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Netgurus:
Hello nairalanders, please I need urgent advice..

My wife was due for delivery on November 29 plus or minus 2 weeks. But about four days ago, she started having pains round her waist and back. The pain become severe and I had to take her to the hospital where the doctor said she is up for labor.. the pain is just there and nothing is happening, they say they won't inject.her as they are not too sure, because if they inject her and it happens not to be labor, then it might get worse.

She is tired and week, the worst is that they are not even checking her, when they finally did, they won't say any word to us.

Since four days we arrived, they said it was 4cm or just 4 something, don't really know what they call it. Up till now is still on the 4 and the pain won't go.

She has not been to toilet for the four days.

Please please please.. the moderators of this forum, I am just sitting and typing this hoping it will be taking to the front page.

We want to leave but they say the doctor must come first, and the doctor comes by 11.

I need help

iamtoofan:
Forget we are on NL, i'm an african man, what the essence of r/ship or marriage if sex is not primary concern

There is not a woman nd a man cant achieve independently except for sex.

So whats your primary concern ... is it money, career, property or foood

Go to magistrate court n hear cases of divorce you will be shocked at cases filed by women ... sex is primary never contemplate that

No matter how you nd a guy connect ... if their is no iota of sexual attraction to begin with it the r/ship cant work.

stop living in ur head nd take a vacation to the real world sis

Dagger111:
Juliearth! Is that really you on your DP?

maasoap:
And going by your second statement, do you still think that your first statement is the best way? Receive sense

Oriyomin25:
Good evening Nairalanders!

So i was talking with a friend this evening who plans to pick a date next year and do the official thing with his fiancée before May 2025.

I projected 1.5m for everything, including marriage list, ma guy was shocked, and i was surprised he was surprised

He is not a Nairaland person so i told him i will post here and see what people's reactions is like towards what the cost could be like. Note that he'll be following the tread too.

Thanks in advance for your input.

Proserpina:
Lol if I start writing on the lady,ehn... She's just as unserious as the boyfriend. The only difference is the dude knows what he wants, the lady doesn't No sex dey send nudes wetin she dey expect? If this guy use her nudes against her someday she will start crying. Lol

They will be alright! They should both get out

iamtoofan:
age wey no pass two digit @ least i know people go to court to divorce but why people will go into r/ship without sexual needs big is what i cant fathom.

iamtoofan:
age wey no pass two digit @ least i know people go to court to divorce but why people will go into r/ship without sexual needs big is what i cant fathom.



If coitus is your primary concern, then there isn't a need to venture into a relationship. Find a few ***** to run shifts per your urge. When two people decide to date, it's mostly borne out of the need for completeness, synergy and so on. The whole idea is to find someone who completes you and whose strength(s) compliment(s) your weakness and vice versa. At some point intimacy is factored in, but believe me, it isn't the primary drive for relationship.

You need a complete mental overhaul. Maybe that would come to fruition when you attain adulthood. All the best!

iamtoofan:
if relationship is not an avenue for quelling raging hormones ...
what do we want to do that "just friends" wont cover ..

malaria:
Obviously they are not on the same page ..The want different things ..

xprojectlive:
Californium is $27 million dollars per kg

Does it mean the north is richer than the south?


https://www.google.com/search?q=californium+price+per+gram&oq=californium+&aqs=chrome.3.69i57j0i512l14.15093j0j4&client=ms-android-transsion&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

xprojectlive:
Abacha cso Hamza Al mistapha says Boko Haram was created to enable some politicians siphon precious stones



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiBEAs9PeF4?si=lKdA-nPkJZ4sPsoW

Proserpina:
This one see girl ready to invest financially in a relationship with him but sex is his problem.

Later they will say Nigerian girls have nothing to offer than sex.

Mumu people

Glory018:
Was this a good reason to end a relationship?

So this is the continuation of the chat.
Who do you think is wrong?

Zonefree:
The thing is, most Nigerian girls on artificial hair don't have sense. The costlier the hair on their head, the smaller the brain.

To put an expensive hair on a block head should be treated as a criminal offence if Nigeria is a sane country.


I have this feeling that Batife on 90k hair will go for NYSC before those baby whales there.

Gistmedia10:
In a viral footage captured by a fellow student, fresh female graduates were seen boasting about the extravagant costs of their hairstyles during their sign-out day, igniting a wave of criticism online. The video featured the graduates discussing the prices of their hairpieces, with one graduate revealing her wig cost a staggering 500,000 Naira, while another flaunted a 350,000 Naira hairstyle.

As they turned around for the camera, the filmer exclaimed, "Oh my God!" at the eye-popping prices, seemingly in awe of their extravagant looks. However, many netizens did not share the same enthusiasm. Instead of celebrating their academic achievements, commenters expressed disappointment, arguing that the graduates should have been more focused on their cumulative grade point averages (CGPA) rather than the cost of their hair.

