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So I have this condition where I meet a girl I like and then i start talking to them then when I find out they like me WAY more than I do or can handle I back out. Is that a bad thing??

Mrfils:
Yeah really! If at all, he should start from the bottom

Lol! True

More like questions you shouldn't ask!

Some sad men still love girls like that!

Oh hell nah!! You will burn in hell real quick for that ishh! You better let the lord guide you to a real woman. All these girls walking around and you wanna date family.

Frankenstein:
Even some low class girls will come here to brag about how they get dozens of messages every second.
Girls ignore most messages just to earn bragging rights. To be rated high and too difficult by the guys.

When you view their conversations, you'll see old messages and invites they purposely keep on hold and 99% are from guys, hardly girls.

Now, are they 'so busy' only when guys try to chat them up?

Lmaooo....and it's the low class girls that piss me off the most when they do this. Lol

kingphilip:
bro share urs abeg

Sorry! Slept off! Part two is worse! I was at the supermarket and this girl walks up to me while I was buying something and gave her opinion on what I was about to buy and thats how we started talking and we exchange numbers. She didn't look too bad. I give her 7.5/10. We talked for about a week or so and we agreed to hang out! We went to the movies, then dinner and everything went smoothly! She was involved in every conversation and she definately enjoyed my company. She invites me over to the crib and I thought I had this one in the bag. So we are in there chilling. We start drinking a bit and i realise she was a bit of a pot head. That didn't bother me until she decided it would be more fun to invite some of her friends so I could "meet them"! That's what she said. Next thing 3 niggas walk in and then some other girl! Then everything because awkward! Everyone started getting touchy with each other like they was some history or so! They were all drunk and high off weed. I could not drink because I took some medication earlier! After a while, I notice this girl kiss this dude right there in front of me And I was like WTF! ! And I just waited a bit longer and I just left and claimed something came up just to avoid awkwardness. She calls me up two days later to ask why she never heard from me after and she stylishly tried to explain what happened that night without showing that she owned me any explanation. The crazy part is she acted like she was mad at me for not calling or messaging her to make sure she was okay because she was drinking and smoking up! Again! I Gave her my piece of mind and started ignoring her calls. I read all d messages see sent but I never replied back. I could tell she felt sorry for it and she seemed like she liked me because she felt we connected during the dinner and movie! Please tell me! Who created these hoes? I refuse to believe God did!.....why do I feel like I just told my life story

FLAWLES:
.YES boss

Lol! That's right!

Frankenstein:
Wrong!
There was a particular girl I met online ( BBM ) and she always took like forever to reply. After I met her in person a few times and we chatted a bit, the situation changed. She's now the one to initiate the conversations online.


How do you explain that?

That's just an exception!

sosalekins:
lucky you didn't fall prey..

Yup! thank God for that.

This man has these girls thinking! The poster is very right. It's important to learn to move on and believe you can find better and laugh about the past.

Lmaoo! In my case it's because they reminiscing on that 9 inch. Lol! I joke! I joke!!. Seriously! I think it's basically because they miss what they once had when it was good!

kingphilip:
bro share urs abeg

LOL!! Ya'll just love to be entertained! Okay. Well there was this girl I met at some church program or so. We talked for a while on the phone and everything seemed good. So we agreed to meet somewhere for a date fornthe first time. This girl was foooineee!! (Beautiful!) So I was excited about this one. So we agreed to meet at some famous pizza place. I am waiting for this girl for two hours and she is nowhere! After the first hour, she calls to apologise for her lateness and gives me stories and she asked that I order a pizza and she will be there shortly! An hour pass after ordering this pizza and she is still nowhere to be found. I got frustrated and decided to leave. When I was about getting into my car. I spot her in my rear view mirror but I decided to leave anyways. Later that day and the next few days she kept calling and messaging me but I decided to ignore her for a while then I finally picked up the phone then she tells me she got locked out of her apartment and her phone died so she couldn't reach me. I gave her a piece of my mind and that's how that ended. The interesting part is that I talked to my boi a week or so after about this girl and he tells me he beeped that girl that day. He could remeber because it was a holiday or so. Clearly! The girl was lying. See! Girls can be mean. Part two coming soon...coming soon!

Whizzdom:
Hmmm ... Define Main Chick and Side Chick


You sud be flogged 4 posting such

I kno the meaning! But there are some misconceptions. Some girls think when their man says she is the "main chick!" Then they think they are the only one.

