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there's no question to be answered. it was a made up story.

I dont give advise when I dont know what is involved. I am not one of those who go round trying to give advise to all and sundry. . .most cant even get their own relationships right with alll their repository of knowledge for advise.

There's no question there. if this really happens, it's her marriage and she needs to either decide what's more important to her, not for anyone to help people decide what should be important in their lives.

@karma, who is that?

whoever wants to teach mathematics should know the subject well enough to pass it. A failure should not be considered as being qualified to teach

see fight o.
una dey vex because some other girls have kept their virginities.

First off, this is a fabricated tale.

Then, it is possible for a man to become unattracted to you if you decide to change the way you were. If such a situation were to happen, it needs careful handling from both parties.

There is no right or wrong to it and anyone who takes some stupid advise from this kind of forum over this will have him or herself to blame. Every situation and circumstance is unique. Besides, anyone who wants to advise on such should talk about what kind of experience they have had in life.

I wont let anyone who is unable to pass Mathematics be my mathematics teacher.

It's gone down 

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/middle_east/7862180.stm

Bush shoe sculpture 'taken down'

The unveiling of the sculpture took place on Thursday

A sculpture of a shoe erected in Iraq to honour a journalist who threw his footwear at George W Bush has been dismantled, reports say.

Foreign media say the bronze-coloured fibre-glass shoe was removed from its site in the city of Tikrit on the orders of the local authorities.

It had been erected in the grounds of an orphanage.

The monument was reportedly taken down just a day after being unveiled in the late Saddam Hussein's home town.

The head of the Childhood organisation, which owns the orphanage, said she had been told to remove the monument immediately by the Salaheddin Provincial Joint Coordination Centre.

A reporter shouts "this is the end" as he throws his shoes at President Bush

"I did take the shoe down immediately and destroyed it, and I did not ask why," Shahah Daham told the German news agency DPA.

Salaheddin's deputy governor, Abdullah Jabara, told DPA: "Children should be put away from any political-related issues. Since this is an orphanage, this monument can instil in children's heart things for which the time is not now."

Mr Jabara was also quoted by CNN as saying: "We will not allow anyone to use the government facilities and buildings for political motives."

When the sculpture was unveiled, artist Laith al-Amari insisted it was not a political work, but a "source of pride for all Iraqis".

Mr Bush managed to dodge the shoes but the man who threw them, Muntadar al-Zaidi, was arrested and awaits trial.

As he pulled off his shoes, Mr Zaidi, now 30, shouted: "This is from the widows, the orphans, and those who were killed in Iraq."

He also told Mr Bush, who launched the invasion of Iraq in 2003 and was paying a final visit to Iraq last month: "This is a farewell kiss, you dog".

Mr Zaidi shot to fame as a result of his action, which signalled extreme contempt in the Arab world, and inspired rallies across the Middle East and beyond.

Since his arrest, the TV journalist has reportedly been beaten in custody, suffering a broken arm, broken ribs and internal bleeding.

He has been charged with aggression against a foreign head of state, and faces up to 15 years in jail if convicted. His family denies he has done anything wrong.

My frustrations in fighting corruption — Waziri, EFCC boss
Written by VANGUARD

Monday, 02 February 2009

*Admits Ribadu did a good job, but he’s responsible for own travail
*Says 1000 EFCCs can’t eradicate graft

At the time she was appointed Chairman of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, the anti-graft agency was synonymous with her predecessor, Mallam Nuhu Ribadu. It was, therefore, not unexpected that her choice was widely criticised by those who felt Ribadu’s removal was unnecessary and vindictive. However, Mrs Farida Waziri, a retired Inspector-General of Police and a lawyer, took the controversies that greeted her appointment in her stride. Over a year in the saddle, she has been prosecuting the anti-corruption war quietly, but not many Nigerians are impressed with her style. Fielding questions from Vanguard Editors last Friday, she expresses her frustration in the fight against corruption saying that 1000 EFCCs cannot effectively fight corruption in Nigeria. Her panacea; all hands must be on deck in the crusade. Speaking on her predecessor, she admits that he did a good job but unwittingly shot himself in the foot. Excerpts:

HOW has the journey been so far, with you at the helm of affairs of the anti-corruption agency?

I came here to thank you for supporting the EFCC amidst so much controversies and I have observed that you have been steadfast and not given in to what has been happening. For me, I felt from the beginning, that awareness was created on the war on corruption. Nigerians are wary of corruption and want to know who goes where and why. That was why I came amidst such controversies. I have remained focused. I have not been deterred at all. I felt I should come and thank you and solicit your assistance because there is no way we can fight this battle without your full support and cooperation.

