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I think money plays a vital role but I am yet to understand whether happiness should be tied to money or not! What happens when the money stops rolling in. Does it mean that happiness ends!

Time to get a new paediatrician!

Your baby's behavior is normal. I have a 16-month old who blabbers a lot of the time, sleeps on my bed with me at night and is a very picky-eater! His paediatrician loves him because he says he is a very lively boy and you can't but wonder at how fast he blabbers.

Please get a serious doctor for your child not one who operates from Home and does not encourage you one bit!

Men can be so heartless!!!

may their souls rest in peace!

Are they for sale?

I'm interested in the car seat. How can I contact you?

I have always wondered whether it is really true that having so much money (more than you can spend) guarantees happiness in marriage. A lot of marriages have been dissolved because of lack of it. Is money however the sole factor that determines happiness in a marriage?

What do you all think?

@ Poster,

I suggest you get solid evidence to back up your claims about your husband's infidelity. In the mean time, be the best wife you can ever be. Smile at him always, don't ever give him any reason to suspect that you are looking for any clues. Go out of your way to please him but have it in mind what you  are doing. Be his best friend and try to do things the way you know he will appreciate them done.


I do not support your asking your new neighbour to spy on your husband's "girlfriend". What if the two ladies are close friends? You'll only get betrayed in the end, and feel hurt even more.

interesting

Very inspiring

Ujujoan:
I have a friend who got married in 2008. They did the introduction and she moved in with her husband. I don't know if they got too comfortable with the whole living arrangement thing that they forgot to do the wedding. Anyway, last year they had a quarrel and the husband told her he wanted her out of the house - said he needed 'space'

As at the time it happened, I thought it was just a lover's spat and hoped that things will blow over with time. I bet she thought the same thing as well. Except of course we were wrong! Now almost six months later, my friend is still 'squatting' at my place, visiting her husband, and wondering what the heck is going on

Each time she tries to raise the subject, he hushes her and waves the issue aside.

Should she keep staying (on one foot) or should she walk away? Is this a sign that the marriage is over or is he just being difficult? I need ideas here because I'm honestly confused!

What wedding are you talking about after they have gotten married like you said? The very first sentence says they got married, so I assume she is a wife to the man or is something missing here?

Heaven is not a physical place or destination, otherwise, a lot of people will have probably paid unsolicited and unwelcome visits there.

Heaven is a spiritual place known only to God and only by His approval, can anyone get there.

InesQor:
First of all, it is imperative to note that I refer to a Christian in the true sense of Christ-likeness, and not a Bible-thumping church-goer.

Here is an inexhaustive list:

1. Help. Christians have the unlimited license to enjoy the ministry of the Holy Spirit in the guidance of their everyday affairs: teaching, counselling, and providing unlimited joy. The Holy Spirit helps us exercise good judgment.

2. Wisdom. There are concrete principles and guidelines that are Biblically established (even if you consider the Bible ONLY as a book that spans millenia of human experience, and as such full of wisdom) and will ensure incontrovertible development of character and protection from destructive consequences of folly.

3. Hope A Christian understands that (s)he is on assignment here on earth, and this helps him/her face circumstances with the proper perspective. It is, for instance, possible for a Christian to be joyful in the face of adversity and strife because the future belongs to those who are already there, and the Christian is already ably represented in the future by the person of Jesus Christ.

4. Faith Unlike many religions or faith movements, Christianity carves a niche for itself because Jesus clearly said "No one comes to the Father (God) except by me". As such, the Christian has direct access to God through Christ by faith (without which it is impossible to please God), and can enjoy daily fellowship with him, also enjoying the attendant benefits of adoption as a son of God. This is of temporal (earthly) as well as eternal benefit.

5. Love Christianity is built upon this single four-letter word, in the face of all the four-letter words that the world keeps handing around. Love covers a multitude of sins (which the world is notorious for generating), and if one is a true Christian, (s)he is ALREADY a worthy addition to any group, social class, establishment or community, or nation.

There are many others, but they pale in comparison to the eternal benefits. As Paul said,

1Co 15:19  If we who are [abiding] in Christ have hope only in this life and that is all, then we are of all people most miserable and to be pitied. (AMP)

[color=#006699]1Co 15:19  If all we get out of Christ is a little inspiration for a few short years, we're a pretty sorry lot. (MSG)[/color]

In addition to the above, a christian also enjoys peace of mind, irregardless of what is happening around. Knowing that you have a God who cannot fail you gives peace in the midst of turmoil. Certainly, there is no other place where one can find such peace and rest except in Christ.

Some Christians and Carnality - Who made anyone a judge to condemn another man's attire?

