₦airaland Forum

Mrwhite09:
lately, I have been thinking that for my life to change I must get married. I have been living in squalor for so long. Maybe when I get married and have another mouth to feed, I will have more derive to excape poverty.
Hohestly I am tired of all these sapa that I am facing.

Nazgul:
I suspected it was National grid with the way the light went off. The current just kept reducing until it vanished. I sha hope they haven't spoilt my appliances.

But on a more serious note. This is the 3rd time this grid has collapsed in less than a week.

Someone told me that Nigeria is heading towards total blackout. I'm beginning to believe him.

koldrun:
I was trying to prepare dinner about 2 hours ago, when boiling water poured on my leg. I was rushed to a nearby hospital, where I was administered first aid, and then the doctor prescribed some drugs. I have a feeling that this might be a third degree scald. Your suggestions are welcome on how to treat this.

jaksmillioniar:
nice one dear kip looking beautiful

siofra:
NYSC will have you tasting food from different cultures. I think that's one positive aspect of NYSC.

My Igbo roomie prepared it. I like the taste but it's a bit dry though. It's more of a snack than a meal.


7/10.

Sensiblerealist:
Rest in peace dude. Politicians should realize that there is Karma one way or the other but most of them don't care anyways. They have sold their souls

Maeve7:
Are you ready for your kid(s) to live in a different place than you do?

Are you ready to not be part of their daily life?

Are you ready to accept that your baby mama will move in with her new partner and your kids will live with another man?

Are you sure your baby mama will be peaceful and not bring drama into your life?

accused:
These are narrative from friends all around me since I declare my intention that guy it's time I settle down for marriage,but I keep hearing this same words from friends and even my guys abroad. That guy I re very lucky . forget that move and look for a baby mama.

Aleem26:
YES they are called Akudaya

Enemyofpeace:
it's obvious that he didn't read the thread

SFSNIPER:
Don't mind him, he's an idiot.

Nonexisting1:
You're just an ordinary girlfriend but you're already dragging cooking rights with his mother and had the nerve to walk out on his family. You'll last longer in the marriage market than hardship lasts longer in this country.

iwaeda:
Do you enjoy 20 hours minimum Light in your area?

EreluRoz:
What are you doing in the market as a man? Men that goes to the market are very stingy and aggressive.
I dislike men that would open eyes to everything and won't allow women to be women peacefully.

You should have a woman maybe a market woman that get your things for you.

Born2winnx:
I just left the market just now not too far from my house, can you believe I wanted to buy fresh fish so I can prepare something nice for myself this evening to go through the weekend.
Madam how much you dey sell your fish, she brought one out and said 7k..I was surprised and ask for one? She say ehh.. you go buy me join.

Never in my life have I felt insulted with the way she said it, this is someone that all what she's selling in the basin is not up to the sandal i have on my leg putting on.



I wanted to give her gbas gbos but had a second thought, due to the economy of the country people Will have false impression of the whole thing.. maybe I don't have money to afford her market meanwhile it's different scenario of someone who doesn't know how to talk at all.. I just left her shade.


This is not the first time I have encountered this kind of market women and sometimes they will make you feel as if you came to beg for their goods.

You might be seeing them hustling and struggling in hot sun and cold weather and feel sorry but if this people tell you word you reason your life the whole day.



Nlfpmod

Warrior99:
Nice 🙂

I cook something like this, though not as rich!

If one were to prepare this as Potato soup from the start, how would you prepare it?

Meaning:
Hi guys, I notice one thing about me.
I'm too emotional for a man. I'm too soft hearted. I don't want bad things to happen to anyone.
But recently, I realized that people are taking advantage of that and I'm tired.

Please can someone teach me the act of wickedness thru manipulation?

The way you destroy people but act like you are their help. That kind of manipulative destruction.

Any help please.

CyrusVI:


Their state Govs arent held accountable for anything

This is what you get when you channel all your energy into cursingone Abuja residents, when you can easily stroll to your State secretariat and go cause yawa

Meerahbel:
Are you planning on becoming a model

richmond500:
As for me, lunch is not part of my meals again.

It's not like I can't provide lunch but that will put me in tight budget and I may not have something to save at the end of the day. L Even though I make a little above 100k in profits.
In Nigeria, if you earn N100k in places like Rivers state, Bruh u are broke, and I begin to feel bad for those earning around 50k, ona deh try.

authentic18:
Amen
I was in sin
I guess this incident is a wake up call
Not even thinking sexually since it happened to me
I don’t wish anyone to experience it
By Gods grace I’d never experience it again
Years ago I used to hear people talk about this but i just shrug it off like what are these people talking about

authentic18:
Done
Everybody on earth has a nice woman for a mother
There are no horrible/wicked women on earth

authentic18:
3. Well all my life I’ve had only one good Nigerian out of the multiple Nigerian women I encountered
She’s decent looking with a wonderful heart
She’s married now with kids
She wanted to introduce me to her parents etc, she was raised very well. I had to let her go because I didn’t have money & women have shorter fertility window than guys


