kansoboy:
Impregnating one of the reasonable girls I slept with .by now I should have been able to discuss deep and matured talk with either my son or daughter,she for don turn 18yrs

And sure I wish I new about bitcoin, I would have bought it back then rather then using 80k to buy bold2 blackberry, whey to profit me until today



That is it!

Bighead95:
My viewing center biz.....

The environment was full of youngs guys within the estate .... There was a field at the line of my shop as well....


I never knew those guys are all yahoo boys they don't like soccer they just like hanging around withing the estate ....

The people living in the area chai I no just understand..

During star match expecially chelsea I see 1200 or 1500

During top team vs small team I see 600 sometimes 500,700,300

I only show arsenal match just for my self because na only me go watch am ...

I subscribed 9800 every month
I buy fuel most times the electricity Is bad
I will at least buy rechargecard and other misseleniuos for myself ...

Later I realised this biz is not for me after so many endurance ....

Tokskob2008:
Bought a Nigerian used Honda baby boy some years ago for cab business but it nearly took my life, no day I take it out that I don't get to spend at least 4k on it. Sold it half the amount I bought it at last when it appears it was either going to be my life or the car's, well I chose my life.

Overself:

Guy submit ur account ooo,nu say I nu tell u. Most of them wei dey bad mouth the whole thing,fit don submit account self.
Dem say make u pay money?....den submit ur ACCOUNT!

tplayer:


Baba, no free money to be shared by those TELPECON bozos.

missyge:
I am a member of Telpecon grant, infact a cluster director. To those saying it’s Scam, oyo.

But op, registeration has ended I wonder why someone is coming to meet u this month for asking for bvn details.

1, registration is free and d only amount any beneficiary is to pay is 200 naira and ure paying dat to ur director to be able to print fill in ur details which many didn’t even pay and it didn’t stop their registration

2. No bvn was collected only account details which was demanded lately.

To those who say it’s scam, I will come back to remind u of wat u said by the time disbursements takes place.