Who is it that does not have a sin? What about the lust (sexual fantasy) some so-called Trouser-for-men advocates commit once they see a woman  in skirt. What about the little sins you commit behind closed doors when no one is watching?

God does not see things from the human perspective. He is not carnal and so does not see things the way a natural human will see things: for His ways are not our ways and His thoughts are not our thoughts.

How many people have however sat down to humbly ask God to open their eyes to see things from His own perspective? Until Christians come to this realisation, the truth be told, Many a far away from the gates of Heaven!

Let me ask a simple Question - Did Jesus Christ wear trousers or robes?

Why didn't the guy lay down his life first? why innocent people? Will "jungle justice" solve their problem now?

I believe the time has come for Nigeria to be seperated into Northern and Southern independent countries. The problem of Nigeria has always been with the northerners. Very barbaric humans!

What did those kids do to deserve such a thing? Noone has the right to take the life of another, no matter who you are! Don't these people too have family members, children, parents, etc? How would any one, even bear the thought of killing a baby - who's innocent and has done no wrong?

Islam is an extreme religion of HATE!

May the wrath of God descend mightily on the perpetrators! May they never know peace. May the blood of these innocent souls continue to cry out for vengeance! May these killers live in a state of perpetual torment in Jesus Name! Amen

God Help Nigeria!

I think all she needs is a job! If she can be allowed to work and stay over there, then things will get better. She is willing to work but has been denied that chance.

Also, considering the fact that the children are doing well in school. Who knows, if they continue they could always apply for and get a scholarship to further their studies.

In Nigeria, the possibility of her living a decent life is slim. Her kids may probably not be able to go to school (if they do, maybe the public schools) which are nothing compared to public schools abroad. They may even end up becoming 'agberos' or 'area-boys/girls'.

She should be allowed to do something to earn a living.

You are being very real.

What's the point paying that kind of amount for a rented house when you could rather use it to get your own place.

A wise friend you are!!

When you take a closer look at it, most of the problem is against women and young girls e.g young girls being abused by their dads/uncles/brothers etc.

The question I will ask is "What is wrong with men of nowadays?"

How can a man give birth to a little adorable girl child, (whom he is meant to care for and protect from harm)suddenly start seeing the girl (his own flesh and blood) as an intimacy-object?

I think men who are guilty of this crime should be castrated, with all their rubbish manhood removed!

Am angry about this, I hate to hear stories of incest. It is really disturbing and makes me believe the world is turing up-side down.

God help the guilty men!!1

@ Poster,

Yes you can, provided your wife is very modest and is not a waster of resources. Also, you should have plans of getting a better-paying job and also get your wife involved in some kind of trade.

Marriage works better when the two parties are contributors (financially & in every wise).

@ Poster,

Please seperate from him for a while. He is cheating on you with his Nigerian babe!

Don't be fooled!!!1

If wishes were horses,

Very unrealistic!!!!

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Madukaele (m)
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Re: Whats your size?
« #36 on: February 19, 2010, 11:37 AM »

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God knows am not collectin an money from anyone, i also give the advice b4 giving out the info, any dic* size above 9 is uncomfortable for the ladies. I CAN NEVER ASK OF MONEY. i knew when i had 5.5 i wasnt feeling comfortabl in front of my fellow guys not to talk of ladies, i even lost a female frnd cos she wasnt impressed with my former size. but now everyone admirs me and it makes me hapy. am just trying to help okey




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Re: Whats your size?
« #25 on: February 18, 2010, 07:09 PM »

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once had 5.5 inches ,i incresed it to 7.2 nw still thinkin of increasing mor say 8.5, if any bros hv problem with size and hop 4 an increase without weewee enlargment pills contact me gbachano@yahoo.com. bros feel proud lik i am nw.

@Madukaela,

I just want to believe that you have repented from your sins, reading your past posts only makes all to believe that you were once a pervert and now a converted "virgin". God help you!

Yes it is murder!

Shikena!

I think it's wiser to have the baby and put it up for adoption if you don't want it!

hmmm, Wonders will never cease!

Self employment/being a business owner is it.

No point depending solely on salaried work.

In my home, my husband does not call me by name neither do I. It is fun when you have a special pet name you call one another afterall, only u will have the priviledge of calling him that name instead of the usual name everyone calls you by.

What is the big deal? No one is too old to start learning!

krazynaija:
i dey try to run comot for naija so i need oyinbo name

You can't be serious!

Esoheolotu:
I would if and only if he provides me with an alternative source of income that is entirely mine and entirely controlled by me. I dont want my kids to groe up without me at the same time i dont want to be totally dependent on my husband. So,

I totally agree with you!

Thank God you have someone jealous of your success. It only means you are better off than them