Ladies and gentlemen! Boys and girls!! If a man calls his girl or wife his MAIN CHICK shouldn't that mean he has a side piece or chick or biscuits around somewhere? I say this because I just witness a friend call his wife his main chick with a straight face and this girl didn't get the picture! Correct me if I am wrong!

Tonylyte:
No ''una no just sabi better tin'' it is romantic my dear, they are even hard to find....i get attracted to them when ever i see them around.

Lmaoo! Nahh!! There's nothing like a clean shaved skin. Get with the program!..I like my woman with the silky smooth coco butter kissed skin. It's heaven for me. Ohh! These hairy girls are everywhere. That's where ya wrong!

Don't believe everything you hear! Bullshit always has a unique smell!

Tonylyte:
I dont know what u guys are talking about, as for me i love hairy girls, minus the ones on the chin. Hairy girls turns me on.

really?? Damn! Different strokes for different folks I guess.

Today! I just saw a woman with sideburns! I swear I thought she was shaping it up too like a man would. Phuck is going on?

voodoo85:
I saw today black woman with hairy armpits and legs in gym today. Its like- r u for real? Takes few seconds to shave or u think that nobody can see!?

Thank you! That's all I am saying. It takes a few sec to shave.. i am tired of seeing all these wannabe gorrillas walking around

voodoo85:
I saw today black woman with hairy armpits and legs in gym today. Its like- r u for real? Takes few seconds to shave or u think that nobody can see!?

Thank you! That's all I am saying. It takes a few sec to shave.. tired of seeing.all these wanna be gorrillas walking around

larweezycheezy:
My gel dat can't du witawt me nao avoids my Kals, wen I waz opportune to meet ha, she said she was going tru alot. Tinz like ha admission, her mum always seizin ha phone, and restrict ha from going awt, etc. Buh wen I try ha number, it's mostly on kal waiting.. she said I get ha pissed off nowadays.. dat I complain abt aw she nao gives. Attention to guyz.after all dis I ask ha if she Wana breakup, she replied in a text dat she is sorry and stil Wana b in d relattionshp, Buh she keep on getting worse. Oon a daily basis. Pls I need ur candid advice.. shud I ignore ha? Stop. Kalin? Cos she eeven feel very happy nao if I can du dat..

The English in this post tho and it's sad that I understood everything! Anyways! U need to know uncertain girls can be dangerous when they are not too clear about their intentions. So do what your heart tells u right now about her. Finito! !

FLAWLES:
see eehnnn,that tin na disease,hav noticed it(evn me,am fond of doing it,ad d worst part s dat i cant find any reason WHY

Not good! U need to handle that. You may push the right dude away. So going forward start replying all your messages as soon as u see them.

kirikiristars:
Sorry!! I'm out of your thread.

sounds like I hit a nerve....oops!

ChurchillStorm:
She sees replying late as classy...there by feeding her fragile low-to-the-dust ego... Not that it really does anything for her sha in the long run

Exactly! ! So ignorant

kirikiristars:
We know the people we offer best of service.

am starting to wonder what this girl over here does for a living!

goofyone:
Bro, that was one apology too much. I do accept I could be wrong sha.

Okay! Glad u accept that.

ChurchillStorm:
Its low self-esteem and nothing else

Low self esteem? How though?

goofyone:
Trust me, you shouldn't care about that. There are a thousand and one posts on NL that have been addressed before.
Actually, you just came across to me as someone who apologizes too much for things you probably shouldn't. This is okay; it shows a great sense of politeness and courtesy. But when you extend this to girls, especially while chatting with them on the phone, they really could take you for granted. And when I mean girls, I mean mostly the ones who are over-the-top unreasonable. Unfortunately, they are mostly Nigerians.

Lmaoo! And u made that conclusion from one apology? That's funny. I get what you mean but I am not sucker about mine. I definately don't apologize unnecessarily because I kno some nigerian girls get that twisted alot.

kirikiristars:
Another customers will come, just dust and display your goods wella.

Lol! !! May I never be one of your customer in the future, Amen!

goofyone:
Why are you apologizing? You have no reason to.

Well! I don't know if this topic has been addressed before. Some people are sensitive about repeating post!

donroxy:
Most girls suffering inferiohe different between a babygirl and a lady aint age but matity complex do ignore and all these pre-mature wannabesbigirls dem .... They can do any stupidiest thing to feel important ......

Na who come get time for yanyapu ....... The different between a babygirl and a lady aint age but maturity

True! I tell u. They truly do some ish! I like that line tho..."The different between a babygirl and a lady aint age but maturity"...that's right! I have seen some ignorant 40 year olds