Seyibabalola:
BRIDE SHARES HER EXPERIENCE OF WEDDING NIGHT SEX AS A VIRGIN.
Bride of one year, Lola Akindele Busari made a
vow to herself and God to reserve sex for
marriage, but her experience of overcoming
her fear of sex almost made her honeymoon a
disaster.
She is now calling for churches to institute
real sex education for young women and
would-be brides – a platform for open and
honest talk that recognises sex as natural,
beautiful, and a pleasurable part of marriage.
She shared her story with BN , and the relevant
parts are excerpted below.
Losing my Virginity
Now, it’s interesting that I can joke about
intimacy. right now – because a year ago,
when we got married, to be quite frank…I
was in tears when I fully realised how
painful it actually was to lose my virginity.
It was not a laughing matter at the time AT
ALL! And I don’t mean painful in the sense
that I felt I was losing a piece of myself…
far from it!
And it wasn’t even the fact that it just
physically REALLY hurt! The thing that
‘pained me’ the most was the fact that I
was with the love of my life, we had just
had the most beautiful wedding with all our
friends and loved ones, dancing away and
popping (non alcoholic) sparkling wine…
and when it was time to now Pop The
Cherry…I was too afraid! I felt as though I
was not fulfilling my first wifely task.
We had stayed at the spa hotel in which we
got married for a couple of days before we
flew off to the Dominican Republic (and not
Barbados – private joke) for the
honeymoon…and I felt so distraught that I
was letting my husband down. On the night
of the wedding, I was full of mixed
emotions. I had finally gotten married! It
was all I had ever dreamed about.
I had been planning the big day since
forever… It was so lovely and beautiful and
my husband is the best thing that’s
happened to me apart from Jesus…he
waited for me and respected and adopted
my views on having no premarital sex from
the beginning – so WHY was it so difficult
to Just Do It? ‘Nike’ lied! I wanted to…but
just couldn’t.
Vaseline at the Wedding
I was very fortunate to have two married
woman in my close circle of friends who
gave me a lot of very useful advice, one of
them even slipped me a small container of
Vaseline whilst I was on the dance floor in
my wedding dress, telling me I would need
it for later that night. I was laughing at the
time when she gave it to me. I was soon to
find out (as mentioned earlier) that it was
not a laughing matter at all! I was so lucky,
as my wonderful husband is just the best
because he was so patient and gentle.
The key is to relax they say…well…
according to numerous “How To…” tips on
Google that is. I tried to…but I just kept
hearing this voice saying…”You’re letting
him down…You’re letting him down…He
waited for you all these years and now that
it’s time to do it you can’t!” It was horrible
knowing that it felt like I could not go
through with it.
The pain, the anxiety, the fear of him being
disappointed in me…there was no way I
could relax! On top of that, I had heard a
story about a young couple who had just
recently gotten married and who had
requested for an annulment of the marriage
because of this very same situation. The
wife felt as though she couldn’t go through
with losing her virginity, no matter what
they tried.
What the Church Says & Reality
At church, the message from the pulpit is
always ‘save yourself for marriage’ – which is
good…and it’s what I did. However, The
Church seems to be producing batches of
women who yes, may come to their married
bed as virgins …but they are more or less left
to their own devices after that.
Old wives tales, advise from mothers and
jokes about it from friends aren’t really
enough to fully prepare you for what to expect.
I guess everyone’s different and everyone’s
first time will most certainly be different – but
The Church should also have in place a
platform (or a session included within their
premarital counselling) whereby they’re not
afraid to touch on the subject of the Wedding
Night and how it’s different when marrying a
virgin.
It would be good to have some sort of
dialogue in place between the future spouses
regarding the importance of being gentle and
patient or even perhaps certain positions that
will help make it easier, such as propping a
pillow under your pelvis (for the woman),
which helps make your fist time go a lot more
smoothly. (A technique I learnt from Google
whilst on my honeymoon. For the first couple
of days I would be like: Hold on! Let me
quickly get the pillow first! Lol!) Thus couples
can discuss these different methods
beforehand, which should help better prepare
them for their wedding night.
However the most beautiful part of it all was
remembering that God does not give us more
than we can bear. He had blessed me with
such a wonderful and caring husband and my
hubby was so sweet and just kept telling me
“It’s ok, don’t worry about anything… it will
happen.”
There’s no way I could imagine going through
that process with someone who didn’t love me
or who was just using me, as some women
and even some teenage girls have to go
through.
I asked the Holy Spirit to open up everything
that needed to be opened in order to make this
happen and to give me the ability to stop over
thinking everything and to just relax.
To make light of the situation, my husband so
lovingly reminded me that the children that
we’re looking forward to having one day, are
going to have to come through this avenue.
We laughed… and laughed some more.
It was good to be with someone who was so
calm about the whole thing and that also
helped to make everything easier. Something
that is supposed to be a natural process of
life, something that I hadn’t experienced in all
of my 26 years, but was now ready to
experience… was NOT going to be turned into
something that would now try and steal my
joy. Oh no honey! When I prayed, I prayed for
Wisdom – wisdom for how to best deal with
the situation and for the strength to bear the
pain and to overcome it so that I could please
my husband and so that we could both enjoy
something that God himself had created for us
to enjoy in marriage.
NOTES;
1. Not all first times hurt for every woman.
Some women do NOT experience any pain
when they have sex for the very first time.
2. Vaseline is not the best lubricant for a
woman. Only use petroleum jelly when you
have no other option as it may affect the
health of your vagina. If possible walk into
your nearest pharmacy and ask for a sex
lubricant. KY Jelly is usually the cheapest and
most widely available brand. Some condom
brands also have various options available.
3. Putting a pillow under your hips really does
work, or you can learn to tilt your waist so
you’re not horizontal on the bed. Also learn to
move your waist to match your partner’s
movements. That helps things along, and
gives you more pleasure too.
4. You may not orgasm during your first sex
or even for every sex after that, and you many
never orgasm from penetrative sex, However, I
think most women can orgasm if they and
their partners want to. MouthAction and manual
stimulation [fingering] are options as they
provide the closest contact to most women’s
most erogenous zone, your clitoris. And
women, feel free to touch yourself, I mean your
vagina, to find out what works for you.
Sex experts, feel free to add other tidbits

