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Dickson44:
It was after 2 days of having unprotected sex, my pen*s started paining me. I went to the pharmacy and got ciprotab. This was administered to me after I told the pharmacist that my pen*s pains me during urination.

This is the 4th day since I got the drugs. I just found that I have a penile discharge. Please, what could this be and how do I curb and get rid of it. I I'm scared of using the toilet as the pain is still there.

Thanks for your assistance

I can help you bro. 08161182009

Plolly:
Somebody should bless a single mom today abeg

Send your account and phone number

Giwoni:
Good day NLanders
I'm a medical student, and gf( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her . Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents. Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket, It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day ( for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.
In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.
I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life , but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022(which supposed to be 2021but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled ( this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, ( I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.
thanks

You are mumu man. Take red pill and go ask for refund.

Acmepreneur:
I used to call him fiancée before but bow, I have realized he's a boyfriend.we've been together for more than 4years.
I'm so tired of him right now, I love him and he loves me according to him.
My boyfriend was supposed to be my only friend because he's the only person I trusted the most in the entire universe. He prefers to chat and gist with his friends, not me.
The only thing he likes us to do is sweet talking, if I give him the chance, we would spend the next 5years discussing rubbish. E.g''how are you my baby, have you eaten etc.

He never discuss marriage, I'm always the one to bring up the topic, and he's bored a minute into it. Sometimes he says we are still young and sometimes he says not to pressure him.
Sometimes he would say I'm not ready
I never said we should do it now but all I'm saying is we should at least know where we are going and have some plans, or even discuss how our marital life would be.

He's good at saying sorry at every slight complain without allowing me to finish my sentence, that annoys me so much, because its a hypocritical sorry, and he would be angry if I say its hypocritical and tell me so many people want someone that would be apologetic and if I know his mind deep down.

I'm someone that derives joy in planning for future, but my boyfriend doesn't at all. No single plan about us except in his head, sometimes when I challenge him, he could say he planned this and that.
If I tell him today, I'm going to Canada, he doesn't mind, tomorrow Australia. He could say he's planning to go to Spain. I believe he should at least let us plan together where we both would be together, but he just doesn't care.
There's no US in his plans, only him,and in my plans too, I intentionally tell him those things I'd he would even say, what about us, but he doesn't at all.

Our relationship is filled with quarrels because of this behaviour of his, very lackadaisical about us, but yet, he only want to discuss sweet things, and if I don't give in, he will start to be angry. How can I be happy when our life is not progressing and he's not helping matter, sometimes he would call me a sadist, and that I don't like peace between us.

He doesn't care if I grow or not either, he just want to see me grown, he tells me that I'm broke and my mates are doing Better than myself. I like to tell him to do this and that to better his life, but he has turned me to a disturber and I should face my own Godforsaken life with my useless Msc.

Yesterday, I told him to stop calling or chatting me if he doesn't want me to curse him because he doesn't make me happy. Its better we don't speak because we won't fight, but if he calls and we speak, he would expect me to be replying his sweet words in a happy mood which is not possible, he could then gets angry and cut the call. That is when I would burst out and reminded of his lackadaisical behaviour in the relationship. If we don't talk, I won't remember him and thus won't be so hurt.

He's working and gives me money and thus he's good to me, he doesn't give me any problem oher than those listed above, he's a gentle person, and doesn't get angry, if he gets angry, he's easily calm. He doesn't cheat or with any bad behaviour
Edit: He gives me money doesn't mean he feeds me, it means he sends money to my account as he wishes and I send him money as well. He's a gentleman, he can't do all the bad things some people said, he's quite religious and easygoing. We do not stay together, we only see maybe once in a year or sometimes, we do not see at all for a year and other times, when I'm around his town we might see everyday
His from a good family as well, and his parents knows me but I'm yet to introduce him to anyone. His parents likes me already, everyone likes me because everyone likes beautiful people naturally.

OP, you are the kind of lady I want. Leave him and come to me.

ghettochild:
Correct advice,. First off shes not cheating... The OP didn't tell us if she replied him with randy words... This period so many people are hooking up via chat.... Its normal for a man to msg a woman whether married or not n express his interest even if they ain't aquintances... Its the woman that will decide to fend of the advances or not... Whether she sees it as a big deal or just something normal..
As long as he dint see any traces of them sharing nude pix..
His wife isn't cheating.. That bros need to buy small sense

Useless talk. Spits!!

Kamani8:
Sorry to hear this op.
Just pray for her to stop. Go on your knees and pray.
Also work on how you look. Be sexy and try to satisfy her in bed.
Also don't look at her phone so u don't see what u dont want to see.
Try also to stop those behaviour that could make her look outside.

Again pray for her, she will stop.
Prayer is the key

Mumu. See them weak minded person

Lilymatty:
I'm a lady too and from what u just narrated, i think u actually love her. First, u need to quit that game of yours and open up to her,
Secondly, get into a deep talk with her afterwards and talk things out.
Probably there are things she isn't comfortable with, that is going on in the r/ship which she hasn't told u about. Perhaps she has lost the love and trust that once existed.
I think she still loves u which is why she is still in the r/ship but she has doubts as well. All u gotta do is to reassure her of ur love for her. That is if u still want ur r/ship. Good luck

Common get away from here. Why would she deny me in the first place?