I told someone when I travelled out (of the country) that the Metropolitan Police said I was not doing anything on the war against corruption and I asked them how they knew. They sit there in England and talk about Nigeria. I asked them the yardstick they are using and they said it is our newspapers. I told them that it is not everything they read in the newspapers, that should be taken seriously.



Farida WaziriSometimes, you have to take it with a pinch of salt because we don’t know where it is coming from. I’m not accusing the Press because there are very good newspapers that gave me the opportunity, they have been supporting me. Some of them didn’t know me from Adam but they gave me the needed support. But, there are situations where people resist changes as well, these are people who are used to certain ways of doing things. When it comes to changes that they don’t know where that might lead to, they resist. I am still trying to build and find my feet amidst very difficult situations that I have found myself in.

I believe that actions speak louder and I believe that my actions should speak for me. I have been able to handle some high profile cases and the cases are still on-going. We have a lot of problems with the prosecution of these cases and they are there in courts and the cases have not commenced trial properly, even the ones I inherited from my predecessor. I’m sure you are aware of what is happening. The issue of jurisdiction has been a problem.

Where lawyers know that their clients have a very bad case from the charges and proof of evidence, they usually want to stall proceedings (to buy time). And anything can happen, fatigue may set in, people lose memory of vital parts of the case, people drop dead, people move and then, the whole case is thrown out.

So, these have been my problems and I expect this fight against economic crime and corruption to be everybody’s business. We want a nation that we can be proud of someday, everybody should be concerned with what is happening. There is so much propaganda. It is EFCC and Farida Waziri that are being attacked always. People think that Waziri is not fighting corruption. If a man is jailed, it is me that is blamed, when a man gets his passport released from the courts, it’s me that is also blamed.

I felt there is need for me to come out and let you know the true situation of things because I know that you make people know what is happening. At least, I don’t deserve what I’m getting and I think I deserve sympathy and that is why one of the things I did also, was the preventive aspect to inform and educate Nigerians that corruption is a mindset thing. Where the value system is upside down, people begin to cherish and worship money and those who stole are given chieftaincy titles, our children will feel that this is a better way of life. Let’s imbibe good values into the system. And we also need to educate the youths on corruption. We’ve started this youths re-orientation, when I launched it, Mr President was there and somebody wrote in the papers, attacking me.

When I met with the EU Ambassador, of course, they asked me and I read Section 6 of the EFCC Act to them and I also told them that the first duty of any law enforcement agency in the world, is the prevention of crimes. When you fail to stop these crimes, the first thing is apprehension and prosecution of offenders.

In a country where literacy level is low, of course, they will want to see people in handcuffs and being arraigned because they feel these people are responsible for their woes for sharing their commonwealth. So, I am here to thank you first and foremost and to also appeal to you, to support me and give me the chance as you have been doing. I’m not there to kill the war on corruption, I hate corruption, I have travelled out of this country, and I have seen the damage corruption can do to a nation. We don’t have any business being poor because we are a rich country. God has put me there and He will give me the strength to make a difference and by the time I’m leaving, corruption would have been reduced.

It’s not something that can be achieved overnight, It has been part of us for a long time, but I’m sure, we’ll make a difference.

You talked about the problems you face prosecuting suspects, especially delays in court. Your predecessor, also complained about it and I think there must be a solution. What solution are you proffering?

Yes, my predecessor complained about the same thing. He got three convictions based on plea bargaining only. Under normal circumstances, cases should be tried to a logical conclusion. I didn’t believe in plea bargaining when I came in, I didn’t want to use the system, but I never knew how difficult it would be. I believe the money they use is stolen, and it belongs to the Nigerian people. Yet, they use it to bargain for freedom or soft landing, what kind of law is that?

Of course, it’s been practised in the advanced countries, but I found that it is so bad and nobody wants to know, it’s very frustrating. All you need to do is open a case file, compile a case diary and prepare charges, go to court, follow due process and the court grants the person bail. The lawyer is there to file for fundamental human rights, even the passport that was seized will be used by the man to travel. He will pretend that he’s sick and travel to where the money is hidden. This is very frustrating.

That is why I expected good Nigerians to praise us but I’m surprised that everything that is happening is heaped on the EFCC. It’s as if they don’t know what some lawyers are doing. These (suspects) are people who are very rich, they have stolen so much money and they can share this money equally with the lawyers and these lawyers know that this is a bad case. So, instead of making the cases go on, they are stalled. If at the end of the tenure of this administration, matters are still like this, I don't think we will record any convictions.

