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This is daft and I should not be responding to it.

However, curiously enough, most people seem to be attacking the man. The mother is not underaged and you guys need to stop this nonsense of always wanting to attack men rather than say things as they really are.

Both mother and son are equally culpable if such a thing was to ever happen.

Justgood,
i don't doubt if u are a spirit filled christain, what i do not know here is the kind of spirit that you are filled with.
hamas, al queda and hezeboulah are all spirit filled so go ahead and remain in spirit.

chidichris,
I will ignore the other meaning of your post in an attempt to avoid a slanging match.

If you have Hamas and Al Queda spirit in you, I will pray deliverance for you.

WesleyanA:
and in your dreams, you transformed into superman and tried to rescue her from the hands of the feds. . . but as you were about to reach for her hand, your alarm clock woke you up from your dream. lol

absolutely nothing like that.

It was just on the news. We did not talk and we obviously had never had to talk to each other. IT WAS JUST A NEWS ITEM. She did not need anyone rescuing her. She was being allowed to return to her country.

Just to clarify, I am married. I have a family already and have no reason to be going after any other woman, especially not from this kind of place. Besides, if I was single, simibrasil would not be the kind of woman I'd be attracted to.

I wonder what kind of wisdom (or lack of it) made the moderators put this in this sexuality section.
There was absolutely nothing sexual about the dream and absolutely nothing sexual about what I posted here. Perhaps the moderators are so perverse that they can only reason along sexual lines.

Yes I have. dating was good but there was no way I could have married any of them. They were wonderful for dating but I always knew that marriage would be different

One problem I have with certain people and the reason I try avoiding discussions with Texazz here is the way he addresses issues (sometimes with insults) and he adds things that are not there.

@Frizy, JustGood
When your Imam talks about Palestinians robbed of their lands, does he touch on the issue of Christians now being forced out of many places in Iraq by adherents of the 'religion of peace'?

Strange that no Arab leader or country has come out to protest this injustice, or encouraged the displaced Christians to begin an 'Intifada'.

Who is my Imam?
I am a born again, spirit filled christian.

Its quite scary

I dreamt about SimiBrasil last night.

I dreamt that I read about her and saw her in newspapers and TV news that she was being returned to Brazil. In the dream, she had been living, I think in the US, as a fugitive of some sort and there was quite a fanfare that she was now free to return to her own country.

Weird dream. may God save me.

I was not even using nairaland during the holidays and simibrasil is the last person that would have been on my mind. gosh

tpia:
just for this post I had to look up biblegateway:



Judging Others

"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?"

matthew 7.



Nobody is perfect. I don't see why some people are going on about how she shouldnt have married the guy. What about others who marry a seemingly "perfect" person who later turns into a monster? Its a well known fact that people change sooner or later. Some grow more mature while others don't.

I don't see why this guy has to get a free pass for punching a woman and threatening to kill her. If he does the same thing to an outsider whether male or female wont he be locked up. How on earth can people consider this normal behavior and place all the blame on the wife for marrying him?

You have quoted the bible out of meaning and context again but I wont go down that route.
Nobody is saying the guy is a desirable guy. The point is that she should hold herself responsible for wrong decisions she took. You cant take a bad decision and start blaming some other person. If a women marries an idiot, she has to take the fact that she was wrong to have married him. Same goes for a man who marries a LovePeddler or a cow.

@JJYOU,

perhaps you dont understand what you posted. Its about exchanges in the animal community, not about GIFTS!

@Hauwa, you forgot to mention when any of those people came to you to solicit for gifts. If they dont have the habit of giving and you expect them to give, please dont give them again. Give to those who will give you in return.

If you want to invest with gifts, you have to invest wisely. Please dont INVEST gifts where you wont get a return. Each to his/her own.

Its very good.

An armed robber steals ur home and gives your family the boys quarters to live in. . . are you expected to smile every time you go past the main house? You'll be breaking everything breakable. That's what the Palestinians seem to be doing.

Israel should end the occupation of Palestinian territories so that everyone will then be able to see that Hamas is evil. At the moment Israel is the one provoking the Palestinian action by robbing Palestinians of their land and expecting them to keep quiet just because they possess superior fire power.

You dont know what they are going through and the earlier we stop making silly demands of people, the better for everyone. She should stop buying things as investments expectiong returns.

If she gets no returns, she should invest elsewhere.

Karma, oya come enter house make we go do christmas play

Is thank you not enough appreciation? I can bet that the recipients said thank you.

Karma darling,
Let's be objective for goodness sake.
*If you are giving, should you be expecting something in return?
*If you give while expecting a return gift and you dont get a return gift, should you not desist from giving?
*Have you considered the fact that everybody is in a different position in life and some people have different priorities?
*Is it not blackmail when you try to force people into buying you gifts?
*Finally, did those people ask her for any gift?