Pasima:
Few days ago I told you guys about how my girlfriend was telling me she did operation for appendix through the vagina. Yesterday I called her she said the operation was not properly done that she will go back there again and they are requesting for 50k. I ask her where on earth is appendix done through the vagina and how come such amount for it? She got angry and end the call. What do make out of this guys

7pages:
joblessness


there is this pretty Igbo chic I met years back, she's so down to earth and lovely. during my days in school she was there for me we dated for like 5years but after graduation her parent started pressurizing her about marriage because her younger sis is married with kids. her pressure was much that I was just running helter skelter without direction looking for jobs. after few months that all my luck couldn't pull through, her attitude change and she started ignoring my calls, sometimes she will hang off when I called. I knew something was wrong



after few months her friends that likes me then told me she's doing her traditional marriage soon, I couldn't believe my eyes I cried that day, I feel like killing myself but I move on


I attended her white wedding, she was shocked to see me, I told her to calm down. I wish her and her husband well and I left after the join together



I refuse to go into any relationship since then. relationship is not part of my plan now but how to get a job and be on my fit financially



I'm becoming helpless and hopeless but I so believed in this forum that I'll get my helper soon

Margy:
This man never performed his duty atall...

Guys... Let me say this, stop deceiving yourselves, pregnant women are the highest hornny people. Don't say "my wife is pregnant, she won't want to have sex" ... That's a lie!

Bang her well...i mean very well. It is better to be overfucked than underfucked. An underfucked woman will look for any penis to satisfy that urge whereas an overfucked woman will be too tired to even think about any penis!

Get that!

horpigee1:
sincerely, all ladies should emulate this, love your man without no strings attached, love him for whom he his and support him in all his endeavors.

HITsquad:
Cut the defender some slack... How do you pit a mare mortal in the Same Arena with a celestial? It's unfair! Messi is the worst thing to ever happen to football... He makes everything look so easy, especially when he cruise pass defenders... Messi na real life cheat, they should have banned that little bastard a long time ago to save the game we all love! He should go back to space or wherever he cme from! Smh

PrecioussB:
I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.

I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.

Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.

Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.

Bonatheripper:
Yes I have K legs although it isn't visible that much.

I have lots of confidence which tends to help me but then when someone tells me I have those scissors legs my confidence drops to 0 then climbs back gradually ones I get angry and make love to a new girl.

It's really annoying.

I can't help but admire those with straight legs... They don't know how lucky they're.

I yen for straight legs.
I know ones I have enough money I'll travel out and perform osteonomy to correct the genu valgrum... Yes I know all about K leg.

Ok... I syked a girl in the night and god willing she wasn't that hard to get.

She slept over on Tuesday so in the morning I was up trying to put on th Tv.


She was like jeeez.
Babe you have K legs... Walk let me see

I felt depressed immediately.

Even when I'm on skinny jeans I feel someone is laughing at my K small legs.

I won't complain if it was Bow arrow legs.... Bow legs don't make your whole body look out of shape like K LEGS...

When I was in secondary school K legs where my biggest insecurities... I didn't approach any girl or have a girlfriend because I felt she won't like my K legs... Yes they actually don't like K legs.

How tiring to have K legs.

Oh I hate K legs.

I've done numerous times to exercise to fix the K legs but the K legs won't fix

How hard is it to get fix?
Why won't my K legs fix after much exercise.

I can't where shorts because people will say I walk like a horse or a broken table.

What's all this?

