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Obavoh:
Growing up in the North I didn’t really take note but I just realized that

Yoruba restaurant —> Yoruba+Igbo+Hausa Customers

Igbo restaurant —> Igbo+Yoruba+Calabar Customers

Calabar restaurant—> Yoruba+Igbo+Hausa+Calabar

Hausa restaurant—> Northerners

Just last month there was a small riot in the company I work for.
The Hausa woman that cooks in our Canteen serves only Northern food and soups.
We have 70% Northern workers and 30% Southerners.

The South boys usually prefer to leave the company and go to a restaurant far in the village just to eat lunch everyday. I have never seen them eat our food.

The company had to bring in a Calabar woman to cook for them after much protest. This woman’s food is more expensive but they don’t complain.

I didn't know this. When I was working at Apapa, there was this Hausa woman selling food. I used to stop there some mornings to eat. I liked her food. But I only ate rice served with some kind of flavourful vegetable.

Kobojunkie:
Saying she is unaccommodating is something entirely different from what is presented in the OP, which is that the man cancelled the wedding because the woman would not let his sister join her bridal train.

Different? You mean you don't see that this lady is unaccommodating is what the man sees - which is the correct thing to see here?

Kobojunkieee:
You are right that the question was unnecessary. It really shouldn't impact whether she should allow another on her train or not, really.

2. The role is not for his sister, though. It is instead for the women his bride has carefully picked to be her +2 on that day. His cancelling the wedding because his wife did not pick his sister screams of a man with control issues— it is akin to a child throwing a tantrum of sorts for not getting its way. If you don't know what that means, I suggest you make Google your friend.

I don't buy it. Because I've witnessed a couple where the woman was unaccommodating. It was one of the things that eventually ended the marriage. No, this is for real, not from Google.

Nnamdipapa:
Luckily for me, I have four WhatsApp accounts. Three are heavily passworded. The one she checked is just the “decoy” account with light security.

See Odogwu!

fyneboi79:
No! No!! No!!! The rationale behind the cancellation is her inability to be accommodating even to his own sibling?
Haba Sammy,how will you feel if your elder brother is sponsoring a vacation with his friends and their wives and he asks you to come along with your husband but his wife says no but will rather have another couple?

Someone gets it.

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth to these types of men comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that.

What makes you think he won't have allowed her brother into this groom's men? Asking his wife to let his sister participate that way on their big days equals controlling? ? ? This post makes no sense at all.

SmartPolician:
Congratulations to him.

Emir Sanusi had no business being a traditional leader. He should've joined politics to use his love for education to change his people who think that education is haram.

I suppose northern leaders are too afraid to address that issue so they don't lose their goodwill amongst the Hoi polloi

He has directly addressed this in the past. He said he doesn't have the temperament for politics.

Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wDAmcvcFCGI?si=LomLwQdfbxLPA-yC

I see the hand of spiritual husband in this. Look at her eyes very well.

#justkidding. These guys need to be proposing in private though. Because what is this?

TouchNfollow:
https://www.thecable.ng/adc-to-remi-tinubu-national-library-completion-is-fgs-duty-not-birthday-project/

Me sef taya. What consign First Lady's baiday with NLN?

Kaliningrad:
[b]Yesterday he posted this picture of him and Putin lol. He's really going through it.

For the first time ever, you're right about something. Lol @ Trump having a fit.

SatoshiX:
Arguably the best Governor in Nigeria today. The same person some people wants to replace with a nonentity that's not fit for a LG chairman.

I'm a huge fan of his too. I'd name him my best since '99 - were it not.... Only two things dent his legacy for me: The Lekki Massacre (he's yet to come clean about his role about what happened that night, even if you don't believe there was a massacre) and the utter chaos, voter intimidation and rigging that attended his second-term election.

RandDigital:
Video: Old news clip

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ix-OowQFIjw?si=mpFYLRZ6IU8LyaG1

I'm not sure about this. Hippos are nasty, sometimes capable of senseless violence.

Chemical1:
Read comments to the end or do you Know redpill?.. Is all about telling men to use their heads when it comes to women..

I see. Yeah, heard of Red Pill.

kolente:
Baba, dey reason small na.

When he knows he doesn't have a perfect life with a big log of wood in his own eyes, why attack POs son and dissect his life like you had yours sorted ?

Reno is a pretentious and hypocritical being. Even heard his father placed some curse on him sef.

Oh, this is about something he said about Obi's son for you. I see. I was commenting on what the wife said at face value - he's clearly not a terrible father.

tutudesz:
Non of the wives gave birth to his children. All his children mother's were never married to him

Ah, that's tough! No kids from three wives? ? ?

jordyspices:
All these people don make money from this naija political scene choi

No be small.