Sisi Jinx:
Haba, It is not that difficult to know how he operates. . . I mean it's just two things.

1) If you are a woman and you talk about Naija men in a way he doesn't like, you are bitter, you don't have a man, you will remain single for the rest of your life.

2) If you talk about Nigeria and it doesn't fit his way of thinking, You are a traitor, you like Oyinbo culture and it is better for you to remain there and leave Nigeria to the Nigerian lovers. . . people who think like him are Naija lovers.

What it basically boils down to is. . . it's his way or the Highway.

Jinxed Sisi, I have kept out of way way in your attempt to ensure that other Nigerian ladies end up like you (unable to settle down with any man). Now shush and go your way. Perhaps you will get a date.

I know that it's either your way in which every woman should do things to break their homes or no way. Begone!

Hauwa, I am not bitter. she o ti gbo.
Karma loves me too much or me to be bitter. I express my mind without feeling cowed by the presence of women libbers and if that is bitterness to you, go and suck on sugar.

You should not blackmail anyone into giving you gifts. If they don't want to give you, don't give them. When I give, I'm not expecting anything in return or it is no more giving. It is only greed that will make anyone expect something in return when he/she claims to have given.

Perhaps when you start having a proper heart you will know what it means to give. Please spare your your sadness about the futility of your attempt to draw gifts off people who can't be bothered. Merry Christmas.

By the way, I am married with children . . .
And I am planning on taking on the sweet KarmaMod as the 2nd in command of my kitchen and my #2 baby making factory

plappville:
I wanted to correct him of this too but thank God u did.

Justgood, I don't thing benincity said anything wrong, she spoke out of experience, it is true that mejority of Nigeria men are good in using their hands in nothing but to hit their wife, how dare a man who cannot even surport in feeding his family have the gots to beat a woman that feed both him and his child?? Is it because she is white nonsence indeed, that is the last thing i would tolerate from a man.

95 persent of Nigeria men here in the europe are lossing their pride because of these beating thing, most Nigerian girls do not fancy dating them anymore, as some of them only know how to beg their wife or girlfriend for money and even beat them. If they don't wake up and live in the current world they will be left behind with shame, I know one Nigeria refugy that came to France and dated one white girl, when the girl got pregnant she dicided to abort the baby and the boy needed the baby to ve a regular situation as the law demands. so the girl removed the baby and the boy beat her up like sheet, she was rushed to the hospital immediatly and the boy was jailed. The bad blood still dey run for some of their body.

If you only find yourself with those kind of men, it's because you also belong in their category. You cant speak about the majority of Nigerian men. You can only speak about the majority of men you are attracted to. Most of my friends have never had such problems and the girls I know in Europe are not likely to fall for such irresponsible men. They date Nigerian men without dating the idiots. If you decide to date and marry idiots because they have impressed you with their smoking habits, gangster lifestyles, worn out jeans, knee high jeans and their blings, you should not think that majority of men are like that.

You are in France as well. How many educated Nigerian men will go to France? Not a lot. . . so you are talking about all those who could not make anything and are probably hemp smokers in Nigeria. These are not real men by my own standards in Nigerian terms because I did not grow up seeing such riff raffs and I dont rate such them - men or women.
If a woman is always with such men, it shows that she is just like them.

Very scary

By the way, Nigerians cook food aplenty at christmas time and give generously to all and sundry in that way.

Must we do it the way you copied from oyibo? Haba

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

so you gave gifts because you expected them to give you something in return. Who is worse? You who gave in hypocrisy or those who did not give because they did not feel like giving?

Abeg make we hear word. Once una don dey oyibo land and una want dey do the things oyibo dey do, una come expect 9ja people to kill themselves just to do wetin oyibo dey do.

Christmas is about Jesus coming into the world to save sinners. It's about God giving us His most cherished in order for us to repent and be saved.

It is NOT about shamelessly sewing gifts in anticipation of getting return gifts.

Did those people come begging you for gifts? Do yu even know the meaning of a gift? Why do you expect something in return if you are GIVING? You expect someone to go and steal if he doesn't have money to buy gifts and you have given him a gift in anticipation of a return gift?
Please ask people if they have something to give you next time before giving gifts!

sheooorr

I remember this man's last ocupation of that position. The whole world of oil was booming and he had nothing to give to Nigeria except an extremely corrupt ministry.

He is back again

Wherever you are, I'd advise you marry a girl who has the same kind of background and vision as you. If the girl does not operate on your wavelength, you'll run into problems eventually. There are also some things which crop up later in life and if you are yoked together with someone of a different background, irreconciliable differences will set in to destroy the relationship that you built.

While a lot of people think[i] love[/i] is all that matters, love does not, and can not, sustain marriages.