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Romance / Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me Because I Am A Tailor by JustBeing: 4:55am On Apr 29, 2020 |
Humanoid01: This is clearly one of those suspected accounts that are created to drive traffic on NL with silly fake stories. This same person responded to a thread of a woman (possibly another fake thread) who complained of a lecturer who was not committing due to numerous chics he had. He responded saying he was the one and he couldn't marry her cos she was this and that. Today he's a tailor whose girlfriend wants to leave him for yahoo boy. NL sef, allow front page for real people with real issue not your cooked stories. This is the thread for reference... https://www.nairaland.com/5724496/like-said-she-lying-not |
Romance / Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me Because I Am A Tailor by JustBeing: 4:54am On Apr 29, 2020 |
Ariza: This is clearly one of those suspected accounts that are created to drive traffic on NL with silly fake stories. This same person responded to a thread of a woman (possibly another fake thread) who complained of a lecturer who was not committing due to numerous chics he had. He responded saying he was the one and he couldn't marry her cos she was this and that. Today he's a tailor whose girlfriend wants to leave him for yahoo boy. NL sef, allow front page for real people with real issue not your cooked stories. This is the thread for reference... https://www.nairaland.com/5724496/like-said-she-lying-not 1 Like |
Romance / Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me Because I Am A Tailor by JustBeing: 4:53am On Apr 29, 2020 |
Ariza: This is clearly one of those suspected accounts that are created to drive traffic on NL with silly fake stories. This same person responded to a thread of a woman (possibly another fake thread) who complained of a lecturer who was not committing due to numerous chics he had. He responded saying he was the one and he couldn't marry her cos she was this and that. Today he's a tailor whose girlfriend wants to leave him for yahoo boy. NL sef, allow front page for real people with real issue not your cooked stories. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by JustBeing: 5:25pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Squirrel01: Lol! What would pity from strangers afford me? I won't say much but I'll say this. When that relationship ended I blamed myself for it. I kept recounting how I was the person who caused the breakup cos I felt I made a mistake by not doing everything he was asking me to do. It was friends, family and my counsellor who resetted my brain by showing me how even if i had bent over backwards it wouldn't have been enough to please this person. Coincidentally I was manipulated to think I was the issue so much that he asked me to ask my exes so I could be sure that I was truly the problem. That was my saving point, all 3 of them were blatantly honest and said I was none of the things my ex painted me to be. They outlined my faults but it was what made me human. I dated a narcissist and if you looked up such relationships you'll understand how toxic such people are, they use people. I'm still in touch with my exes, so I've never carried a chip on shoulder nor recited the 'he used and dumped me' mantra, the dynamics of this was different. So don't come at me cos i feel bad that someone would stay in a relationship only for what he was getting from me, thinking about it is sickening. About character, you don't know me but everyone around me who knew that guy couldn't speak up until it ended and most of what they had to say was how they felt I was too good for him and deserved better. He dropped too many red flags, even his own family and friends kept dropping hints for me to leave their own person but being stupidly blinded by love i didn't listen. If your grouse is that i blamed the guy that things ended, don't be pained, I took responsibility for my part in how things ended and I made and I'm still taking steps to not make same mistakes again. Again, read what I wrote, sex was a fraction of what I recount as loss...my near mental breakdown far outweighs the rumbles in the sack. |
Romance / Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by JustBeing: 4:59pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
lilianofentse: It's not spiritual, your emotions are running amok and you need to tame it. Since you want more than sex from this person I'll advise you to relax, like take a chill pill and get this man out of your head. Cos you have to assume that it's sex he wants from the feeling up and all. Take it slow, avoid getting intimate and see where it leads. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by JustBeing: 4:39pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