Softmirror:
Coming from a bitter EX.......you can relate from the picture below.

Fair assessment. Reno seems very bitter as Obi's ex. This lady seems very bitter as Reno's ex.

Kaycee9242:
The charlatan will never take care of his family all he does is to be online spewing thrash

How do you know he's not taking care of his family? I'm no fan of Reno, but Reading the post carefully, you can tell this is just a troublesome woman. If he was not sending money or not visiting the boy at all, she would have said it. He's obviously trying, so she had to resort "quality time", knowing you social media people will jump at anything to lynch someone.

maberry:
This man god done finally sleep
After this sentence he will definitely be deported and then face the worse punishment in Nigeria

He deserves a lifetime in jail. He's a coldblooded killer.

DeOTR:
I thought I was the only that saw it. I'm only familiar with the acquiring Bank absorbing the acquired and their name being the new Brand.

I guess they decided to go with the name that's got history. Like when UBA and STB merged. STB was the acquirer, yet they took the UBA name.

That said, Union Titan Bank or Union Trust Bank won't be a bad name.

Tenisam:
https://punchng.com/aibom-denies-deducting-tithe-from-workers-salaries/

I'm apt to believe it though. I mean, the rumour did not just start now. When Pastor Eno was a commissioner under Udom, there were stories of deducting tithes from the workers' salaries.

Caaz:
Yes...but i m being forced to cook it on sunday,left to me,i prefer swallow on sunday.

Same here. Can't come and joke with my pounded yam on Sunday afternoon.

Chemical1:
I don't know why people feel so insecure about this gehgeh stuff especially some girls, it is just like redpill, A wise person will copy two or three things from inside and leave the rest..
Yes men are going through a lot in this life especially Nigeria because politicians and celebrities have spoiled the girls, on top we still have mumu men very useless set of men who their target everyday is to impress women..
A broke guy don't deserve a woman but a broke girl deserve a man..
Wetin concern pastor in gehgeh matter sef..
Allow the guy do what he like, it's all fun..
The rate at which men are disrespected when they are broke is very very disgusting..

What is geh geh or Geh Geh University?

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grandstar:
Israel has done it again.

The truth is that with Iran weakened, it can't support its Shiite allies like before.

Israel's weakening of Hezbollah for instance, led to the collapse of the Al-Assad government in Syria.

It is having a multiplier effect.

The Sunni Gulf States, as much as they resent Israel's activities in Gaza and the West Bank, secretly appreciate how it has decimated Iran's proxies in the Middle East.

We're not even sure about that.

wink2015:
Ukraine government should settle with Russia to end the war.

Drop their NATO Ambition.

All these killings are as a result of the prolong war.

Which NATO ambition are you talking about?

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SoliBayNG:
Their law stipulates six months, and they used padi padi to extend it to one year. Check the expiry date on what you are smoking

When did an executive order, signed by the person with CONSTITUTIONAL powers to sign it, become padi padi?

Bobloco:
https://dailypost.ng/2025/08/28/atiku-finally-states-nine-conditions-tinubus-govt-must-fulfill-before-2027-election/

I doubt "FG" will agree to this. Murkiness favours wuruwuru and woruwuru works in their favour. If Mr Atiku was "FG" too, he'd be resistant to any suggestion that throws light on darkness.

blacksam01:
Due to the facts it's my huzling period, and every one naira matters alot..I am in mid 30's

I am frugal with my resources and it makes me trek alot.. infact I cover 2km in trekking daily...

Not typically going on long journeys, but my combined daily short short trek is about 2k..

Should I be worried for my old age..?

Yes. You're causing serious problems for yourself. In fact, you're setting up yourself for future health problems. But that's if you don't eat well and take care of yourself. If you do, you're good.

Okwyjesus:
They have started again..
Osun is more digitally inclined than Rivers.

They have a gov election coming up. Could be a factor.

kiddaz:
I'm 99 percent sure the business is owned by some foreign individuals who troop here in numbers and bribe their way through our useless system to conduct all manner of illegal businesses and still shame us internationally. This country should be sold to aliens from Antarctica maybe we would thrive 😞

I think MPMG or Akintola Williams Deloitte won't be a bad idea.

Gistsnaijamedia:
https://www.tvcnews.tv/soldier-killed-in-bauchi-by-policeman-escorting-illegal-mining-truck/

Army kidnapper shoot police. Police illegal mimer shoot army man. Ojoro cancel ojoro.

This is really sad.