Family › Re: I Dislike My Small Stature by julybaba(m): 10:32pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Venerealisles: So this year my family decided we were gonna come back to naija early for the Xmas celebrations, we also wanted to do Thanksgiving in Nigeria hence the early arrival.
Well, we were back home in Lag, so I decided to go hang out with some of my long time friends, and what I saw shocked me ooh. They were really big now, felt like they were way older than me. To make matters worst, I senior them pretty damn well, but my tiny physique just makes them think otherwise. 
The last straw that broke the camel back was when I went over to my cousin's place, only for my Aunt to start saying stuffs like "I look like a toothpick" she even went as far as saying I should start eating enough beans!! Chaii I have suffered .
I will be 25 by December, but yet most people I come across still think I am a teenager, Little did they know that the so called teenager is the owner of a business in Lagos and also a degree holder.
Inspite of my achievements, I feel what they are saying is beginning to get to me, i can't change the way I look, if I could, I'd probably add more height to my physique . Maturity is not by stature, but by comportment. Happy birthday in Advance, you are my birthday mate. |
Politics › Re: Fuel/Electricty Hike: NANS Mobilises Members To Join TUC, NLC Protest by julybaba(m): 1:43pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
MrsRighteousness: Serious healing measage I want to pray for someone here in nairalander, your dad is seriously sick at the point of death and it looks the is no way to go, but here is the good news, the message is for you, get a jug and fill it up with water and read psalm91 inside give it to your dad to drink and bath with it, do this for two days morning and night, in two days your dad health will be transformers for the best.. Rada Rada |
Politics › Re: Kogi Explosion: Bello Meets Osinbajo, Gets FG’s Assurance by julybaba(m): 10:01am On Sep 25, 2020 |
May God rest the soul of the victims. |
Family › Re: Ladies What Will You Do In This Situation? by julybaba(m): 10:04pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Michelle55: Before the kids, he came first. He was your first baby and therefore needs a little pamper and then a nudge to set him in the right direction you want him to follow.
There's absolutely nothing wrong in buying him gifts from your profits, trust me, those little gestures from you might just be what he needs to take up the challenge of sourcing for another source of income, and everything for life no be gragra or fight. There are some things your wisdom and insight can solve.
Men are babies as well and deserve to be pampered, they ain't meant to suffer till they die while providing for the family, God gave you to him for this singular reason, help him harness his potentials, he is lazy and can't seem to think ahead and the reason you are there in his life is to help him see what he can't see, but you are expected to do it politely and lovingly.
So there's nothing to react here my sister, he's your first baby before the mini ones started popping out so treat him right.
Your sweet gestures and nudge will help reset his thinking faculty!! This is wonderful, or is my eyes deceiving me? |
Family › Re: Ladies What Will You Do In This Situation? by julybaba(m): 10:02pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Olunmercy56: I'll definitely buy it for him. He will be glad to take those gifts from me, our children will be happy to. I don't see anything wrong in that, since he is not lazy God bless you. jare Good of you |
Family › Re: Ladies What Will You Do In This Situation? by julybaba(m): 10:00pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
just imagine he is one of your children, and buy him what he want. |
Politics › Re: DSS Reacts As IPOB Members Kill Two Officers, Reveals Next Move by julybaba(m): 10:26pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
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Health › Re: 340 New COVID-19 Cases,316 Discharged And 4 Deaths On August 21 -(4173 Tested) by julybaba(m): 12:13am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Hmmm |
Crime › Re: Yahaya Aminu Sharif Sentenced To Death For Blasphemy Against Prophet Muhammad by julybaba(m): 5:17pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Let Muhammad fight for himself. |
Celebrities › Re: Police Arrest Naira Marley Over Abuja Concert by julybaba(m): 7:33pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Dear Malians, your daddy has been arrested again. |
Family › Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by julybaba(m): 7:26pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
YoungandDepress: My story is quite a sad and long one. I wish I could write it all out. My life has been a terrible mess. Where did it go wrong for me, I have no idea.
I am writing with so much emotion, my heart is full and heavy. Life is bitter.
I am a 23 years old guy. My life all started to go in the negative direction when I gained admission at age 16. A 16 years old boy in the university, so much freedom and exposure. I messed up my life, I became addicted to bet9ja virtual gambling I lost focus, Gambling killed me, I started failing exams, at the end I dropped out without my parents Knowing, but the truth came out when I was supposed to graduate, I could not hide it anymore. I told them the truth, my parents forgave me like the prodigal son.
They still believed in me especially my mom, she keeps reminding me of how intelligent I used to be.
Well I'm not here to talk about my past life but here to talk about how it is still affecting me today.
Ever since I started university all over again, I have been miserable and frustrated. Nothing has been working in my favour. I'm currently now in 200level hoping to graduate before 25. All my mates I started with have done their NYSC.
I'm still stuck in the same stage. I have no idea what I am doing with my life. I'm young, broke and depressed. I get irritated over little things. I feel disgust at how I uselessed my youthful life. How gambling destroyed me.
By the grace of whichever god exists, I am no longer addicted to gambling. I have quit the addiction for almost a year now but nothing changed, I still feel miserable. I hate having people around me even my family members including my mom.
I have no true friends. Nobody checks on me, nobody calls me.
At this age, I can't boast of having 500 naira in my account. I'm broke and miserable.
I have started hating God and question my belief in God. I hate Sunday's. I hate hearing about God, I don't blame God for my troubles but I'm angry at the fact that despite my parents being dedicated Christians, things are not working well in my family. My elder ones are graduates, but no solid job yet.
Only my eldest brother who is doing quite well now and I thank God for his life but we don't talk. I can't remember the last time I called him on phone. They don't hate me, I hate myself. I have disappointed them a lot.