MiddleDimension: After my last relationship ended, one of the ways i got my sanity restored was by exploring my spirituality and seeking a closeness to God. In the past I've never been this close to God and I don't think I want to go far anymore. I'm one who believes in showing what you are rather than saying it. So as a Christian with a renewed faith, I would be more inclined to dating/courting the right way henceforth...I don't believe in double standards. When I never bothered, living in sin was acceptable but now I know better, I want to live a life pleasing to God. That is me, I can't speak for others, they have their conscience to judge them. But don't also forget that humans will be humans and we're prone to mistakes and when we fall short of God's glory (sin/make mistakes), it's better to seek forgiveness and get back on the right path. I wish I could make you understand but seeing as you do not believe in God, it'll be hard. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by JustBeing: 3:55pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
MiddleDimension: Thanks for your concern and you raise a strong point. For me it was all encompassing, not just about having sex. The key is intention...I was having sex with him because I wanted to and I wanted to have my man satisfied but on his part it was just a means to an end. The major thing is I didn't appreciate being used at the end of the relationship. What i regretted mostly was the time and emotions, the sex was just a fraction of the issues. We're not all built similar and if a woman can easily move on from a failed relationship because she withheld sex, then isn't that better for her? I think it is. Only people who have had a mental breakdown from such experiences will totally understand the need to build up defences which may come as ' no sex before marriage'. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by JustBeing: 10:58am On Apr 14, 2019 |
Checked86: Funny that the bulk of the responses are coming from male trolls in their late teens or early 20s. Maybe you should have asked these women to be open and actually tell you why they took such decisions. Well, I'm a woman in my 30s and I have recently detached from a relationship that broke me up in the worst way possible. One of the ways I used to go about relationships was giving my all; time, attention, money, love, care and sex. But after this last episode where i was with someone who was timing his exit would it be wise to go about relationships using that same MO? I think not. I don't know if I'll get into another relationship or if i do get into one, will I have sex? I can't say. But all I know is there will be holds barred. I can't allow myself be put through such wringer and if 'no-sex' ensures that happens, then so be it. Understand that it has nothing to do with how I'm trying to project myself, I'm no saint. . .I'm only limiting the chances of being someone's fool. And in the event it ends for other reasons beyond our control, I won't go insane counting my losses and regrets. Men always want a woman who gives all but they never do that's why it's easy for them to have multiple partners and when it's time to settle down they start doing the 'choosing analysis' like you did. I like how you chose to marry the one you slept with, it's only fair you did since it was one of your prioritised goals in a partner. Other men have married women they didn't get to sleep with. Yes, no sex can't force a man to marry you same as giving sex at whim won't increase the chances that a man marries you. Afterall you almost married the one you didn't sleep with but your conscience forced your hand, which is good in my opinion. 27 Likes |
Romance / Re: Gladys Lasila Weds Ian: 50-Year-Old Nigerian Woman Set To Marry White Man by JustBeing: 6:58pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
victorian: Haha! I love your boldness, I swear. Na you fit this nairaland people. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: What Are The Odds For This Marriage To Last? by JustBeing: 2:02am On Apr 05, 2019 |
Girl you better forgive this guy and move on with your life. Don't be held up by bitterness and unforgiveness. Moreso you're not God and cannot determine the future of that marriage. For all you know God probably ended your relationship with him so you could meet your own man. Don't hinder yourself with this state of bitterness. Forgive, let go and move on to the next stage of your life. You sought advise on the other thread and got a couple of good ones, time to put them to use else in years to come you'll still be singing sane sorry tale. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Men Keep Leaving Me For Someone Else ? by JustBeing: 6:18pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
[quote author=sandrayeo80 post=77262060][/quote] Hnmmmm, some accounts of your partner ring a bell of certain types of humans we shouldn't cross in life. Parts like where he would leave the issues at hand and use past issues to judge you. And the part where he would go silent when you seek commitment. Plus the off and on relationship. Is this guy argumentative, does he react in the worst way to critism? He already sounds self selfcentered so I won't ask that. Was he dependent on you? Does he lack empathy? Even if the answers to my questions are no, I'll still say be happy this man is out of your life. You may not see it now but you will in time to come. All you feel now is trauma bonding not love. Nobody who puts u through such pain deserves your love. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Men Keep Leaving Me For Someone Else ? by JustBeing: 10:00am On Apr 04, 2019 |