K legs is killing me... I swear I'll have a surgery done because I feel after the K legs heal to normal I'll feel more at ease... Jeeeez I think of it all day long.

I hate K legs
I just dislike it... I know everyone with K legs in my street.

The word K alone annoys me.

Jeeez

Why didn't my leg just grow straight.


GOSH...... I HATE [K LEGS I AM SAD

DO YOU HAVE K LEGS OR ANY OTHER INSECURITIES?

olabrinks:
I honestly think your wife is suffering from serious depression, she’s not happy deep down inside and they’re some internal issues bothering her. She’s taking it out on you and everyone around her. The problem started once children came into the picture, she’s probably feeling the same regret you are feeling. This is not the time to divorce, this is the time for communication. This is the time for patience. This is the time for understanding. This is the time for wisdom. You are the man of the house, you need to take control of your territory.

If it means her getting help for depression, taking medication such as anti depressants let her do it. If it means going for therapy/counselling, then do it. If it means involving a third party who can transfer wisdom to you, then do it. If it means sitting down and communicating one on one thoroughly then do it. This is not the time to run away from your problems, you will find more problems leaving your wife and children in the long run. Once you cure the root of your problem, you will live peacefully.

bigiyaro:
OP, you made your choice, live with whatever comes with it. Also you enticed and "snatched" her from her guy cos he was not stable then, what makes you think if someone comes with a juicy enticement, she won't leave you?
Again you are just a victim of circumstances, karma is just paying back your wife for dumping someone that shared with her his little resources.
lastly let her regret her regret its not your regret, its your ego that was just bruised.

ademidedavid:
It's no longer a story that pastors divorce their partners, imams divorce their partners, highly educated people do same and even the so called marriage counsellors are not left out in the order of the day and it has always been a thing of worry for me with the thought that they never loved each other before marriage but getting married has changed my thinking and has made me realised that marriage only takes the grace of God to work out.

I have been married for 3 years with 1 beautiful daughter with a loving wife (maybe before and some years into the marriage). I have always believed that I cannever raise my hand on my woman since my father never did such but I find it hard to believe I did the unimaginable today although It wasn't intentional.

It was due to annoyance after she asked me to stop sitting at home and go work for more money like other men even though I am a federal worker with above 100k monthly income and still do personal work as a civil engineer apart from the federal job despite the lockdown.....

It really got me aggravated because I have been the one fending for the family and the kid for the past 3 years and never asked for a kobo from her.....

Although I have noticed the urge for very flamboyant life style in her lately and has even asked me to get more money at any means, that money is everything in this life even though I have tried telling her its a gradual process, she still doesn't listen and even asked me to raise money for her to travel out of Nigeria.

I have never thought of raising my hands on any woman let alone my wife.....

Please how do I change her sudden mentality towards this sudden extravagant life style because I pray it doesn't lead to something else since I can't do illegal things to acquire the type of wealth she dreams of?

ubunja:
because white people are more beautiful

Lalasticlalabos:
Nairalanders, let us bet. This guy will go back to her & in future,the girl will officially breakup with him without looking back.
Bro,stop deceiving yourself, from what I'm seeing,you are going back

CANDYDADDY:
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You chat yourselves just to acquired likes and comments,come here lemme give you slap of attention you needed

Nonsoboy4life:
Pics here

You can see she's even asking the guy which one of their sex scenes , that's to tell u they've been intimate for long..

I have another pics the guy sent to her when he was giving her head but for privacy reasons I'm not going to upload that one....funny a thing I'm not so bothered , I don't just know why..I will continue to accommodate her till she goes back..Infact I have been extra nice to her just so she doesn't find out.

Is a human nature to be deceitful anyway..Don't ever be complacent when u suspect your partner esp when he/she misbehaves , most times what we suspect end up been the case and never ever confront a woman without evidence, she will completely deny it...I'm just enjoying myself knowing fully well I have averted a marital crises in the future