, Rhodesia (now Zimbabwe), Namibian SWAPO liberation movements, etc.
The iconic Edo-born 'Dele Giwa (He was a former staff of New York Times and co-founder of Newswatch Magazine) and his colleagues such as Ray Ekpu, Dan Agbese, and other investigative journalists from Vanguard, Chief Aboderin's PUNCH, Sketch, New Nigerian newspaper, and more really gave the sometimes corrupt military guys a tough time and we were fully consciousness of the goings on.
Throw Abami Eda (Fela Anikulapo-Kuti's) radical political conscious music from the 1970s into the 1980 in the mix and we were in a FULL state of political consciousness. You're totally correct. I was just saying that the Ministry of Education was responsible for those school readers. If a headmaster or parent had taken a stand and rejected them, that would have been a rebellion against the federal military government of the time. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Susan Kihika: I Gave Birth In US So Junior Medics Won't See My unclothedness by JuanDeDios: 12:52pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
ppogba: I am sure she wore trousers when the husband was fvcking her.
Slave mentality. Arrogant she goat Probably did IVF. How can a husband who's a junior impregnate her? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Susan Kihika: I Gave Birth In US So Junior Medics Won't See My unclothedness by JuanDeDios: 12:50pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
CJStarz: She should have just kept quiet! Yea. She should have. Now, people will be wondering if she has sense at all. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Susan Kihika: I Gave Birth In US So Junior Medics Won't See My unclothedness by JuanDeDios: 12:50pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
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Business › Re: 15 Worst Currencies Against The US Dollar by JuanDeDios: 11:02am On Jun 10, 2025 |
Mkay24: The reality is different, Ghana currency is very high I think you don't understand what's being said. |
Travel › Re: Mokwa Railway Line, Niger State, After Flood (Photo) by JuanDeDios: 11:00am On Jun 10, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Russia Using Fake Job Adverts To Lure Young African Men Into Its Army by JuanDeDios: 10:54am On Jun 10, 2025 |
blacksam01: On this I can see with own eyes that you are correct cuz I trust the "world street journal".. Oh, really. You've seen a link to the story on WSJ and read the actual article with all the context or you're trusting an image provided by Kremlin intern? |
Politics › Re: Russia Using Fake Job Adverts To Lure Young African Men Into Its Army by JuanDeDios: 10:51am On Jun 10, 2025 |
shoodboi2: Is that so? I never knew the BBC was visiting graves in Russia one after another. You have any link to prove that? Or it's just another failed attempt at propaganda?
And what were you saying about Ukraine not refusing to receive their dead? Common man, it's online 😂 Please provide a link to this WSJ story. Not picture o (I'm sure you've hard of ChatGPT). Link. I want to check something. |
Politics › Re: Russia Using Fake Job Adverts To Lure Young African Men Into Its Army by JuanDeDios: 10:44am On Jun 10, 2025 |
KaLuCh: Wait one minute first make I ask you question. Why you dey suppprt Russia again? How this war go benefit you? How Putin take help your life and how Zelensky take harm you? Wetin Ukrainians do wrong to you and how Russians take bless your existence?
Cos I no really understand the energy una dey use for this matter at all. I've asked several of them here this question: What did Ukraine do to you? No answer. I think they're just pure evil. I mean, they too would like to invade homes and rape and murder, but they're afraid of the law. So when they see someone do it, they support him and enjoy it as if they're the ones doing it. |
Politics › Re: Russia Using Fake Job Adverts To Lure Young African Men Into Its Army by JuanDeDios: 10:40am On Jun 10, 2025 |
shoodboi2: Another bad shot from the anti Russian propagandists. They have gone from Russia is fighting with shovels and Russia is removing chips from washing machines, to Russia is using African to fight in Ukraine.
There are countless videos of Ukrainian soldiers raiding houses and dragging men off streets into buses, from where they are sent to the frontlines.
But our pro-western blokes here will never talk about it and will even deny it's happening.