sandrayeo: Your story is a sad one and I'm sorry this is happening to you. For the other guy, be happy you didn't end up with him. He's definitely gay and still in the closet. The woman he married is to create a facade. Men who aren't gay or bisexual are very irritated at gay stuff and won't be playing around on not just one, but multiple gay dating sites. For the second dude... You were not wrong to give him an ultimatum. Yes, it may not have worked but it's your life he was toying with and if he wasn't serious you did well to tell him to get his act right. I find guys who never say what they want and just lead you on distasteful. On the other hand, you made a mistake by letting such sneaky person back into your life and getting pregnant for him. Which makes me wonder if you intentionally decided to get pregnant. Like a man who wouldn't break up with you officially but act distant and all yet you let him back. Well, we all make mistakes, even the brightest of us and I'm not here to judge you. All you made was a mistake but you can't live the rest of your life defined by that mistake. I'm also wondering... where you said he begged to come back and you only relented after 2 years, why did you hold out for that long if you wanted him in your lives? I think you're feeling this way because this guy is about to get married to someone else not you...you're most likely not feeling like this because you feel you lost a good man. To your questions. 1. In my life I've come to understand that the nature of most men is to have multiple partners and objectify and use women as they see fit. It's our place as women to guard against that happening. They don't see it the way we do. If you leave your door open they'll keep coming back cos in their mind you want them to. So learning to shut the door on unserious prospects is the way to go. 2. How can you say your life is forever ruined because you're unmarried? Babe, marriage is just one aspect of your life. I know how you feel now but I can bet you feel this way because that guy is about to get married not because he's someone you really wanted to end up with. It happens, when our exes get married even the ones we're over, we still feel that way. You'll get over it. Thank God the single mum thing isn't much of a stigma again. If this makes you feel better, my ex was actively looking to end up with a single mum so there are men who would find you a great choice, cheer up. Before that happens, I'll say get your priorities right and your first priority isn't finding a man. Your first priority is working on yourself. I'll have to be honest with you, as someone pointed out here, there's a reason you attract such men. You're most likely a loving and caring person and the disadvantage of that is women like that tend to do so much than necessary. When you work so much to get or keep a man he doesn't bother about how you feel any more cos you've clearly communicated that he's the only important person in the relationship. Did you have some neglect or abandonment during your childhood? Cos you tried to cling on to this man even when he showed signs of wanting out. Your other priority is taking care of your child. Focus on those two for now and forget marriage...and contrary to all you hear here and everywhere else, it's just a status. I know societal pressures may make you bother so much but you have to find a way to tune it out. Would you be rathered pressured into a marriage you live to regret? Plus with a child now you have to be really careful with whom you end up with especially if she's a girl. Don't rush this thing. Use this time to learn and grow. Research, introspect, read, question things and become the best version of you. When you pinpoint your initial mistakes you'll be better prepared from making them again. If you need more help with uncovering who you are or just seek a support network... Visit www.womenwholisten.com and the community will be willing to guide you through this moment of emancipation. All the best hun. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Men Keep Leaving Me For Someone Else ? by JustBeing: 9:25am On Apr 04, 2019 |
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Romance / Re: Why Do Men Keep Leaving Me For Someone Else ? by JustBeing: 11:24pm On Apr 03, 2019 |
Your words are so on point. I feel for the OP and I wish I could type but I had a really long day but I'm so happy she's getting good advice from forward thinkers like you. Meanwhile we need people like you in our community. Please join our interactive forum on www.womenwholisten.com so that you can change lives with such insightful comments like this. Thanks. victorian: 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Help! I'm Confused by JustBeing: 3:24pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Come and ask an online community of business women. Check out www.womenwholisten.com |
Romance / Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by JustBeing: 12:56pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