4. I’ve interacted with a number of them
They even have worse issues character wise than Nigerians
Very hard to find an American without some kind of mental illness, most smoke, use some kinda drugs or are alcoholics. It’s hard to find one that’s just regular with no piercings, no tattoos, mentally stable etc
It’s just to gain access to the American economy that’s all. The opportunities there are enormous, you can’t even get some remote jobs because our Nigerian addresses are blacklisted by firms over there. Tinubu & Buhari destroyed our economy at home, the naira has lost significant value. Limited opportunities for a huge population. Some people are resorting to fraud etc and I’m not built for that
If an American chick likes you, she can fly to wherever you are and take huge steps to help you level up
And a man is naturally wired to serve in return
That’s one thing whites or latinas do
Nigerian women date largely on the basis of class You must be better than them
Classism culture, Nigerian women are copying African American women gradually
People are on survival mode here so I really can’t blame anybody
The wealthy women here have egos and can be very disrespectful

5. There are a lot of lessons in Dune for guys
The evolution of a boy to a man
The last movie I watched more than 5 times was the Moses type of film that came out in 2015. Exodus: gods & kings
Game of Thrones too
Yes I found Dune 1 & 2 interesting

Healthrelatedjo:
You are correct boss.
I worked and stayed in a hospital for 3yrs,and I know what I saw and encountered.All you said about the demon visitation is true.Thats the way they show up.I believe you.Some spirits will just want you to see them with your korokoro eyes while some will do their thing on a low.

authentic18:
I never thought this would happen to me
1st time I had sleep paralysis was at 26
Never had that more than two or three times
I sometimes sleep with my arms crossed over my chest if I lay on my back
Most times I sleep sideways

About two years ago a new tenant moved into our street & I’ve got my windows facing theirs.
They sometimes performed some kind of exorcism whenever they were praying out loud it seems
This went on for 2 years
I concluded someone living there was possessed.
The tenant in question moved out two months ago
I also slept with a strange girl about that period they left

I’m in my 30’s, unmarried, the country’s situation is harsh so I don’t see how one would get married and take care of kids when life is becoming expensive.
About 2 weeks ago, a 10 ft demon came to me in the middle of the night acting all jealous and screaming at me while attacking
I couldn’t move. This was worse than the regular sleep paralysis people have
It was dark shadowed about 10 ft
And I was like, what do I even have that the demon was all furious and jealous yelling at me
And then something probably flying off

Moments later I saw my spirit leaving my body, it was going up then I got reattached to my body
On YouTube, i saw something relating to silver cord attached to the human body
I struggle to sleep at night ever since
I hear dark spirits operate at night
I’m never fornicating again until I get married since that incident occurred
It’s also extremely hard to find good women these days as most of them are on survival mode looking for who to latch to
Just feels parasitic instead of symbiotic
I had one or two white girls who offered to help me out in the past in exchange for marriage but I declined back then because i thought I could get out of predicaments on my own
It’s in mens DNA to solve problems and feel useful, which in turn improves confidence
I regret that decision

My conclusion
1. Don’t live close to a possessed person or where exorcism of any sort is carried out
2. Fornication possibly opens up demonic potholes for evil spirits to access you. The girl I slept with is one I’d never have done it on a regular, it’s because I was frustrated. Like she smokes heavily, into drugs and is into selling her body. I never hang around cigarettes or weed
3. An American latina who I used to talk to once indirectly told me she went to get tarot card readings on me after we had a quarrel
I heard spirits also attack married couples
Never thought this would befall me until it got to my doorstep. The spiritual world is very real
4. I watched Dune 1 & 2 more than 10 times, more than I should have. The movie probably has strange parts & noises, culture appropriation, incantations etc

I really don’t know how to pray besides the most complete Lord’s Prayer
I hope I never experience this again
Just imagine a 10ft gigantic demon beating one up and sucking one’s life force
I woke up feeling ill for days
Took a little while to process what I had gone through
Don’t know who I offended
Not a religious person
This is no joke, just pray you never get to experience it
A number of Americans on YouTube said they’ve experienced what happened to me when I did a little search
Demons, spirit spouses etc are real
There are people who appear healthy physically , have nice financial portfolio too but are going through ridiculous things in the spiritual realm

ItisWell22:
Isn’t it obvious enough?

It’s glaringly clear, babe.



Amen. 🙏



He didn’t even tell her when his travel plans clicked, until he got there.

Flywheel212:
So I met this guy like three years ago and within a year I noticed he was keeping me on a low so I felt he wasn't serious with me and I had a discussion with him that if he isn't interested in something more it's best we go our separate ways since I wanted a serious relationship which will eventually lead to marriage, he cried and begged that he was serious, things went on still no formal introduction to his family members or friends.
Then he started making plans to travel, I was part of it, the plan was for us to get married then travel together, before I knew it he became secretive and and avoiding me, fast forward to some months back he called me on a WhatsApp call crying for me to forgive him that he was abroad and doesn't know what came over him and why he couldn't tell me, he claims he is still in love with me and wants us to work, without a promise as to what all this will lead to, he wants us to lean on hope for the best.

Natbrowny:
Y'all need to understand emotional intelligence and boundaries

Love for mother is different from love for wife

Ur mother was married into the home by ur father, same way u married a lady as a wife into ur home

Mostly - wife and mother will not give a man any issues if there is respect for boundaries.

U cannot love one more than the other. They are seperate and the feelings n emotions dey breed are different. If u don't love ur wife enuff, ur kids will feel it. U cannot unlove ur mother too.

Advision:
Goat and cows aŕe typically free range in Nigeria.

Chicken are typically battery-cage and high on synthetic growth hormones.

You're likely better off with the former.

Rubyjade:
Oh food is relatively cheap in Minna depending on where you are in Minna.