We have many Nairalanders living in Russia. How come they have not been recruited or even made any report of Africans being forced into the Russian military? Can you explain what's wrong with conscripting grown men into the miliary when you've been invaded by a neighbour that is bombing maternity wards and murdering kids on their sleeping beds? Since that's what you want us to be talking about, but not the fact that your countrymen are being lured with lies to go help the invader? |
Politics › Re: Russia Using Fake Job Adverts To Lure Young African Men Into Its Army by JuanDeDios: 10:35am On Jun 10, 2025 |
Jashub: Trust American propaganda...tueh ehikwe22: Fake media has come again Of course. Russia is winning. They're not nearing 1m casualties. Many Africans have been lured into the Russian military. The Russians are not murdering Ukrainian kids on their sleeping beds. Ukraine did not destroy Russia's strategic bombers. It's all American propaganda. |
Politics › Re: You Couldn’t Criticize Orji Kalu In My Mother’s Presence - Gov Otti (Video) by JuanDeDios: 9:32am On Jun 10, 2025 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Wagner Group Leaving Mali After Heavy Losses But Russia’s Africa Corps To Remain by JuanDeDios: 9:30am On Jun 10, 2025 |
Putindbutt: Russian mercenaries are dying like fowls in the sahara desert.. And they're massacring lots of innocent villagers while at it. |
Politics › Re: Major Joe Ajayi Dies In Kidnappers’ Den After ₦10M Ransom Payment by JuanDeDios: 8:07am On Jun 10, 2025 |
HenryWilliams: Proof of life doesn't mean squat Most kidnappers are merely assassins in disguise. Already padi to do the job, the ransom is just a bonus. You demand proof of life from a Nigerian kidnapper? You definitely want the kidnapped victim dead. We never reach that stage yet. It's still loading . I disagree completely. If it's an assassination attempt disguised as a kidnapping, that's a different matter. Otherwise, if people start demanding proof of life, kidnappers would accept it as the new normal and we'd get there. The problem is that if your kid is kidnapped you can't think straight and start making demands. That's why you need someone near you at that time. So you think that if you ask a Nigerian kidnapper, "Can we talk to him?" he'd shoot the victim, forgo his "investment" and find someone new to kidnap? Naa. |
Politics › Re: Major Joe Ajayi Dies In Kidnappers’ Den After ₦10M Ransom Payment by JuanDeDios: 7:22am On Jun 10, 2025 |
hotspec: May Nigeria not happen to you and your family. So, you will be demanding for proof of life from kidnappers that came with all sorts of automatic weapons to kidnap a retired Major right inside his bedroom? There's difference between film, textbook and real life Nigeria You really think humans being are different, don't you? Take your emotion out of it. Tell them you need to be sure the person is alive BEFORE you pay. Ok, Nigeria. So don't ask for that and pay for a dead body - even after the idiots' sudden change of tone already set off alarm bells that something is wrong. In any case, what I' saying is that we need a structure to these things. If your relative is kidnapped, there's no way you can think straight and do the right thing. You need someone advising you. |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Political Strongman Begs God To Save His Soul Amid Jet Engine Failure by JuanDeDios: 10:39pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Major Joe Ajayi Dies In Kidnappers’ Den After ₦10M Ransom Payment by JuanDeDios: 10:25pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
iwaeda: However, as soon as the abductors discovered that Ajayi couldn’t survive, they reduced the ransom to ₦10 million naira.
A source in the community said that the Ajayi family, believing he was still alive, quickly agreed to pay the ten million naira for his rescue.
“Once the ransom was paid, the kidnappers directed the family to where they would find him, only for them to meet his (Ajayi’s) lifeless body.” PROOF OF LIFE was not demanded. Kidnapping has been with us for many years now, yet the police have not come out to enlighten the public on a protocol to follow when someone is kidnapped. |
Politics › Re: FG Set To Revive Ajaokuta Steel Plant - Abubakar Audu by JuanDeDios: 8:45pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
KillahPriest: I just love white elephants  Me too. They gather plenty money with their big white hands. |
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Family › Re: My Mum Wants To Remarry Six Years After The Demise Of My Dad. by JuanDeDios: 7:36pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
GboyegaD: She deserves her happiness and you shouldn't deny her of this. If she's found love in someone else, let her move on. The part I think you should be bothered about is the wickedness of the culture that wants to severe her from her children because she is married to him. You may want to ask her what her plans are for your siblings when she marries her new husband. The man should be able to take them in without changing their names. He should. |
Family › Re: My Mum Wants To Remarry Six Years After The Demise Of My Dad. by JuanDeDios: 7:34pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
zoghys: She has every right to remarry if she wants and your opinion is not needed at all. She is your mum not your lover so stop been a baby and grow up. Your responsibility is towards your siblings to help them find their foot in life, so pray hard, work smart and make your late dad happy . The mom has a responsibility towards those kids and must always consider them. It's her right to remarry and be happy, but she shouldn't throw her kids away. No, the kids are not the primary responsibility of their older brother. |
Family › Re: My Mum Wants To Remarry Six Years After The Demise Of My Dad. by JuanDeDios: 7:32pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
Chram: I write with Pains in my heart. I wish to ask God why some certain events occur in life. I have lots of questions to ask, but nobody to give me answers.
I describe as Selfish, inconsiderate and egoistical the decision of my mum to remarry.
