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yeah , talk about speaking the mans "language"!money does talk. |
you no serious, so na uncle sege you dey yab ba |
some people are just wasting their talents! |
oh, i see, the introduction is cool,its just that i had something else in mind and i felt you were just beating about the bush, but now i get you ![]() |
seun, what are you not saying?? |
ehn... even if she shy it shasn't show ![]() |
bad belle manager ![]() |
don't mind all of them.simple and corrected english they cannot spoke.oh girl, its a good things you teach for free, cos all of them eat their school fees if not why can't they spoke corrective english, i will be your assited grammatical teachers |
blackcole, amebo , wetin you wan hear ![]() |
men the woman harsh o |
very wrong, please the corrected answer, is i thinking you were thoughting, sorry a mistake, its i thoughting you were thinking , haba, i thought it is a think oabeg, someone else pls |
yeah very funny, esp the washinton part, guess the guy didn't want his head on the floor ![]() |
oh blimey!!!! what a family |
i pray this never happens to me. if i find myself in a situation like that, so long as i love him, i'll stay, not just because of the kid, but for him.... there's are ways of deriving sexual pleasure besides using a dick, i'll take that option(e no go easy o), cos it could have been me, shit happens! ![]() |
all expenses paid for in full ![]() |
submit my paycheck?? excuse me! Right now am dating and my man doesn't know how much i earn(i don't know how much he earns either, i've never asked though) but if he asks, i'll tell him but submit as in give it to him, no way! i'll make sure i contribute to the family's well-being, when ever i can, but i can't give him my paycheck to determine how w'll spend it,if he gives me money for the running of the home i'll collect and add mine if it's not enough,but other than that...count me out. |
i won't stay in a loveless marriage for the sake of my children, cos those kids will grow up tomorrow and make a life for themselves and by then i might have grown old, too old to start again, therefore if love goes sour, i'll fast and pray for GOD's guidance, also i'll try my best to put it back on track(cos it might well be my fault) but if all avenues are exhausted and nothing happens, abeg i dey waka o, better single and happy than married and unhappy , i had an aunt who died in a loveless marriage, now the husband has re-married |
yemstrad:yes you're right, but what you should understand is that religion is a very strong thing, your friend can be of a different faith and your relationship would grow, but where marriage is concerned, theirs a big stop sign, its either one party gives in to the other or they go their seperate ways, there's just no way it will work, its even easier for a pagan and christian/muslim to co-habit than muslim/christian as husband and wife. sorry it will never work try it and see! |
first of all GOD FORBID! my best friend? no way |
this's a tough one , i think the woman if she loves her husband(and he's repentant) she should go back, cos another man might do same, except if she's ready to stay on married..... maybe she can divorce him, but the best solution is to fast and pray about it, God knows best |
Let me share a story with you people, (real life, happend a few years ago in Abuja) A man who thought that, the only way to discipline his children was to beat them up at the slightest provocation, most times in public! learnt his lesson the hard way. He had a teenage daughter, then 18 or there about,and she always got the worst of his terrible side or so she thought. one day she got pregnant, and guess who she pointed at, her FATHER! Family members called a meeting, but she insisted it was her father,she accused him of rape. You can't imagine what the man went through,he kept saying he was innocent, but no one listened(in a case like this you're guilty until proven innocent). he was relived of his job, family members ostracized him, in fact he wished for death. some people said, no wonder he beats the day light out of his daughter each time a man so much as asks her for address to a place. In all this the man cldn't bring himself to look at his daughter talk less of beating her. To cut a long story short, she eventually gave birth and confessed at the hospital that her father was innocent, she only wanted to punish him for all he did to her. you'd say what a way to punish someone |
if am dating a guy and find out or even get the slightest idea that he has a violent streak, i'll leave him(its' happened before) cos i don't want myself or children to die an untimely death because of a violent father. but come to think of it, i think most men who are voilent in the home are cowards, and the only way to feel superior is by taking out their strenght on close family members, in this case wife and children. Another thing, kids who were exposed to violence usually end up being violent, another thing i think causes this is poverty, yes! some men become violent due to frustration, no job, no money, so they feel, or think lifes hard,and those close to them which in most case is the wife and children get to feel the brunt of this, violence i mean. |
humans can be very funny. this question should have being a vis versa one, cos it could also be the female here. Anyway if i love him, i'll probably stay,only if its a sperm thing. i have no qualms with adoption, but i do with sex . am a very emotional person, and can't see my self holding him all the time without sex(hell no!!!!). if its an erection problem which am sure cannot be cos any man that stays close to me without having a hard-on is probably sick so i'll know before hand, and won't even let it get to that stage before quiting. ![]() |
a man or woman should never cheat on each other, even if they're yet to get married. the problem with niger is that a lot of people get together for the wrong reasons, and when they realise what they've gotten into, they start searching for a way out, also most nigerian men will continue to cheat on their wives because they learnt same from thier parents. so parents should bring up thier children in the right way, maybe this will help avert this sort of behaviour among our people. |
me i'd want my man to be there! i once stayed with an aunt of mine (on request fom her) cos her husband was away, and its her first child, so she was aprehensive, and didn't want to be left alone with total strangers,.... but she's a strong woman, and didn't cry one bit except ask if there was any pain killers she could use, men! i was proud of her, so much courage, but she still missed her husband and refused to leave the hospital till he came which was 5 days after. thinking back now i think he was absent on purpose(with a lousy excuse of a biz trip ![]() |
so, are you saying women are the opposite of what they were mearnt to be? ![]() |
now am really shocked scary, besides how did you manage this? |
Farriel:hi zee(z4m4eva) i agree with farriel, i think you should read the book first, you know as they say different strokes for different folks, as for me i read anything in print and draw my own conclusions, or what do you think? ![]() |
given the chance, i'd like to act with Liz B,olu J, joke S,RMD,patience Oz(1st among equals, i must say)Hilda D,omotola,stella D. for me these are the best |
hot-angel:hot-angel, you're something else, i've been laughing since i read your post , my dear nigerian movies and their names its just something that needs divine intervention! ![]() |
hey guys,sorry am a bit late on this topic,but don't leave me out, am also a fan of JHC, and mark girland is the bomb! |
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, talk about speaking the mans "language"!money does talk.
some people are just wasting their talents!

, haba, i thought it is a think o
what a family


scary, besides how did you manage this?