One commenter quipped, "Next, ask them what's the meaning of CGPA," highlighting the disconnect between their academic success and their priorities. Others, however, defended the graduates, stating, "That is why it is good to date someone that has money. How can a broke guy afford this fee?"

As a reflection of contemporary societal values, where materialism sometimes overshadows academic accomplishments, leaving many to question the true essence of education and success.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twCf_c18vGA

guobe:
All wrong answers so far

NoMoreGuest:
Good day Nairaland family

I have been a guest on this educative platform for over two years I created an account to seek advice from matured minds and well educated individuals.

I would love to know if it’s embarrassing or rather inappropriate to go back to a previous job , it’s been four years since I left the job and resigned but I still maintained a good relationship with the management…

we communicate from time to time
Life can be unpredictable and things are not going as planned and as a struggling young man I need to survive one way or the other i would really love your inputs and advice on this issue
Thanks and God bless

Ahmed0336:
Do you have evidence to this claim?

Ahmed0336:
It will shock to know that Niger State have one of the highest workforce in the north.

Go and verify..

ModernAncestor:
BREAKING!
Farmer Governor Mohammed Umaru Bago approves N80,000 Minimum Wage for Niger State Civil servants.


https://nigerstate.gov.ng/breaking-farmer-governor-mohammed-umaru-bago-approves-n80000-minimum-wage-for-niger-state-civil-servants/

siofra:
😂

I actually like it though

shortgun:
I strongly agree with you on the this, any keen observer will see that the areas most affected by insecurity are areas rich in mineral resources

Salewa97:
Toh

The minister must have been doing something wrong for the staff to jubilate like that

Zionmdde:
Doesn't mean the woman didn't do well
If staffs are all happy with the boss then the boss isn't doing something right in most cases

X and Y theory comes to mind
Unfortunately in Nigeria most workers are of X category and they require autocratic bosses who uses coercion most times

Georgry:


What if the ex minister simply demand that everybody do their job without any laxity? These workers in the ministries are some of the most lazy workers in Nigeria, especially the states ministry.

Mindlog:
Was certainly high-handed, to evoke such celebration.

DSS1335:


Pure and undiluted truth is what the man spoke and he was dismissed from service. I pity the generation unborn. Do we have a president cum commander-in-chief?

Few days ago, it was disclosed by a mallam that Tinubu's family are earning trillions from fuel subsidy regime, reasons why he is keeping mum about the call for the sack of Meley Kari is because his company is the importer of fuel from Malta

https://truthnigeria.com/2024/08/tinubu-family-accused-of-massive-oil-refining-scam-linked-to-malta/

How can such a bargage fight corruption?

IniobongEno:
Might be audio donations.

Stargurl20:
I had a recent interview and I was asked to tell them my self In not more than five sentences. I started with my name, education, and mentioned three skills. It's a GT role and I'm a fresh grad. Although, I've worked as an administrative assistant and I had that on my CV.


My question is should I have added my experience while answering the question, despite being given instruction to to make it exceed five sentences?

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
This has happened twice now.
Gotten into a toxic relationship meets toxic persons friend and has instant regret but can't do anything about.

My current bf has done his best to ruin my life , but his best would never be enough because I survived .

He neglected me in all aspects except sex , at least I see Garri and soup in his house but he has never bought me anything or contributed to any of my business or even meatpie sef , in fact I have to ask for mineral and it will be like Christmas.

I broke up with my long distance ex to try and entre a relationship with someone close enough but I've seen shege like this , I dey package small so no one noticed but now I am speaking up

Rather than give he always takes , borrowed my savings of one year ,I don't know why but its all my fault , I felt he would do the same for me , still borrowed money from me to cover some expenses , borrowed from other people too , just debt debt everywhere.

To top it off he's always online chatting with anything that wears skirt , never thinking of skill or business.

With everything I met one of his friends that was the complete opposite and with all my complained I started becoming a little close with him , he had the same toxic relationship with a girl he loved , treated her well , provided for her and yet she cheated , everyone used to admire them but she got pregnant for her Ex and he confessed everything he did for her.

Meanwhile my own took me from up and dragged me down with full force.

Now this heart broken friend confessed that he wish he met me first , but I belong to his friend , I feel the same way.

I have no feelings for my bf , but now he us begging but its late , he had opportunities but he saw me like his mother and now I'm nurturing feelings for his friend , I feel like speaking up but people would paint both of us bad .

Even though I want to date I should date someone else right? But I already like this one , because he's so kind and its sad to see that he gets mistreated all the time .

I have told my friends , they think its bad for reputation but he's responsible , a good father too because he has a daughter .

I want to be happy , thats all.

I'm tired of being the man in this relationship