So, I lost my lovely and caring dad six years ago. We had lived in Port Harcourt prior to his death. When we were traveling to the village, we packed all the little properties we had cos we were not going to return back to PH again since my mum would not be able to cater for myself and little siblings. After the burial and funeral ceremony, we all stayed in the village. I mean a typical village where there's no good road, no electricity, no mobile network. I stayed for a few months, then left them to go squat with my friends in port Harcourt so I could hustle with my muscles and return back to sch at least because it had always been my dad's desire for all of us to go to sch, so I beat my chest and vowed that I would go to sch and graduate. Thank God, I'm done with sch now.
My current challenge now is my mum is in her mid forties and wants to remarry to a man in the village. She hasn't told me yet. But my paternal aunt called to inform me. I'm really worried because if she gets remarried, she will abandon my younger siblings who are there with her because she won't be allowed to take my siblings to her new husband's house as it is an abomination based on the customs and traditions of our place. If my siblings must live with her in that place, then they will have to start bearing the new husband's name as his children. Why ?
Also, as a male child, I'm not allowed to go visit here and eat or sleep over in her new house. If I do this, I might die. Why is this?
Based on reports, my grandfather(mum's dad) is the one mounting pressure on my mum to get married. I'm really worried about the whole situation because the ties between my mum and my siblings are about to be severed. Since my dad died, my mum has been living in her father's house instead of my dad's place. Though both places aren't far from each other. Its trekkable. I feel really hurt and betrayed, I can't even imagine my mum in the arms of another man. If I was stable in monetary and economic terms, I would have taken her out of that dungeon to come live with me, and also bring siblings along. I'm really pained as I type. Tears.. my dad died at age 47.
I wish u guys can beg my mum not to remarry please. What's the difference between me and someone from a Broken background? Life is not fair to me and my siblings. Not fair at all. I know how I'm feeling right now.
Let me make it clear at this point that if her plans of remarrying goes through, I will dis-mother her. I'll cut all ties and destroy every bond that ever existed between herself and us the children.
File photo used for illustration Clearly your grandfather wants your mom to be happy. So should you. The only problem is all these tradition this tradition that. Can't take her kids with her without forcing a name change? Not good. My suggestion: visit home and discuss your concerns with your mother and grandfather. The tradition might not be as rigid as you have heard. |
Politics › Re: Ebuka Onunkwo Honours Immigration Officer With ₦5M For Arresting Ritualist by JuanDeDios: 6:46pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
BeginsAtHome: You definitely do not comprehend my post.
Clearly!!! He should watch his back, as he might be in danger from accomplices of the person he arrested for ritual murder... is apparently much to deep to be comprehended. Smart you. |
Health › Re: Why Short People Live Longer Than Tall People by JuanDeDios: 6:39pm On Jun 09, 2025*. Modified: 7:02pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
morikee: Might be true but not proven It's not a matter of being true or false. It's a fact based on stats. If you're a man, the day you were born, a girl born that same day has a higher chance of living longer than you. If you're tall, a shorter person should live longer. If you're neurodivergent (ADHD, autistic, Down syndrome, etc.), a neurotypical person should live longer. Etc. It doesn't mean it will happen like that - it's just probabilities backed up by stats. |
Politics › Re: Ebuka Onunkwo Honours Immigration Officer With ₦5M For Arresting Ritualist by JuanDeDios: 6:24pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
BeginsAtHome: Guy should just Sha watch his back.
Even the ex clients of the said ezeani would still want to bring him close for a deadly strike.
Wisdom my brother they say, is profitable to direct.
Congratulations all the same .. But he's not a witness to the crimes. He merely arrested a wanted person. Why would anyone go after him? Our police should stop arresting people then? |
Properties › Re: What's The First Thing You Do if You Find These Guns Underground Your House by JuanDeDios: 6:05pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
Breaker001: I remember many years ago when I saw a pistol in a flower vase in a school compound. I simply picked it, wrapped it in a polythene bag with a huge stone and threw it into a stream. That was about 25 years ago 🤓 You ought to have called the police so that a forensic investigation would be carried out. This will help determine how the pistol got there and if it was used in a crime. For all you know, that gun might be the missing piece that would tie a murder case together. Wakes up from my dream and remembers you were in Nigeria. I guess you did the right thing. |
Properties › Re: What's The First Thing You Do if You Find These Guns Underground Your House by JuanDeDios: 6:02pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
CodeTemplarr: Melt them and make spoon pot and utensils. And they will beat their swords into ploughshares And their spears into pruning hooks Nation shall not lift up sword against nation Neither shall they learn war anymore. Isaiah 2:4 |
Properties › Re: What's The First Thing You Do if You Find These Guns Underground Your House by JuanDeDios: 5:57pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
[quote author=Morbeta11 post=135677610][/quote]If I'm rich, I'd raise a small army to take on kidnappers making life hell for Nigerians in Ondo, Edo, Imo, Kogi and elsewhere. I think a few well-positioned snipers (with backup gunners) located in the forests using kidnappers for target practice would be great. At least, the thought of this would cross my mind. |