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daddymummy:
It is not true.

Men don't cry.

Crying is a woman's thing.

Also a woman might shed tears of joy during wedding because she has succeeded in finding someone who would feed, cloth and house her.

She has found someone who would pay the bills, school fees and etc while the only thing she would offer is sex.

She is the one who is gaining.

So why shouldn't she shed tears of joy?

A man would not shed tears, but he may be sad to realise that the only thing he would get out of the marriage is sex.

He realized that if not for his compulsive desire to have sex,he would not marry.

The desire to have sex is given to him by nature, so that his labour would be spent to satisfy a stranger whom he calls a wife.


The stranger would then give birth to children whom the man would feed, cloth, house, and pay school fees for.



Maybe he feels cheated by nature, but he would not cry because crying is not a man's thing.

Lyrics269:
What's the capital of kebbi sef

Fmghewzy:
You are kinda right op,but you shouldn't generalise, yeah true there are so many stupid black Americans with victim mentality and laziness.
But not all,and there are better ways to say things like this.


We want things to get better not fight.
Certainly there would be black Americans on this forum, and if you intend to pass a message to them,
It shouldnt be like this.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

doggedfighter:
Why's their skin ashy? Is it the terrain?

That Lion looks too well fed to escape from a Nigerian Zoo.

How I wish it attacked Boko Haram

That one posing there in camo, is he a soldier or those ones destroying beer up North?

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, we no be small pikin for here.


I know you must have gotten that job for that woman with conditions of "Sexual Favours" From her and you must have gotten those sexual favours from her before you got her that Job, maybe that's why she resents you and was patiently praying for you to enter her trap.

We no be small Pikin for here

Niyeal:
She too black joor

Danhoys:
I could totally relate to you dear op, but I'm sure we're the lucky ones.

First of all, you married someone you love, someone you find both romantically and sexually attractive.

That's a plus.

When I and my hubby were passing through this turbulent phase, what helped was having similar interest.

I'm hugely into politics, and so is my husband. Trust me, there is always something to gist on when he's back from work.

Aside from politics, we're both hardcore gamers too, and we're already saving to get PS4, and it doesn't stop us from giving our young kids the attention they deserve.

Aside that, we both have huge interest in other areas too, like science. There is always something to talk about.

I've always love men who are built, and my husband knows this.

Every weekend, we go running, and we help each stay fit. Sometimes I teases him that he should be a model, and I do take alluring pictures of him too.

I'm a super intelligent lady, (not bragging), so I ensured that my husband's intellect matched with mine before saying 'I do!'

We've been married for 5 years now, and the love and fun is still there. During leave, we always make it a duty to travel to another state, and see an interesting place.

A week vacation doesn't hurt, and it has a way to rekindle the love we have for each other.

When you marry your friend, you discover that your love is new every morning lol.

Work and children can't steal love away, that's an excuse people give to avoid talking about how they no longer find their partner attractive or interesting.

I don't want to talk about sex, cause ours is on a whole new level. Sex shouldn't be the traditional offing of light and missionary thrusting.

That's boring!!! It needs spicing every time or it becomes boring and a chore.

I wouldn't like to go into details, before some religious folks label us sinners.

You have work to do, and I'm sure you've gotten a cue from my write up. Wishing you more bliss in marriage.

Karlovych:

Kaduna1stson:
If you are hoping on importation to fill the gap, remember that we run the borders, we can close Seme again plus other southern land borders.

We can handpick the foods to be imported from the ports because we are in charge of that sea access too. We can ban chicken and fish imports, alongside tomato and onions imports.

MaxInDHouse:
Religion is not the cause of murderous acts but Politics. There are many instruments of mass mobilization in the hands of Politicians: Money, Eloquence, Weapons, Philosophical theories, Racism and the last but not least is false RELIGION!
The instrument that's fast and most effective is false religion because it sink down into the brains of their hypnotized victims leading to the hatred of their political rivals and finally murder is the result!
So Politicians makes use of so many instruments but all their instruments failed woefully in the face of True WORSHIP, therefore real Politicians hate true Christians (Jehovah's Witnesses) with passion!
Atheism gives no room for mind controlling tactics because each person is free to live as he wish so far you're not going to hurt anyone whereas Politics involves ruling over others. That's why it seems as if atheists are guiltless but when you look critically at the issue you'll see that in lands where religion has no grip on people Politicians result to Philosophical theories which atheists can't decipher, so they will also motivate atheists to join in killing their fellowmen!

Draslo:
We can't. I didn't say it wasn't either. I was just making a valid point

Draslo:
You can't.

Draslo:
Just a fair note, not every voice in your head is the voice of God. Take a case study of Nigerian pastors, they all claim to hear God but deep down we all know it's a lie.

thebosstrevor1:
OUR military did a good work.

If not for the effort of our military men, People in the south would have been starving by now.

CaptainMitch:
I dont support verbal or emotional abuse, give her time to heal, marriage should be based on love not forced. Try to improve your income we all know money brings respect