I have written a protest letter and I have met with the Chief Justice of the Federation telling him about my frustration. I have also gone to the Court of Appeal and I have been assured that whenever this kind of thing happens, a plea will be taken and the case will proceed. I have written also as to why this should not be so, but I hope when we confide in other bodies, may be we would know what to do but we cannot allow matters to remain like this. I take the blame for everything.

I will need your medium to also enlighten people about what is going on. One thousand EFCCs cannot fight corruption in this country effectively. It’s a situation where all hands must be on deck. That is why we want people who are ready to go and testify; people who see what is wrong and ask questions and then challenge us. That is why we started this crusade of revolution.

But, would you consider extraordinary measures to fight corruption?

You see, this rule of law is beautiful in advanced countries but not in Nigeria. Can you imagine a situation where I wrote a letter to a sitting governor and his deputy who has immunity as well , to come and tell us one or two things about their staff and the governor refused? He listed ten banks that we must not go to and this is an educated governor.

I believe drastic measures must be taken because some other countries have done it. Small countries not as big as Nigeria, but Nigerians are taking their children to school there. People take out money to store in offshore accounts there known only to them and if they drop dead, their children will suffer. They are feeding those economies while their own people are dying of hunger. It’s only in Nigeria that such can happen.

So, any drastic step that can be taken to assuage this, should be done. Those people, stupidly feel that if they steal money and keep it outside in an offshore account, then, it is an investment. It’s not investment, it’s stupidity. At the end of the day, they are doing all these at the expense of the masses.

I share your frustration, but this is a society where poverty is prevalent. Your predecessor, Ribadu, was criticized just some years ago about arm-twisting and breaking the law to achieve an objective. Because of the society that we are in and the type of problems people are going through, it is consoling for them to think that the person they thought was doing a wonderful job is now being persecuted and you talked about the issue of people not wanting to come out to support you.

For Ribadu, whatever his vices were, his sins, rightly or wrongly creates a negative aura within the polity. How have you been coping and I believe part of the problems you are presently witnessing is based on the actions of what the system itself has thrown up.

I have heard this question several times about Ribadu’s persecution. Unfortunately for me, there is no way you will mention Ribadu without mentioning Farida. That is where the problem started from. Ribadu did a good job. But If I were him, he should not have made some mistakes because two wrongs don’t make a right. May be he handled the issue based on wrong advice. It is the way he handled it that made things worse for him.

For instance, he did not turn up when he was invited by the Inspector-General of Police. That was the bedrock of his problems. He took the Attorney-General and the Police Service Commission to court. I, who is his successor, invited him for some clarifications on some issues because he is the pioneer chairman of the commission. Instead of coming, he took me to court. So, he created a lot of issues.

I don’t know why he did that. He took the government to ECOWAS Court. He failed to realise that he is one person fighting many forces. He forgot that the government is an institution. I believe that people will get to know what is involved in the Ribadu saga in the long run.

The propaganda on it is much especially in the United States. The propaganda is like, why should that woman occupy that seat? Rubbishing Mrs Waziri and EFCC will not help in the fight against corruption. It is being made to look as if the office was created for one person. The Metropolitan Police once asked why Yar’Adua did not heed the advice of British Prime Minister on Ribadu’s removal.

I told them that what informed their question is because we are a Third World country. Can Yar’Adua question Gordon Brown, if any Scotland Yard Police is changed? There is so much propaganda that is going on. But I believe that the truth will prevail. I will not lose my focus. When EFCC was established, I was called upon and I submitted my CV. It was the time of Kanu Agabi, he said he was quite impressed with my CV.

I did not get the job and I was not bothered. I was not looking for a job then, I had my law firm. When I came back to the country, I was made a member of the EFCC. I believe my appointment is divine. I know that people don’t believe that God gives power in Nigeria. But I believe that mine is divine and that is why I will work within the rule of law.

How cooperative are the financial institutions with your commission in providing information especially on transactions made. How often do you get these information and how do you act on them?

When I assumed office, I set up a monitoring and intelligence unit. With that, we have to be proactive. We asked some banks to be reporting suspicious transactions but some of them are not complying. And it is deliberate. Money laundering has been going on through the banks. At the moment, we are handling cases in two banks. And we intend to beam our searchlight on more. We have warned them to report such transactions. The banks are aware that we are beaming searchlight on them.

How much support have you got from the National Assembly in terms of making laws to fight corruption?