Ruthchy:
Am not interested with all this talk, what I want to know is, which business did you introduce to her, that gave her 20k monthly.

Na them oo. Ruuuuun!!

Kobicove:
If you have not committed yourself to a lady it's unfair for you to prevent her from meeting other guys!

It's like you can't read in between the lines and understand simple story. SMH

This might be a blackmail though..who dey reason am?

marvelck:
I didnt know yoruba girls can be this beautiful and sexy...

Thought most beautiful girls in Nigeria are usually from the South east and South south. And moreso, ibo girls tend to win any beauty pageant organised in Nigeria.

But this Yoruba girl here (Queen Anu) is a very sexy beautiful girl.

Checkout her pictures below

What's beautiful in this one naw. bikonu!!. Wearing body revealing outfits and you call that beauty?? It's like your brain is.... I comment my reserve.

Nonsense, how does this trash even make it to the front page in the first place? You Bleep dick or not is none of our problem. So handle your konji problem yourself..radarada!!

It is not funny. Ko funny...very boring message

Sakirudeen Olalekan 2070670172 UBA

Truth

Arrogantbro:
I've done that severally but all she says is "nothing". Honestly I hate that word like madt

She must be under 23 yrs. Those ones no nothing about love... She go later realise and regret.

hfinest1:
Story story??

One upon a time


One time I was dating a girl who talks too much. I mean a walking radio that doesn't know when to keep shut. And babe had mad insecurities too, but her pussy was so sweet it kept me going through the period we dated.



The day I knew her insecurities had gotten the better part of her head was the day she walked into my room in school then, saw me talking with a girl, and concluded she had a competition. Next thing she came, sat on my leg and was forcing me to kiss her. Just so that the girl will know who she is... like booking her space or marking territory.


Turns out the girl in question was my elder sister... Jeez! It was fuckn embarrassing mehn... my sis was just like "who is that frog? See how she's jumping upandan doing bebescout like mumu".


And then her mouth wey no get control. Shit! Then in school, I was actively into students politics and held a post as president of one of the social clubs on campus... Omor, this girl nearly used her mouth to remove me from office o...


The day I broke up with her wasn't easy o... We first had sex, then I broke up, then we had sex again... We were hooked on each other. Two days later, she came crying and asking to get back together. Made all promises to change and all. I couldn't resist her perfume so we bleeped again twice, then slept till night, woke up at past 11 in the night, bleeped again, and then I made it clear that I really wasn't doing again, then she got the message, and l told her to leave my room that night and go back to her hostel. It was crazy but a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do... and besides, my new babe was visiting me and passing the night, and I didn't need any disturbance...

Chai! Memories��

Karma is right behind you...will soon catch up with you. No worry ohh!!

Babythicksme17:
Bro how can you compare single and broke naa,is better i remain single forever than to be broke. I will buy Love Machine with my money if puna dey scratch me.

Walahi you don spoil finish

xana101:
Please which business can one do with 1m to make 10k as profit daily.

Play bet9ja Carry over 0.5. thank me later

She no fine self

Ladies, How about this guy here? Do you think he's hot?

ShawtCake:
Stopped my nysc relocation because of some camp boyfriend! It ended in tears sha.

While I relocated because of one stupid girl. It ended in tears too!!

sylvestersamuel:
Good morning my fellow Nairalanders, I will try to make my story brief and precise.... I have a fiancée whom I am already engaged to. As a matter of fact I have already done all our traditional marriage and rites the only thing left is our white wedding which will be coming up in the next 3 weeks.

Yesterday, my fiancée came to visit me in my house so as to discuss our wedding plans. But before she left, we had a slight misunderstanding and the reason for our misunderstanding was because I allocated 50% of our wedding expenses to her i.e (she would be the one to sew her wedding gown, pay for the catering service amongst others) while I take care of other expenses...

On hearing this, she didn't even utter a word but left with annoyance, since then I have been trying to call her but she hasn't been picking my calls neither have she replied any of my messages....

Please I need your advice, did I do or say anything wrong, because I know how much I spent during our traditional marriage rite and mind you, she earns close to 200k per month.... Insult in form of advice is allowed all I need is just your advice.

I'm sure she's from Abeokuta. Awon, stingy bitches

czarr:
Creative?

Stop telling lies, this is not lagos. Somewhere up north.

From what I can observe, it like the lady is ugly or she got one of her body part missing. It might be all those yam legged chuby babe. My guy just no gbadun the girl. Abi how you una think am?

Ebenezar2020:
they should throw away the baby before he becomes another miscreant to the society

I don't know u are this dumb. Make them throway this kind fine, fresh baby. Mumu!!

Dargreen:
Yes it happens like that due to the Nigerian factor . Small thing everything will cast. Na my worst nightmare be that . There are informations out there you just have to get lucky . This particularly skill I’m talking about you can count the number of Nigerians who know about it I don’t think they are upto 10 .

Just say u need us to pay you. Scammer, you know nothing than to scam people. Useless Nigerian. Asshole

Jewessgratitude:

Rot in hell. Chaii!! See as this babe just waste pussy.

Yeye phone. Nokia, will you keep quiet.

iyatrustee:
Ungrateful man!! The phone sef get manners greet you welcome even still tell you goodbye, what if the phone na marlians wey no get mannerz?

Pls stop. You are cracking me up. Lwkmd���

Just let me say the 10k na scam abi?