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Does anyone have any idea when d next academic session of UNILAG PG schl would start? |
 Is it really true that judgement day is May 21 2011? How possible is for man to predict the second coming of Jesus?   May 21, 2011 - Judgment Day!; October 21, 2011 - The End of the World 2011 AD—On May 21st, Judgment Day will begin and the rapture (the taking up into heaven of God's elect people) will …" Kindly view the link below. What do u think? www.ebiblefellowship.com/may21/ |
I know of some kids who wished they had dads that cared for them this much! Here u are with a great dad and whining over nothing really!!! |
Wrong title. I think it more likely should be "Some women and their attraction to money". |
The federal position is better! Peace of mind and time for your self is there, besides, no target! Choose wisely! |
@ Kulyie, IMO-In my opinion IMHO-In my honest opinion |
Very touching story! It takes only those who are experiencing such to understand the type of pain associated with having to wait long enuf for something u desire. I pray that all who are presently going thru the phase of waiting to conceive find fulfillment in Jesus Name. Amen. |
Firstly, when will pple stop posting fables on N/L? I think d whole story is out of joint. Why in d world would ur uncle support d marriage to ur mother whom I presume he knew quite well? Besides, how old is ur mum dat she can still bear kids despite d fact dat u r old enuf for marriage? U and ur mum av just commited incest! Yuckkk!!!! |
@Stages, Congrats to you! God will surely multiply you and your family on every side, IJN! @MyPeace, So sorry about your loss! For your shame you shall have double. Dont worry, your twins are on the way! This is only a lie of the devil. Cheers! |
SOMEBODY PLEASE, WHERE IS DR KATHY? ![]() |
Arlington:@Arlington, Your sister will deliver like the Hebrew women. It shall be well with both mother and child. IJN. Amen |
^^thanks Aladunni, i will check there soon. |
Wonders just would not cease!!! ![]() |
This is the most inspiring thread i have come across on NL. Thank you Arilington for starting this. I actually read thru all the 21pages and there was not a moment of boredom. Arlington, Edjamen, stages, ada24 I wish u all smooth deliveries. I also have been TTC2 for almost 7months. I have been on Pregnacare Conception for about 2months. has it worked for anyone? Also, can someone give me the precise address of a pharmacy where I could get Preseed to buy. I've been almost all over Lagos looking for it. Av been to MedPlus, Ikoyi, Juli Pharmacy Ikeja, and others but they dint have. Some pharmacies didnt even know what i was talking about. So, if you could help me with any location I would be glad. thanks |
Truly inspiring story! I believe every woman who has the mindset of being a full-time housewife should read this and reconsider. Hardwork pays! |
Din"t have to tell my folks anything. My folks knew him well before then, so when he came and told them his intentions, they were not surprised. |
Congrats! Wishing you a safe delivery! |
@ Pinkielove, You need to break away from this victim mentality and pity party you are having for yourself. Marriage is not a bed of roses and I can tell you that your marriage can and will only be what you make of it. Everyman has his ego and his pride but it takes a God-fearing and a truly responsive man to admit his wrong doing (no man naturally wants to do this). However, having studied your hubby and known his person,you would be able to know how best to communicate your grievances. From what i sense in your posts, you and your hubby do very little of quality conversations. This would have helped build up your friendship not to even talk of love for one another. Also, I noticed in one of your previous posts that your husband has been married before and divorced. In order words, that makes you a second wife. Did you know this before marrying him? Have you bothered to find out what circumstances led to his marriage break? The reason why I ask is so as to avoid the same kind of pitfalls and learn from it. Are you Christians? Do you attend church service together? Try and get engaged in church activities as this will help take your mind away from the home front a little and you will also get some more comfort building friendships with people. You are young and have a whole lifetime ahead of you so please try to get a good grip of your emotions. You need to be strong emotionally, physically, psychologically and mentally for yourself and for your kid. It is well! |