We have the final draft with the Attorney-General. If we have that going for us, I think we will not face frustration of prosecution any more. The whole aim of stealing is to acquire property, so, if we have this law in place, we can attach the properties when we are prosecuting them. That will make it easier for such properties to be confiscated. It will help us in the fight against economic crimes.

This has helped in advanced countries and that is why we picked it up. We are hoping that the National Assembly will approve the bill. I am still looking at special courts. I did not do much on it because someone has introduced it to the Senate. They have deliberated on it. I think they are making some amendments on it. I know that if we have these special courts, things will be far better. A judge confided in me that with special courts, we can speed up this fight against corruption. We may visit some of the countries that have these courts to know how they operate.

In the case of Rivers State, there were different versions of the allegation and your spokes- person, Obafemi is quick to go to press, but when the case got to court, it was a different ball game entirely. What do you have to say on this?

I don’t think that Obafemi was quick to go to the press. I approve whatever he does. What you see in the press about EFCC, are speculations most times. Some of these stories are not from us. The president once called and asked why EFCC is always in the news. On the governors, I told Governor Fashola to use the Governors' Forum to launder the image of governors. I said that because of the perception about governors. He is the first governor I have ever visited and I did that to thank him for his good works in Lagos.

Chief Bode George and others are alleging selective prosecution because about 11 people were involved in the decision-making mechanism at the Nigeria Ports Authority (NPA) board. What has happened to the other six at large?

Thank you. As a lawyer, I cannot comment on cases that are already in court. It will be subjudice to do that.

Because of the immunity clause, state governors cannot be prosecuted. Since you assumed office, how many governors have been investigated?

With the immunity clause, you cannot prosecute but you can investigate. We are investigating but I can’t tell you the number.

You know one thing that caused Nuhu’s problem, was what he said that about thirty-one governors were corrupt. He said that they would be prosecuted after their tenure. I don’t want to name them because we learn from other people’s mistakes.

Why should Nigerians trust you because there is this belief that the powers that appointed you are pushing you around?

There is nothing like that. If Mr. President says I should do something within the rule of law, I will do it. Nobody has asked me to do anything and they know I am not a push around.

The impression out there is that you have godfathers who made sure you got the EFCC job. How true is this?

I read about it in the newspapers. Some even alleged that some powers appointed me. That is rubbish. I don’t know about godfathers. I only know my state governor. I don’t even know one of the governors they linked me with. I met him in the villa when I became EFCC chairman. Someone introduced us and I greeted him. This propaganda is to make sure that nobody gives me credit. It was even alleged that I collected a jeep from Akwa Ibom state governor. I don’t even know him and I am not investigating the state.

Support from donors and the international community

These people have their mechanism of finding information. I met EU Ambassadors and they briefed me on what they are expecting from me. We will continue in capacity building. We are working out something with the USA. When the new government is in place, we will go there. They have not stopped their support for us. I even called on them that we need more support. The fight against corruption affects them. You know the world is a global village, we need the support of everybody.

What message do you want this medium to take to the public, so that they will know that EFCC, under Farida is not a lame duck?

I need public support. We should know that this is our country and we must help it to grow. People should inform us when something is happening. I am ready to fight corruption in this country, but we must all be involved. And there is no way one thousand EFCCs can fight economic crime.

It is not only the EFCC. From the National Assembly to the media, we all have roles to play. I know that your medium is objective, I hope you support and make everybody know where the problem lies. We have the legislature, judiciary and the EFCC, so, people should know that there is a limit to what we can do. I have an idea of where this campaign of calumny is coming from, but I know that no condition is permanent. I am not saying that we will eradicate corruption, but it will be reduced greatly. Most importantly is that we need awareness in Nigeria.

jamace:
Her job is moving from one man to another to collect tax feeding money from the fathers of the children . Women lib at its best .

he he he

It is both ways. If a man married an evil woman, he has to be daft for chosing an evil woman and it shows that his judgement is questionable.

Naija women are good. . . I'm not referring to those whose souls are sold and are therefore unable to settle down.

@poster, the best woman you can ever get fior a wife in this world is a naija woman - on the average. Forget those who have forgotten that they are naija and whose nigerianness is only by word of mouth and passport or parental link.

whats the point of this?

[quote author=B.O.S.S. link=topic=227476.msg3414648#msg3414648 date=1233577867]It's a shame Nigerians have to feel this way but all goes down to bad leadership. What could be done? Really? This question keeps recurring. Is it that hard to call for a revlution? Ukraine themeslves have done it, Thailand did it, Greece did it. Why can't we do it?

