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Babe2sure:
@OP, some things are best kept private, including the juicy part of ones relationship. Disclosing it to friends should be a NO NO. A lot of people have ruined their relationships/marriage through this. I don't know why some ladies/women still refuse to learn from others experiences. But a person who has a loose tongue, has got it, you know.

its the private and sensitive issues I can't seem to understand. What do they expect t to gain from sharing that? Envy from friends? Respect?

prettyjo:
only kiddies does that.

I have seen older women do this. The worse part is most women don't even know they are doing this until it's too late.

Nneka123:
is that a compliment?

malonephills:
Same also apply to guys, but mostly ladies, mst of em end up losin thr bf to their to frnd wen they don't knw to zip. Thr mouth

Ohhhh I can testify to that. I kno Three cases where a gf lost her bf to her friend! And it had a lot to do with what she said.

Nneka123:
No op! you're not asking for much. i personally think it's wrong talking about relationship with friends, i mean a little brag could do, but the juicy details, i keep that to myself

Then I am afraid to say! IF you are telling the truth then you must be the last of your kind.

Linqsz:
They like comparing who has the best bf in their cliq...

Lol! To see who has the most problems.

I know women gossip alot! I know women can get chatty with their girlfriends and sometimes get carried away and talk about some personal details about thier life. I also understand that girls need to confide in their girlfriends sometimes to empower each and so. What I can't understand is why do most women find it so hard to keep some personal details about their relationship private? I believe there are somethings that should stay private between couples and not between gf and gf, gf and family, gf and coworker and more.

I have broken up with someone because of this before and she begged and begged. I warned her about this several times. NL Am I crazy to expect some parts of my life to remain sacred with my gf or wife? Is this asking for too much?

I have done it before with ma ex...not spouse!

2undexy:
nice 1, buh 4 u to b rest assured m nt d guy, can u just gimme ur gf's num for proper convincing?

Lmaoo...okay! Sure thing...her number is 1-800-GET-YA - OWN.

The best gift a girl can get is A plane ticket to anywhere outside nigeria to avoid the violence. Now that's love!

I will say this. Most women will never admit it but deep Inside a high percentage of women do compare their relationships with their friends and it's not just a NIGERIAN THING. This happened everywhere.

let me tell a story

Jane has five very close friends and all of them get married within the span of two years. Do you think she won't want her relationship to graduate towards marriage very soon to catch up?

I think it is very bad and people lose REAL LOVE because of that and then look back and maybe regret it

Good stuff! ButI really wanna know! Do people really read post this long?? Like how bored do I have to be to read all this??

OP are u sure you are not this guy? Not every girl is the same except hoes! With that being said, The way you approach ngozi may not work with chisom! So start of with being yourself and the rest will fall into place and become history.

I have said this before! If your love is truly blind and unconditional then you will know you have no control over who you fall in love with.

Inyeresting stuff...i think It's basic animal. It's possible tho. I rather get my own woman tho.

ceeSleek:
hahaha *1* i wasn't looking bad ... 2* as a mata of fact, i wore a perf. Dat evening b4 going out. 3* breath, how does it correlate with hug?! 4* yeaa ... 5* numba 1's answer ... Bro, i hope i have answered yo q's. Does this now justify d ''no hugging fact''

Some more question for you!
1. Was it Gucci perfume or hausa perfume?
2. Did you really ask that? Don't underestimate the power of bad breathe. Some girls can decide to shake you instead if she could SEE the bad breath! Nobody wants to be close to that!!
3.do you kno there is a difference between LOOKING GOOD and GOOD LOOKING?

Now I have more questions but u have to successfully anwser this first!

Lmao! ! The next question is what did u look like? What did you smell like? What was ya breath like? Have u change since she last saw yah?? And more importantly WHAT DO YOU LOOKING LIKE?

He probably care but he can't stand you right now. I wonder what you did?

rubey:
Dating her for 3years, you are not ready
Had sex with her, you are not ready
Poured the sperm in her, you are not ready...

Mr, when are you going to be ready for anything in your life!!

Lmaooo....mr never ready. will u be ready when they lord shall come?

laroux:
@justmag you're a bastard for that comment you just made.

sooo unnecessary

AijaiI:
pls wen ar u goin 2 get tired of dis ur "anti-nigerian girls" posts. haba! u've found ur latino gf, yeaaaaa we've heard u so shut up already.

Lmaooo! This is funny

Ohhhhhh no Op! You just put yourself out there for the firing squad.

So you want younger men chasing you instead? Moral of the story! Right?

Lmaooo! I love the creator of nairaland. They keep me entertained.

Got my jersey on...check!
liquor on deck....check!
haters in their coffin....check!

Let the whooping begin.

zaragal:
I never said I would condone a lie, I said it's best I don't knw, man it hurt!, it's not the ring itself, it's the significant

In the spirit of girls wanting an honest man....I am sure you wanna hear the truth always even if it hurts. Of course it's the significance!! It would make sense to pawn it and buy another one. I would never give a girl a ring like that. There may be history there that could bring flashbacks.

Tashaamania:
I dont agree with No 5, shy guys aint good listeners, they are just boring which makes them not know what to say, hence making them good listeners..

I disagree to some degree! Shy guys tend to be intimidated by the opposite sex especially the ones they are highly attracted to. So they say less and listen more. Once they get comfortable with you. You won't be bored. You will be entertained and they may some unbelievable things to make you happy. This is textbook!!

Seems like the more you get interested the mort you seem like a stalker! At least in her eye.

ronald4lif:
Breaking of peoples heart is now something to gloat about, really? The world has finally gone mad!

mad?? Yesterday we were mad but today we behave like cavemen.

EroticAngelina:
i wont! thats disrespectful to me. bt how would i knw?

I am sure you won't if it is some top notch carat diamond ring.