generationz: Go on quora where practicing and certified psychologists, therapists and personality experts have an ongoing conversation on NPD. Read up on narssicists and narsiccitic relationships and you'll see they don't follow a set particular/behavioural pattern. A narcissist will be anything he wants to be including remorseful, but the only clear pattern is they must put themselves first, at the expense of others...that's the only constant with them. Your ideals to see the good in evil people is why good people get ensnared in the traps of people with the dark traid personality. Quit leading people on with such beliefs. Again go on quora, psychology.com plus other sites with loads on the dark traid personality and the first advise you read or hear is run! Where you're looking for the good sides, they're working their evil magic on you. Because, that your there is good and evil in everyone na fallacy, some people are just pure evil and every good you see is projected. Their ability to manipulate, mirror, charm is the good you and others see in them. About being their victim, you're most likely to fall in that trap believing all people can be good and bad. I know better and knowing better means knowing some people have no good in them. Go and read accounts by peeps with diagnosed NPD. Read how evil and calculating a human mind can be. Read how sick in the head a person can be. Read how life is only about them. A good person will not think about setting up a girl to break up with her, a girl he described as kind and supportive. Don't get me wrong, I'm all up for breaking up that relationship, it's doomed apparently. Nobody here said anything about loving unconditionally. Married people too fall out of love. Nobody should marry someone they do not love but at what point did he discover he stopped loving her? I cant imagine he was with her for 5 years and it's just now he realised he doesn't love her. He should tell us the full story, did he meet someone new? Did he recently realise she's got flaws he may be fixated on? The OP is sneaky, there's more to it. Apparently he's a playboy from his other post or this story we're dragging back and forth na tales by moon light. I'm done here jare, thank God I had this conversation with someone civil as i hate engaging in nairaland discussions to avoid insults. Have a nice day friend. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by JustBeing: 10:13am On Mar 27, 2019 |
generationz: Sure, that girl doesn't deserve to end up with him, I advised so too. But you stroking his ego and feeding him lies about not being 'a bad person' and calling others hypocrites for calling him out on his evil doing is my grouse. Read up on narcissistic relationships and you'll see the patterns. This guy clearly used that girl and no one capable of such is a good person. People aren't objects to be used. Think of the girl, this guy isn't going to break up with her anytime soon, he'll keep using her till she either decides to move on cos she can't stand the uncertainty or he'll discard her in the worst way possible. Either way think of the emotional trauma she'll go through from that. I've been there, no good person puts you through such especially knowing you love/d them. Again people like the OP are skilled at manipulation so that part of feigning gratefulness but can't marry a girl he decieved for 5 yrs is clear manipulation. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by JustBeing: 10:01am On Mar 27, 2019 |
optm: I know his type and have personally dealt with one. They use you and suck you dry. Not just financially, but emotionally, verbally, sexually till you have nothing left to give. They lead you on and wait till you break up with them, he doesn't have the balls to break up with her. I pray God gives the girl the discernment to leave his sorry ass cos this guy has the traits of a narcissist and no one can truly be happy with narcissists cos they don't have the capacity to experience emotions such as love and empathy. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by JustBeing: 12:32am On Mar 27, 2019 |
generationz: See who you think is a fair person, such vile human being.
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Romance / Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by JustBeing: 1:01am On Mar 26, 2019 |
CiciReally: Sorry about your predicament. I'll say do what you can for yourself till you put to bed. After your baby is born allow for the DNA testing but weigh your options carefully & be sure you really want to end up with your baby daddy considering the ill-treatment you highlighted. If you end it up with him or not, that child will always bring you both together so you want to remain civil with your baby daddy. 21 Likes |
Romance / Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by JustBeing: 12:38am On Mar 26, 2019 |