May this innocent dude's soul Rest In Peace.[/quote]You cannot have any form of revolution where the people have the same mindset as the leaders. The governed and the government in Nigeria have the same mentality- the difference is that one set has got to position of power while the other set has not got there.

you need a revolution from the mind before anything. People need to start changing the way they view things. The average Nigerian sees nothing wrong when a looter gives him part of the looted funds. . . how do you expect a revolution with that kind of citizenry?

Anyway, Nigeria cannot be said to be developed if you consider the OP's yardsticks.

Where are the infrastructures in Nigeria?

Roads?
Power supply?
Water?
Communications?
.
.
.
security

charles, dont get yourself too muddied up.

What exactly have I said on this thread? Or do you just have a heavy chip on your shoulders?

I have not mentioned any country as either developed or indeveloped!

Charlesmud:
So Namibia, Lybia, Egypt, Botswana, all this countries get infrastructure ?

My guy go sidown.

these, not this

what is your problem and why do I have to go sidown?

May his soul reast in peace.

I have always advised against going to Eastern bloc countries because of their undisguised racist ways. I wont ever go on holiday to any of them. . . why take my money to a country where people hate me for the colour of my skin?

No need to insult each other.

I understand what both sides are saying. I believe Kobojunkie has a point with regards to implementation. Someone also said that it is not about tracing the funds but the willingness and ability to prosecute offenders - that has been the major problem with the Nation.

Nigeria is not bereft of good ideas but it is completely bankcrupt with regards to execution of the ideas.

which countries in the varied opinions are the most developed in terms of infrastructure, economic development, provision of basic social amenities

Please read before responding. . .

infrastructures in Nigeria? where dem dey?

@kobo,

I understand your pessimism. However, if we look at everything from that point, we'll never do anything because anything can be circumvented. Banks have a duty to keep records of their customers and transactions (online or cheque-based) should be traceable within the banking industry.

This is not a one-fits-all idea but I believe it is a right step in preventing cash being carried around the whole place with the infamous Ghana-must-go

Strict compliance with this will be a step in the right direction.

superboi:
chei!!! credit crunch go hit ghana must go producers

lol

This animal should be fished out. . . Rape is bad enough but to rape a six year old 

have you done your own little bit to make other black people proud?

Those policemen are animals who deserve to be castrated

I will keep saying it, the society is rotten and unless we are ready to accept the fact, we will continue pointing fingers at political leaders and we'll make no progres.

Boarding schools these days are full of rotten kids who will corrupt good children at the slightest opportunity.

I always thought my children would go to boarding schools since I was also in boarding house for my schooling years. However, I changed my mind about it when I realised that most kids in boarding schools are children from homes where parents are extremely loose. I'm scared of allowing my kids to mix with such children during their vulnerable ages.

[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=223824.msg3382922#msg3382922 date=1232894504]The Sudanese woman in the story gave birth to 5 babies!!! she plans to seek assylum in the States to keep the babies away from the dust of Sundan The generousity of Americans are at work. How i wish we are that generous in Africa. In nigeria, men run away when their women birthed 5 babies even twin.

teams of doctors, nurses, volunteers troop in to help the woman. I wonder what it would have been like for her in Sudan.

God bless America

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/01/22/AR2009012203995_2.html?g=1&sid=ST2009012204058&s_pos=[/quote]Where in Africa have you ever lived?
Do you know how many people have no jobs in Nigeria?
How do you suppose all those people feed and survive?
And you think we are not a generous people?

I wonder what this love for America and hatred for everything African is all about!

It is just daft for anyone to think that there is a way that couples should be.
The fact that Westerners have chosen to standardise their family systems (still doesn't work) does not mean Nigerians should do the same.

Why must we do something because Americans or Brits are doing it? Is there any proof that their standardised family ways work better than ours? On the contrary, evidence suggests that African/Asian family values work better than western values - why then do we keep getting all the crap trying to brainwash us into believing that our own way is the wrong way?

Would anyone be saying the same if it was the other way round?

If westerners had our kind of family value system and we had their own kind of loose ways of doing things and we have such open display of decadence, would their media not be talking about how their families stay together and our fall apart?

gay wetin

Why would anyone want an abomination typified by the disorder of gay people?

The early years of a marriage are almost always very trying. Its takes a lot of maturity and determination to get through the first few years. The good thing is that if you are calm through the first few years and you are able to keep things going, you are likely to have a very happy family eventually.

This is not to say that you should let a man walk all over you. However, there is no man (ok, maybe there are a few) who really likes a wife to dominate him.

I remember the first few years of my marriage. . . phewwww

I'm sure you know why he's sleeping there.
If you want him to stop sleeping there, do something about it