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In the nigerian dating scene. I think trust is a big issue. Many may be slow to admit it but it's the truth. Women on one corner maybe convinced that their man is already cheating on her...especially when he is one of these already made men, men with money or Great job and men on the other hand may assume these girls have other men that cater to various needs or maybe she is just with him for some security. This is a common assumption among men and women. So trust issues will always be high.

Like 2 short said, "'dont turn a h*e to a house wife!"...she had her cookies on display and you wanna be the highest bidder. Look elsewhere brother because this other guys will see you as the dude who turned their trash into treasure.

I may even feel bad for sleeping with her not to talk of marriage. It depends on her ugly to fine ratio though.

Are they actually ladies? Or some jobless guy wearing female display picture.

The height of ignorance. God help us from stupid people.

Manu deserve the beating. Too many silly mistakes. Who gives a short pass from a long distance? Only valencia. Very stupid person. He should be benched for the rest of the season.

I decide who I marry not them. It's only respectful to listen to their opinions.

MzNelly:

Team #WeDon'tNeedMakeupToLookGood

Another like!

I know prayer anwser all but also the lord said we should be wise.

Obviously number 2. You can't get much dumber than that.

I don't kno where you meet your women or better yet! I don't know how you approached them? But the iindependent women I kno won't settle for no sucker and if you are one then I can understand why she will be rude. The independent ladies I kno are very cool n down to mother earth.

Lmaoooo. ...these girls are getting clever by the second. Key words. "FINANCIALLY BALANCED and GODLY"....why don't you go to church and meet these people? That's if you are what you say you are.

Maybe your feelings packed it's bag and left u. You sound like you don't give a f**k about relationships.

Eluwilussit:
46 in one year, then you can come for advice. What have you been doing, slacker? . I dey joke sha. You be good boy.

I am sure I can do 46 a year if I wanted too. Sleeping around is in style But I like to stand out..

Noooo...it's wrong. Am sure they can wait till after mass. .....this is exactly how the devil uses people. Now she will be in church imagining positions or how good and bad the sex was and she won't concentrate on the sermon.

I guess some people bouta get laid off. So sad!

PRINCEHPXP:
if God didnt want us to bleep dis babes anyhow he woudnt have giving us lots of sperm to pour on dem.....dis babes are just too many to be left alone

haaaaaa .

Lmao. Maybe you were handsome from a distance.

It is always a bad idea to put your age in your resume. I temporarily worked in the HR department twice and i have seen resume and cv neglected for this. I would advise against that.

Because his girl is still sleeping..

realdee44:
Am posting this because of a post I saw that Nigerian ladies have nothing to offer her man beside sex.

That is a very wrong statement we ladies are lovely, caring & very tender. We love easily & sincerely.

Men its time you learn that a lady should be appreciated no matter how little what she may have done for u. If a lady should cook for u & help u in keeping your home clean plz appreciate her, if a lady washes your clothes & put water in the bathroom for u to take ur bath its something plz appreciate her & if she buys u a gift no matter how little it is plz appreciate her. If you have something to do but you don't have the chance to do it u can call her and say plz babe help me to do so & so & she will be glad to help.

Now, I don't no who gave you Nigerian men the stupid idea that when a lady dose all that for you its because she is desperate this is one very stupid idea that u men must erase from ur head & mind. Not all ladies who do all that are desperate so many of us do it because we sinerely love & care for our men.

You men should learn to appreciate us ladies. For those men who see ladies as being desperate & that there are lots of ladies all over, just wait until u are 45 & still single as I type this now I have 6 different men of 38 & 42 seriously begging for marriage am not dating any of them thou but what keep bodering me is what were these men doing all this while.Men! Men!! Men!!! Ehammmm

and you are sure most women are like this. Right?

Bigcake:
80 babes? What is his age?

he is no more than 25

MsPat:
Often times, the woman is usually required to change churches once she gets married. The exception being if the man was never religious or churchy....but my sister for the sake of peace, try to reach a compromise.

I know of a couple....the woman attends my church, her husband is an elder in another church. The man comes over to every of my church's special programs, the lady does likewise. The ball is in your court.....but hope u know kids will be involved sooner or later?

This is very helpful. I never thought about this until now. Religion is really a big factor. What if the love is strong but it's hard to compromise on that level. Would you leave or pray about it?

Health consious? ? Most of These girls are heavy weight champions..

46 only? That's it!!! OP You haven't see anything yet. Some dudes are disappointed that they only slept with 80 girls. I know someone that's with a new girl every week.

Vivly:
She even looks like a porn star.
And she's a law graduate sef

so law students are prohibited from watching porn?

Hahaha @ number 6...go tell that to the oloshisss of nigeria.

MzNelly:
Never:

1. Had sex.
2. Smoked.
3. Watched porn.
4. Drank garri
5. Stolen.
6. Drank alcohol.
7. Involved in "Magarizm"
8. Fallen in love.
9. Wore "spaghetti"
10. Written this ridiculous list.

am I the only one who doesn't belueve this?

1. Never tried cocaine
2. Never killed anyone.
3. Never cheated on a girl. Mentally or physically.
4. Never been to a shooting range.
5. Never eaten dogs or snakes like some of you cannibals. (I can tell from your comments. )
6. Never been to the moon.
7. Never been with a prostitute.
8. Never been used by a gold digger or money hungry girl like majority of the guys on nairaland.
9. Never been on a boat.
10. Never gone sky diving.

Except for sacred places and hospital. ...I think i have covered everything else. There is nothing wrong with living a little.

Gr8lex:
Iggy Azalea can't rap? Seriously? Dude, bro to bro, take ur afternoon pill.

are u sure u know who she is? beta yet, are you sure you know hip hop?

These are innocent people. Why are they doing this? Go blow up house of assembly or pdp or apc campaign office and leave these innocent people alone. Just look at the bodies everywhere. Why are they doing this? This is really making me mad.

Icekyng:
Lol and if she comes out nko

then all hell will break lose.