raphretle: See the length you want to go to end it with this lady; setting her up. Your mind is deep. You clearly dated the lady for the convenience and benefits that came with the relationship. Now you feel you can do better and should try your luck somewhere. I won't go telling you shit about karma cos i don't believe in it but you'll definitely regret it if you leave this girl cos i can't imagine how you dated someone for 5 years and only just found out that the love isn't there. Be man (can you be called that sef?) enough and end it with the poor girl as gently as you can cos she'll be better off without an ungrateful, heartless soul like you. Don't even try for a marriage cos you'll end up hating her knowing you forced your useless self into a marriage with her. Just break it off asap and hopefully she'll heal quickly and spend the rest of her life thanking God for saving her from a life of doom with someone as cold and calculated like you. 10 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Alex’s Fans Still Dragging Tobi Over Sex Gossip by JustBeing: 11:10pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
StaffofOrayan: Old nairaland abi, where your generation (guessing you're 30+) took the lead right? Can't say the same for this new generation on the new nairaland. Observe the trend, how many thought provoking, insightful and intelligent posts peeps can learn from make it to FP? The mods know what they're doing, they're selling their market and intellectualism isn't high up the list. |
Romance / Re: 30 And Above Singles: The Good, Bad And The Ugly by JustBeing: 10:29pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
Like i don't know what you look like but I know what you sound like and that's a young, respectful, intelligent and admirable lady. Why not concentrate on making yourself better. Read books, research, introspect and be the best version of you. Don't pause life cos one aspect of it isn't going as planned. Start loving your self my dear cos if you're not careful you'll attract a narcissist who will feed off your desperation. Moreso a partner can only compliment you, they're not the essence we're made of. What are your interests? Focus on it. Get busy too, the busier your mind the less likely you'll be having such concerns too. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: 30 And Above Singles: The Good, Bad And The Ugly by JustBeing: 10:17pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
Derea: You sound sad at your unmarried state and I saw somewhere where you blamed your self. I think the question you should ask yourself is 'why do I want to get married?' Are you looking to get married to please family members? Or to get society off your back? If that's why then be assured that you'll regret getting married cos your reasons are totally wrong. I'm a single lady in her early thirties and I just got out of a very bad relationship. Like you, I was feeling the pressure and all I did was latch onto this man even when it was clear that he didn't love me and was with me for the convenience. I was ready to marry someone who agreed that he had narcissistic traits, that's how bad it was. Well thankfully he discarded me and I got my senses back as i got to reflect and saw how God saved me. I won't lie, I get the pressures, subtly mostly, but I'm not going to compromise and get married to please others and end up miserable. To answer your questions...yes, 30+ single ladies, living in Nigeria marry and marry for the right reasons too. I presently face no stigma cos thankfully people in my circle are understanding (you need to find such and surround yourself with them, I'm growing an e-community of such, dm if you interested). I'm not married cos it just hasn't happened. I'm open to it happening whenever, if ever. My qualities haven't changed and they never will, not like I've wished for a man who owns a jet, my qualities have been reasonable as they run deep and aren't superficial. I have no story of someone i know personally but 30+ women the world over, Nigeria inclusive, get married every Saturday. See, you're doing yourself a great disservice worrying about when and who you will marry. I know we have our days when we wonder why our case is like this but grief while you can and snap out of it. Snap back into reality and keep doing what you need to progress your life. Your environment has a lot to do with helping you too. Surround yourself with like minded folks. If you can afford to live alone, go on and take that bold step. Don't be fooled by all the happiness married people project, they fight their own battles. I'm lucky to have some of the realest ones in my circle and they pray and wish for me to get married but encourage me to enjoy my single days as I'll never have them again. So enjoy your time being single, stop serving it like a sentence...and if you're interested in joining that e-community to share and learn, hola! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Alex’s Fans Still Dragging Tobi Over Sex Gossip by JustBeing: 9:20pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
StaffofOrayan: It wouldn't. Nigerians love mediocrity. We don't use the internet space productively, it's mostly for nonsense and ingredient like this that interests the vast majority of us. If Nairaland upgraded to a level where constructive intellectualism is required, it wouldn't get this much traffic. Again, Nigerians delight in mediocrity. 1 Like |
Webmasters / Re: I am in need of a Web Developer by JustBeing: 8:24pm On Mar 17, 2019 |
Kelvin30286063: You're right, I've removed the 'extremely' let's hope I get something affordable. The word affordable is relative |