I just lost the last #1000 I had in my life today and I cried. The money fell out my pocket when I went to get something.
At 23 years, I have no idea what I will do with my future. I still live with my parents and I have never rented an apartment of my own even in school.
What is wrong with me, why am I miserable?
I have no good clothes. My clothes are all worn out. I have nothing doing, i live off my parents.
Since schools were shut down, I have been at home doing nothing. Completely broke, damaged and miserable.
Can my life be any better. What do I do. I am depressed. I keep asking myself these questions but there Seem to be no answer. Please LEARN to FORGIVE yourself |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Ladies Stranded In Lebanon, Call On Government For Help To Return Home by julybaba(m): 3:48pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
1 Lebanese pound = 0.26 Nigerian Naira |
Romance › Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by julybaba(m): 6:27am On Jul 28, 2020 |
Ask God for wisdom to handle this |
Phones › Re: Oppo A12: Specifications and Features by julybaba(m): 5:48pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
Is the processor snapdragon? |
Romance › Re: My Past Memories Is Making Me Hate Her And I Want To End It Now by julybaba(m): 4:05pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
That girl really back stab you. Please teach her a good lesson, before thrashing out. |
Politics › Re: FAAN Condemns Abdulaziz Yari For Violating COVID19 Rules At Airport by julybaba(m): 4:39pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
DIGNIFIED ERROR |
Romance › Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by julybaba(m): 12:15am On Jun 25, 2020 |
She is sincere. If you truly love her, then do all the callings, when she reach the level of sufficiency, she will pay you back. |
Travel › Re: Bridge Collapses In Kwara After Heavy Rainfall, Four Feared Dead by julybaba(m): 6:17pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Sad |
Travel › Re: 269 Stranded Nigerians Arrive From India by julybaba(m): 3:37pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Home Sweet Home |
Tech Jobs › Re: How To Host Your Website For Free On Firebase With Free Ssl Certificate by julybaba(m): 11:36pm On May 28, 2020 |
you mean static website? |
Music/Radio › Re: Vector Tha Viper On Def Jam Africa Label by julybaba(m): 7:11pm On May 26, 2020 |
LANRE |
Music/Radio › Re: Why A Record Label Should Never Be Blamed For A Musician's Down Fall by julybaba(m): 11:39pm On May 25, 2020*. Modified: 12:03am On May 26, 2020 |
Hmmm
Do you really need to "give" me a life I don't measure up to in the name of "promotion"?
How do you expect to recuperate all the money spent on an artiste before the career ends (probably in 5 years time)?
Do you want the artiste to keep servicing contract debts after his/her career has ended?
Sometimes you'll think you are offering help to someone, but instead you are creating bigger problem for them. |
Business › Re: Which Business Can I Do With N300k As A School Teacher? by julybaba(m): 10:33pm On May 22, 2020 |
Seuntek: Good afternoon fellow nairalanders. Please advice me a viable business i can start with 300k. I am a private school teacher and I'm not ready to quit now until my business can sustain me. I work 7 to 5pm. Thanks my dear fellow nairalanders. Learn Android App development + 29 Other Skills that requires Zero Investment https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0886JRNJD |
Business › Re: Which Business Can I Do With N300k As A School Teacher? by julybaba(m): 10:24pm On May 22, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Yunusa Yellow: Bashir Ahmad Promises To Intervene In The Case Of Conviction by julybaba(m): 9:50pm On May 22, 2020 |
This Mental Anarchy: It is both ethnic & religious
That's why many of them get punctured with knives on their "wedding" nights. |
Travel › Re: Moving Back To Nigeria After The Lockdown by julybaba(m): 9:33pm On May 22, 2020 |
Every country has its flaws and challenges. It's not all bad in Nigeria - at least we have financial survivors who have/are beat/beating down limitations and pummeling them into excellence.
Also, not everyone staying in advanced world is enjoying the anticipated/imagined life.
Everyone should seek the counsel of God, before taking any decision. God's way is perfect and will give you rest. |
Romance › Re: As A Graduate, What Will You Do With #100,000 If You Had No Job Yet? by julybaba(m): 4:08pm On May 21, 2020 |
Goodbloke: boss please gimme your WhatsApp number let's talk Please check my signature |
Romance › Re: As A Graduate, What Will You Do With #100,000 If You Had No Job Yet? by julybaba(m): 3:38pm On May 21, 2020 |
Onogueks: I have started learning html, css, JavaScript but have little knowledge. I am still learning from scratch. If you are interested in app marketing, email me. You just need Google Developer account (11k), upload apps if you know how to make apps, and earn monthly. If you don't know how to make apps, message me, I develop apps for 5k, customized it with your details, upload it and sell it to the world. Last month, I made 25k just by selling apps on Google Play. Thank you |
Politics › Re: Wike Orders Arrest Of PHED CEO, Sends Him To Isolation Center by julybaba(m): 9:00pm On May 10, 2020 |
This is seriously serious |
Science/Technology › Re: The Owl's Long Legs by julybaba(m): 8:59pm On May 10, 2020 |
O DEEP!!! |
Health › Re: SM Ahmadu: Navy Officer Who Tested Positive For COVID-19 Absconds In Delta by julybaba(m): 4:15pm On May 10, 2020 |
Hmm |
Programming › Re: The Future Of Web Scraping by julybaba(m): 10:05am On May 10, 2020 |
Barney001: Yes I know... But I was asking about the future of webscraping in Nigeria....
It seems the demand is not really here at all... The demand for it, is everywhere. Not only Nigeria. Think of how, you can improve businesses using web scraping, write a proposal, and forward it . Most business survive on web scraping data |