@ Poster, I suggest you wake up from your lusty slumber! How would your wife feel if she knew all that has been going on in your head? If you loved her friend more, why dint u marry her instead? YOU ARE IN LUST AND NOT IN LOVE!!! If you really love your wife and dont want your kids to go thru emotional distress (which you are about to unleash because of your lack of self control), then u need to do what is right - TELL UR WIFE'S FRIEND TO STAY AWAY FROM YOUR HOME (maybe till your wife returns). More still, speak to your wife about your fanatasies. Remember, stolen water is "sweet" but the consequences are not worth it. |
@ Pinkielove, Am so sorry about the pain u are going thru! I can only try to imagine what it feels like. Wow, I actually thot after all this while, your hubby and "the lady - coworker" will have stopped seeing or something. I really dont know what to say as am short of words. But one thing I know and I do pray is that in the midst of it all, God will give you rest, IJN. Next time, I think u should pile up the undies for him to see. Let him know in plain terms what your fears are! |
NO! VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE!! |
LOL!!! That got my ribs cracking!!! ![]() |
I think that boy is your fathers biological child from maybe the other woman or someone else! |
@ Jenny9, Am glad you have forgiven your husband and that you are back on your feet. Make sure you put God first in all that you do. Most especially as you are expecting a baby, you need to be prayerful for smooth pregnancy, safe delivery and a healthy baby. Cheers! |
@ Poster, I'ld say you should inform your sister. However, you need to do so with concrete evidence and lots of wisdom. For one, you dont want to destroy her marriage but at the same time, you are doing what is best for her. What if the other woman is HIV+ or has some other form of STD which could be transmitted to your sister? Also, your manner of approach to an issue like this matters a lot. Don't go making it sound like a gossip. You need to sit her down and let her know your findings. All the best! |
The man obviously was in total shock! To think that the friend died on his way to your wedding will continually be something that can NEVER be wiped or erased from the memory of that of the friend's family. I think what he needed was some empathy and understanding from you. Obviously, you did not know his friend so well and so could not share in your hubby's grief at that time. I believed all you needed to have done was to be beside him, constantly reassuring him but the euphoria and enthusiasm of the marriage ceremony was paramount in your mind. Your reaction to him was what inadvertently led to the cancellation of the wedding. You cancelled it and not him. I believe that if you had a more reassuring attitude, it will not have led to the slap you got from him hence the reaction of your family members. Also, some issues are best discussed in private and not in the full glare of everyone. I do not in anyway support his change of mind about the wedding. Even if the marriage is postponed to a later date will not bring back his friend. He ought to have braced up and gone ahead with the wedding (though this may not happen without the guests noticing). Despite all said, am glad some aspects of the marriage rites have already been done. This still makes you his legal wife. If you still love him (and considering the fact that you are carrying his child) you need to look for a way to make your family accept him back. The ball is entirely in your court. If you however choose to make him a thing of the past, are you ready to be a single parent? Do you want your child to be raised by only one party? You have a lot of work to do and I suggest you begin now, if you want to save your marriage!!! |
I think this NAVAL officer should first be castrated and then stripped off his rank! ![]() Sooo SAD!!! ![]() |
Congratulations to the family!!!! |
Get your doctor to reaffirm the possibilities of her getting better with no future complications. Will she be able to have children despite all these? Will u have any problems conceiving etc? Has she been healthy before now? You really need to sit and weigh all the options. Most importantly, pray for her healing. The devil is a liar and may just want to steal your joy for now. It is well!! |
safeact:How can a guy without an apartment propose marriage to a girl? Pllleeeeaaassee!!! The girl should wake up and face the facts, let her move on with her life. Who says she can't find love again? If the other guy truly loves her, he would not be confused about anything! |
A baby @ 72? I thought she ought to have started menopause? |
Can he give out any of his daughters who is still 13 years of age to any man as wife? I have more reasons to despise this man |