Webmasters / I am in need of a Web Developer by JustBeing: 4:51pm On Mar 17, 2019 |
Hello! Please i need an affordable web developer to create an online interactive forum like nairaland but better. Thanks. Update: I've gotten someone. Thanks. |
Romance / Re: Why Didn't Lagbaja Marry Ego? by JustBeing: 12:43am On Mar 15, 2019 |
kushercain: Abi o! That was another hit. |
Romance / Re: Why Didn't Lagbaja Marry Ego? by JustBeing: 12:42am On Mar 15, 2019 |
placeofallure: Haha! Yeah I know they never dated, just assumed they were both single at the time and could have just gotten married. But you've answered the question: he was most likely married at the time. Also didn't know he had a daughter that grown. Thanks for the info. |
Music/Radio / Why Didn't Lagbaja Marry Ego? by JustBeing: 10:46pm On Mar 14, 2019 |
When I work and can afford to divide my attention, I listen to music. Today I decided to stream songs by Lagbaja on Youtube. It is expected that when one streams songs by a particular artiste, the more popular ones (or maybe the most streamed) come up. Hence it was inevitable that most of Lagbaja’s popular hits... which are some of my favorites too, came up. Before long songs like Never Far Away and Konko Below played. This triggered a memory of a conversation I had in the past. One time I was listening to Konko Below with my ex and we wondered why the duo broke up....I had to find the answer to that question while writing this piece. Apparently Ego decided to go solo. 'Solo'...I’m sure we can remember one too many great acts this word has destroyed but don’t follow that train of thought, stay with me. Back to that conversation with the ex, he went on to ask a rhetoric question (as I’m not sure he wasn't expecting an answer). He said (since we’ve agreed that it wasn’t a question...) ‘Why didn’t Lagbaja just marry Ego’. Imagine! Well, I’m pretty sure that this thought must have crossed a lot more minds than his. I remember countering with something along the lines of them probably not being in love. I’m sure some of you just muttered ‘women and love’ or rolled your eyes at the obvious. Well I don’t mind, I believe unions should be founded on love (amongst other fundamentals of course). But I’m well aware that this is not the case in our society presently. We all want the wedding albums and make parents grandparents the textbook way. I digress. Again back to that conversation, I remember going off for a bit on how he could actually suggest something so outrageous and selfish as such. So because we wanted to listen to many more lovely hits by the duo he wanted to sentence them to a loveless union. God forbid! Today when I thought about that conversation, a little part (a big little part) of me actually wished they had made some effort to actually end up together. Like really, why didn't Lagbaja marry Ego And that's a question, just if you missed the question markss, lol! Image from Ynaija.com 1 Like
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Romance / Why Didn't Lagbaja Marry Ego? by JustBeing: 10:36pm On Mar 14, 2019 |
When I work and can afford to divide my attention, I listen to music. Today I decided to stream songs by Lagbaja on Youtube. It is expected that when one streams songs by a particular artiste, the more popular ones (or maybe the most streamed) come up. Hence it was inevitable that most of Lagbaja’s popular hits... which are some of my favorites too, came up. Before long songs like Never Far Away and Konko Below played. This triggered a memory of a conversation I had in the past. One time I was listening to Konko Below with my ex and we wondered why the duo broke up....I had to find the answer to that question while writing this piece. Apparently Ego decided to go solo. 'Solo'...I’m sure we can remember one too many great acts this word has destroyed but don’t follow that train of thought, stay with me. Back to that conversation with the ex, he went on to ask a rhetoric question (as I’m not sure he wasn't expecting an answer). He said (since we’ve agreed that it wasn’t a question...) ‘Why didn’t Lagbaja just marry Ego’. Imagine! Well, I’m pretty sure that this thought must have crossed a lot more minds than his. I remember countering with something along the lines of them probably not being in love. I’m sure some of you just muttered ‘women and love’ or rolled your eyes at the obvious. Well I don’t mind, I believe unions should be founded on love (amongst other fundamentals of course). But I’m well aware that this is not the case in our society presently. We all want the wedding albums and make parents grandparents the textbook way. I digress. Again back to that conversation, I remember going off for a bit on how he could actually suggest something so outrageous and selfish as such. So because we wanted to listen to many more lovely hits by the duo he wanted to sentence them to a loveless union. God forbid! Today when I thought about that conversation, a little part (a big little part) of me actually wished they had made some effort to actually end up together. Like really, why didn't Lagbaja marry Ego And that's a question, just if you missed the question markss, lol! Image from Ynaija.com
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